Mature! First, the six characteristics of human immature People do not because you are older and mature, not because of your age, small and immature, as long as you face the challenge again and again, again and again, you can gradually overcome the maturity to succeed. , Do not want to pay, not the original waiting, give up, never give up are successful, winners never give up! (A) immediately to return, the poor state of mind (1) each get a chance to see the opportunities they are always difficult, always say no! (2) always want to get rich by no means easy to get something valuable, valuable things never make you easy to get, the Olympic champion is the overnight success of it? They are just people in the race was definitely on the results of their training just everything! &quot;Rich Dad Business School,&quot; said the lottery in the United States where over one million, five years of their lives not as good as before. (B) does not self- (1) do not want to change their old way of thinking The most fundamental difference between people thinking the difference is, we want to be successful, we must first change our way of thinking, and then change our behavior, do one thing you light to see the difficulties, you can not even success without thinking, you will become it does not become a miracle? The old way of thinking: they were asked to return, the poor state of mind, give up difficulties, persistent strength is invincible! Old behavior: watching TV, drinking, silly entertainment, playing cards, chess, (2) like to talk behind other people, We call such people idlers, and so do not say we do not listen to pass, even if your argument is a good thing you did not! (3) often complain that the negative behavior People can not be perfect, more or less shortcomings, as long as not a matter of principle, we see the good side, more importantly, you can not always see the faults of others, even if your complaint is right, You do not complain, because winners never complain, complain about those who never succeed! (4) refusing to learn, refused to change The twenty-first century, the world&#39;s three most prominent special startled are: speed, variable, crisis, our response is: learning to change business, you learn faster, the faster you change, you are also successful In fact, the sooner the competitiveness of enterprises today is the talent competition, talent competition is the learning ability of the competition. Now is the era of Dances with Wolves, you want to succeed, you must first become a wolf! Now the rich, another five - ten years 80% will go bankrupt, you want to succeed, you must learn Learning to change = Success ? (C) are often swayed by emotion The tragedy of the world, how much, how many can not tolerate the fear is occurring between people, some people experience something really angry, help feeling angry Five factors in the success of the first major factor is the ability to control their emotions, the second largest is health, the third is time management, financial management Fourth, Fifth, good interpersonal Handle the relationship of the three tips: 1, concern for others than about himself, 2, three no more than three, that is, not blame, do not complain or criticize and praise, more praise, more inclusive, 3, is a good listener, good at communication! Learned ignorance and indifference than passion! (D) do not want to learn, self-righteous, there is no zero mentality China&#39;s national quality difference between developed countries, and magnesium and Japan five years The first indicator is the engineers, doctors proportion The second is the ratio of national investment in education, The third is the national investment in learning time, those who do not study people who are self-righteous, self-righteous people are all very difficult to succeed To learn to go through four stages: Do not learn: No friends and I do not know Learned one thing: I do not know already aware of Re-learning phase; aware of the known The most mature stage: not confidant aware of So the mentality of zero is important for everyone, a sponge, such as not to use water Jigan, can not absorb a lot of water, who is zeroing the sooner the better, who would be more able to succeed. (E) to judge things by intuition, not based on facts We live in a lot of people say do not judge the facts, but by intuition: I thought. . . I think. . . . ? (F) do not rely on faith to do things, by hide Life for myself, not for anyone else alive, other people&#39;s mouth long in other people&#39;s body, how other people would like to say on how to say, you can stop, no one would mistake for their guidance and take responsibility, but in reality many teacher is a good man, Side of the world&#39;s population is 5%, while 95%, 5% of the successful people have been without success before the crazy idiot who called the radio and even in the presence of mad inventors carried to a mental hospital to Because we do not want too many people with the same life, so we are willing to lonely, lonely, people to laugh! Ye Sun 2 selling donkey story. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Second, people battle over the Ten immature ?1, remove the mask of false positive Action learning is not only a day to read to the meeting; Only rhetoric, I want action ...... I ......, there would be no; Know they can not, know that he is very important, just do not do it, that can not mean that do not know! The biggest secret of success is action, action, action,,, would like to wish the dead, do people do not die, followed by taking action to feel natural. ? ?2 out of the cycle of life (1) outside bullied, murderous family back home, this is a inept performance; (2) people blame smb. Wrongly you, you have to tenfold retaliation. ? ?3, often choose to avoid Difficult not to find ways to overcome difficulties, but escape Lincoln said: You avoid the difficulties today, tomorrow you will encounter, You want to leave you a comfortable environment and way of thinking, as a comfortable environment will make you unwilling to change, If you do not want to change you will be changed! After the first bitter sweet, bitter is sweet; first after the bitter sweet, sweet is bitter. Busy music you are young, you are old and no music! If the result is happy, you have to endure all sorts of immediate suffering; if the result is painful, you should strive to avoid the immediate pleasure! Today, what kind of books you see what kind of tape to listen to and what kind of people together, they decided after five years you&#39;re going kind of person. ? ?4, throw away your fantasy, set up your dreams Naive, unrealistic fantasy that, deep in my heart&#39;s deepest desire is to dream, the dream can be realized, human achievements are all the dreams come true result, many of our lives is no dream , a person will ever have a dream after the advance and progress, he is no matter how others look. ?5, Do not change the power produced a shred of doubt The reason why we failed, not rich, because we thought not rich, you want to succeed, must change, as long as you progress a little each day, month, year, five years later, you will be much change what? ? ?6, not to enrich the life of your brain trivia We all have these four things: Important Urgent Unimportant Not urgent A class of things: an important emergency, do today, immediately to complete the emergency is not important, you have to put down! B type things: an important non-emergency, you must establish proper procedures, as unimportant trivia is not urgent, you take it immediately kicked out of our living area! Send you a word: everyone used to cultivate productive, we want to experience, time and money spent on top of the most productive, our habits should be to increase our assets, not liabilities. ?7, do not ignore the passage of time Many people say; Oh, I was two years old before I thirties, the world&#39;s most precious asset is time, and many poor people are wasting their time, you have to have the efficiency of manual development of tomorrow every night to do, so you can save 2-3 hours per day, one week you 5-7 days more than others. ? ?8, do not have to dare to face the failure of escapism Not your incompetence, you do not own grief, &quot;Business School&quot; wrote: We are a traditional school, family education, too much emphasis on the failure, in fact, many prominent figures in the world have committed numerous errors, you must not be afraid to make mistakes, you make error more, you will be successful, winners are able to accept their own failures and mistakes clean up the mess, they see problems as challenges. ?9, in the lazy destroyed before you destroy the lazy Were not successful for three reasons: the fear of success instinct, lazy, bad habits Lazy: lazy thinking, behavior lazy, when we stay away from the lazy, when we stay away from fear, when we change bad habits, we stay away from poverty, from the failure. ? ?10, refrain from self-centered Concerned about others than about themselves, you only help others to succeed you can succeed, when we encounter problems, you must tackle three aspects to consider, first of all you have to stand in someone else&#39;s position, then the thing itself, and finally is yourself!