Adultery

From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Adultery Adultery Adultery is the voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and another person who is not his or her spouse, though in many places it is only considered adultery when a married woman has sexual relations with someone who is not her husband and in others it is only considered adultery when a married woman has sexual relations with someone without the permission of her husband. In most cases, in Western countries, only the married party is said to have committed adultery, and if both parties are married (but not to each other) then they both commit separate acts of adultery. In other countries, both parties to the adultery are considered guilty, while in others again only the woman is able to commit adultery and to be considered guilty. Adultery is also referred to as extramarital sex, philandery, or infidelity, but does not include fornication. The term "adultery" for many people carries a moral or religious association, while the term "extramarital sex" is morally or judgmentally neutral. Adultery is illegal in some countries. The interaction between laws on adultery with those on rape has and does pose particular problems in societies that are especially sensitive to sexual relations by a married woman, such as some Muslim countries.[1] The difference between the offenses is that adultery is voluntary, while rape is not. The term adultery has a Judeo-Christian origin, though the concept of marital fidelity predates Judaism and is found in many other societies. Though the definition and consequences vary between religions, cultures, and legal jurisdictions, the concept is similar in Judaism, Christianity, and Islam, and Hinduism has a similar concept. But the word should be used cautiously when discussing various cultures, some of which permit less permanent forms of marriage, or even sexual "lending."[2] Historically, adultery has been considered to be a serious offense by many cultures. In some countries, adultery is a crime. However, even in jurisdictions where adultery is not itself a criminal offense, it may still have legal consequences, particularly in Le supplice des adultères by Jules Arsene Garnier Family law Entering into marriage Prenuptial agreement Marriage Common-law marriage Same-sex marriage Legal states similar to marriage Cohabitation · Civil union Domestic partnership Registered partnership Putative marriage Dissolution of marriage Annulment · Divorce · Alimony Issues affecting children Paternity · Legitimacy · Adoption Legal guardian · Foster care Ward · Emancipation of minors Grandparent visitation Child Protective Services (United States) Parental responsibility Contact (including visitation) Residence in English law Custody · Child support Related areas Spousal abuse · Child abuse Child abduction · Child marriage Adultery · Bigamy · Incest Conflict of laws Marriage · Nullity · Divorce 1 From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia divorce cases. For example, where there is fault-based family law, it almost always constitutes grounds for divorce, it may be a factor to consider in a property settlement, it may affect the status of children, the custody of children, etc. Moreover, adultery can result in social ostracism in some parts of the world. Three recent studies in the United States, using nationally representative samples, have found that about 10-15% of women and 20-25% of men had engaged in extramarital sex.[3][4][5] Adultery giving rise to the criminal action for adultery.[11] Another tort, alienation of affection, arises when one spouse deserts the other for a third person.[12] This act was also known as desertion, which was often a crime as well.[13] A small number of jurisdictions still allow suits for criminal conversation and/or alienation of affection.[14] A marriage in which both spouses agree to accept sexual relations by either partner with another person is a form of nonmonogamy, and the spouses would not treat the sexual relations as adultery, although it could still be considered a crime in some legal jurisdictions. Some cultures distinguish adultery from infidelity: for example, Germany defines adultery as a "crime against marriage,"[15] while infidelity is not. In Canada, though the written definition in the Divorce Act refers to extramarital relations with someone of the opposite sex, a British Columbia judge used the Civil Marriage Act in a 2005 case to grant a woman a divorce from her husband who had cheated on her with another man, which the judge felt was equal reasoning to dissolve the union. Etymology The word adultery originates not from "adult," as is commonly thought in Englishspeaking countries, but from the Late Latin word for "to alter, corrupt": adulterare.[6] Adulterare in turn is formed by the combination of ad ("towards"), and alter ("other"), together with the infinitive form are (making it a verb). Thus the meaning is literally "to make other." In contrast, the word "adult" (meaning a person of mature years) comes from another Latin root, adolescere, meaning to grow up or mature: a combination of ad ("towards"), alere ("to nourish", "to grow"), and the inchoative infix sc (meaning "to enter into a state of").