How to communicate with their children Parents to their children nothing less than the three conditions: First, every pipe, tube always done a lot of things, the effect is not good; Second, that everything, do nothing, laissez-faire, indifferent to the result is more bad; third pipe, but also incomplete tube, do not, but all the point, children grow up smoothly. Obviously, &quot;doing nothing&quot; and &quot;doing nothing&quot; are too extreme, biased and undesirable. Outstanding parents always choose &quot;do something but,&quot; more specifically, only do three things. The first thing: to develop good parent-child relationship. Good relationship is better than many educational. When parents of a good relationship with their children, their children&#39;s education are likely to succeed; relationship with the children when poor children&#39;s education are likely to fail. And establish a good parent-child relationship, the key is to &quot;position&quot;: 1, or the &quot;judge&quot;, to learn to &quot;counsel.&quot; Some parents see their children is a problem, when they could not wait to play the &quot;judges&quot;, this is very dangerous. Child&#39;s inner world rich parents to actively influence and educate their children, unaware of their inner world would be impossible. The first tip is to understand the child&#39;s care of their self-esteem, maintain their rights, become a trusted and respected friend. That parents with the child, to as &quot;counsel&quot; to treat their clients as to understand their inner needs, and always to maintain their legitimate rights as the sole purpose. 2, or the &quot;referee&quot;, to learn to &quot;cheerleaders.&quot; In the arena of life, the children to fend for themselves to work on. Both parents can not replace a child, not the free hand to be the &quot;referee&quot;, but should give them a kind of good competitive state power, that &quot;cheerleading&quot; power. This will help the children build self-confidence, which is the core task of home education. Parents do the child&#39;s &quot;cheerleaders&quot;, it is necessary to know how to discover and praise their children, but also guide the children the proper way to failure, so in frustration before the child&#39;s comrades. The second thing: good habits among children. Used to determine the fate of the child, There&#39;s nothing more important than the Habit. If parents do not pay attention to foster the children&#39;s good habits, no doubt put an end to children in the future. 1, all starting from the habit of training. Develop control lifelong education is education. Intellectual habits of mind is good, moral behavior is small, the quality of education is more reflected in the behavior of small people. Considerable evidence that, used to be a tenacious force that can dominate one&#39;s life. All the children started from the habit of training. 2, used to develop not a single day. Habit is a big problem, is great wisdom. Good habits not in a day, its main principles are: low starting point, strict requirements, small steps, fast-paced, multi-activity, changes in demand, fast feedback, Qin correction. Habits of the key in the first three days, decided in a month. Parents should fully respect the rights of children, let children play in the Habit master role. 3, through the habit of cultivating character casting. Education is like the sea sailing, the correct route to travel, otherwise, the ship ran aground the greater the more the danger of sinking. The quality of people determines the direction of human development. Family education, a core task is to develop children to become a real person. However, the cultivation of personality is often difficult to put into concrete action up. However, the researchers found that complementary habits and personality, habits affect the character and personality will affect the habit. Decent, honest, responsible, caring, cooperation, efficiency, attention to character can be used to train through to casting. 3, or the &quot;trainer&quot;, the way &quot;mirror.&quot; Only children can overcome their own understanding of their own, but they usually only based on the feedback of others to know themselves, then their parents, &quot;feedback&quot; effect that is the mirror role is very important. Do not do, &quot;trainer&quot;, to learn to &quot;mirror&quot; to help children improve self-awareness, to let the children of parents without fear of &quot;authority&quot; instead, and their parents. Education is the third religion, seven and so on. &quot;Wait&quot; is very useful. For instance, we look at a mosquito bite, whether it will soon be all right, if the total to scratch, have to be good for a long time. The reason is that the human body have a certain self-healing function, mosquito bite yourself feel better, to exert external force would be counterproductive. Education is also the truth. Stop, wait a minute, the chance to talk to the children, and children, effective communication, education can not solve the problem. The third thing: to guide a child learning to learn. Children love to learn to attract and guide the children learn that learning is an important responsibility of parents is the real charm of the parents. 1, the child is a reason weariness. Absolutely nothing of any of its chic; chaos control blind tube, tending to get beans; chatter chatter, arbitrary beatings; place arranged to create a &quot;machine&quot; ... ... if parents take such a variety of unwise, will only make the child increasingly do not love to learn more. Children do not learn only a superficial love, must be a reason behind it: not to develop good study habits? Is not to find aspects of the child are best at? There is no scientific use of brain? Parents hinder their children&#39;s &quot;play schools&quot; in nature? The child did not realize that learning is a matter for him ... ... to find the reasons behind it may help a child out of the shadow of weariness. 2, the child&#39;s curiosity and learning potential can be excited. They lack the thirst for knowledge, the impact is not usually the parents or strict enough, but blocked the child&#39;s interest. Interest (curiosity), dreams, achievement, challenge, Thanksgiving, strenuously, energies are all clear and inspire children&#39;s curiosity channel. For children, the so-called competitive advantage is the potential of effectively exploiting it. Heart, enlighten, suggesting, speculating, tempering, plan is to stimulate a child&#39;s six principles of learning potential. Although there is no absolute potential development of a &quot;timetable&quot; but there are steps, such as the establishment of goals, emotions, sharpening will focus on points that are very important. 3, the children come first is a method. &quot;Love School&quot; is &quot;to learn&quot; the premise, and &quot;learn&quot; is &quot;love learning&quot; guarantee, &quot;to learn&quot; to &quot;learn.&quot; To test the first child, we must have some good way to have a decisive role, such as: as planned, careful writing, and slowly read a textbook, order the wrong question, readily notes, selfless help students, high-efficiency tests, free to composition and so on. Now many parents educate their children into the issue of a new misunderstanding, that blind obedience and even obsessed with the so-called success in teaching children the tutoring experience, but listening to these experiences easier said than done. Because they do not &quot;transferability&quot; If they simply try to clone, imitation, not only can not put into their child&#39;s body, but easy to &quot;Handan toddler&quot; counterproductive. The most useful things really need to stop and think, refined. Education, parents think their children are not as complicated, do a good job of parent-child relationship, habit training, learning the three events, the parents become the parents of outstanding children&#39;s children to become successful, they are not a distant dream.
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