Kissing Tips
It can set the sexiest moods… or it can end up disastrous. What makes you an unforgettable kisser? Kissing can be a wonderful prelude to more intimate pleasures, or a joy unto itself… if you know the right techniques. Kissing is a great thing; it may leave you both feeling loved, wanted, desired and connected. Nothing breaks silence like a kiss, and kisses are the best ways to express what sometimes, can't be said. Let the person know with a kiss how you feel about them with a combination of movements, the locations and the rhythm of your kisses. In moving towards a goal, we forget that the stops along the way frequently hold the most allure. Has kissing become something you and your partner do to “get there?” Or is your kissing limited to a “Hi, honey” peck on the cheek? Let’s use this Saturday night to practice the delicious art of kissing. Is there a perfect kiss? Certainly, but it’s different for every couple, a personal thing between you and your partner. Although there are good kissers and poor kissers, the best kiss is one that’s been practice between lovers, lingered over, and savored. The Question is: What makes a perfect kiss? Let's first address the things that can make a kiss go poorly. With an overwhelming consensus, the biggest turn off to a kiss is bad breath. It's hard enough carrying a conversation let alone playing tonsil hockey with a foul-smelling mouth. Keep your mouth delightfully clean by brushing regularly after meals. Using a strong mouthwash may temporarily mask the problem, but it's no substitute for good hygiene.
"To keep my mouth fresh and clean, I'll chew gum or suck on a breath mint before moving in for kiss. It also gives us something to play with between our mouths." - Caroline, 29 "I always have a pack of Certs breath mints and a condom in my back pocket. You never know when you're gonna get lucky!" - Jude, 23
The next big complaint is dry lips. Nothing is worst and more painful than kissing chapped lips. When you moving in to kiss, make sure to lick your own lips from time to time to ensure their softness. It's not very pleasant to kiss someone whose lips have the texture of sandpaper. Also, you may want to invest in a good lip balm. It'll keep your lips super silky. Don't worry men, it won't look like you're wearing lipstick. The last complaint is bad technique. The best way to fix bad techniques is to show you some great ones. To please your partner with the perfect kiss, feel them out. Is your partner in the mood for a slow, quiet night or ready for a wild ride? Though part of a great kiss is the anticipation of what might follow, appreciate it. In some cases, kissing becomes just a start, a routine if you will, which adds pressure, kills the mood and loses all effect. Be spontaneous and enjoy it while it lasts. 15 Great Kissing Tips and Techniques 1. Picture it. William Cane, Kissing Expert and Author of The Art of Kissing suggest,
"We should dream about the perfect kiss before it happens. It will help tremendously if you visualize how you'll approach it." 2. Give the look. Before the kiss, brush the hair out of your partner's face and look deep into their eyes. This will create the anticipation that something memorable will happen. 3. Kiss your partner's closed eyelids. Add extra spice by kissing around his/her hairline, eyebrows and tip of the nose. This is best performed during affectionate moments. 4. Try teasing kiss tactics. When moving in for a kiss, have your lips barely touch before slowly move back. See how far your partner will follow you. 5. The 'Chin-hold' is great move that is used time and time again in movies. This is where you use your index finger to lift or tilt your partner's chin, as you move in for a kiss. A classic move for the romantics out there. 6. Stealing kisses in almost-public places can be delightful. A quick peck at a stoplight on the way to a party can give an evening an erotic start. A sudden lick on the back of the neck while your partner’s getting something out of the refrigerator or washing the dishes is quite a change of pace. Don’t miss out on an opportunity for a brief smack or a long, erotic kiss. It's wonderful whether it’s followed up by lovemaking or not. 7. Try tickling the underside of their tongue. There is a little piece of flesh that connects the tongue and the bottom of the mouth that can be sexually awakened with light tongue rubbing. 8. When your partner's tongue in your mouth, gently hold it there by sucking on it. It's sometimes referred to as the vacuum kiss, because you draw air out of his mouth while sucking their tongue. The suction should send tingles through their body. 9. Try using the tip of your tongue to tickle the roof of your lover's mouth. The area behind the two front teeth (incisors) is particularly sensitive. 