[6] Prevalence Durex’s Global Sex Survey has found that worldwide 22% have had extramarital sex.[16][17] Definitions In the traditional English common law, adultery was a felony. Although the legal definition of "adultery" differs in nearly every legal system, the common theme is sexual relations outside of marriage, in one form or another. For example, New York defines an adulterer as a person who "engages in sexual intercourse with another person at a time when he has a living spouse, or the other person has a living spouse."[7] North Carolina defines adultery as occurring when any man and woman "lewdly and lasciviously associate, bed, and cohabit together."[8] Minnesota law provides: "when a married woman has sexual intercourse with a man other than her husband, whether married or not, both are guilty of adultery."[9] Adultery is against the governing law of the U.S. military.[10] In common-law countries, adultery was also known as "criminal conversation". This was the civil tort arising from the same act(s) Adultery in the United States Alfred Kinsey has found in his studies that 50% of males and 26% of females had extramarital sex at least once during their lifetime.[18]. Depending on studies, it was estimated that 26-50% of men and 21-38% women[19], or 22.7% of men and 11.6% of women had extramarital sex [20]. Other authors say that between 20% and 25% Americans had sex with someone other than their spouse[21]. However, one survey that measured the prevalence of adultery in the 12 months prior to the study showed rates of extramarital sex as low as 2.5%[19]. The results suggest that while 15-25% of married Americans have had extramarital sex at least once in their lifetime, extramarital sex occurred infrequently in any one year. [20] 2 From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Adultery definition did not, however, forbid a married man from having sex with a woman other than his wife provided she was not married to someone else. (Leviticus 20:10 and Deuteronomy 22:22) [22] A consequence is that, under biblical law, sexual relations by an unmarried woman does not lead to adultery, whether the man is married or not. These provisions are consistent with the provisions covering the practice of polygyny. It also fits with the prohibition of polyandry, as a woman cannot be married to more than one man without committing adultery. It has been suggested that the reasoning of these rules is to ensure that a child’s paternity is always known, and not in doubt. Cultural and religious traditions Close relationships Types of relationships Boyfriend · Casual · Cohabitation · Concubinage · Courtesan · Domestic partnership · Family · Friendship · Girlfriend · Husband · Kinship · Marriage · Mistress (lover) · Monogamy · Non-monogamy · Pederasty · Polyamory · Polyfidelity · Polygamy · Romantic friendship · Same-sex relationship · Significant other · Soulmate · Widowhood · Wife Major relationship events Mating · Courtship · Bonding · Divorce · Infidelity · Relationship breakup · Romance · Separation · Wedding Feelings and emotions Affinity · Attachment · Compersion · Infatuation · Intimacy · Jealousy · Limerence · Love · Passion · Platonic love · Polyamory · Psychology of sexual monogamy Human practices Bride price (Dower · Dowry) · Hypergamy · Infidelity · Sexuality Relationship abuse Child abuse · Elder abuse · Infidelity · Spousal abuse · Teen dating violence Greco-Roman world A similar rule applied in the old Roman Law. That is, in the Greco-Roman world there were stringent laws against adultery, but these applied to sexual intercourse with a married woman. In the early Roman Law the jus tori belonged to the husband. It was therefore not a crime against the wife for a husband to have sex with a slave or an unmarried woman.[23] It is well known that the Roman husband often took advantage of his legal immunity. Thus we are told by the historian Spartianus that Verus, the imperial colleague of Marcus Aurelius, did not hesitate to declare to his reproaching wife: "Uxor enim dignitatis nomen est, non voluptatis." (’Wife’ connotes rank, not sexual pleasure) (Verus, V). Later in Roman history, as William E.H. Lecky has shown, the idea that the husband owed a fidelity similar to that demanded of the wife must have gained ground, at least in theory. Lecky gathers from the legal maxim of Ulpian: "It seems most unfair for a man to require from a wife the chastity he does not himself practice".