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Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA PeopleNology for Business Become a PeopleNologist Today Free Knowledge - Around the World Gregory L Bodenhamer Foundation of Nollijy America Mechanicsburg Pa 17055 GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com PeopleNology by Gregory Bodenhamer During the nineteenth century, ideas and institutions which once had appeared so solid and real...are not so real today. People, places and things have all changed very quickly and there’s a lot of confusion within the workplace and the homes in America. PeopleNology understands the powerful forces that changes your business and what makes your employees think and feel certain ways, at certain times. The Human Beings running around the world really have not changed that much and its time you learned the truth. Powerful companies in America and a few around the world understand the extreme psychology and evolutionary madness of every human being. You can now explore the absolute knowledge you need to grow and prosper your business through the absolute power of the human mind. The companies that understand their people will also understand their customers and future markets. You’ll be able to attract stronger and smarter people and grow your business profits, building better products and services starts with people. In the twentieth century, mechanization has given form to much of man experiences and the planet went wild for mechanical things, steam engines, gears and screws, factories and tall buildings. What the twentieth century never counted on was the thousands of evolutionary drivers or evolutionary triggers that control every human being walking on earth today. PeopleNology of America’s founder Gregory Lynn Bodenhamer has allocated over 25 years to research and study the history of mankind. His intellectual property has been made available to private industry for profits. Greg Bodenhamer’s PeopleNology brings about people knowledge that you have never experienced. This life’s work by our founder brings many surprises to even the experts. PeopleNology for Business, understanding the farmer in the city that you call an employee changes everything you think and feel. The things you thought you understood will become clear for the first time. Employees become people again and productivity moves up and slogans are taken down. Control charts point to greater profits and recruiting costs move down. Product quality improves and innovations of new designs and ideas are brought to the table. PeopleNology for Business is about people, its about you, its about all of us. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA dominance, as two dominant persons may experience conflicts while two submissive individuals may have frustration as neither member take the initiative. Perception and actual behavior might not be congruent with each other. There were cases that dominant people perceived their partners to be similarly dominant, yet in the eyes of independent observers, the actual behavior of their partner was submissive, in other words, complementary to them (Dryer1997). Why do people perceive their romantic partners to be similar to them despite evidence to the contrary? The reason remains unclear, pending further research. Social Exchange Theory People's feelings toward another is dependent on his/her perception of rewards and costs, the kind of relationships he/she deserves, and their likelihood for having a healthier relationship with someone else. Rewards are the part of a relationship that makes it worthwhile and enjoyable. Cost is something that sometimes causes irritation like when a friend overstays his/her welcome. Comparison level is also taken into account during a relationship. This suggests that people expect rewards or punishment depending on the time invested in the relationship. If the level of expected rewards is high and the level of costs is minimal, the relationship suffers and both parties may become dissatisfied and unhappy. Lastly, the comparison level of alternatives states that satisfaction is conditional on the chance that he/she could replace the relationship with a more desirable one. Attraction = Friendship Warren Kubitschek and Maureen Hallinan, University of Notre Dame, social psychologists who suggested that attraction is the result of the propinquity and similarity effects and the status of each party involved. Their study was about the tracking program that organizes students according to their level of ability to learn. This is mostly implemented in middle and almost all of high school. Their goal is to prove that students on the same track have a higher probability of becoming friends compared to those in different tracks according. Other organizational based groupings should also follow these factors. The propinquity effect creates an ideal environment where students are in close physical proximity with each other and have the chance to build familiarity that leads to friendship. Similarity in tracking students is important because they found that track students tend to become friends with others who have the same academic achievement and expectations as themselves. They also found that students on the ame level of status PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA concerning grades will likely name them than those who are on lower level than their own. They conclude that although the factors mentioned do have great influence on friendship, they are not exclusive for organized program like tracking. Attraction = Romantic Relationship The triangular theory of love by Robert Sternberg is based on intimacy, passion, and commitment. Consummate love being the strongest type of love which consists of three aspects: intimacy+passion+commitment. The idea of this theory is that love can consist of one component alone or any combination of the three parts: intimacy, passion, and commitment. There are many factors taken into account when a relationship turns into love. One big factor is culture. This is a common issue among two people who come from very different cultural backgrounds. In a study done by Phillip Shavers and his colleagues, they interviewed participants from different parts of the world and found that love has "similar and different meanings cross-culturally. The Chinese participants had several different love concepts such as "sorrow-love","tenderness-pity", and "sorrow-pity". This ties into another study done by Rothbaym and his partner Tsang in 1998, they researched popular love songs from American and Chinese artists. The difference was that the Chinese love songs, "had significantly more references to suffering and to negative outcomes than the American love songs." This may be due to beliefs that interpersonal relationships are predestined, and thus have no control over love lives. Evolutionary theories The evolutionary theory of human interpersonal attraction states that interpersonal attraction most often occurs when someone has physical features indicating that they are very fertile. The only purpose of relationships is reproduction, thus people invest in partners who appear very fertile to increase the chance of their genes being passed down to the next generation. This theory has been criticized because it does not explain relationships between same-sex couples or couples who do not want children. Another evolutionary explanation suggests that fertility in a mate is of greater importance to men than to women. According to this theory, a woman places significant emphasis on a man's ability to provide resources and protection. The theory suggests that these resources and protection are important in ensuring the successful raising of the woman's offspring. The ability to provide resources and protection might also be sought because the underlying traits are likely to be passed on to male offspring. