Enjoying Sex Post Menopause - How to Make it Work Again

							Ever been privy to middle aged women's whispers corner? You know what to
expect. The talks of 'my husband can't just get me hot anymore', 'maybe
you should get a younger man' 'eat more cabbages'. Well, you may find one
thing that may work, but you will surely find is that you are not alone!


  Encouraging, is it? But also depressing to know that after all, most of
the fancy women you see wallowing in wealth and seemingly happy are after
all not happy!       Let's first of all understand what every woman should
expect at some stage in life, and men at a later stage. What is in this
post menopause period?       Menopause is the period during which most
women stop experiencing the monthly period. It simply indicates that the
period of sexual activity is diminishing. The body is no longer able to
make babies, which to Mother Nature that is the main purpose of sex. The
body therefore cuts off most of the resources associated with sex. This
includes the hormones such as estrogen and the energies that go along
with the event. This simply turns off the mind from menopause sex.
Now that we know what menopause is, let's explore the things that make
menopause sex boring or steals off the fire.       Previous
disappointments: this is mainly related to previous disappointments in
sexual intercourse. Failure to experience orgasm in previous encounters
can leave a bad taste and take away expectation. Similarly, painful
experiences that are often caused by wounds or illness that affect the
sexual organs such as STIs can also diminish desire for sex.       Guilt:
this may be as a result of rape, of abortion or any other event in which
one feels that they could have done something to avoid the result.
Poor communication with sex partner: you may be complaining about lack of
satisfaction to yourself. Yet your sex partner holds the key to changing
that. Many women get to their menopause with spouses who are not aware of
their failures to making the woman happy.       Lax muscles: this is part
of the natural process of aging, the vaginal wall loses its ability to
have tensile effect.       Diminishing estrogen levels: this too is a
natural process that comes with age. It leads to thinning of vaginal wall
and diminishing vaginal fluids.       So how can you get back the fire?
Communicate: tell your spouse what really makes you tic. Speak to a sex
therapists and physician; it may be a medical condition.       Eat well:
no better solution. Even in the case surgery or exercises, you need to
eat well.      Exercise: this works by increasing the energy levels and
making the body responsive to sex.       Related Articles      Top Libido
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