May 19th by wulinqing


									May 19th
Meet Aw (pronounced Ow). Aw is a Mauritanian who works in the Peace Corps office
in Nouatchouk – the capital city of Mauritania, the country that bounds Senegal to the
north. Aw is Anzie‟s primary liaison at this office, and he has an interesting story to tell.

First of all, we arrived in Nouakchott at 2:30AM last Tuesday. The 50-minute flight on
Air Mauritania from Dakar was six hours late. Having lived here for centuries before
either Christ or Muhammad, the Mauritanians have a different sense of time than we do.
We‟re living in an apartment, which is located in the Peace Corps compound. Actually
it‟s quite nice.

Nouakchott was established as the capital city way back in 1960, when Mauritania gained
its independence from France. In 1960 the town had 300 inhabitants. Now there are
750,000 – one third of the country‟s population. The citizens of this country are
comprised of primarily white and black Moors (descendants of the Moroccan invaders in
the 12th Century), with a minority of black West African tribes – mostly Pular and Wolof.

The Arabic influence is startling. The men wear the long, flowing robes (boubous) and
turbans reminiscent of Lawrence of Arabia. Likewise the women wear beautiful robes
and veils that cover everything but the eyes when they‟re outside. Although French is
widely spoken, Hassaniya, a form of Arabic, is the most common language. Wolof is also
spoken. Most signs are written in both Arabic and French.

The dramatic increase in the city‟s population reflects the change in the Arab lifestyle.
They were rural farmers and wandering tribes until serious droughts forced them to move
to the city. Droughts of the early „80‟s are now being repeated. Last year‟s rainfall is
almost 70% less than the preceding year. After I learned this, I started taking ”GI”

We visited a few of their tents. Rectangular with a hip roof, the outside is muslin beige,
while the inside is covered in a myriad of multi-colored fabrics. Their houses reflect a
similar design: a large, rectangular entrance hall with an ornately decorated ceiling.
Smaller rooms surround the main hall..

Aw invited us to his home for dinner. Anzie cautioned me to remove my shoes before
entering any room with a carpet on the floor. We were entertained in the formal parlor.
Every house has one. It is carpeted with several overstuffed two-person sofas positioned
around the walls. Madam Aw, informally known as Janie, arrived with beverages: bissop
(made from the hibiscus flower), Coca Cola and bottled water.

We were then served a traditional Mauritanian meal, on the floor. The meal begins with
a ritual washing of the hands using a silver pitcher and bowl. We then all hunkered down
around a plate of hors d‟oeuvres, followed by a shared platter of beef and rice. One eats
with the left hand only, no utensils allowed. It took me a while to get the hang of it, but I
managed to get through the meal without any food stains!

All evening long members of Aw‟s extended family entered the room, shook our hands,
muttered greetings and left. Aw‟s extended family numbers up to 25 children, sisters,
brothers, cousins, nieces and nephews – all living under the same roof. Apparently this is
the norm in Arab families. It is common to have several people sleeping in the same
room. Anyone‟s possessions are the possessions of the family. Much as I love them all, I
would have a big problem living under the same roof with my extended family. I can just
imagine having the same fights as I did with my brothers over clothing, for instance.

It‟s a problem for Aw, too. You see, he has experienced the American lifestyle. He lived
in Flagstaff, AZ where he received a masters degree in Agri-Forestry from Northern
Arizona University. He knows what it‟s like to have his very own room, to have
possessions that he could call his own.

“What are you doing in Mauritania with a degree in forestry?” I asked. Mauritania is the
Sahara desert. The streets of the capital city are covered with fine sand. The doors to
every room in every house we visited have a sweep installed on the bottom in a vain
attempt to keep out the fine dust that coats everything. Even though Nouakchott is
located on the ocean, the only trees are palm. “ I plan to plant trees here” Aw replies, and
laughs. His real interest is the environment. His dream is to complete his Ph.D with a
thesis on the subject of an environmental disaster, which is located at a new dam on the
Senegal River.