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA Evolutionary theory also suggests that people whose physical features suggest they are healthy are seen as more attractive. The theory suggests that a healthy mate is more likely to possess genetic traits related to health that would be passed on to offspring. People's tendency to consider people with facial symmetry more attractive than those with less symmetrical faces is one example. Although a test was conducted that found that perfectly symmetrical faces were less attractive than normal faces. [3] It has also been suggested that people are attracted to faces similar to their own. Case studies have revealed that when a photograph of a woman was superimposed to include the features of a man's face, the man whose face has been superimposed almost always rated that picture the most attractive.[citation needed] This theory is based upon the notion that we want to replicate our own features in the next generation, as we have survived thus far with such features and have instinctive survival wishes for our children. Another (non-evolutionary) explanation given for the results of that study was that the man whose face was superimposed may have consciously or unconsciously associated the photographically altered female face with the face of his mother or other family member.[citation needed] Breaking Up This is the ending of a relationship whether its a friendship or romantic relationship. There are several reasons that a relationship may come to an end. One reason derives from the equity theory (rewards and costs are equal to both parties), if a person in the relationship feels that the costs of them being in the relationship outweigh the rewards there is a strong chance they will end the relationship, this also may go for the rewards outweighing costs in some cases Sin is a term used mainly in a religious context to describe an act that violates a moral rule, or the state of having committed such a violation. Commonly, the moral code of conduct is decreed by a divine entity (such as the god in the Abrahamic religions). Sin is often used to mean an action that is prohibited or considered wrong; in some religions (notably some sects of Christianity), sin can refer to a state of mind rather than a specific action. Colloquially, any thought, word, or act considered immoral, shameful, harmful, or alienating might be termed "sinful". Common ideas surrounding sin in various religions include: • Punishment for sins, from other people, from God either in life or in afterlife, or from the Universe in general. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA • The question of whether or not an act must be intentional to be sinful. • The idea that one's conscience should produce guilt for a conscious act of sin. • A scheme for determining the seriousness of the sin. • Repentance from (expressing regret for and determining not to commit) sin, and atonement (repayment) for past deeds. • The possibility of forgiveness of sins, often through communication with a deity or intermediary; in Christianity often referred to as salvation. Crime and justice are related secular concepts. Buddhism does not recognize the idea behind sin because in Buddhism, instead, there is a "Cause-Effect Theory", known as Karma, or action. In general, Buddhism illustrates intentions as the cause of Karma, either good or bad. Furthermore, most thoughts in any being's mind can be negative. Vipaka, the result of your Karma, may create low quality living, hardships, destruction and all means of disharmony in life and it may also create healthy living, easiness, and harmony in life. Good deeds produce good results while bad deeds produce bad results. Karma and Vipaka are your own action and result. Pañcasîla (Pâli) is the fundamental code of Buddhist ethics, willingly undertaken by lay followers of Gautama Buddha. It is a basic understanding of the Noble Eightfold Path, which is a Buddhist teaching on ways to stop suffering. Pancasila I undertake the rule to refrain from destroying living creatures. I undertake the rule to refrain from taking that which is not given. I undertake the rule to refrain from sexual misconduct. I undertake the rule to refrain from incorrect speech. I undertake the rule to refrain from intoxicants which lead to carelessness. Noble Eightfold Path Right View Right Intention Right Speech Right Action Right Work Right Effort Right Mindfulness PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA Right Concentration These ultimately lead to cessation of suffering and thus is a way to be free of Samsara, the cycle of death. After that, Nirvana is achieved. NirvanaNivvâ?a; Vietnamese: Ni?t bàn; Chinese: Ÿ¸žÏ, Mandarin: nièpán, Cantonese: nihppùhn; Japanese: nehan (Ÿ¸žÏ, nehan?); Korean: ¿−¹Ý, yeolban; Thai: ¹Ô¾¾Ò¹, nibpan; Tibetan: mya-ngan-las-'das-pa; Mongolian: asalang-aca nögcigsen; Burmese: nate ban edAmef); is a Sanskrit word that literally means "to cease blowing" (as when a candle flame ceases to flicker) and/or extinguishing (that is, of the passions). It is a sramana philosophical concept, used by the Jains and the Buddhists, to describe the enlightenment and liberation of their respective teachers. Nibbâna is a word used by the Buddha to describe the perfect peace of the mind that is free from craving, anger and other afflictive states (kilesa). This peace, which is in reality the fundamental nature of the mind, is revealed when the root causes of the afflictive states are dissolved. The causes themselves (see sankhara) lie deep within the mind (that part of the mind that Western psychology calls the subconscious) but their undoing is gradually achieved by living a disciplined life (see eightfold path). In Nibbana the root causes of craving and aversion have been extinguished such that one is no longer subject to human suffering (dukkha) or further states of rebirths in samsara. Buddhist scholar, Prof. Herbert Guenther, states of Nirvana: "The notion of Nirvana is a transcendental postulate, which can only be proven psychologically/ subjectively, not scientifically. Yet all highest and final goals lead towards it; indeed, it appears even to constitute the very commencement of the entire spiritual life ...With the reaching of Nirvana the Path has come to its end and reached its goal. The Self-realisation which was striven after and which here becomes Reality, signifies the ideal personality, the true human being." (Guenther, The Problem of the Soul in Early Buddhism, Curt Weller Verlag, Constanz, 1949, pp. 156-157). The Buddha in the Dhammapada says of nirvana that it is "the highest happiness". This happiness is rather an enduring, transcendental happiness integral to the calmness attained through enlightenment or bodhi, than the happiness of blindful entertainment. The knowledge accompanying nirvana is expressed through the word bodhi. In Jainism, it means final release from the karmic bondage. When an enlightened human, such as, an Arhat or a Tirthankara extinguishes his remaining aghatiya karmas and thus ends his worldly existence, it is called nirvana. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA Technically, the death of an Arhat is called nirvana of Arhat, as he has ended his wordly existence and attained liberation. Moksa, that is to say, liberation follows nirvana. An Arhat becomes a siddha, the liberated one, after attaining nirvana. The Eight Precepts are the precepts for Buddhist lay men and women who wish to practice a bit more strictly than the usual five precepts for Buddhists. The eight precepts focus both on avoiding morally bad behaviour, and on leading a more ascetic lifestyle. The five precepts, however, focus only on avoiding morally bad behaviour. In Theravada Buddhist countries such as Sri Lanka and Thailand, Buddhist laymen and laywomen will often spend one day a week (on the Uposatha days: the new moon, first-quarter moon, full moon and last-quarter moon days) living in the monastery, and practicing the eight precepts. The Buddha gave teachings on how the eight precepts are to be practiced,[1] and on the right and wrong ways of practicing the eight precepts.