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					 Rebuilding Trust and
Building an Affair Proof
       Marriage



                         written by: Coleta Stewart
                http://www.EmotionalAffairAdvice.com
Rebuilding Trust and Building an Affair Proof Marriage

Rebuilding Trust and Building an Affair Proof Marriage
 If you are serious about guarding your relationship, especially after an affair, then you
 definitely want to take steps to build an affair proof marriage to prevent infidelity from ever
 happening again in your marriage.
 Most affairs don't usually start out as such. The cheating spouse normally will just roll out
 of bed and decide that today is the day that I'm going to lie, deceive and devastate my
 spouse and my marriage. It usually starts out quite innocent enough until it progresses to
 the point of no return and the damage is down. One little lie leads to another and then
 another until the cheater is deep in the mire.
 If your marriage has been devastated by divorce but you and your spouse have decided that
 it is worth saving, then you want to take steps to not only rebuild the trust and honesty but
 also to build an affair proof marriage to prevent an affair from happening again in the
 future.
 One way to do that is for both of you to set strict boundaries for your relationship. You will
 need to decide what type of behavior is appropriate and what type of behavior is not. You
 and your spouse should come to an agreement that you will monitor your actions and do
 your very best not to cross the boundaries that you've established.
 Be mindful of activities, actions, and people that could endanger your marriage. Be
 conscious of potentially dangerous situations such phone calls, emails, texting, coffee, etc,
 that can lead to infidelity. It takes a long time to rebuild trust that has been shattered by lies
 and deceit. It can be a slow and difficult process, but by setting boundaries and sticking to
 them you are on the right track to building an affair proof marriage.
 Rebuilding trust and building an affair proof marriage is a slow and challenging process.
 You need a realistic plan to heal yourself and your marriage it at all possible. You can get
 started on the road to recovery today by simply signing up for the FREE 7-Part Survive an
 Affair course. Visit: http://www.emotionalaffairadvice.com/ now for instant access to the
 course.




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