10. Stroke the nape of your partner's neck with fingers. There are tiny fine hairs on the back of the neck that are known erogenous zones. 11. Use different flavored lip balm or lipstick to add zest to the kiss. One staff member admits to using a hint of 'Baby Anbesol' to leave his girlfriend's lips slightly tingly after their kisses. 12. Don’t forget to use the warmth of you breath to arouse. The old “Blow in the ear and …” may be a cliché, but there’s a reason for it. Whisper 'sweet everythings' into his/her ear. Tell your partner how sexy they look with a groan, moan, purr and/or growl. 13. Don't let your hands remain idle; instead bring the kiss to new levels by effectively using them. While kissing, run your fingers through your partner's hair. Or better yet, have your hands behind him/her and brush them up and down their back and shoulders. 14. The 'Tonguing of the Ear' a sexy advanced move. According to sex expert Lou Paget, "Most men absolutely love getting a tongue kiss in the ear, but most women abhor this." The technique I found to be most effective is to first nibble on your partner's
ear with gentle kisses. Lick the bottom of the ear and work you way up. Next, engulf the entire ear with your mouth and use a flat tongue to lick the ridges of their inner ear. If your partner finds it too ticklish, stimulate a different area, possibly the backside of the ear. 15. For her. Move so your breasts brush against his chest, through his clothing. Tips your pelvis so your pubic mound presses against his erection. Let him know that you know he’s excited and that the fact pleases you. If you’ve got nails, use them. Softly scratch the back of his neck. Be a bit aggressive if you like. Let him know you want him. 15. For him. Hold her gently while allowing her to feel the hardness of your arousal. Use a hand on the small of her back to press against your groin lightly against hers. Don’t grind. The area over the pubic bone can be quite sensitive, and if you’re too aggressive, it will hurt. But it’s a great thrill for a woman to know that she’s excited her lover. Don’t hesitate to let her know you want her and want to go further. But again, don’t rush or insist. Remember that the key words for tonight are savor and linger. A Kiss for all Reasons…What a Kiss can Say. 'I respect you' Give a gentle kiss on the hand. 'Just because' Give a soft kiss on their temple and then a sweet peck on the cheek. 'I'll never let anyone hurt you' Give a gentle kiss on the forehead, eyes and end of with a sweet peck on the lips. 'You mean so much to me' Look sincerely into your partner's eyes, gently holding their face. Barely touch their lips with your fingertips and give them directly on the lips taking a deep breath through your nose smelling them. 'I'm sorry' Give your partner a peck on the top of their head. This is usually done while you're being ignored and their back is turned towards you. (Please note: This kiss is usually followed with an actual spoken I'm sorry.) 'I want to tease you' Lean close to them, your lips close but not touching and pull back. Stare at their mouth for a few seconds and lick your lips. Lean in again, barely touch their lips with yours and pull back. Lean in again, do not kiss them but brush their lips with yours, every time they move in for a kiss, pull back slightly to leaving them yearning for it. 'I want to make sweet love' Look deep into your partner's eyes with your hands on their waist pulling them close to you. Close your eyes and start of with a gentle kiss. Pull back, open your eyes and look into theirs again. Now, kiss them long and passionately, opening your mouth giving lea way for light tonguing. 'Come on baby, light my fire' Stare your partner straight in the eyes, lick their lips with your tongue and then gently bite the lower lip following through with some deep tonguing. 'I'm horny' Instant deep tonguing action.
'Goodbye forever' Start with a hug and then, kiss them softly then with light pressure directly on the lips. Then end with another hug. Did You Know?
The world record for the most people kissing at the same time is over 1600. The average person will spend about two weeks of their life kissing. Hershey's Kisses are named because the machine that makes them looks like it is kissing the conveyor belt. You burn 25 calories in a one-minute kiss. 40 calories, if it's a one-minute French kiss. Eskimos, Polynesians and Malaysians rub noses instead of kissing. The scientific name for kissing is philematology. A standard greeting in many European countries is a kiss on both cheeks - could be two. . . could be four.
You now have all the techniques to make a perfect kiss. Now get out there and make us proud.