[2] I undertake to abstain from taking life (both human and nonhuman). I undertake to abstain from taking what is not given (stealing). I undertake to abstain from all sexual activity. I undertake to abstain from telling lies. I undertake to abstain from using intoxicating drinks and drugs which lead to carelessness. I undertake to abstain from eating at the wrong time (the right time is eating once, after sunrise, before noon). I undertake to abstain from singing, dancing, playing music, attending entertainment performances, wearing perfume, and using cosmetics and garlands (decorative accessories). I undertake to abstain from luxurious places for sitting or sleeping. Within Christian circles, the ethic of reciprocity is often called the "Golden Rule". Christianity adopted the ethic from two edicts, found in Leviticus 19:18 ("Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against one of your people, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the LORD.") and Leviticus 19:34 ("But the stranger that dwelleth with you shall be unto you as one born among you, and thou shalt love him as thyself; for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am the LORD your God"). Crucially, Leviticus 19:34 universalizes the edict of Leviticus 19:18 from "one of your people" to all of humankind. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA Several passages in the New Testament quote Jesus of Nazareth espousing the ethic of reciprocity, including the following: Matthew 7:12 "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets." Luke 6:27-36 Love Your Enemies 27 "But I say to you who listen: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If anyone hits you on the cheek, offer the other also. And if anyone takes away your coat, don't hold back your shirt either. 30 Give to everyone who asks from you, and from one who takes away your things, don't ask for them back. 31 Just as you want others to do for you, do the same for them. 32 If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. 33 If you do [what is] good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. 34 And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners to be repaid in f u l l . 35 But love your enemies, do [what is] good, and lend, expecting nothing in return. Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is gracious to the ungrateful and evil. 36 Be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful." Pali literature provides the scriptures and commentary for traditional Theravadin practice. Elaboration In the Pali Canon, the following typifies elaborations that frequently accompany these identified training rules: "... There is the case where a certain person, abandoning the taking of life, abstains from the taking of life. He dwells with his rod laid down, his knife laid down, scrupulous, merciful, compassionate for the welfare of all living beings. Abandoning the taking of what is not given, he abstains from taking what is not given. He does not take, in the manner of a thief, things in a village or a wilderness that belong to others and have not been given by them. Abandoning sensual misconduct, he abstains from sensual misconduct. He does not get sexually involved with those who are protected by their mothers, their fathers, their brothers, their sisters, their relatives, or their Dhamma; those with husbands, those who entail punishments, or even those crowned with PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA flowers by another man.... "... There is the case where a certain person, abandoning false speech, abstains from false speech. When he has been called to a town meeting, a group meeting, a gathering of his relatives, his guild, or of the royalty, if he is asked as a witness, 'Come & tell, good man, what you know': If he doesn't know, he says, 'I don't know.' If he does know, he says, 'I know.' If he hasn't seen, he says, 'I haven't seen.' If he has seen, he says, 'I have seen.' Thus he doesn't consciously tell a lie for his own sake, for the sake of another, or for the sake of any reward. Abandoning false speech, he abstains from false speech...."[5] According to the Buddha, killing, stealing, sexual misconduct and lying are never skillful.[6] Motivation In the Abhisandha Sutta (AN 8.39), the Buddha said that undertaking the precepts is a gift to oneself and others: "... In [undertaking the five precepts], he gives freedom from danger, freedom from animosity, freedom from oppression to limitless numbers of beings. In giving freedom from danger, freedom from animosity, freedom from oppression to limitless numbers of beings, he gains a share in limitless freedom from danger, freedom from animosity, and freedom from oppression. This is the ... gift, the ... great gift — original, long-standing, traditional, ancient, unadulterated, unadulterated from the beginning — that is not open to suspicion, will never be open to suspicion, and is unfaulted by knowledgeable contemplatives & priests. This is the ... reward of merit, reward of skillfulness, nourishment of happiness, celestial, resulting in happiness, leading to heaven, leading to what is desirable, pleasurable, & appealing; to welfare & to happiness."[7] In the next canonical discourse, the Buddha described the minimal negative consequences of breaking the precepts 2 I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery; 3 Do not have any other gods before me. 4 You shall not make for yourself an idol, whether in the form of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. 5 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God, punishing children for the iniquity of parents, to the third and the fourth generation of those who reject me, 6 but showing steadfast love to the thousandth generation of those PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA who love me and keep my commandments. 7 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not acquit anyone who misuses his name. 8 Remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy. 9 For six days you shall labour and do all your work. 10 But the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God; you shall not do any work—you, your son or your daughter, your male or female slave, your livestock, or the alien resident in your towns. 11 For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but rested the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and consecrated it. 12 Honor your father and your mother, so that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you. 13 You shall not murder. 14 You shall not commit adultery. 15 You shall not steal. 16 You shall not bear false witness against your neighbour. 17 You shall not covet your neighbour’s house; you shall not covet your neighbour’s wife, or male or female slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbour. 6 I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery; 7 you shall have no other gods before me. 8 You shall not make for yourself an idol, whether in the form of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. 9 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God, punishing children for the iniquity of parents, to the third and fourth generation of those who reject me, 10 but showing steadfast love to the thousandth generation of those who love me and keep my commandments. 11 You shall not make wrongful use of the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not acquit anyone who misuses his name. 12 Observe the sabbath day and keep it holy, as the Lord your God commanded you. 13 For six days you shall labour and do all your work. 14 But the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God; you shall not do any work—you, or your son or your daughter, or your male or female slave, or your ox or your donkey, or any of your livestock, or the resident alien in your towns, so that your male and female slave may rest as well as you. 15 Remember that you were a slave in the land of Egypt, and the Lord your God brought you out from there with a mighty hand and PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA an outstretched arm; therefore the Lord your God commanded you to keep the sabbath day. 16 Honor your father and your mother, as the Lord your God commanded you, so that your days may be long and that it may go well with you in the land that the Lord your God is giving you. 17 You shall not murder. 