[24] The lending of wives practiced among some peoples was, as Plutarch tells us, encouraged also by Lycurgus, though from a motive other than that which actuated the practice (Plutarch, Lycurgus, XXIX). The recognized license of the Greek husband may be seen in the following passage of the Oration against Neaera, the author of which is uncertain, though it has been attributed to Demosthenes: Man and woman undergoing public exposure for adultery in Japan, around 1860 Biblical sources The Hebrew Bible (the Tanakh or Old Testament) prohibits adultery in the seventh of the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:14). It should be noted though that during biblical times marriage was seen as a property transaction and the definition of adultery was quite narrow. During biblical times adultery was defined as a married woman having sex with someone other than her husband. The 3 From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia We keep mistresses for our pleasures, concubines for constant attendance, and wives to bear us legitimate children and to be our faithful housekeepers. Yet, because of the wrong done to the husband only, the Athenian lawgiver Solon allowed any man to kill an adulterer whom he had taken in the act. (Plutarch, Solon) Adultery Qur’anic verses prohibiting adultery include: "Do not go near to adultery. Surely it is a shameful deed and evil, opening roads (to other evils)" (Quran 17:32). "Say, ’Verily, my Lord has prohibited the shameful deeds, be it open or secret, sins and trespasses against the truth and reason"’ (Quran 7:33). "Women impure are for men impure, and men impure are for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity." (Quran 24:26) Though strict Muslim law prescribes severe punishments for extramarital sex, by both men and women (premarital sex is punishable with up to 100 lashes, while adultery is punishable by stoning), to obtain conviction of zina [consensual premarital sex], the act of sexual penetration must be attested by at least four male Muslim witnesses of good character, with the accused having a right to testify and their testimony given the most weight in the eyes of the judge(s). Also, punishments are reserved to the legal authorities and false accusations are to be punished severely.[25][26] It has been said that these legal procedural requirements were instituted to make it impossible to obtain conviction.[27] (It should be noted that the above punishment of stoning is never given in the Quran but only in the Hadith. The only punishment for adultery given in the Quran is one hundred lashes and restriction of future marriage to another adulterer or the partner in the act). Christianity Adultery is considered by many Christians to be immoral and a sin, based primarily on passages like 1 Corinthians 6:9-10. The sixth commandment (seventh in some translations) ("Thou shalt not commit adultery") is also a basis. Jesus taught that indulgence in adulterous thoughts could be just as harmful to the soul as actual adultery, and it is clear that both carry the same weight of guilt: But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Matthew 5:28) Rabbinic Judaism Though the Torah prescribes the death penalty by stoning for adultery, the legal procedural requirements were very exacting and required the testimony of two witnesses of good character for conviction. At the civil level, however, Jewish law (halakha) forbids a man to continue living with an adulterous wife, and he is obliged to divorce her. Also, an adulteress is not permitted to marry the adulterer, but, to avoid any doubt as to her status as being free to marry another or that of her children, he must give her a divorce as if they were married. Also, Jewish law recognizes the "law of the land" in these matters, so that if the law of the land has greater restrictions, then they will also apply. Other historical practices Historically, adultery was rigorously condemned and punished, usually only as a violation of the husband’s rights. Among such peoples the wife was commonly reckoned as the property of her spouse, and adultery was therefore identified with theft. But it was theft of an aggravated kind, as the property which it would spoliate was more highly appraised than other chattels. It is not the seducer alone who suffers. Severe penalties were imposed on an adulterous wife by her husband. In many instances she was made to endure a bodily mutilation which would, in the mind of the Islam Under Muslim law, adultery (extramarital sex in general) is sexual intercourse by a person (whether man or woman) with someone to whom they are not married. Adultery is a violation of the marital contract and one of the major sins and is condemned by God in the Qur’an. Zina means consensual premarital sex. 4 From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia aggrieved husband, prevent her from ever being a temptation to other men again,[28][29] If, however, the wronged husband could visit swift and terrible retribution upon the adulterous wife, the latter was allowed no cause against the unfaithful husband; and this discrimination found in the practices of ancient peoples is moreover set forth in nearly all ancient codes of law. The Laws of Manu of ancient India, for example, said: "though destitute of virtue or seeking pleasure elsewhere, or devoid of good qualities, yet a husband must be constantly worshiped as a god by a faithful wife"; on the other, hand, "if a wife, proud of the greatness of her relatives or [her own] excellence, violates the duty which she owes to her lord, the king shall cause her to be devoured by dogs in a place frequented by many."