Born the Son of Osama bin Laden

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					                                   Chapter 4

                Born the Son of Osama bin Laden
                            omar bIn laden

Since the time I could observe and reason, I have mainly known my father to
retain his composure, no matter what might be happening. That’s because he
believes that everything in this earthly life is in the hands of God. It is diffi-
cult, therefore, for me to imagine that he became so excited when my mother
told him it was time for me to be born that he momentarily misplaced
his keys.
    After a frantic search, I’m told that he settled my mother hastily in the car
before spinning off at a reckless rate. Luckily he had recently purchased a new
car, the latest Mercedes, because on that day he tested all its working parts. I’ve
been told it was golden in color, something so beautiful that I imagine the ve-
hicle as a golden carriage tearing through the wide palm-tree-lined boulevards
of Jeddah.
    A short while after that chaotic journey, I made my appearance, becoming
the fourth child born to my parents. I had three brothers who came before me,
Abdullah, Abdul Rahman, and Sa’ad.
    Mother has often reminded me that I was her most trying pregnancy, caus-
ing her genuine discomfort with my never-ending kicks. She had taken those
months of my intense activity as a warning sign, in the same manner that scien-
tists monitor a restless volcano. Mother knew that her fourth-born was going
to have a forceful personality.
    I was only one of many in a chain of strong personalities in our bin Laden
family. My father, although quiet-natured in many ways, has always been a
man that no other man can control. My paternal grandfather, Mohammed
Awad bin Laden, was also quite famous for his strength of character. After the

premature death of his father, who left behind a grieving widow and four
young children, Grandfather bin Laden sought his fortune without a clue as to
where he would end up. He was the eldest of his siblings.
    Since Yemen offered few possibilities in those days, at eleven years of age my
grandfather bravely turned his back on the only land and the only people he
had ever known, taking his younger brother, Abdullah, with him to join one of
the many camel caravans trekking through the area.
    After traveling through the dusty villages and towns of Yemen, they arrived
at the port of Aden. From there they sailed a short distance across the Gulf of
Aden to Somalia, on the African continent. In Somalia the two bin Laden boys
were employed by a cruel taskmaster, known for his furious outbursts. One day
he became so annoyed at my grandfather that he hit him on the head with a
heavy stick.
    The injury resulted in the loss of sight in one eye. My grandfather and uncle
were forced to return to their village until his recovery. The following year they
set out once again, this time traveling in the opposite direction, north to Saudi
Arabia. I’m sure they were eager to stop at many outposts, but nothing seemed
to have the magic they were seeking. The two boys, young and unlettered, lin-
gered only long enough to earn sufficient money to stave off hunger and to
continue what must have seemed an endless journey. Something about Jeddah,
in Saudi Arabia, appealed to my grandfather, because that walled city on the
Red Sea marked the end of their arduous voyage.
    I once heard that a penniless man can only go up in the world. That was
certainly true for my Grandfather bin Laden, who was poor, yet full of energy
and determination. He felt no shame in tackling any honest labor. Jeddah was
the ideal place for such a character, for the city and the country were at an
economic turning point. In the early 1930s my grandfather’s vigor, strength of
mind, and attention to detail caught the attention of an assistant to King Ab-
dul Aziz, the first king of Saudi Arabia, who had recently won many tribal
wars and formed a new country, the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia.
    King Abdul Aziz was known for his brilliance in getting the best out of
men. He knew that he needed many smart, hardworking men to help modern-
ize the kingdom, for his citizens were in need of hospitals, roads, businesses,
and homes. The king was frustrated because he had many plans, but few com-
petent builders to bring his plans to completion.
    The assistant who had noticed the quality of my grandfather’s work recom-
mended him to the king. My grandfather genuinely liked the impressive king,
who was physically and mentally strong. When the king asked my grandfather
to make certain repairs, he was quick to do the work to the king’s liking. With
the success of that first job, other jobs came his way.