18 Neither shall you commit adultery. 19 Neither shall you steal. 20 Neither shall you bear false witness against your neighbour. 21 Neither shall you covet your neighbour’s wife. Neither shall you desire your neighbour’s house, or field, or male or female slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbour. According to the Medieval Sefer ha-Chinuch, the first four statements concern the relationship between God and humans, while the next six statements concern the relationships between people. Rabbinic literature holds that the Ten Statements in fact contain 14 or 15 distinct instructions. "I am the LORD your God who brought you out of the land of Egypt, from the house of slavery. You shall have no other gods before Me..." This commandment is to believe in the existence of God and His influence on events in the world, and that the goal of the redemption from Egypt was to become His servants (Rashi). It prohibits belief in or worship of any additional deities. "Do not make an image or any likeness of what is in the heavens above..." This prohibits the construction or fashioning of "idols" in the likeness of created things (beasts, fish, birds, people) and worshipping them. "Do not swear falsely by the name of the LORD..." This commandment is to never take the name of God in a vain, pointless or insincere oath.[25] "Remember [zachor] the Sabbath day and keep it holy" (the version in Deuteronomy reads shamor, "observe") The seventh day of the week is termed Shabbat and is holy, just as God ceased creative activity during Creation. The aspect of zachor is performed by declaring the greatness of the day (kiddush), by having three festive meals, and by engaging in Torah study and pleasurable activities. The aspect of shamor is performed by abstaining from productive activity (39 melachot) on the Shabbat. "Honor your father and your mother..." PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA "Do "Do "Do "Do "Do The obligation to honor one's parents is an obligation that one owes to God and fulfills this obligation through one's actions towards one's parents. not murder" Murdering a human being is a capital sin.[26] not commit adultery." Adultery is defined as sexual intercourse between a man and a married woman who is not his wife.[25] not steal." According to Rashi, this is not understood as stealing in the conventional sense, since theft of property is forbidden elsewhere and is not a capital offense. In this context it is to be taken as "do not kidnap."[25] not bear false witness against your neighbor" One must not bear false witness in a court of law or other proceeding. not covet your neighbor's wife" One is forbidden to desire and plan how one may obtain that which God has given to another. Maimonides makes a distinction in codifying the laws between the instruction given here in Exodus (You shall not covet) and that given in Deuteronomy (You shall not desire), according to which one does not violate the Exodus commandment unless there is a physical action associated with the desire, even if this is legally purchasing an envied object. The ten precepts of Buddhism are: Refrain from killing living things. Refrain from stealing. Refrain from un-chastity (sensuality, sexuality, lust). Refrain from lying. Refrain from taking intoxicants. Refrain from taking food at inappropriate times (after noon). Refrain from singing, dancing, playing music or attending entertainment programs (performances). Refrain from wearing perfume, cosmetics and garland (decorative accessories). Refrain from sitting on high chairs and sleeping on luxurious, soft beds. Refrain from accepting money. 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Some historical warrior codes are chivalry, followed by Christian knights in Europe; Dharma, followed by the Hindu Kshatriyas; bushido, followed by Japanese samurai; and xiá in China Disgust is an emotion that is typically associated with things that are perceived as unclean, inedible, or infectious. In The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals, Charles Darwin wrote that disgust refers to something revolting. Primarily in relation to the sense of taste, as actually perceived or vividly imagined; and secondarily to anything which causes a similar feeling, through the sense of smell, touch, and even of eyesight. Disgust is one of the basic emotions of Robert Plutchik's theory of emotions. Disgust invokes a characteristic facial expression, one of Paul Ekman's six universal facial expressions of emotion. It is also associated with a fall in heart rate, in contrast, for example, to fear or anger.[1] Disgust may be further subdivided into physical disgust, associated with physical or metaphorical uncleanness, and moral disgust, a similar feeling related to courses of action. Disappointment is the feeling of dissatisfaction that follows the failure of expectations to manifest. Similar to regret, it differs in that the individual feeling regret focuses primarily on personal choices contributing to a poor outcome, while the individual feeling disappointment focuses on outcome.[1] It is a source of psychological stress.[2] The study of disappointment—its causes, impact and the degree to which individual decisions are motivated by a desire to avoid it—is a focus in the field of decision analysis,[1][3] as disappointment is one of two primary emotions involved in decision-making Disappointment is a subjective response related to the anticipated rewards.[1] The psychological results of disappointment vary greatly among individuals; while some recover quickly, others mire in frustration or blame or become depressed.[2] A 2003 study of young children with parental background of childhood onset depression found that there may be a genetic predisposition to slow recovery PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA following disappointment.[7] While not every person responds to disappointment by becoming depressed, depression can (in the self psychology school of psychoanalytic theory) almost always be seen as secondary to disappointment/frustration.[8] Disappointment, and an inability to prepare for it, has also been hypothesized as the source of occasional immune system compromise in optimists.[9] While optimists by and large exhibit better health,[10] they may alternatively exhibit less immunity when under prolonged or uncontrollable stress, a phenomenon which researchers have attributed to the "disappointment effect".[9] The "disappointment effect" posits that optimists do not utilize "emotional cushioning" to prepare for disappointment and hence are less able to deal with it when they experience it.[10][11] This disappointment effect has been challenged since the mid-1990s by researcher Suzanne C. Segerstrom, who has published, alone and in accord, several articles evaluating its plausibility. Her findings suggest that, rather than being unable to deal with disappointment, optimists are more likely to actively tackle their problems and experience some immunity compromise as a result.[12] In 1994, psychotherapist Ian Craib published the book The Importance of Disappointment, in which he drew on the works of Melanie Klein and Sigmund Freud in advancing the theory that disappointment-avoidant cultures—particularly therapy culture— provides false expectations of perfection in life and prevents people from achieving a healthy self-identity.[13] Craib offered as two examples litigious victims of medical mistakes, who once would have accepted accidents as a course of life, and people suffering grief following the death of a loved one who, he said, are provided a false stage model of recovery that is more designed to comfort bereavement therapists than the bereaved.