Forgiving, Forgetting, and Moving On
Author: Robert E. Hooberman
How do we come to relative peace when we have behaved badly, or how do we come to grips with the
misbehaviors of those around us? Forgiving oneself or others may not always be fitting, and forgetting
may represent more denial than accommodation. Moving beyond conflict to beneficial solutions is often
hard to achieve and sometimes seems beyond hope. In Forgiving, Forgetting, and Moving On, Robert
Hooberman explains to clinicians and those interested in their own internal psychological workings how
and why we become overwhelmed by conflict, and he explores methods to work through these conflicts.
Hooberman believes that conflict can best be understood through a thorough process of psychological
formulation culminating in a picture of the individual'scharacter structure. Understanding character opens
up the patient's internal world, leading toward greater appreciation of the causative factors. Using
numerous case examples, Hooberman explains therapeutic techniques that assist...