    No one knew it at the time, but Saudi Arabia was set to become one of the
richest and most influential countries in the world. After the 1932 formation of
the kingdom, and the 1938 discovery of oil, the kingdom experienced a building
boom never before witnessed. When the king wanted a new building or new
roadway constructed, he turned to my grandfather. My grandfather’s diligence
and honesty so pleased the king that he was put in charge of the most coveted
job for a believer, the expansion of the Grand Mosque in Mecca.
    Everyone in our family knows that our Grandfather bin Laden had two
main passions: work and women. He was extremely successful in both arenas.
His ethic for hard work and total sincerity won him the complete trust of the
king. With hard work came financial rewards, which enabled my grandfather
to satisfy his second passion: women.
    In my culture it is not uncommon for men, particularly the very wealthy and
the very poor, to have four wives simultaneously. My grandfather was soon so
rich that he not only married four women, but continually emptied several of the
four marriage positions so that he could fill the vacated slots with new wives.
    With so many wives and ex-wives, my grandfather had so many children
that it was difficult for him to maintain a relationship with each child. As was
the custom, he did give extra attention to the eldest sons, but most of his chil-
dren were seen only on important occasions. This did not mean he did not
follow the progress of his children; he would take time out of his busy schedule
to make cursory checks to ensure that his sons were advancing in school or that
his daughters married well.
    Since my father was not one of the eldest sons, he was not in a position to
see his father regularly. In addition, my grandfather’s marriage to my father’s
Syrian mother, Grandmother Allia, was brief. After my father’s birth, his
mother became pregnant by Grandfather bin Laden for a second time, but
when she lost that baby to a miscarriage, she asked her husband for a divorce.
For some reason, the divorce was easily given and my Grandmother Allia was
free, soon remarried to Muhammad al-Attas and becoming the mother of four
more children.
    Despite the fact that his stepfather was one of the finest men in Saudi Ara-
bia, my father’s life did not evolve as he wished. Like most children of divorced
parents, he felt a loss, for he was no longer as intimately involved with his
father’s family. Although my father was never one to complain, it is believed
that he keenly felt his lack of status, genuinely suffering from his father’s lack
of personal love and care.
    I know how my father felt. After all, I’m one of twenty children. I’ve often
felt that same lack of attention from my father.
    My father was known to everyone in and out of the family as the somber
bin Laden boy who became increasingly occupied with religious teachings. As

his son, I can attest to the fact that he never changed. He was unfailingly pious,
always taking his religion more seriously than most. He never missed prayers.
He devoted many hours to the study of the Koran, and to other religious say-
ings and teachings.
    Although most men, regardless of their culture, are tempted by the sight of
a different female from the ones in their life, my father was not. In fact, he was
known to avert his eyes whenever a woman not of his family came into his
view. To keep away from sexual temptation, he believed in early marriages.
That’s the reason he made the decision to marry when he was only seventeen
years old.
    I’m pleased that my mother, Najwa Ghanem, who was my father’s first
cousin, was his first wife. The position of the first wife is prestigious in my cul-
ture, and that prestige is tripled when the first wife is a first cousin and mother
of a first son. Rarely does a Muslim man divorce a wife who is a cousin and the
mother of the firstborn son. My parents were bound by blood, marriage, and
    Never did I hear my father raise his voice in anger to my mother. He always
seemed very satisfied with her. In fact, when I was very small, there were times
that he and my mother secluded themselves in their bedroom, and were not
seen by the family for several days, so I know that my father enjoyed my moth-
er’s company.
    I understand his loyalty to my mother because she was a devoted wife and a
wonderful mother. Her love for her children was indestructible. Although she
was married to a wealthy man, and during the early years of their marriage had
several housemaids assisting her, she personally took care of many of our needs,
even hand-feeding us when we were sick.
    In my eyes, my mother was a perfect mother.
    My father was a different story. Although I cannot simply order my heart to
stop loving my father, I do not agree with his behavior. There are times that I
feel my heart swell with anger at his actions, which have harmed many people,
people he did not know, as well as members of his own family. As the son of
Osama bin Laden, I am truly sorry for all the terrible things that have hap-
pened, the innocent lives that have been destroyed, the grief that still lingers in
many hearts.
    My father was not always a man who hated. My father was not always a
man hated by others. There was a time when many people spoke of my father
with the highest accolades. History shows that he was once loved by many
people. Despite our differences, I am not ashamed to admit that I loved my
father with the usual passion of a young boy for his father. In fact, when I was
a young boy, I worshipped my father, whom I believed to be not only the most
brilliant but also the tallest man in the world. I would have to go to Afghanistan