[14] In a 2004 article, the journal Psychology Today recommended handling disappointment through concrete steps including accepting that setbacks are normal, setting realistic goals, planning subsequent moves, thinking about positive role models, seeking support and tackling tasks by stages rather than focusing on the big picture Disappointment theory, pioneered in the mid-1980s by David E. Bell with further development by Graham Loomes and Robert Sugden,[15] revolves around the notion that people contemplating risks are disappointed when the outcome of the risk is not evaluated as positively as the expected outcome.[16] Disappointment theory has been utilized in examining such diverse decision-making processes as return migration, taxpayer compliance and customer willingness to pay.[17] Disappointed individuals focus on "upward counterfactuPeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA als"—alternative outcomes that would have been better than the one actually experienced—to the point that even positive outcomes may result in disappointment.[18] One example, supplied by Bell, concerns a lottery win of $10,000.00, an event which will theoretically be perceived more positively if that amount represents the highest possible win in the lottery than if it represents the lowest.[19] Decision analysts operate on the assumption that individuals will anticipate the potential for disappointment and make decisions that are less likely to lead to the experience of this feeling.[15] Disappointment aversion has been posited as one explanation for the Allais paradox, a problematic response in expected utility theory wherein people prove more likely to choose a sure reward than to risk a higher one while at the same time being willing to attempt a greater reward with lower probability when both options include some risk.[20] While earlier developers of disappointment theory focused on anticipated outcomes, more recent examinations by Philippe Delquié and Alessandra Cillo of INSEAD have focused on the impact of later disappointment resulting when an actual outcome comes to be regarded negatively based on further development; for example, if a person receives higher than expected gains in the stock market, she may be elated until she discovers a week later that she could have gained much more profit if she had waited a few more days to sell.[15] This experience of disappointment may influence subsequent behavior, and, the analysts state, an incorporation of such variables into disappointment theory may enhance the study of behavioral finance.[15] Disappointment" is, along with regret, measured by direct questioning of respondents Doubt, a status between belief and disbelief, involves uncertainty or distrust or lack of sureness of a fact, an action, a motive, or a decision. Doubt brings into question some notion of a perceived "reality", and may involve delaying relevant action out of concerns for mistakes or faults. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA You might think you know what your biggest issues are inside your business today but it’s a lot bigger than you think, but you know for sure that some employees don’t seem to understand. Quality problems seem to never go away, employee turnover never seems to stop, productivity moves us and down like a roller coaster. What are the real issues? PeopleNology teaches your that our subconscious mind processes positive and negative memories you're not even aware of as it just happens without us knowing it. Yet experts think that this information holds the key to understanding, relationships, problems, answers, new product ideas, grand new services where you might have issues today building your business. PeopleNology will give you the means and the way to bring about conscious thinking within your business with all your people. The 75 Secrets of The Mind, a PeopleNology publication opens the door to all your people. Why they come and go? Why they tend to be lazy? What makes them get up and go? What makes them a success first? One thing for sure, guaranteed, you are suppressing all your results. You and how your people may manage the employee group is harmful to the group. What you think about is what you’ll become and what they think about is what your company will become. You’re going to change things by changing what they think about. Your people are preoccupied, let there be no doubt. They’re preoccupied with things in their life that has nothing to do with you except its very harmful to your organizational results. Find out which area of your life your subconscious is preoccupied with and you’ll most likely find out some of the things they think about at your working business. Our arts hold up a mirror to our values and all you have to do is look back through history and see where we all started. We’re not that far removed from the cave and how we think has really never left the cave. We are from the land and seemingly trapped in the contraptions of business and most people you call employees resent this fact within their subconscious. Growing your business is first about understanding your people. The most powerful companies in the world are based on people first, products second. PeopleNology through the Greg Bodenhamer Foundation of Nollijy lets the brightest of your company grow and prosper with your enterprise. The evolutionary drivers and triggers, found in every human being will be explored so you’ll understand how your people really think and what they think about on a PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA The term "to doubt" can also mean "to question one's circumstances and life-experience". Doubt sometimes tends to call on reason. It may encourage people to hesitate before acting, and/or to apply more rigorous methods. Doubt may have particular importance as leading towards disbelief. Politics, ethics and law, faced with important decisions that often determine the course of individual life, place great importance on doubt, and often foster elaborate adversarial processes to carefully sort through all the evidence to come to a decision. One view regards the scientific method, and to a degree all of science, as entirely motivated by doubt: rather than accepting existing theories, scientists express systematic or habitual doubt (skepticism) and devise experiments to test (and, optimally, to disprove) any theory. Some commentators[who?] see technology as simply the expansion of the experiments to a wider user-base, which takes real risks[citation needed] with it. Users may no longer doubt the applicability of the theory in play, but there remain doubts about how it interacts with the real world. The process of technology-transfer stages exploitation of science to ensure the minimization of doubt and danger Ecstasy is subjective experience of total involvement of the subject with an object of his or her awareness. Because total involvement with an object of our interest is not our ordinary experience since we are ordinarily aware also of other objects, the ecstasy is an example of altered state of consciousness characterized by diminished awareness of other objects or total lack of the awareness of surroundings and everything around the object. For instance, if one is concentrating on a physical task, then one might cease to be aware of any intellectual thoughts. On the other hand, making a spirit journey in an ecstatic trance involves the cessation of voluntary bodily movement. For the duration of the ecstasy the ecstatic is out of touch with ordinary life and is capable neither of communication with other people nor of undertaking normal actions. Although the experience is usually brief in physical time (from momentary to about half an hour), there are records of such experiences lasting several days or even more, and of recurring experiences of ecstasy during one's lifetime. Subjective perception of time, space and/or self may strongly change or disappear during ecstasy Ecstasy can be deliberately induced using religious or creative activities, meditation, music, dancing, breathing exercises, physical PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA subconscious level. You’ll be amazed what people think about when you’re confident their thinking about working related topics, tasks, objectives