Examination of Conscience for Junior High

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					              A Guide to the Sacrament of Reconciliation

During Confession
                                                                                                                    Examination of Conscience
After examining your conscience and telling do of your sorrow, go into the                  confes-
sional. You may kneel at the screen or sit to talk face-to-face with the priest.

Begin your confession with the sign of the cross, “In the name of the Father, and of the Son,
and of the Holy Spirit. My last confession was ______ weeks (months, years) ago.”

The priest may read a passage from holy Scripture, or invite you to begin confessing your

Say the sins that you remember. Start with the one(s) that is most difficult to say. (In order                Holy Spirit, please help me to remember my sins.
to make a good confession, the faithful must confess all mortal sins, according to kind and
number.) After confessing all the sins you remember since your last good confession, you                        Please give me the honesty I need to reflect
may conclude by saying, “I am sorry for these and all the sins of my past life.”                                on my thoughts, my words and my actions,
Listen to the words of the priest. He will assign you some penance. Doing the penance will                     and to confess them and trust in Your mercy.
diminish the temporal punishment due to sins already forgiven. When invited, express                                                Amen
some prayer of sorrow or Act of Contrition, such as:

An Act of Contrition
My God, I am sorry for my sins with all my heart. In choosing to do wrong and failing to do good,
I have sinned against you whom I should love above all things. I firmly intend, with your help, to
do penance, to sin no more, and to avoid whatever leads me to sin. Our Savior Jesus Christ suf-
fered and died for us. In his name, my God, have mercy                                                I. I am the Lord Your GOD. You shall not have strange gods before me.
                                                                                                      This commandment forbids us to worship anyone or anything besides the One, True God—the
At the end of Confession
                                                                                                      Father, Son and Holy Spirit. We worship Him by acts of faith, hope and love; by prayer and
Listen to the words of absolution, the sacramental forgiveness of the Church through the              making sacrifices.
ordained priest. As you listen to the words of forgiveness, you may make the sign of the                     •   Have I truly loved God above all else, or have I sometimes given
cross with the priest.                                                                                           greater importance to things of the world: money, looks, clothes,
                                                                                                                 athletics, popularity or desires?
After Confession
                                                                                                             •   Do I remember to pray often, or do I pray mostly when I want
Do your assigned penance.                                                                                        something?
                                                                                                             •   Do I make an effort to know, love and serve God?
Resolve to return to the Sacrament of Reconciliation often. We Catholics are fortunate to
have the Sacrament of Reconciliation. It is the ordinary way for us to have our sins for-
given. This sacrament is a powerful help to get rid of our weaknesses, grow in holiness,
and lead a balanced and virtuous life.
II. You shall not take the name of the Lord God in vain.                                         VI. You shall not commit adultery.
This commandment forbids us to misuse God’s name (God, Jesus, Christ, Lord) in cursing or        This commandment deals with misusing the gift of human sexuality.
swearing. We must respect this Holy Name at all times and the names of His holy ones too. It             •       Have I willfully engaged in any kind of sexual activity?
reminds us that we must be pure in our words.                                                            •       Do I respect my body by dressing modestly, and do I respect the
       •   Have I shown disrespect for God’s name by misusing it out of frustra-                                 bodies of others by avoiding tempting or lustful thoughts?
           tion or anger? Have I used curse words?                                                       •       Do I profane the gift of sex by using crude language and jokes?
       •   Do I continue to learn about god by paying attention in Church,
                                                                                                 VII. You shall not steal.
           Religion Class, Youth Ministry, and paying attention to my Catholic
                                                                                                 This commandment forbids taking what does not belong to us; avoid even the desire to take
           beliefs?                                                                              things.
       •   Have I watched TV shows or movies, or listened to music that                                  •   Have I stolen at school? For example, by copying, sharing answers,
           disrespects God and what is holy?                                                                 or stealing grades by cheating?
III. Remember to keep holy the Lord’s Day?                                                               •   Do I respect the property of others? Have I stolen, damaged or van-
This commandment asks us to attend Holy Mass on Sundays and Holy Days of Obligation. It                      dalized the property of others? Do I respect the things I have been
reminds us that any unnecessary work should be avoided on these days. It reminds us too that                 given?
we should give our bodies the rest they need and to spend quality time with family.                      •   Do I seek to share what I have with the poor?
       •   Do I complain about going to Mass or try to avoid it?
       •   Do I dedicate myself to prayer prior to Mass? Do I participate in the                 VIII. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
                                                                                                 This commandment tells us always to be honest and truthful; it forbids us to say anything that
           Eucharist by praying and singing?
                                                                                                 damages the good reputation of others.
       •   Have I tried to observe Sundays as family time and a day of rest?                            • Have I lied?
IV. Honor your Father and Mother                                                                        • Have I gossiped?
This commandment asks us to respect and show loving obedience to our parents and also to                • Do I talk about others behind their back?
honor others in authority over us.                                                                      • Am I sincere with others?
       •   Am I loving, respectful, and obedient to my parents? Do I help bring                         • Am I critical, negative or uncharitable in my thoughts of others?
           peace and happiness to my family, or am I disrespectful of others and                        • Do I keep secrets that should be kept confidential?
           a source of hurt?                                                                     IX. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife (or husband).
       •   Do I appreciate the many sacrifices my parents make for me? Do I                      X. You shall not covet your neighbor’s goods.
           say THANK YOU and I LOVE YOU often enough?                                            These commandment teaches us to respect the commitment of others, to respect the rights and
       •   Do I complain or speak badly about my parents with my friends?                        property of others. They forbid us to take what does not belong to us and avoid even the desire
                                                                                                 to take things.
V. You shall not kill.
                                                                                                         •   Do I respect the commitments of others and help them to remain
This commandment forbids not just actual murder (homicide, suicide, euthanasia, abortion), but
even those actions that are dangerous to the life of the body and the life of the soul.                      faithful to their promises?
       •   Have I hated anyone?                                                                          •   Am I jealous of what other people have?
       •   Do I strive to forgive those who hurt me, or do I hold on to resent-                          •   Do I envy the families or possessions of others?
           ment and desire for revenge?                                                                  •   Am I greedy or selfish?
       •   Do I care about justice and the lives of others?                                              •   Do I treat or judge others based on their material possessions, talents
                                                                                                             and gifts, or even physical appearance?

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