ANN LANDERS A Woman's Work Should Always Be Done at Home

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					                                                                                                                                                                                          SUNDAY, AMtll 14, IMS                 •KESS-HIRALD         A-5

 ANN                                                                                                                                                     A Woman's Work Should
 LANDERS                                                                                                                                                 Always Be Done at Home
                                                                                                                                                                 I'm sure by now that you, my                  friend, or over to the friend's
                                                                                                                                                               faithful readers, know how I feel               house for dinner. By the time
                                                                                                                                                               about working wives, and how                    "father gets home," it may be
   Don't Hire Her Again                                                                                                                                        sorry I am that so many of you
                                                                                                                                                               choose to work outside the home.
                                                                                                                                                                                                               too late for either.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Perhaps she asked to do
      Dear Ann Lenders: I have been told I am                                                                                                                    The rise in Juvenile delin-                       something she should not be
critical, hard-headed, unsympathetic and a perfeo-                                                                                                             quency is always the fault of a                     permitted to do, anyway.
tionist, If you agree I will apologize in the front                                                                                                            mother, if she works, and I fore-                   But you can bet that when
window of Macy-s department store next Saturday                                                                                                                see a bad future for so many of                     "father gets home" he will
at Ugh noon.                                                                                                                                                   you mothers.                                        probably let daughter dear
      I saw fit to criticize the sitter because she'd:                                                                                                           As a sad example, there was                       do it anyway because ifs
      (1) Dug huge chunks out of a ham which I                                                                                                                 the hostess at a restaurant in                      easier than the usual argu-
           had planned to serve to my bridge club.                                                                                                                                                                 ment daughter will put up.
      (2) Ate nearly one-third of a coconut custard                                                                                                                                                                Too many American mothers
          pie which had not been cut into.                                                                                                                         COUNT MARCO                                  think that once the baby gets out
      (3) Left a permanent ring on top of the TV                                                                                                                which I dined last week. I over-                of the bib and toilet training
          when the aet down a wet glues.                                                                                                                        heard her talking to her daugh-                 stage your Job is over. Don't you
     (4) Burned a small hole in aa upholstered                                                                                                                  ter on the phone. She was sharp,                believe it. A. youngster starting
         chair. (Cigaret, of course.)                     A BBIGHTEB CASTER ... Preynrug to play Castor Bunny for the children con-
                                                          fined at Little Cemnany of Mary Hospital aro (from left) Kmy Dodacek, Dolores                         unfeeling and selfish. Her end of               into the teens needs mother's
     (5) Talked on the phone for one hour and 20          Pretoriai, and Lrarle Hnfhef. The girls and other members of the West High                            the conversation went like this:                guidance, advice and help even
         minutes and made it impossible for me to         Girb Athletic Association decorated and1 delivered, the eggs ito the youngsters III                        .<f!Well, I'm tired too. I'm               more. These are their confused
         reach the house.                                 conjunction with their community service project.____         *.-_________, ''.''<_                       tdta.busy to talk to you now.               years.
     Comment, please. SCARSDALE                                                                                                                                     AJ& your father whenever                        During these years you partic-
      Dear Scars: If yen ht>« this girl to sit
  /or you again you have holes in your head,
                                                         Master Teachers Guide                                                                                      he gets home. You know
                                                                                                                                                                    you're not supposed to
                                                                                                                                                                    bother m* here at work,*
                                                                                                                                                                                                                 ularly belong with your children
                                                                                                                                                                                                                and should be home when they
                                                                                                                                                                                                                return from school With no dis-
  Woman.                                                                                                                                                            she snapped viciously and                    tracting outside job, you have
                    *      •      o
     Dear Ann Lenders: Zelda and I have been             Pilot Training Program                                                                                     slammed the phone in an-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                 more time and patience to ob-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                 serve them, to study their moods
married for three yean. She is a lively girl and                                                                                                                    I casually glanced at my watch.              and head off any problems be»
always had a lot more energy than I have.                         By DOUG HUFF           junct faculty member of Cal-, ow to teach effectively but
                                                               Praaa-Haraid oun wntar     jtate and participates in the bey also have an opportunity             It was a bit past 6 in the evening.             fere they occur.
