Understanding Understanding, when I bring a kind of touch when it is less than the total marginal sense, and thus the degree of understanding when talking about necessarily saying nothing, we are talking about understanding, I can not help asking what is understanding? ? Mo, do not say anything, and deeds are, agreements, or joint. Tacit understanding, a common natural compliance, Yihuo harmony. I do not know whether this explanation was accepted. ? For example, in chat when you have not raised the issue, but I have to say the answer, when the common taste in Tiaoyi Fu and the Chinese Communists, some spiritual life, positive attitude towards life, no not the kind of tacit understanding, and is only present in a tacit understanding between the people. But understanding can not go to production. Like watermelon, originally round, when people for storage and transport convenience to become a square, then it is watermelon it? I am also excited that the pleasure of you in my hands? Also I have been eating from here to there the urge to do? You can also use it to the dog wash it? Watermelon can imagine sitting in boat on it? ? I can not imagine, just feel embarrassed, when I put something of a quadrilateral near my mouth, and to prove that it really can be used as fruits that are so-called civilization, when the feeling of oppression and anxiety. When we order to conveniently and quickly, or with other utilitarian purpose to transform a natural object originally, we seemed to get, but if you have to argue that it is the watermelon, I can only barely recognized, that in fact the watermelon is a need for some reason to receive the Quartet of watermelon. Well, logically it is still the watermelon, but for those who cherish the feelings of its people, it still is not it? ? So for understanding, which may not be to measure the number and extent of it, or must improve its quality, and let us do like to enjoy watermelon, at least outside of the Quartet, in addition to its not there are still many things worth treasuring. ? It is just like the music, the two musicians, as long as all the rhythm by playing on the common understanding, and if not to wait until a person was shot and then find harmony together if instead, he was not harmonious. ? Understanding and a common, harmonious, but only those who are different things to harmony. We all know the violin right, crossing a harmonious music is complete different strings. But like many things, like the other, reason is also produced by the end of the Yuan Yin, productivity promote a Xin&#39;s Shengchanguanji of production, and developing to Yidingchengduo Pohuaiyuanyou relations of production will be the civilization of Man, without Huimie of accident, then the final destruction of mankind can only be itself, and is called, in particular less than. ? Therefore, this difference is like the strings, have to learn to play it, and it is absolutely impossible without it, but if he does not understand the law of subjective puppet theater, it is no good the music. ? Tacit understanding that the process of discord to harmony, to recognize the distinction between the process, its psychological motivation is anxiety, that distinction had anxiety because, in order to overcome the anxiety and urge people to seek harmony to balance this anxiety, get peace of mind and happiness. ? Can be said that human life is to complete the process. Baby from the moment you were born that started anxiety, crying, there is a psychological reason for it, which called the original anxiety is due with the mother From unification to Butong a result of, that is because the mother Chan Sheng Yu a Qubie , then is the sense of insecurity, in essence, anxiety. ? Human life in all kinds of contradictions, this so-called contradiction is discord, is different. People to overcome the contradictions of the process is the process of self-identity, or self-psychological process of unification with the outside world. Buddha&#39;s speech is to confuse the root of suffering, that is, lifting the confused, themselves, and close to the real world, to bridge the difference, they removed the sense of insecurity that is anxiety, there is no pain. So some people think that death is free, in fact, return to nature, not a difference, there will be no pain, maybe some truth in it, but this approach for people who want to live is not handy. ? Humanity itself must be anxious, because people must be distinguished from natural. Similar to the human individual, from all things from the man, is from the natural differences between this mother out in the process, lost the protection of nature and hope of human civilization and technology is to abide by the harmony of Guize lift this anxious. ? In psychotherapy, when patients themselves of their condition is not individual, but rather the existence of a group, the anxiety will reduce. ? Back to the love of two people is a solution of the difference. Can not be achieved in the harmony of all people want at least between two people can reach, when, and with a loved one, the heart often have happiness, anxiety will disappear, it is often combined with the psychological dynamic of two people. People always want to find identity, to find a similar group and their own, but the existence of individual differences, in a great harmony within the formation is almost impossible, but two people are the smallest group. So in love, this relationship may often be made more stringent conditions for each other, and this is normal. But to maintain a harmonious love, you should learn to fiddle with its strings, any aggressive behavior may undermine its harmony.