[30] Sexual Abuse (Child) Prostitution and Pimping Adultery Child grooming · Prostitution of children Portals: Sexuality · Law · Criminal justice Criminal penalties Most western countries have de-criminalised adultery. Adultery is not a crime in most countries of the European Union, including Austria, the Netherlands, Belgium, Finland or Sweden. In the United States, laws vary from state to state. In those States where adultery is still on the statute books, even though they are rarely prosecuted, the penalties vary from life sentence (Michigan)[31], a fine of $10 in (Maryland), or a Class I felony in (Wisconsin) [32]. In the U.S. Military, adultery is a potential court-martial offense.[10] The enforceability of adultery laws in the United States has been / is being questioned following Supreme Court decisions since 1965 relating to privacy and sexual intimacy of consenting adults, in cases such as Lawrence v. Texas. Asia In some East Asian countries, including Korea, and Taiwan, adultery continues to be a crime. In the Philippines, adultery (defined as consensual sexual intercourse between a married woman and a man who is not her husband) and a related crime, concubinage (a man cohabiting with a woman who is not his wife), are considered crimes under the Revised Penal Code of the Philippines. Middle East Adultery had at one time attracted severe sanctions, including the death penalty. In some places, such as Iran, the method of punishment for adultery is stoning to death.[33] It has been suggested that Iranian officials are avoiding imposing the penalty because of social objections. Proving adultery under Muslim law can be a very difficult task as it requires the accuser to produce four eye witnesses to the act of sexual intercourse, each of whom should have a good reputation for truthfulness and honesty. The criminal standards do not apply in the application of social and family consequences of adultery, where the standards of proof are not as exacting. Consequences Sex and the law Social Issues Rights · Ethics Pornography · Censorship Miscegenation (interracial relations) Same-sex marriage · Homophobia Red-light district Age of consent · Essentialism Objectification · Antisexualism Violence · Slavery Public morality · Norms Specific Offences May vary according to Jurisdiction Adultery · Incest Sexting Deviant sexual intercourse Sodomy · Buggery Zoosexuality Circumcision · Female Genital Cutting Sexual harassment · Public indecency Extreme pornography · Child pornography Sexual assault · Rape · Statutory rape 5 From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Indian sub-continent In Pakistan, adultery is a crime under the Hudood Ordinance. The Ordinance sets a maximum penalty of death, although only imprisonment and corporal punishment have ever actually been imposed. The Ordinance has been particularly controversial because it requires a woman making an accusation of rape to provide extremely strong evidence to avoid being charged with adultery herself. A conviction of a man for rape is only possible with evidence from no less than four witnesses. In recent years high-profile rape cases in Pakistan have given the Ordinance more exposure than similar laws in other countries.[34] Similar laws exist in some other Muslim countries, such as Saudi Arabia. In Indian law, adultery is defined as sex between a man and a woman without the consent of the woman’s husband. The man is prosecutable and can be sentenced for up to 5 years (even if he himself was unmarried) whereas the married woman can not be jailed[35]. Men have called the law gender discrimination in that women cannot be prosecuted for adultery[36] and the National Commission of Women has criticized the British era law of being anti-feminist as it treats women as the property of their husbands and has consequentially recommended deletion of the law or reducing it to a civil offense. The Government is yet to act[37]. Extramarital sex without the consent of one’s partner can be a valid grounds for monetary penalty on government employees, as ruled by the Central Administrative Tribunal[38]. Adultery how seriously the adulterer regards the opinions of others. See also • • • • • • • • • • • • • Adultery in literature Affair Cuckold Crime of passion Emotional affair Family therapy / Relationship counseling Fornication Honor killing Incidence of monogamy Mistress Open marriage Swinging Jesus and the woman taken in adultery References Other consequences Adultery may result in unwanted pregnancy, and the laws of the country that cover termination of a pregnancy and of child support come into play. In addition, adultery has been grounds for divorce under fault-based divorce laws. In the original Napoleonic Code, a man could ask to be divorced from his wife if she committed adultery, but the philandery of the husband was not a sufficient grounds for divorce unless he had kept his concubine in the family home. Apart from criminal consequences, historically adulterers have suffered from society’s disapproving attitudes toward them. 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