to meet a man taller than my father. In truth, I would have to go to Afghani-
stan to truly come to know my father.
    I do have fond memories of my childhood. One early recollection involved
teasing about a man having more than one wife. Many times when my father
was sitting with his male friends, he would call out for me to come to him.
Excited, I would follow the sound of his voice. When I would appear in the
room, my father would be smiling at me, before asking, “Omar, how many
wives are you going to have?”
    Although I was too young to know anything of men and women and mar-
riage, I did know the answer he was seeking. I would hold up four fingers and
gleefully shout, “Four! Four! I will have four wives!”
    My father and his friends would laugh with delight.
    I loved making my father laugh. He laughed so seldom.
    Many people found my father to be a genius, particularly when it came to
mathematical skills. It was said that his own father was a numerical genius who
could add up large columns of numbers in his head.
    My father was so well known for this skill that there were times that men
would come to our home and ask him to match his wits against a calculator.
Sometimes he would agree, and other times not. When he would good-naturedly
accept the challenge, I would grow so ner vous that I would forget to breathe.
    Each time I believed that he would fail the test. Each time I was wrong. We
were all staggered that no calculator could equal my father’s remarkable ability,
even when presented with the most complicated figures. Father would calcu-
late lengthy and complex figures in his head while his friends struggled to
catch up to the maths whiz with their calculators. I’m still amazed and have
often wondered how any human being could have such a natural ability.
    His phenomenal memory fascinated many who knew him. His favorite
book was the Koran, so on occasion he would entertain those who would ask
by reciting the Koran word for word. I would stand quietly in the background,
often with a Koran in my hand, checking his recitation carefully. My father
never missed a word. I can admit now, that as I got older, I was secretly disap-
pointed. For some strange reason, I wanted my father to miss a word here and
there. But he never did.
    He once confessed that he had mastered the feat during a time of great
mental turmoil when he was only ten years old, after his own father had been
killed in a plane crash. Whatever the explanation for his rare gift, his cham-
pion performances made for many extraordinary moments.
    I have bad memories, along with the good. Most inexcusable in my mind is
that we were kept as virtual prisoners in our home in Jeddah.
    There were many dangers lurking for those who had become involved in
that increasingly complex quagmire that had begun with the Soviet invasion of