     About six months ago my brother Dick started            With a pilot group of six program helping to evaluate for a retrospective study of                  Naturally you would like to know                     I always say, "Every juve-
to take Zelda to the movies, bowling and a few           students, CalStato, Dotnin- the graduate student.                master teachers," Dr. Martin           my reaction. She's a sorry excuse                  nile delinquent has a de»
other places because I was too tired, Last week           ruex Hills has launched what They also take part in the son said,                                      for a mother, that's what she is.                  Unquent mother," And when
Dick, who is a salesman, asked Zelda if she wanted       may become one of the most student seminars as "re- "A master teacher is cruet                             There is her poor daughter at                   1 say it, of course-it has to
to go on the road with him for a few days. She           ontstanding one year gradu- sources." The seminar meets ly important and probably                       home. At her age, her problems,                    be so.
asked me if it was OJC. and I said yes, so she went.     ate teacher training programs once a week during the se- le most Important single in-
                                                         in the state college system, mester on Monday at noon, dividual in the preparation of                   no matter how small or unim-                        Now, all you mothers, partic-
They got back yesterday and Zelda said she had a             Under the guidance of Dr. Dr. Martinson also takes part teachers," she commented.                   portant they may appear to a                      ularly you mothers with teen-
groovy time. She wants to go again soon,                 Roth Martinson, professor of in the student evaluation While the Cal-State pro-                         parent, are big ones to her. I                    agers, give two weeks notice im-
     A guy it work told me I must be crazy to            education and psychology, through visitation to the class- gram started out small this                  really don't know what question                   mediately and go home where
allow this. I think he has a dirty mind. I talked it     the six students have been room.                                  'ear, it is planned to enlarge        she asked. Perhaps she wanted                     you belong and are wanted and
over with my mother and she said it was perfectly        placed hi area elementary                                         t next fall and the Cal-State         to go to a movie with a girl
                                                         and secondary schools with THE STUDENTS in the teacher education program                                                                                  needed. NOW!
all right because Dick is a blood relative. Do you       carefully selected "master program are carefully screen- wUl have three full time
agree? QUESTIONS RAISED                                  teachers" to serve as active ed by a Cal State faculty ^m- members,
                                                         participants in a classroom, mittee which sets policy. On Presently some of the                   Salesmen to Receive Ford Awards
       Dear QJt.: Sure. Dick it a blood rtlatfoe.            Dr. Martinson selected the the committee an Dr. Solo- wunes in the program are Seventeen Ford dealership celve awards at the annual thur Marcotte, Alfonso Rasv
   But AC'S YOUR blood reiatfcf, not Zelda's,            master teachers, whom she mon Marmor, assistant profes-t«««ht by general faculty salesmen from the Harbor Ford banquet                                                 con, John Blaynew, Paul
   dummy. Put an end to 'this chumntness or you          defines as teachers who have sor of chemistry; Dr. Stephen members who are specialists area wffl be honored for out- L. S. Grey, Los Angeles dis- Brown, Eugene Gimenex,
                                                         demonstrated outstand-Brown, assistant professor of n their academic field and                                                    trict sales manager, said the Harry Reams, George SheB,
   might wind up being your own brother-m-Iaw.           ing competence and reliabB-psychology, David Hudson, co- h»ve knowledge in public                                                                wffl receive Top Phillip Calboun, Ray Terry
   If Dick tuonts a ftmalt companion on his trips         Ity in their classroom and con- ordinator of audio visual serv- school education,                                                                    Sales Awards, and Donald Feller, all of Kbtt
   suggest that he find a nice single girt and           duct meaningful activities to ices and lecturer in geology                                         tanquet Tuesday at the Cen- and 300-500 Club membership and Smolar Ltd., WUmingtoa;
                                                                                          and education; Mrs. Frances INSTEAD of setting up a              tury Plata Hotel.               awards.                              and Manget Griffith, Charles!
   marry h«r.                                            help their students leara.
