WE TALK ABOUT … SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE PART 1 (PAGE 10)

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					    The Testimony Christian Newspaper                                                                                                                            11 October 2010 - Page 10
WE TALK ABOUT ...!                                    man would be proved guilty of slandering his
                                                      wife. So seriously is virginity taken that the       DIE VEILIGE GEBRUIK                     Wanneer jy op die dak wil klim moet jy
                                                      prescribed punishment for making such a                                                      seker maak dat die plek waar jy die
                                                                                                               VAN N LEER
SEX BEFORE                                            scandalous false accusation was for him to be
                                                      physically whipped, severely fined and by law
                                                                                                                                                   leer teen die dak sit sterk en veilig is
                                                                                                                                                   om teenaan te sit.
                                                      forbidden to ever divorce his wife as long as
MARRIAGE                                              she lived. If, however, the bride had not been a
                                                      virgin upon marrying, she would receive the
                                                                                                         Gaan die leer na vir enige krake of los
                                                                                                         skroewe. Moet nooit 'n leer skeef laat
                                                                                                                                                   Met 'n reguit lang leer moet die leer
                                                                                                                                                   ten minste 60cm tot 1m bo die dak uit
                                                      same penalty as any man or woman guilty of         staan wanneer jy hom wil gebruik nie.
Part 1 By Grantley                                    adultery (Leviticus 20:10), that is:                                                         steek, sodat u veilig op en af kan klim.
                                                      Deuteronomy 22:21 she shall be brought to the      Kyk of die grond waarop jy die leer
                                                                                                                                                   Indien u 'n opvou leer gebruik moet u
 The only way we can truly understand our             door of her father's house and there the men of    gaan sit nie te sag is en gaan wegsak
 sexuality is to learn from the Creator of sex.       her town shall stone her to death. She has done                                              nooit hoër as die tweede laaste
                                                                                                         nie.
 Jesus, the authority on spiritual matters,           a disgraceful thing in Israel by being                                                       trappie van die leer op klim nie.
 regarded the Bible in a way that staggers even       promiscuous while still in her father's house.     Indien jy 'n lang reguit leer het, moet
                                                                                                                                                   Wanneer op 'n leer staan is dit
 many Christians. For a glimpse at this,              You must purge the evil from among you.            jy altyd seker maak dat sy voette nie
 consider how Jesus quoted Genesis 2:24. The         Note how it is assumed the girl went straight                                                 belangrik om seker te maak jou heupe
 original context Genesis 2:23 The man said,
                                                                                                         meer of minder as een kwart van die
                                                     from her father's care to marriage. People                                                    bly altyd tussen die leer se twee voete.
 “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of          probably married so young in those days that        leer se lengte van die muur af weg
 my flesh; she shall be called 'woman,' for she                                                                                                    Moet nooi te ver na eenkant toe
                                                     sex before marriage was a less prevalent            staan nie.
 was taken out of man.” (24)                         temptation than adultery. This would explain                                                  oorhang nie.
For this reason a man will leave his father and      why the Bible mentions adultery more often          As jou leer die opslaan tipe is, maak
                                                                                                                                                   Kyk altyd na die leer toe. Moet nooit
 mother and be united to his wife, and they will     than fornication (sex between unmarried             seker dat jou leer ordentlik opgeslaan


                 Sex
 become one flesh. (25) The man and his wife         people).                                                                                      agterstevoor op of af van 'n leer klim
                                                                                                         is en al sy veiligheids arms wel in
 were both naked, and they felt no shame.                                                                                                          nie.
Jesus' Comment: “The Creator . . . said...”          The emphasis is on the woman's virginity,           posisie is.
Matthew 19:4 “Haven't you read,” he replied,         simply because there is no corresponding way
“that at the beginning the Creator 'made them        to determine physically (and hence legally) that
male and female,' (5) and said, 'For this reason     a man is a virgin. Not even an intact hymen


                              Before                                                                             Dad will never say
a man will leave his father and mother and be        proves a woman has maintained God's standard
united to his wife, and the two will become one      of sexual purity; it is simply suggestive of the
flesh'?                                              purity God looks for. The biblical principle that
We will see later that this is a key Scripture for   premarital sex is wrong, applies equally to both
a true understanding of sex, but for the moment      sexes.
                                                                                                         Top Ten Things You'll Never Hear          want to consider throwing a party.
note the original context of the verse Jesus         The penalty for adultery applied because any        a Dad Say