Afghanistan two years before I was born. My father had become such an im-
portant figure in the struggle that he had been told that political opponents
might kidnap one of his children or even murder members of his family.
    Because of such warnings, my father ordered his children to remain inside
our home. We were not to be allowed to play outside, even in our own garden.
After a few hours of halfhearted play in the hallways, my brothers and I would
spend many long hours staring out the apartment windows, longing to join the
many children we saw playing on the pavements, riding their bikes or skipping
    My father’s piety made him strict in other ways. Although we lived in Jed-
dah, Saudi Arabia, which is one of the hottest and most humid cities in a coun-
try that is known for its hot climate, my father would not allow my mother to
turn on the air-conditioning that the contractor had built into the apartment
building. Neither would he allow her to use the refrigerator that was standing
in the kitchen. My father announced, “Islamic beliefs are corrupted by mod-
ernization.” Therefore, our food spoiled if we did not eat it on the day it was
purchased. If my mother requested milk for her toddlers, my father had it de-
livered straight from cows kept on his family farm for just such a purpose.
    My mother was allowed to cook her meals on a gas stove. And the family
was permitted to use electric lighting, so at least we were not stumbling around
in the dark, using wax candles to light dark rooms, or cooking food over an
open fire.
    My siblings and I hated such impractical directives, although my mother
never complained.
    There was one place where the sons of Osama bin Laden lived a fairly nor-
mal life. That was on our farm, located only a short drive south of Jeddah. Fa-
ther built a family compound on the farm. The land was vast and the compound
was large, with many buildings. The family homes were all painted a lovely soft
peach to blend in with the calm color of the desert. There was a mosque on the
compound because my father could not miss the five required daily prayers.
My father’s favorite building at the farm was the stables especially built for his
beautiful horses.
    My father loved the outdoors. He very carefully laid out an orchard, plant-
ing the area with hundreds of trees, including palms and other varieties. He
also created a costly man-made oasis, cultivating reeds and other water plants.
My father’s eyes would sparkle with such happiness at the sight of a beautiful
plant or flower, or pride at the spectacle of one of his prancing stallions.
    It’s good we had that farm to play on, because toys were forbidden, no mat-
ter how much we might beg. Father would give us some goats to play with,
telling us that we needed nothing more than God’s natural gifts to be happy.
On one happy occasion he came walking in with a baby gazelle.

    My mother was not pleased when my brothers and I slipped the gazelle
through an open window and into our farm house. The coat of the gazelle was
shedding, and when my mother found gazelle fur on the furniture, she raised
her voice, which was unusual for her. Later we realized that she was pretending
to be angry because we caught her secretly smiling at our antics.
    I remember once when Father was given a baby camel as a gift. We were
enthusiastic to have it on the farm, but soon realized that it was too young to
be taken from its mother. The poor baby was so lonely and cried so pitifully
that my father decided to take it to one of the farms belonging to his brother.
But the baby camel was attacked by the other camels there, so he couldn’t share
their home. We never knew the outcome of this sad story, but I was haunted by
that baby’s misery for many days, as I have always loved animals and become
terribly sad if one suffers.
    Then one day one of my father’s half-brothers arrived unexpectedly at our
farm, his vehicle stuffed with toys! We had never been so excited. For us, it was
Eid (a Muslim holiday similar to Christian Christmas celebrations) a hundred
times over! My father hid his anger from his brother, but not from us, remain-
ing annoyed until all those toys were destroyed. But our uncle’s kindness had
made for one of the happiest days of our lives. Looking back, I suppose that
our uncle felt sorry for us.
    My father relented when it came to football— or soccer as Americans call it.
When he brought a ball home, I remember the shock of seeing him smile
sweetly when he saw how excited his sons became at the sight of it. He con-
fessed that he had a fondness for playing soccer and would participate in the
sport when he had time.
    There was a second game, called the “hat game,” that we sometimes enjoyed
with my father. I’d bounce with glee when my father would instruct my oldest
brother to go outside and mark the ground for the hat game. My brother
would mark a line in an area of the yard where the sand was intentionally com-
pacted to be nearly as hard as concrete.
    My father would follow and place a man’s hat on the line. Then he would go
to the opposite side of the line and stand there, looking serious as he sized up
his competition, his young sons.
    My brothers and I would gather and stand in a row on the opposite side of
the line, equally serious. The point of the game was to defeat your opponent in
retrieving the hat, then run safely back to the starting line. Each person com-
peted separately. At the countdown, the first boy in line would dash to grab
the hat.
    My father, watching from the other side, would wait until his opponent
moved to race to the hat, pick it up, and return to the finish line. My father’s
goal was to catch the boy before he touched the finish line. My father had

