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									1st Time Meeting After Chatting Online


Technology has always been there to make lives of people easier. In fact, thanks to technology the world of
emotions has also been conquered. Don’t try to think dirty here folks. What I’m talking about is the love
connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as ICQ, MSN or
MIRC.


Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner. This
is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be. All different cultures and
walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard. In short a person has got a better chance to
meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters. It is also easier to meet people online thanks
to online date sites and chat rooms.


After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet. It would be a pretty
shallow relationship if both of you are happy to be forever just chatting. Both persons may just be really
looking for someone to talk to.


Finding love through the internet offers the two sides to get intimate right away. This is because it is easier
to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you won’t see the
other person thinking that it’s corny. Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL
(laugh out loud).


Because of the perception that you have built about yourself and the other person, meeting them becomes
very hard. This is because of the perception you have given to him or her during chatting could not be really
you. Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is.


Another problem that online chatting could present is the confidence of a person. Since it is easier to talk
online, a person who is very shy or timid may have a hard time keeping up with who he or she really is. The
person instead is like living both worlds.


When also meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the
morning, is being able to adjust. Both of you would have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real
life because of certain other factors involved. You are now both able to see the person’s mannerisms. This
will be the toughest part that you would have to overcome. Once you have gone past this, the rest will be
easier.


It is suggestible though to meet sooner rather than later. When meeting earlier at the chatting stages, this
prevents both person having higher expectations. This also helps both parties to decide right away whether
they are just better of friends or continue to develop the relationship. This helps both parties prevent
disappointment and heartaches.
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