                     *            o                                                       Stelner, assistant professor o: separate department of educa- They are among more than Receiving 300-500 Club mem- Kelly, Sam Vaccard, Calvin
                                                             nii«*»i vine «.«t « *» hJnmi*c; Dr- Qninton Mm,v»i                                            500 Southern California Ford bership awards are Joseph Clark, and Clifford Layman,
     Dear Aim Lenders: What would you do if yon                                                       _£.«» », Stodola, to involve the entire \*£Zi
                                                             DUUNG THE past year shel assistant profeaMr of paychol tion, the college «.« sought retail salesmen who will re- Mukahy, Jack Teaford, Ar-sfl of Vet's Ford Sales Co.
                                                                                 '«i.H«d .                                »« h.«vi»~ **.*. has school
were 18 years old and your mother kept harping                                                  «* diractor <* ~ui» avoid making it competi
on bow important H is to be a good girt and cfaooee                                          *?****«** •*'• "1 tive for fonda with other divl
your friends carefully and have high standards and
make the boys respect you and then you find out
                                                          tap Beach, and
                                                          Union High School                    Martinson.                 slons.
                                                             As a participant hi the col the ^ft^ .tudtota take wffl be involved in the pro-;
                                                                                                                                                            Press-Herald Sunday Crossword
that SHE wasn't such a good girl when she was 18.         lege program, each of the academic courses, half of gram. Th« districts presently1                                                   (Answer on Page B-3)
     Her standards couldn't have been very high           master teachers serves as ad- them in general subjects. Due- involved were selected partly ACROSS
and she wasn't very careful about her choice of                                            Ing the spring quarter more for convenience of the stu-                                              illty          DOWN
friends because she had a baby out of wedlock.                                                                                                                                                                   1—Cxnauct
                                                                                          time is devoted to classroom dents involved                                              S7—Paront                     a—FTlntar'* maatura    S7—Bpal
     Would you obey her or would you laugh at                                              situations with the master Students participating in                                                                  S—Agalnat              •1—Malayan
                                                                                          teacher and leas time to the pilot program are Pam                                      W1—Hickory nut                 4-C«nfaaa              M—PooSSva
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                                                                                           course work.                    Striplen, one of the first four                       106 «aouo«
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                                                                                              However, If Dr. Martinson graduates of CSCDH; Barbara                               1»—enzymo
      . Deer Buffalo Teen: Tne choice is yours,                                            and the master teacher as- Wood and Virginia Finnagen, I                               111—Indudlno avaryttilng
                                                                                                                                                                                                                 0 Noted
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   but you know what sometime* happens to
   people who laugh when there is nothing funny.         Schedule                          signed to the student feel the both of whom previously at-l
                                                                                           student is progressing wen tended CSCDH but received! ^JSjapS
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   Someone usually drops a butterfly net over                 Membere of the forenrics enough, the amount of ttme their degrees elsewhere; Lu-l ^J5U?SJ,                          180—cannit
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        Did it occur to you that your mother loees        travel to Bakenafleld Thurs- be increased "We don't have Russell Sage College in New i Paroalv                          MO—aharp                      IS—Nulllftod           116—FlauMar
   you enough so that she doesn't want you to go           day to compete with Junior a fixed time for this," she York; Faye Hollins, a Pepper- —imarjactlan                      1M Practical
                                                                                                                                                                                  111—•Ilkworm                  21—Lump
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        117 Amarad
                                                          colleges throughout Califor- noted,                               dine College grad; and Gayle —pawn: prof.
                                                                                                                                                                MunclMd           1M—Paur oontly                S3— Landi              181 CompMi point
   through the hell she experienced when she               nia. The annual Junior ooOege                                    Uyeno, a Long Beach State —information                1ST—«lly
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   was your age? It may well be that HER mother            state diamptonjtupa wffl be "NOT ONLY do they learn grad.                                                              130—Lawar
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   didn't tell her anything and she had to pay an          hosted this year by Bakers-                                                                                             MS Taatn           dn*                              187— hMlptant
   enormous price for her ignorance. If you d*s-
   regard your mother's advice on the grownde
                                                              Competing last week in the
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   that she is a poor example you are making a                                                                                                                t! •*• -             1ftt—Franeh aumnwr
   big mistake. She may be the BEST example
   a/ter all.