impossibly long legs, and was trim and fit, but his young sons could run as fast
as the wind. Despite our ability to move quickly, my father was always the win-
ner, because my brothers and I made it sure of it.
    In my culture, we take care never to defeat someone who is older, and cer-
tainly never enjoy a victory against our fathers. Therefore, out of respect, my
brothers and I always slowed our pace to make certain our father could catch
us before we returned safely to the line.
    For me, there was a sting attached to the game; I didn’t think it was fair to
pretend, to let someone win. Without confiding in my brothers, one day I de-
cided that I was going to defeat my father by grabbing that hat and making
undue haste back to the base. I would not let him catch me.
    The next time we played the game, I knew that I would win. Until my turn
came, the races went as usual, with my brothers allowing our father to catch
them. But I roared off, fast and nippy, making it quickly to the hat, turning to
race back to the base line. My father was shocked when he realized I was run-
ning too fast for him to catch me. He sailed through the air and I felt his hands
as they made contact with my feet. But I slipped away with a few clever twists.
I heard my brothers cry out when our father landed on the compacted dirt on
his elbows.
    Taking the full impact of his dive, he damaged his elbows and dislocated
his right shoulder. The expression on my father’s face told me that he was in
genuine pain. I hung back, shocked and dazed that I had caused the disaster. I
was frightened to watch as my father was loaded into a car to be taken to the
hospital in Jeddah.
    Even after the initial medical treatment, we were told that my father would
have to endure cortisone injections and physiotherapy for the next six months.
The painful injury was serious and meant that he could not even travel to
Pakistan, to return to his important work for Islam.
    My brothers were annoyed with me, for they had grown to dislike my fa-
ther’s presence in Jeddah. They wanted him to return to Pakistan, for they said
he was too strict when he was around us.
    You might have guessed by now that my father was not an affectionate
man. He never cuddled me or my brothers. I tried to force him to show affec-
tion, and was told that I made a pest of myself. When he was home, I remained
near, pulling attention-gaining pranks as frequently as I dared.
    Nothing sparked his fatherly warmth. In fact, my annoying behavior en-
couraged him to start carrying his signature cane. As time passed, he began
caning me and my brothers for the slightest infraction.
    Thankfully, my father had a different attitude when it came to the females
in our family. I never heard him shout at his mother, his sisters, my mother, or
my sisters. I never saw him strike a woman.

    He reserved all the harsh treatment for his sons.
    Despite his cruelty, I loved my father so much that I could not restrain my
joy each time he returned from a long trip. As a child, I had little under-
standing of the situation in Afghanistan, although I overheard men speak of
their dislike for the Russians. Yet I didn’t hate the Russians because they oc-
cupied Afghanistan. I hated the Russians because they took my father away
from me.
    I remember one particular time when he had been away for longer than
usual. I was desperate for his attention. He was sitting on the floor quietly
studying intricate military maps. Hoping that he would not order me from the
room, I watched him as he carefully laid his map flat on the floor, his earnest
face puckered in thought, meticulously studying every hill and valley, mentally
preparing for the next military campaign.
    Unable to restrain myself a moment longer, I suddenly ran past him, laugh-
ing loudly, skipping, shifting my feet in various clever positions, striving to
capture his attention. He waved me away, saying in a stern voice, “Omar, go
out of the room.” I darted out the door and stared at him for a few moments;
then, unable to hold back my childlike excitement, I burst back into the room,
laughing and skipping, performing a few more tricks. After the fourth or fifth
repetition of my bouncing appearance, my exasperated father looked at me. He
studied my dancing figure for a minute, then ordered me in his quiet voice,
“Omar, go and gather all your brothers. Bring them to me.”
    I leapt with glee, believing that I had tempted my father away from his
military work. Now I was certain that he would leave behind his worries to
join his young sons in a game of ball. I smiled happily, running as fast as my
short legs would take me. I was proud of myself, thinking that I was the only
one with enough spark to remind him that he had young sons.
    I gathered up each of my brothers, speaking rapidly in an excited voice,
“Come! Father wants to see us all! Come!”
    I failed to notice that my older brothers were not so eager to gain our fa-
ther’s attention.
    I was still anticipating something good even as my father ordered us to stand
in a straight line. He stood calmly, watching as we obediently lined up, one
hand clutching his wooden cane. I was grinning happily, certain that something
very special was about to happen. I stood in restless anticipation, wondering
what sort of new game he was about to teach us. Perhaps it was something he
played with his soldiers, some of whom I had heard were very young men.
    Shame, anguish, and terror surged throughout my body as he raised his
cane and began to walk the human line, beating each of his sons in turn. A
small lump ballooned in my throat.

