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					                                                                           Since 1925, Family & Children’s Services has worked
                                                                           to ensure that children, families and individuals
                                                                           across the lifespan experiencing emotional,
                                                                           behavioral and family problems have a place to turn
                                                                           for professional help, regardless of income. Today,
                                                                           our life-changing services impact one in six Tulsans.
                                                                                                                                                        Helping Children
                                                                           Our highly qualified staff hold specialized degrees
                                                                           and are trained in best-practice methods and
                                                                                                                                                        Cope with Divorce
                                                                           treatments. We are the place to turn for help.

n What Else Do I Need to Know?                                             •   Child Abuse & Trauma Treatment
     •	 Do not bring children to the program.                              •   Children’s Mental Health
                                                                           •   Counseling & Family Therapy
     •	 Plan to attend the seminar you have                                •   Family Life Education & Parenting
        scheduled.                                                         •   Marriage Enrichment
     •	 If you fail to attend, a $20 rescheduling                          •   Divorce Adjustment Services
        fee will be charged.                                               •   Mental Health Treatment for Adults
     •	 Credit is not given to late arrivals.                              •   Substance Abuse & Addiction Treatment
        You will be asked to reschedule. No                                •   Psychiatry & Pharmacy
        exceptions.
     •	 Interpreter services for hearing-impaired
        are available by prior arrangement.
     •	 Lingual interpreters are provided by the
        participant. Interpreter must be an adult.
     •	 Participants receive a Certificate of
        Completion at the end of the seminar.
     •	 The court is notified of your attendance
        only if you have provided your court
        case number and the name of the county                             Family & Children’s Services
        in which your motion was filed.                                    650 S. Peoria Ave.
     •	 You may request that another person not                            Tulsa, OK 74120
        attend the same seminar as you.                                    918.587.9471
     •	 Parties with protective orders may not                             www.fcsok.org
        attend together.
                                                                               F&CS professional services are strictly confidential and are offered
This seminar is required for parties involved in any lawsuit involving         unconditionally, regardless of race, religion, gender or income.
custody, paternity, visitation or support of a minor child in these nine
counties: Tulsa, Rogers, Wagoner, Mayes, Pawnee, Washington, Osage,            Family & Children’s Services is a member agency of the Tulsa
Craig and Nowata.                                                              Area United Way and Rogers County United Way and also a
                                                                               member of the following national organizations: The Alliance for
                                                                               Children and Families, Mental Health Corporations of America and
                                                                               the National Council for Community Behavioral Healthcare. F&CS
For more information about current seminar                                     is certified as a community mental health center by the Oklahoma
                                                                               Department of Mental Health and Substance Abuse Services
dates, times and locations, call
918.560.0444
                                                                               and is accredited by the Council on Accreditation of Services for
                                                                               Children and Families.                                                 July - December 2010 Schedule
or register online at
www.fcsok.org.                                                                                           Rogers County
                                                          n fee Schedule
When Parents                                              On-site Registration: $55 per person

Live Apart                                                Pre-registration: $45 per person
                                                          Replacement Certificate: $10




                                                                                                                                                                Please type or print your name as it appears on your court documents.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         To pre-register, return the registration form with registration fee ($45) per person to: Family & Children’s Services • 650 S. Peoria Ave. • Tulsa, OK 74120
                                                          Refund Processing Fee: $5
n We Can Help Make Change Easier                          Rescheduling Fee: $20




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Date Attending
You play a critical role in how your child adjusts to     Refund requests must be made in writing and received prior to
changes in family structure. We’ll help you learn to:     the scheduled seminar date.
  •	 Facilitate visitation.
  •	 Manage conflict.                                     n Registration Locations
  •	 Use effective parenting skills.                         •	 Family & Children’s Services Central Office:




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Work
  •	 Avoid pitfalls and problems.                               650 S. Peoria Ave.
  •	 Assess if your child is having trouble.                 •	 Tulsa County Courthouse: Room 357
  •	 Cope with financial obligations.
  •	 Make changes in family structure easier for                  July - December 2010 Schedule
     your child.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Money Order Amount Enclosed $
                                                                                                                            PRE-REgISTRATIoN foRM
                                                          Location         Day           Date          Time
  •	 Understand typical reactions to divorce and




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Expiration Date
     change by developmental age.                         Tulsa            Saturday      July 10       9 a.m. - 1 p.m.

  •	 Talk to your child about divorce and                 Tulsa            Saturday      July 17       9 a.m. - 1 p.m.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Method of Payment
     relationships ending.                                Broken Arrow     Thursday      July 29       4:30 - 8:30 p.m.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Credit Card Number
                                                          Tulsa            Saturday      Aug. 7        9 a.m. - 1 p.m.

n Registration Information                                Bartlesville     Saturday      Aug. 14       9 a.m. - 1 p.m.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         City/State/Zip
  •	 Arrive 30 minutes early to check in and receive      Broken Arrow     Thursday      Aug. 26       4:30 - 8:30 p.m.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Credit Card


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Signature
     credit for attendance. Persons arriving after        Tulsa            Saturday      Sept. 11      9 a.m. - 1 p.m.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Address




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    E-mail
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Phone
     9 a.m. are not admitted and must reschedule.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Name
                                                          Tulsa            Saturday      Sept. 18      9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
  •	 Seats for pre-registered participants will be held   Claremore        Saturday      Sept. 25      9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
     until 8:45 a.m. and then will become available
                                                          Tulsa            Saturday      Oct. 9        9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
     to walk-ins.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Please let us know if your request involves a protective order.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  I do not want to attend the same seminar
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Payment must accompany registration. Payment may be
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    made by money order, cashier’s check or credit card. Do
                                                          Broken Arrow     Thursday      Oct. 21       4:30 - 8:30 p.m.




                                                                                                                           Helping Children Cope with Divorce
  •	 Payment must accompany pre-registration




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    same seminar. The first person to pre-register and pay


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    registered for, this request cannot be honored without
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    You may request that another person not attend the


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    to reschedule. If you do not attend the seminar you
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    will secure the date. You will be notified if you need
     in the form of a money order, cashier’s check        Tulsa            Saturday      Nov. 6        9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
     or debit/credit card. Do not mail cash. No           Tulsa            Saturday      Nov. 13       9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
     personal checks.                                     Tulsa            Saturday      Nov. 20       9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
  •	 Pre-registration is recommended. Classes fill up     Tulsa            Saturday      Dec. 4        9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
     quickly.
                                                          Tulsa            Saturday      Dec. 18       9 a.m. - 1 p.m.
  •	 Pre-registration is accepted until three business




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  as the person listed:
     days before a seminar. Registration may close        Tulsa                           Broken Arrow
     earlier if a seminar is full.                        Family & Children’s Services    Tulsa Technology Center
                                                          650 S. Peoria Ave.              4600 S. Olive




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        County Filed In
  •	 Pre-register online, by mail or in person at         (use west entrance)             (129th E. Ave. & 111th St. S.)




                                                                                                                                                                Court Case #



                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       Respondent
     the F&CS Central Office or the Tulsa County




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    not mail cash.




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    rescheduling.
                                                          Bartlesville                    Claremore




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Petitioner
     Courthouse.
                                                          Tri County Technology Center    North Park Trinity Baptist




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Name
  •	 Parties who wish to attend a seminar after the       6101 Nowata Road                Church
     registration deadline may register at the door,      (Hwy 60)                        2999 N. Sioux
     space permitting.                                                                    (off Hwy 66, east on Stuart
                                                                                          Roosa Blvd., north on Sioux)