and goals you have all over the conference room. The machine has replaced the human being and his natural world as the motif and theme of much of our day to day living. Don’t drive your automobile, unplug your refrigerator, turn off your computer, disconnect the satellite dish and go sit under a tree to discover the mechanics and engineering of the modern world. Man was not made for the machine even though man has surrounded himself/herself with every machine idea that can be converted from an idea into something helpful. PeopleNology will give you the people power back to your business. Your employees are worried about quality but they worry more about their children’s SAT test scores. They worry about report cards and bank balances, light bills, car payments, lovers and new shoes. They think of safety, clothing and shelter, sex, food and romance while at the same time you want to constantly grade them on productions, performance, sales revenue, percentage of growth, profit margins, new customers, lost customers and your success. Technology is in your hands. Your success will not be based on technology now or in the future even though its going to help you a great deal. You success will be found in helping people helping other people. Do you want to be ranked in the same old ways, profit margins, revenue growth, market share? Do you want to build the best products or services in the world? The market constantly grades your people performance and you have to measure up to the market. The intelligence found within the right group of people will change your company forever. PeopleNology will grow your business, encourage and reward smart people and over time create a new culture of people success. The Not-So-Smart companies will fall behind and lose their market share. Their employees will dream about failure and pink slips while at the same time you break open the power of people. Success is solving problems, which is the whole point of our civilization and your company can lead the way. The doorstep to the future is PeopleNology and all the power it holds concerning the 75 Secrets inside every person walking around. PeopleNology is Power. You have committed your company to the machine. How many computer do you own? How many trucks and company cars? How many telephones, forklifts, power tools, chairs, tables, pens and paperclips does it take to build a business? You have committed your company to things and not people. Machines do not build a business only people can. People demand more and more machines but who will build them, sustain them, change them, design and engineer the new ones. Modern man demands the machine, so be it. Get your people to build the new design, the faster rates, the higher quality and let people build the machines for all the other people wanting and needing more and more. In turn, machines and machine thinking people dominate our lives. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA exercise, sex or consumption of psychotropic drugs, e.g. MDMA. The particular technique that an individual uses to induce ecstasy is usually also associated with that individual's particular religious and cultural traditions. Sometimes an ecstatic experience takes place due to occasional contact with something or somebody perceived as extremely beautiful or holy, or without any known reason. "In some cases, a person might obtain an ecstatic experience "by mistake". Maybe the person unintentionally triggers one of the, probably many, physiological mechanisms through which such an experience can be reached. In such cases, it is not rare to find that the person later, by reading, looks for an interpretation and maybe finds it within a tradition."[1] People interpret the experience afterwards according to their culture and beliefs (as a revelation from God, a trip to the world of spirits or a psychotic episode). "When a person is using an ecstasy technique, he usually does so within a tradition. When he reaches an experience, a traditional interpretation of it already exists."[2] The experience together with its subsequent interpretation may strongly and permanently change the value system and the worldview of the subject (e.g. to cause religious conversion Empathy is the capacity to recognise or understand another's state of mind or emotion. It is often characterized as the ability to "put oneself into another's shoes", or to in some way experience the outlook or emotions of another being within oneself. It may be described metaphorically as an emotional kind of resonance or mirroring Since empathy involves understanding the emotions of other people, the way it is characterised is derivative of the way emotions themselves are characterised. If for example, emotions are taken to be centrally characterised by bodily feelings, then grasping the bodily feelings of another will be central to empathy. On the other hand, if emotions are more centrally characterised by combinations of beliefs and desires, then grasping these beliefs and desires will be more essential to empathy. Furthermore, a distinction should be made between deliberately imagining being another person, or being in their situation, and simply recognizing their emotion. The ability to imagine oneself as another person is a sophisticated imaginative process. However the basic capacity to recognize emotions is probably innate and may be achieved unconsciously. Yet it can be trained, and achieved with various degrees of intensity or accuracy. The human capacity to recognize the bodily feelings of another is PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA related to one's imitative capacities, and seems to be grounded in the innate capacity to associate the bodily movements and facial expressions one sees in another with the proprioceptive feelings of producing those corresponding movements or expressions oneself. Humans also seem to make the same immediate connection between the tone of voice and other vocal expressions and inner feeling. See neurological basis below. There is some debate concerning how exactly the conscious experience (or phenomenology) of empathy should be characterized. The basic idea is that by looking at the facial expressions or bodily movements of another, or by hearing their tone of voice, one may get an immediate sense of how they feel (as opposed to more intellectually noting the behavioral symptoms of their emotion).[3] Though empathic recognition is likely to involve some form of arousal in the empathiser, they may not experience this feeling as belonging to their own body, but instead likely to perceptually locate the feeling 'in' the body of the other person. Alternatively the empathiser may instead get a sense of an emotional 'atmosphere' or that the emotion belongs equally to all the parties involved. More fully developed empathy requires more than simply recognizing another's emotional state. Since emotions are typically directed towards objects or states of affairs, the empathiser may first require some idea of what that object might be (where object can include imaginary objects, concepts, other people, or even the empathiser). Alternatively the recognition of the feeling may precede the recognition of the object of that emotion, or even aid the empathiser in discovering the object of the other's emotion. The empathiser may also need to determine how the emotional state affects the way in which the other perceives the object. For example, the empathizer needs to determine which aspects of the object to focus on. Hence it is often not enough that the empathiser recognize the object toward which the other is directed, plus the bodily feeling, and then simply add these components together. Rather the empathiser needs to find the way into the loop where perception of the object affects feeling and feeling ffects the perception of the object. The following sequence of examples identifies some of the major factors in empathising with another: I sense that: • Frank is feeling annoyed, (via facial, vocal or postural expression). • Frank is feeling annoyed due to not getting what he wants, (general object of emotion). • Frank is feeling annoyed because he missed his train, (particular object of emotion) • Frank is feeling annoyed because he missed his train, but only PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA by a few seconds, (focus of particular object). • Frank is feeling annoyed because he only just missed his train and he had an important meeting to get to, (background non-psychological context). • Frank is feeling annoyed because he only just missed his train, and he had an important meeting and because he is generally an irritable sort of person (character traits). Envy may be defined as an emotion that "occurs when a person lacks another’s superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it."