    My father never raised his soft voice as he reprimanded my brothers, striking
them with the cane as his words kept cadence, “You are older than your brother
Omar. You are responsible for his bad behavior. I am unable to complete my
work because of his badness.”
    I was in excruciating anguish when he paused in front of me. I was very
small at the time and to my childish eyes, he appeared taller than the trees.
Despite the fact I had witnessed him beating my brothers, I could not believe
that my father was going to strike me with that heavy cane.
    But he did.
    The indignity was unbearable, yet none of us cried out, knowing that such
an emotional display would not have been manly. I waited until he turned his
back to walk away before running in the opposite direction. I could not face
my brothers, knowing that they were sure to blame me for bringing our father’s
cane down on their backs and legs.
    I sought solace in the stables, seeking out my favorite horse, a beautiful white
Arabian mare called Baydah. She was about fourteen hands high, with a coal
black tail and mane. I thought she was a queen, with her strong, proud stance.
Baydah loved me, too, and could pick me out from a large crowd, galloping to
me to pluck a juicy apple from my fingertips. I remained with Baydah for hours,
so stricken that I could not think coherently. As the sun began to leave the sky,
I forced myself to return home, for I was too frightened to cause a further
ruckus. I slipped in without notice, wanting to avoid my brothers, who would
surely blame me for their beatings. Once in bed the dam of sorrow burst with
sudden and unexpected loud wails coming from deep within.
    My cries were so loud that my worried mother came into the room and
asked, “Who is that crying?”
    Mortified, I buried my head in my pillow so that the sounds of my misery
might be muffled.
    Now that I am an adult, I believe that perhaps my father had too many
children at too young an age. Or perhaps he was so immersed in his war work
that our importance failed to register against such a massive cause as fighting
the Russians.
    During my childhood, I can recall one magical moment when my father
held me in his arms. The charmed incident was connected to prayer time.
    When Father was home, he commanded his sons to accompany him to the
mosque. One day when we were at the farm, the sound of the muezzin’s call to
the midday prayer rang out. My father in turn called out for us to join him. I
was excited, looking upon prayer time as a wonderful excuse to be near my
father. On that day I failed to slip on my sandals, which we always kept by the
front door, a custom in our country.

    At midday, the sands are blistering hot. Running about without sandals,
the bare soles of my feet were soon burning. I began jumping about, crying out
from the pain. My father stunned me when he leaned his tall figure low, and
scooped me up in his arms.
    My mouth went dry from disbelief. I couldn’t recall ever being held in my
father’s arms. I was instantly happy, leaning in close. My father always used the
marvelous incense called Aoud, which has a pleasing musklike scent.
    I looked down at my brothers from my favored high perch and grinned,
feeling jubilant, like the privileged dwarf atop the giant’s shoulders, seeing be-
yond what the giant could see.
    I was only four or five years old at the time, but I was stocky. My father
was tall and thin and, although fit, was not very muscular. Even before we
reached the mosque door, I could sense that I had become a heavy burden. He
began breathing heavily, and for that I was sorry. Yet I was so proud to be
nestled in his capable arms that I clung tightly, wanting to remain in that se-
cure spot forever. Too soon he deposited me on the ground and walked away,
leaving me to scramble behind him. My short legs failed to match his impos-
sibly long strides.
    Soon my father appeared as elusive as a distant mirage.