                                             Marriage
cited.                                               unmarried woman who kept quiet about her lost                                                 4. Well, I don't know what's wrong
Genesis doesn't introduce this verse with            virginity, can be presumed to have voluntarily
anything remotely like, “God said.” It reads         had sex with a married man.                         10. Well, how 'about that?... I'm         with your car. Probably one of
like a comment from the human author. And            This presumption is reasonable because under        lost! Looks like we'll have to stop       those doo-hickey thingies -- you
yet in quoting this passage, Jesus said these        God's law if an unmarried man had sex with an       and ask for directions.                   know -- that makes it run or
were the very words of the Creator. This is          unmarried woman she could have safely blown
typical of how Jesus revered Scripture. He           the whistle on him. If she wanted to marry him,                                               something. Just have it towed to a
constantly treated the Bible as the very word of     he would be forced to do so regardless of his       9. You know Pumpkin, now that             mechanic and pay whatever he
God. That boggles the mind, but to reject this       wishes and he could never, ever divorce her.
attitude to Scripture is to claim to know God                                                            you're thirteen, you'll be ready for      asks.
better than the world's greatest Teacher and to      This applied regardless of whether pregnancy        un-chaperoned car dates. Won't
pronounce Jesus Christ a deluded fool.               was involved. The man's only                        that be fun?                              3. No son of mine is going to live
Hopefully, I am not so vain as to consider           escape from life-long marital commitment was
myself a greater moral authority than Jesus.         if the woman refused to marry him, in which                                                   under this roof without an earring -
My goal is to have Jesus' attitude to the            case the man still had to pay her full dowry and    8. I noticed that all your friends        - now quit your belly-aching, and
accuracy and supreme authority of the Bible.         suffer public shame. What he did was wrong –
Let's start with the Old Testament foundation        so wrong that it exposed him to life-long
                                                                                                         have a certain "up yours" attitude        let's go to the mall.
on which the Son of God built his teaching.          obligations.                                        ... I like that.
Under the Old Covenant, parents kept as proof                                                                                                      2. What do you want to go and get
of their daughter's virginity the blood-stained      In part 2 we continue with this topic and talk
garment or sheet from the wedding night. If the      about the new testament viewpoint.                  7. Here's a credit card and the keys      a job for? I make plenty of money
husband ever accused his wife of not being a                                                             to my new car -- GO CRAZY.                for you to spend.
virgin when he married her, the bride's parents
would produce the stained cloth. From this the
                                                                                                         6. What do you mean you want to           1. Father's Day? aahh -- don't
                   ACCEPT JESUS AS YOUR LORD AND SAVIOR                                                  play football? Figure skating not         worry about that -- it's no big deal.
                       PRAY THIS SALVATION PRAYER                                                        good enough for you, son?
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 If you feel your life is not right with God, whether you have never had a relationship with God
 or just want to re commit yourself to God, then the first step you have to take when you want           5. Your Mother and I are going
 Christ to be formed in you, is to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.                                 away for the weekend ... you might
 Now that you understand salvation and want to enter into the greatest relationship you have
 ever known, please pray the prayer below from your heart.
 Father God,
 I believe in my heart and confess with my mouth that Jesus is Your Son, the Savior of the
 world. I believe that He died on the cross for our sin and paid the price with His blood. I
 believe that You raised Him from the dead and He is alive today.
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 Father, thank you for loving the world so much that You gave Your only begotten Son to die
 for our sin. Your word says that who so ever believes in Him will not perish but have eternal
 life. I am saved by grace through faith as a gift from you and there is nothing we can do to
 earn salvation.
 I am a sinner and ask for Your forgiveness. I am sorry for all I've done. Wash me, cleanse
 me, take away the stony heart and put in a heart of flesh.

 By faith I receive Jesus Christ now as my Lord and Savior, I believe that I'm saved and will
 spend eternity with You. Now I'm free!
 I thank You Father, in Jesus' name,
 Amen




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