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THE PROCESS OF BEING A NEW PARENT. You cannot go into any store to acquire your parenting skills nor can you download parenting skills on the internet. If you want to become the parent that you desired to be, you should investigate further. HERE ARE THE PROCESSES THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW TO BECOME SKILLED IN PARENTING. To find out answers in solving your parenting issues you have to talk to another parent who has actually gone through that same situation as you have beforehand. There are forums that are available online nowadays and some are equipped with online chat options. There is no such thing as impossible in searching for others who are experienced in those kind of problems. There are many websites about parenting that you can find nearly all types of situation possible. Try to look at how they ended their issues and what their solution was and try to see if that may actually work for you as well. PARENTING IS A NEVER-ENDING JOB. Being a parent is nothing but a priceless job. Parenting never stops, whether you realized it or not. For a parent, their children are the ones who bring delightful joy in their lives, and though sometimes it is unavoidable that they too can bring tragic sorrows. As parents, we are not going to just sit back and do nothing about our child misbehavior or about the situation at hand, what kind of lessons are we teaching them if we doing nothing? Children would not survive the newborn baby stage, let along be full grown adults if parents didn't teach their kids properly. Children now, regardless of their age needs help and proper guidance from you their parents. TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCE As young as two years old, a child can start learning to do easy chores. You may still believe that by giving your child things that they want is pleasurable. By allowing your child to experience his/her, life to its fullest on their terms within a safe boundaries level of responsibilities is considered as the greatest gift to give your child. Upon learning to take on responsibility, your child will be self-sufficient. GET MORE COMPLIANCE FROM YOUR CHILD. Basically, a defiant child will readily pull you in a power struggle which will actually wear you down. If your child argues, all you have to do is to repeat that rule over and over, as opposed you starting a debate with your child and as a result of doing this, you will gain more cooperation from your child. To gain cooperation from their child, Always give your child two choices - Being the parent, you are allowed to pick at least two choices that are both acceptable to the both of you when you offer it to your child. COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMS. How hard can being parent can be? In a sense, parenting can be considered as quite easy, however when it comes down to giving advice and helping your children this is where things get difficult. There is no use in going back down your memory lane (your own school days) if you want to try to help your child with their homework, you'll just probably find yourself lost and unable to understand the child's homework, since all of the teaching methods have changed since your were last in school. All of us went through that stage where we all wanted to be just like all the other famous kids. MAKE MEMORIES WITH QUALITY FAMILY TIME. Also, there should be a timeout for issues that have been brought up earlier and the issues should be continued at a later time which is another solution for enjoying stress memories. Remember that by having pleasant dinner talks it is one of the most effective and the simplest way to create family bonds/ties and this will truly make your memories last you for a lifetime. Be sure to maintain a pleasant conversation at dinnertime as well as having inspirational and upbeat conversations too. If dinnertime conversations are not pleasant, your family members will not even remember these times spent together as a family and in turn family dinners this will easily be just an activity that they don't want to participate in. If your family does not want to participate in family dinner due to unpleasant conversation, that is certainly counterproductive of quality family time.
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