[1] It can also derive from a sense of low self-esteem that results from an upward social comparison threatening a person's self image: another person has something that the envier considers to be important to have. If the other person is perceived to be similar to the envier, the aroused envy will be particularly intense, because it signals to the envier that it just as well could have been him or her who had the desired object.[2][3] Bertrand Russell said envy was one of the most potent causes of unhappiness.[4] It is a universal and most unfortunate aspect of human nature because not only is the envious person rendered unhappy by his envy, but also wishes to inflict misfortune on others. Although envy is generally seen as something negative, Russell(1930, p. 90-91)also believed that envy was a driving force behind the movement towards democracy and must be endured in order to achieve a more just social system. The tendency to feel envy seems to be present in all cultures Competition is the rivalry of two or more parties over something. Competition occurs naturally between living organisms which coexist in the same environment. For example, animals compete over water supplies, food, and mates. In addition, humans compete for attention, wealth, prestige, and fame. Competition can be remote, as in a free throw contest, or antagonistic, as in a standard basketball game. These contests are similar, but in the first one players are isolated from each other, while in the second one they are able to interfere with the performance of their competitors. Competition gives incentives for self improvement. If two watchmakers are competing for business, they will lower their prices and improve their products to increase their sales. If birds compete for a limited water supply during a drought, the more suited birds will survive to reproduce and improve the population. PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA Rivals will often refer to their competitors as "the competition". The term can also be used as to refer to the contest or tournament itself. Resentment an emotion of anger or bitterness felt repeatedly as a result of a real or imagined wrong done. Professor Robert C. Solomon places resentment on the same line continuum with contempt and anger. According to him the differences between the three emotions are that: resentment is directed toward a higher status individual, anger is directed toward equal status individual and contempt is directed toward lower status individual. [1] Often resentment will manifest itself in the following ways.[2] • The harboring of animosity against a person or group of people whom the person feels has mistreated them. • Unresolved anger over a negative event which occurred in the past. • Seething, aching emotional turmoil felt whenever a certain person or event is discussed. • The lack of forgiving, the inability to let go and forget. • A root of distrust and suspicion have when dealing with people or events that brought pain in the past. • Unresolved grief experienced when finding it difficult to accept a loss. • A grudge held against a person or group of people whom the person feels has kept them from achieving anything. It can be an emotionally disturbing experience that is being felt again or relived in the mind. When the person feeling resentment is directing the emotion at himself it appears as remorse. Embarrassment is an emotional state experienced upon having a socially or professionally unacceptable act or condition witnessed by or revealed to others. Usually some amount of loss of honour or dignity is involved, but how much and the type depends on the embarrassing situation. It is similar to shame, except that shame (at least in the West) may be experienced for an act known only to oneself. Also, embarrassment usually carries the connotation of being caused by an act that is merely socially unacceptable, rather than morally wrong. Embarrassment can be personal, caused by unwanted attention to private matters or personal flaws or mishaps. Some causes of embarrassment stem from personal actions, such as being caught in PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA a lie or in making a mistake, losing badly in a competition, being caught performing bodily functions such as flatulence or engaging in sex. In many cultures, being seen nude or inappropriately dressed is a particularly stressful form of embarrassment (see modesty). Personal embarrassment could also stem from the actions of others which place the embarrassed person in a socially awkward situation, such as having one's awkward baby pictures shown to friends, having someone make a derogatory comment about one's appearance or behavior, discovering one is the victim of gossip, being rejected by another person (see also humiliation), being made the focus of attention (e.g. birthday celebrants, newlyweds), or even witnessing someone else's embarrassment. Personal embarrassment is usually accompanied by some combination of blushing, sweating, nervousness, stammering, and fidgeting. Sometimes the embarrassed person will try to mask embarrassment with smiles or nervous laughter, especially in etiquette situations; such a response is more common in certain cultures, which may lead to misunderstanding. There may even be an angry response depending on the perceived seriousness of the situation. The idea that embarrassment serves an apology or appeasement function originated with Goffman (1967) who argued the embarrassed individual “demonstrates that he/she is at least disturbed by the fact and may prove worthy at another time”. Semin & Manstead (1982) demonstrated social functions of embarrassment whereby the perpetrator of knocking over a sales display (the ‘bad act’) was deemed more likeable by others if he/she appeared embarrassed than if he/she appeared unconcerned – regardless of restitution behaviour (rebuilding the display). The capacity to experience embarrassment can also be seen to be functional for the group or culture. It has been demonstrated that those who are not prone to embarrassment are more likely to engage in antisocial behaviour – for example, adolescent boys who displayed more embarrassment were found to be less likely to engage in aggressive/delinquent behaviours. Similarly, embarrassment exhibited by boys more likely to engage in aggressive/delinquent behaviour was less than onethird of that exhibited by non-aggressive boys (Ketlner et al. 1995). Thus proneness to embarrassment (i.e. a concern for how one is evaluated by others) can act as a brake on behaviour that would be dysfunctional for group or culture Euphoria is a medically recognized emotional state related to pleasure and happiness. Technically, euphoria is an affect,[1] but colloquially the term is often used as a standard term of emotion to mean intense, transcendent happiness combined with an overPeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA whelming sense of well being. The word derives from Greek å?öïñßá, "power of enduring easily, fertility"[2][3]. Euphoria is considered to be an exaggerated state, resulting from psychological or pharmacological stressors and not typically achieved during the normal course of human experience, although some natural behaviors, such as those resulting in orgasm, can consistently produce a brief state of euphoria.