How to Have an Easy Breakup
Breaking up is hard to do...but if you follow these steps it can be easier and no one has
to walk away broken
Things you'll need:
To prevent a painful break up, one must stay on good terms with their
partner throughout the relationship....meaning continued honesty, no
cheating, and no explosive secrets.
Set up the relationship so that it has a strong foundation called friendship.
Friends turn out to be the best partners because if you start as friends its
easier to end as such...even if you dont stay in touch much. You love your
friends right? So even if they hurt you, you know their character so its hard
to stay mad at them (in some cases ;~)
In order to attain step two you must take time to get to know person.
establish a solid friendship before moving on to talking or dating. During the
establishment of a friendship the cards must be exposed so one can know
how to proceed with the relationship. don't want to dive into anything with
absolutely no clue as to how it will turn out. for example, if you get to know
the person and upfront you can see a break up would drive one of you
crazy...then you know its best not to go there.
In an unmutual break up it's important for the breaker to help the breakee
with closer so that the breakee doesn't flip out and you end up with bad
blood between the two. If you want a pleasant break up do what you
reasonably can to help that person move on. Key word is reasonable.
Sometimes folk just won't get the closer they seek because what they want
is you and they can't have you. Don't lie and say it's not you its me...be
honest so there will be no questions in the other persons mind as to why
you broke up. the breakee can just move on and improve in areas as