TEENS _ GRIEF by yaofenji


									                                    TEENS & GRIEF

The following is intended to help identify and support teens who may be coping with the
death of a loved one. Please remember that grief is a very individual process and will vary
with the individual and the circumstances surrounding the loss.
       Teens may demonstrate intense sadness or anger that seems “out of the blue” but is, in
       fact, related to the death.
       In an effort to seem “normal”, teens may suppress feelings or feel “numb” or
       Self-blame and guilt are particularly common responses in teens.
       Fear can be a common grief response, particularly in the case of a peer’s death when
       teens are often faced with their own mortality for the first time.

Behavioural responses may include the following:
      Withdrawal from peers, family, extra-curricular activities
      School grades and participation in school activities may decline
      Physical symptoms such as headaches, stomach aches, insomnia, loss of appetite,
      Increase risk-taking behaviour such as skipping school, use of alcohol and drugs
      Anger and increased aggression

From experience grieving teens give this advice:
      Don’t get upset if I don’t want to talk
      Trust that I know what I need
      Don’t push me
      Talk about it with me. Help me remember the good times
      Give me space
      Be patient, don’t worry too much
      Just listen, you don’t have to give advice

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