[1] A common theme among a subset of drugs used recreationally is their ability to induce a state of euphoria.[4] The classification of episodic mania by Emil Kraepelin recognized the degree of euphoric affect among the classifier axes. Drugs such as alcohol, opiates, marijuana, amphetamines, cocaine, MDMA, and so on can induce chemically intense euphoria Serious fear is a response to some formidable impending peril, while trifling fear arises from confrontation with inconsequential danger. Fear can be described by different terms in accordance with its relative degrees. Personal fear varies extremely in degree from mild caution to extreme phobia and paranoia. Fear is related to a number of emotional states including worry, anxiety, terror, fright, paranoia, horror, panic (social and personal), persecution complex and dread. Fears may be a factor within a larger social network, wherein personal fears are synergetically compounded as mass hysteria. • Paranoia is a term used to describe a psychosis of fear, described as a heightened perception of being persecuted, false or otherwise. This degree of fear often indicates that one has changed their normal behavior in radical ways, and may have become extremely compulsive. Sometimes, the result of extreme paranoia is a phobia. • Distrust in the context of interpersonal fear, is sometimes explained as the inward feeling of caution, usually focused towards a person, representing an unwillingness to trust in someone else. Distrust is not a lack of faith or belief in someone, but a feeling of warning towards someone or something questionable or unknown. For example, one may "distrust" a stranger who acts in a way that is perceived as "odd." Likewise one may "distrust" the safety of a rusty old bridge across a 100 ft drop. • Terror refers to a pronounced state of fear - which usually occurs before the state of horror - when someone becomes overwhelmed with a sense of immediate danger. Also, it can be caused by perceiving the (possibly extreme) phobia. As a PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA consequence, terror overwhelms the person to the point of making irrational choices and non-typical behavior. Fear can also affect the subconscious and unconscious mind, most notably through nightmares. Fear can also be imagined, and the side effects can also be imagined. Frustration is an emotion that occurs in situations where one is blocked from reaching a personal goal. The more important the goal, the greater the frustration. It is comparable to anger. Sources of frustration may be internal or external. Internal sources of frustration involve personal deficiencies such as a lack of confidence or fear of social situations that prevent one from reaching a goal. Conflict can also be an internal source of frustration when one has competing goals that interfere with one another. External causes of frustration involve conditions outside the person such as a blocked road, lack of money, or lack of sexual activity. In terms of psychology, passive-aggressive behavior is a method of dealing with frustration. Frustration can be a result of blocking motivated behavior. An individual may react in several different ways. He may respond with rational problem-solving methods to overcome the barrier. Failing in this, he may become frustrated and behave irrationally. An example of blockage of motivational energy would be the case of the worker who wants time off to go fishing but is denied permission by his supervisor. Another example would be the executive who wants a promotion but finds he lacks certain qualifications. If, in these cases, an appeal to reason does not succeed in reducing the barrier or in developing some reasonable alternative approach, the frustrated individual may resort to less adaptive methods of trying to reach his goal. He may, for example, attack the barrier physically or verbally or both. The worker who is refused time off to go fishing may "cuss out" his supervisor to his face or behind his back. If he is sufficiently aroused, he may strike out at him with his fists or with the nearest weapon.If the supervisor is not present or the worker's fear of the consequences of direct attack is stronger than his desire to attack, he may transfer his aggression to someone or something else. Taking his frustration out on his family or on some object like his car or his equipment are typical ways of transferring aggression. Another "solution" to frustration is regressive behavior — becoming childish or reverting to earlier and more primitive ways of coping with the goal barrier. Throwing a temper tantrum, bursting into tears, or sulking are examples of regression. Wearing a long face and PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100 Gregory Bodenhamer Nollijy University Research PeopleNology PeopleTopia PeopleTopianism ParentTopia PeopleNologist ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Copyright 2008 Intellectual Property Rights Mechanicsburg Pa USA a worried look are other signs of this method of dealing with frustration. Stubborn refusal to respond to new conditions affecting the goal, such as removal or modification of the barrier, sometimes occurs. As pointed out by Brown, severe punishment may cause individuals to continue nonadaptive behavior blindly: “Either it may have an effect opposite to that of reward and as such, discourage the repetition of the act, or, by functioning as a frustrating agent, it may lead to fixation and the other symptoms of frustration as well. It follows that punishment is a dangerous tool, since it often has effects which are entirely the opposite of those desired” [1]. An example of nonadaptive behavior of this sort might occur in the case of the executive who feels persecuted by his failure to be promoted. Even when offered a training course to improve his chances of promotion, he turns down this opportunity and continues to sulk. Flight, or leaving the scene, is another way people have of dealing with their frustrations. In the above example of the executive, we might find him quitting his job rather than face up to the consequences of being passed over for promotion. Or, a player quits the football squad because he is not given enough playing time or fails to win the starting berth as quarterback. Managers must learn to recognize the symptoms of frustration to avoid responding in ways that intensify rather than ameliorate the problem. The main point to remember is that the affected person is often not in a rational, problem-solving frame of mind and is, therefore, not attuned to the "facts" or to logical procedures for dealing with his situation. Some frustrated people need to be guided back to "reality". They cannot be reasoned with in their present mental state. Listening with understanding to such a person is one effective way to reduce frustration. Talking to a sympathetic listener provides a way for him to vent his feelings and regain control of himself[1]. Motives provide energy and direction for behavior. Appropriate behavior, in turn, reduces the inner tensions that signal the motivated state. An understanding of the relationships among motives, behavior, and human goals provides the manager, administrator, or leader with a way of thinking about human activity and a framework within which to gather, sort, and analyze data related to behavioral problems. An increasingly common source of frustration is due strongly to the presence of computer technology. Because modern computing is marketed as user-friendly, it can be extremely frustating when one cannot achieve a goal due in part to a technological error, and PeopleNology Gregory Bodenhamer Social Science Business Management Evolution Biology Psychology Seminars Workbooks Presentations Consulting Seduction Secrets Success Compliance Profit Service Growth GregoryBodenhamer@Live.com NollijyUniversityPeopleNology@Gmail.com Sex Sexual Nudity Girl Women Woman Working Wisdom Abuse Adult Oral Education History Evolution Social Engineering Fortune 100

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