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					Welcome to
   MEN‟S
FRATERNITY!
Start the third part of our Journey
• How we became what we became
• Definition of manhood
• Process that manhood into the life before us
  –   Our wives
  –   Our sons
  –   Our daughters
  –   A man and his life journey
          If you do it right
Marriage can be the
 closest thing to
 Heaven on earth, if
 you do it wrong ….
                  That talk…
• How many of you can remember having “that
  talk” with your father or perhaps your mother?
  – Did they tell you anything you did not know?
The problem is „that talk‟ is only
        about Biology
• What we got:
  – Birds, Bees and Biology
• What we needed:
  – How Women and Men are different
  – How to understand a Woman
  – How to speak Woman
           A KEY VERSE …

 You husbands likewise, live with your wives in
an understanding way, as with a weaker vessel,
since she is a woman; and grant her honor as a
   fellow-heir of the grace of life, so that your
          prayers may not be hindered.
                   1 Peter 3:7
                                       GOD



                                 Man         Woman
        A KEY VERSE …

A. “… in an understanding way” =
   Insight & Skill
Learning to speak the right
        language

     •   Words of Affirmation
     •   Quality Time
     •   Receiving Gifts
     •   Acts of Service
     •   Physical Touch
        A KEY VERSE …

A. “… in an understanding way” =
   Insight & Skill
B. “… and grant her honor” =
   Appreciation & Value
         A KEY VERSE …

A. “… in an understanding way” =
   Insight & Skill
B. “… and grant her honor” =
   Appreciation & Value
C. “… fellow heir in life” =
   Equality & Worth
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE
 GOD                 GOD


HUSBAND    HUSBAND    =      WIFE

 WIFE
                    GOD

          HUSBAND          WIFE
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

A. The Top-Down Traditional Marriage

      And He said to them, “The kings of
 the Gentiles lord it over them; and those who
              have authority over
        them are called „Benefactors.‟
             But not so with you...”
                 Luke 22:25-26
    TOP-DOWN TRADITIONAL

             GOD

            HUSBAND
1952-1966
             WIFE
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

A. The Top-Down Traditional Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: King
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

A. The Top-Down Traditional Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: King
    • Leadership Style: Lord
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

A. The Top-Down Traditional Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: King
    • Leadership Style: Lord
    • Goal in Mind: Personal Benefits
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

A. The Top-Down Traditional Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: King
    • Leadership Style: Lord
    • Goal in Mind: Personal Benefits
    • Effects on Marriage: Usually a
      winner and a loser
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

B. The 50-50 Identical Marriage

        There is neither Jew nor Greek,
  there is neither slave nor free man, there is
            neither male nor female;
      for you are all one in Christ Jesus.
                 Galatians 3:28
  50-50 IDENTICAL

          GOD

HUSBAND    =    WIFE
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

B. The 50-50 Identical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Partner
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

B. The 50-50 Identical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Partner
    • Leadership Style: Leaderless
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

B. The 50-50 Identical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Partner
    • Leadership Style: Leaderless
    • Goal in Mind: Equality
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

B. The 50-50 Identical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Partner
    • Leadership Style: Leaderless
    • Goal in Mind: Equality
    • Effects on Marriage: Difficult
      balance and hard falls
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

C. The Side-by-Side Biblical Marriage
  For the husband is the head of the wife, as
   Christ also is the head of the church, He
     Himself being the Savior of the body.
 Husbands, love your wives just as Christ also
loved the church and gave Himself up for her.
For this cause a man shall leave his father and
mother, and shall cleave to his wife and the two
            shall become one flesh.
             Ephesians 5:23, 25, 31
SIDE-BY-SIDE BIBLICAL

          GOD

HUSBAND         WIFE
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

C. The Side-by-Side Biblical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Head
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

C. The Side-by-Side Biblical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Head
    • Leadership Style: Responsible
      and Sacrificial
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

C. The Side-by-Side Biblical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Head
    • Leadership Style: Responsible
      and Sacrificial
    • Goal in Mind: “Oneness”
   3 MODELS OF MARRIAGE

C. The Side-by-Side Biblical Marriage
   • Husband‟s Position: Head
    • Leadership Style: Responsible
      and Sacrificial
    • Goal in Mind: “Oneness”
    • Effects on Marriage: Health,
      happiness, and harmony
       A CLOSER LOOK …

A. The Bible Speaks to Core Issues
       A CLOSER LOOK …

A. The Bible Speaks to Core Issues
                     “CORE”
         A small but essential ingredient
      of every marriage that must not be
     compromised, neglected, or ignored,
      if a marriage is to succeed overall.
       A CLOSER LOOK …

B. Three Core Issues in Every
   Marriage
       A CLOSER LOOK …

B. Three Core Issues in Every
   Marriage

           1. Core Roles
       A CLOSER LOOK …

B. Three Core Issues in Every
   Marriage

           1. Core Roles
           2. Core Responses
       A CLOSER LOOK …

B. Three Core Issues in Every
   Marriage

           1. Core Roles
           2. Core Responses
           3. Core Concerns
        A CLOSER LOOK …

B. A Brief Look at Core Roles
        A CLOSER LOOK …

B. A Brief Look at Core Roles
     1. The husband as Head
 And He said to them, “The kings of the Gentiles lord it
over them; and those who have authority over them are
 called „Benefactors.‟ But not so with you, but let him
    who is the greatest among you become as the
  youngest, and the leader as the servant. For who is
 greater, the one who reclines at the table, or the one
who serves? Is it not the one who reclines at the table?
     But I am among you as the one who serves.”
                     Luke 22:25-27
        A CLOSER LOOK …

B. A Brief Look at Core Roles
     1. The husband as Head
       Head = Servant-Leader
        A CLOSER LOOK …

B. A Brief Look at Core Roles
     1. The husband as Head
       Head = Servant-Leader
     2. The wife as Helper
       Encourage the young women
   to love their husbands, to love their
children, to be sensible, pure, workers at
 home, kind, being subject to their own
        husbands, that the word of
       God may not be dishonored.
                Titus 2:4-5
        A CLOSER LOOK …

B. A Brief Look at Core Roles
     1. The husband as Head
       Head = Servant-Leader
     2. The wife as Helper
       Helper = Servant-Lover

				
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