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For the first time in its history, this American classic has been completely rewritten. Peggy Post gives us etiquette for today's times. Read by millions since the first edition was published in 1922, Emily Post -- the most trusted name in etiquette -- has always been there to help people navigate every conceivable social situation. The tradition continues with this 100 percent revised and updated edition, which covers the formal, the traditional, the contemporary, and the casual.Based on thousands of reader questions, surveys conducted on the Emily Post Institute and Good Housekeeping Web sites, and Peggy's travels across the country, the book shows how to handle the new, difficult, unusual, and everyday situations we all encounter. The definition of etiquette -- a code of behavior based on thoughtfulness -- has not changed since Emily's day. The etiquette guidelines we use to smooth the way change all the time.This new edition resolves hundreds of our key etiquette concerns: dealing with rudeness, netiquette, noxious neighbors, road rage, family harmony, on-line dating, cell phone courtesy, raising respectful children and teens, and travel etiquette in the post-9/11 world...to name just a few.Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition also remains the definitive source for timeless advice on entertaining, social protocol, table manners, guidelines for religious ceremonies, expressing condolences, introductions, how to be a good houseguest and host, invitations, correspondence, planning a wedding, giving a toast, and sportsmanship.Peggy Post's advice gives us the confidence of knowing we're doing the right thing so we can relax and enjoy the moment and move more easily through our world. Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition will be the resource of choice for years to come.

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									Emily Post's Etiquette
Author: Peggy Post



Edition: 17
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For the first time in its history, this American classic has been completely rewritten. Peggy Post gives us
etiquette for today's times. Read by millions since the first edition was published in 1922, Emily Post --
the most trusted name in etiquette -- has always been there to help people navigate every conceivable
social situation. The tradition continues with this 100 percent revised and updated edition, which covers
the formal, the traditional, the contemporary, and the casual.Based on thousands of reader questions,
surveys conducted on the Emily Post Institute and Good Housekeeping Web sites, and Peggy's travels
across the country, the book shows how to handle the new, difficult, unusual, and everyday situations we
all encounter. The definition of etiquette -- a code of behavior based on thoughtfulness -- has not changed
since Emily's day. The etiquette guidelines we use to smooth the way change all the time.This new
edition resolves hundreds of our key etiquette concerns: dealing with rudeness, netiquette, noxious
neighbors, road rage, family harmony, on-line dating, cell phone courtesy, raising respectful children and
teens, and travel etiquette in the post-9/11 world...to name just a few.Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition
also remains the definitive source for timeless advice on entertaining, social protocol, table manners,
guidelines for religious ceremonies, expressing condolences, introductions, how to be a good houseguest
and host, invitations, correspondence, planning a wedding, giving a toast, and sportsmanship.Peggy
Post's advice gives us the confidence of knowing we're doing the right thing so we can relax and enjoy the
moment and move more easily through our world. Emily Post's Etiquette, 17th Edition will be the
resource of choice for years to come.
Excerpt

"The world is too much with us," Wordsworth wrote in 1807, and his phrase has taken on a whole new
meaning in the twenty-first century. In fact, the old boy would probably be running for cover if a time
machine whisked him to streets full of people rushing about as though there were no tomorrow -- many of
them yelling into small metal objects held to their ears.It would be easy for us to sympathize with him.
While scientific and medical advancements have made life easier over the years, the stresses and strains
that have come with population density, technological advancements, all-pervasive news and
entertainment media, and a redefinition of the family have resulted in a whole new set of challenges.
People behave no worse than they used to (rudeness and other social offenses are nothing new), but the
pressures of modern life make it all the more difficult to stay civil.What's needed for this day and age?
New guidelines for courteous behavior, especially in a time when it often seems that "anything goes." It's
true that a more casual approach to dressing, communicating, and entertaining has taken hold, but that's
hardly something to be concerned about. The history of human interaction is one of change, and manners
by their very nature adapt to the times. Today's guidelines help steer our behavior as we move through our
daily routines -- no matter what difficulties we face, how informal the occasion or event, or which surprises
are sprung. In fact, it can be said that we need manners more than ever to smooth the way.Although
today's manners are more situational, tailored to particular circumstances and the expectations of those
around us, they remain a combination of common sense, generosity of spirit, and a few specific "rules"
that help us interact thoughtfully. And as fluid as manners are (and always have been), they rest on the
same bedrock principles: respect, consideration, and honesty.Respect. Respecting other people means
recognizing their value as human beings, regardless of their background, race, or creed. A respectful
person would also never treat a salesperson, a waiter, or an office assistant as somehow inferior.
Respect is demonstrated in all your day-to-day relations -- refraining from demeaning others for their
ideas and opinions, refusing to laugh at racist or sexist jokes, putting prejudices aside, and staying open-
minded.Self-respect is just as important as respect for others. A self-confident person isn't boastful or
pushy but is secure with herself in a way that inspires confidence in others. She values herself regardless
of her physical attributes or individual talents, understanding that honor and character are what really
matter.Consideration. Thoughtfulness and kindness are folded into consideration for other people.
Consideration also encapsulates the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
Being thoughtful means thinking about what you can do to put people at ease, while kindness is more
about acts. Taken together, these qualities lead us to help a friend or stranger in need, to bestow a token
of appreciation, to offer praise.Honesty. Honesty has more to do with ethics than etiquette, but the two
are intertwined. What could be more unmannerly than being deceptive? Honesty ensures that we act
sincerely and is also the basis of tact: speaking and acting in ways that won't cause unnecessary
offense.A tactful person can say something honest about another person without causing great
embarrassment or pain.
Author Bio
Peggy Post
Peggy Post, Emily Post’s great-granddaughter-in-law, is today’s recognized leading authority on etiquette
and the author of eleven books. Millions seek her advice through her monthly columns in Good
Housekeeping and Parents magazines and in her articles in InStyle Weddings and on
WeddingChannel.com. She conducts hundreds of speeches and media interviews annually, and her
television appearances include Dr. Phil, Good Morning America, Live with Regis & Kelly, Oprah, and the
Today show.Don't miss the next book by your favorite author. Sign up for AuthorTracker by visiting
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