How we feel are the most important factor in determining our happiness. Our self-image determines how much we really love the world and how we live in it, but also determines how much we achieve in life. This is a project that is exactly how it intended to conduct the election to be our partner, we are friends and avoid. Many of us live, without knowing in a picture of our experiences, successes and failures, thoughts that have taken upon ourselves and how others react to us created. The other negative images can be deeply embedded in, for example, a person can be a disaster in a particular task, if you succeed in this task will say at once, it was an accident, or if they do not say: "I'm desperate to show. " Some people see a good self-esteem, as the equivalent of selfish, they are in fact completely the opposite, do people with healthy self-esteem comfortable things that add quality and beauty of life. It also means that you do not feel the need to justify another, for example, why we stay up late, or why you bought this dress, or just relax and be pampered time to time. Our behavior and our subconscious programming subconscious mind are interwoven with our self-understanding, how we feel. When we feel bad for ourselves, we tend to blame ourselves, sometimes in the form of junk-food binges, accidents, disease, excess alcohol or drugs, overeating at meals, and if we go on and on. Evidence that even people who have car accidents are often a poor sense of self is at the time of the accident and in part an unconscious punishment. It is imperative that we had everything we can to think positive thoughts, if possible to do. Some people are sabotaging their own happiness, when they say that they deserve, or if the opportunity arises is to find one reason or conscious or unconscious reasons why they can not afford. Try your own image a boost: Surround yourself with good people Learn to accept and receive praise You are constantly in my head images of your ideal life Congratulations also speak of themselves Let people know how you expect to be treated And finally and most importantly, to treat your body good to be thin, flexible and strong, and given the opportunity, this fundamental question of self-esteem address.