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Getting separated or a divorced seems to be a very simple process, but it
leaves a high impact on personal and family life of a person. The person
undergoing this process may face lot of pain and stress and lose the
personal as well as social stability.

It is extremely stressful experience especi ...

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Getting separated or a divorced seems to be a very simple process, but it
leaves a high impact on personal and family life of a person. The person
undergoing this process may face lot of pain and stress and lose the
personal as well as social stability.

It is extremely stressful experience especially for the children of
divorcing parents, irrespective of sex and age. They may get mentally
disturbed and their future may get spoiled. Hence, it is often advised to
save the marriage for the children.

Usually, the world of children is limited to their parents and they are
totally dependant on their parents for all their needs. What they require
in their growing age is affection and protection from their parents. When
their parents take the decision of separation, they emotionally may
collapse and become restless.

When the problem of child custody arise in the court, it may become very
difficult for the child to choose one of the parents with whom he/she is
supposed to live with in future because the child loves both the parents
equally. In case of underage child, the court takes the decision about
the custody of child which may be forceful for the child. Hence, to
protect the right of a child to have both the parents, you need to save
the marriage for the children.

As the divorce affects the economical status of an individual, it might
become difficult for a single parent to take proper care of a child.
Since, divorce or marriage separation is not socially accepted in some
countries, the child may feel embarrassing in the society. There may be
some problems in emotional bonding of children and parents. A child of
divorced parents might experience a feeling of intense anger, insecurity
and loneliness.

The consequences of divorce affect almost every aspect of the children's
lives such as emotions and behavior coping skills, psychological
development and the parent-child relationship. The children may feel
helpless and lonely due to frustration which may lead to some health
problems such as sleep difficulties.

There may be some destructive changes in children's behavior such as
alcohol abuse, drug addiction, violence or the attempts to suicide. Other
behavioral problems include nervous habits, school problems or regressive
behaviors like bedwetting or use of the comfort items including blanket
or stuffed toys. Hence, before taking any harsh decision, find out some
solutions to save the marriage for the children.

Once you decide that you should save the marriage for the children, you
should start working on it. You can first find out the problems in your
married life and ways to resolve them. When you come to about the
problems, both of you should equally take efforts to solve them and save
the marriage.

You need good communication to express your feelings and to listen to and
understand your partner. You may take the help of your family or friends
and get an advice from them. If this is not sufficient, you can go for
marriage counseling which may help you to understand your problems and
differences and suggest some solutions.

				
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