                                                           ment at UCLA, Barbara Mat
                                                           son received the second place
                                                           trophy IB women's persuasive
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                                                                                              Veterans who plan to ffle hi person at any assessor's                                                             50— Meaala law
                                                           apeaktaf.                                                                                                                                            51—Ca»r
                                                              Tim Pte reoBhvd an excel for their property tax exemp- ffice, bringing with him a                                    UV-Facility                  SS—gorn ^^
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                                                           lent certificate In both ex tion must do so by tomorrow, copy of his honorable dis-                                           Fartlval
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                                                                     aeous and impromptu Assessor Philip E. Wataon charge and, if he owns real                                     isa—nird                     (7—Wtmtarw
                                                                       and John Reynolds »atd today.                          roperty, his deed or other                           16 Salary                          ivar tola
                                                                                                                                                                                   ITS—OWItkratlen                    lahnott
                                                           waa awarded an excellent cer- Claims may be filed in per- roof of ownership.                                            8EBS*.                                               144—*Unl nama
                                                           tificate la the expository son at any of the assessor's To be eligible for the ex                                       174—thflpw*
             «0) tttt. Frtdabare-HaB SyMtoata              epaaUaf category                 regional offices or in Boom emptton             which allows a                         17V-aUM council
                                                                                            225 of the Hall of Administra- 1,000 reduction in asses
                                                                                            tkm up to 5 p.m. tomorrow ralue              the veteran must
                                                                                            If veterans mail their re- either have been a resident
                                                                                            turns, they must bear an          f California ss of Nov. 3,
                                                                                            April 15 postmark or the 964, or have entered the
                                                                                            claim cannot he accepted.        ervice from California. His
                                                                                               A veteran who is filing roperty ownership is llmiteC
                                                                                            for the first time must appear   o less than $5.000 if single
                                                                                                                              r 110,000 if married. All
                                                                                                                              laims must be signed.
                                                                                                                            Shrine dub
                                                                                           Will Hear                        Will Meet
                                                                                           Assessor                         In Torrance
                                                                                              PhUp I. Watson. Los An Peace Officers Shrine Club
                                                                                           gelee County aasiesor, will be will hold its annual Fellow
                                                                                           the featured speaker at Moo- ihip Night tomorrow at the
                                                                                           day's meeting of the Young Fump'n Jack Restaurant, 290
                                                                                           Home Builders Council at the Pacific Coast Hwy.
                                                                                           dodger Young Auditorium in President Robert O, Young,
                                                                                           Los Angelas,                    chief complaint deputy of th
                                                                                              The Young Home Builders Los Angeles city attorney'
                                                                                           Council is the educational office, said that a social hour
                                                                                           arm of the Building Industry at 6:30 p.m. will precede the
                                                                                           Association.                    dinner and show.
                                                                                              Watson's speech, entitled Co-chairmen for the eve-
 THANKS . . . Assemblyman L. E. (Lurry) Towns*** (center) take, time *«t                   "To Assess or Not to Assess ning are Wayne King and
 frean ta» Lawndab feuth Parade to says thank* to Fred Schalts (right), district           That b the Question," wil Roy Tracey.
 raawvtoet far MeOeauiU's, fat the firm's fswd nabbf efferts e* behalf el the              deal with the growing com Peace Officers Shrine Cm
 Torranca Area Y**ta Bands, Inc. McD«aala"i will daaate all ptvflti from the                ptexitles his office is facing is one of 66 similar dubs af
 tnre* Torrance location* aext Trwtiay to ta* Yonth Band » h«l» finance the                 io the property taxation fle* fUIated with Los Angeles
 band's tri» to Cal «§ t*. At left la Max Pridmero, pra^da-t ef ta» lent*                     Tomorrow evening's meet Malaikah Temple of th
 Band beard.                                                                                ing will begin at 7 p.m.,       Shrine.


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