Aw is a bright, handsome Pular with blue-black skin.. He told us the story of ethnic
cleansing in Mauritania. The story goes that a young contingent of Pular government
officials attempted a coup. It went badly. The leaders were jailed. The Moorish
government then decided to prevent further uprisings by deporting Pulars to Senegal.

Senegal responded by kicking out the Mauritanians. Mauritanians possess a well-
deserved reputation as goldsmiths. Their jewelry is easily identified by the filigree. They
are able to weave gossamer-thin gold filament into amazing designs for earrings,
necklaces, bracelets, etc. As Dakar was a major jewelry market, the end result of the
deportation process was that the baby was thrown out with the bathwater. Things have
calmed down somewhat since then. Many of the jewelers have moved back to Dakar.
Fortunately, Aw‟s immediate family was not uprooted. However, some members of his
extended family lost everything.

We‟re in Mauritania for two weeks. Tomorrow we‟re off on a three day site visit to the
interior. A la prochaine!

Chuck and Anne
I attended Anne‟s classes on the first three Covey Habits at Peace Corps HQ in
Nouakchott. After all these years I was finally able to see her in action. She‟s good! I
got a lot out of it.

That afternoon we took off on a 4 ½ hour trip up country to Atar. We were accompanied
by Rhonda, a Volunteer, and Si, our driver. We passed two dead camels alongside the
road, obvious victims of car collisions. Funny we didn‟t see the cars. A run-in with a
camel has to be as damaging as that with a moose. Those babies are big!

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After 100 kms. We run out of blacktop. The road turns to hard packed sand. It‟s not
exactly smooth; we can‟t write or even read as we travel the washboard. Doesn‟t slow
down Si any. We‟re still doing 70. We listened to Rhonda‟s tapes: Paul Simon‟s
“Graceland” and Youssef N‟Dor. Youssef is famous in West Africa and in Europe. He
combines traditional West African “griot” music with rhythm and blues.

We move through sand dunes to rocky moonscapes to Arizona-like mesas. We pass
snow shovels clearing the road of drifting sand dunes! We stop halfway in Adjout for
water, pee and prayer.

We talked with Si about the prayer ritual five times a day. The definite advantage is that
the ritual serves to focus and center a person. Might not be a bad idea if everyone did it.
It would certainly help to reduce stress levels.

We arrive in Atar. We drop off Rhonda with her boyfriend, a Mauritanian high school
English teacher. We also meet Meghan, a Volunteer from Lewisburg, PA, who is giving
a haircut to a French Catholic priest from Normandy. I wanted to find out what he was
doing living in a country where the state religion is Muslim, but we had to go.

Stayed at the MKT hotel. Room was furnished by the chief interior decorator from
Sparta: a bed and a chair. (From Anne – by standards here it was a very nice room,
colored curtain and a matching bed spread – Chuck is still adapting). But it had AC. The
chef came to our room to ask us what we wanted for dinner. We chose to start with
crudités, followed by grilled chicken and roast camel. For dessert we chose sliced
pineapple. We then nursed a gin and tonic, knowing full well that our bottle of gin had to
last us for another week.

Shared dinner with two Volunteers, Meghan and Adrian. It was fascinating to hear about
their journeys. Just imagine yourself plopped down in a small village in the middle of the
desert for almost 2 ½ years, learning two languages – French and an Arabic dialect,
foregoing creature comforts like air conditioning, hot baths (PCVs take cold bucket
baths), cheeseburgers and beer; befriending people in the community so that you can
convince them to allow you to assist them in accomplishing some project that will better
their lives. “The toughest job you‟ll ever love”, as they say.

During dinner the Mauritanian Minister of Health arrived in a convoy of five 4X4‟s. We
were to see a lot of this group over the next two days.

Off to Chingetti the next day. Chingetti is the real desert! Huge sand dunes surround the
village of 6000 people, crouched like lions, ready to spring and devour the town. Turns
out that the village was indeed a town of 20,000 inhabitants only 40 years ago.
Desertification has taken its toll. The oasis used to be connected to the town. It is now 2-
3 miles away.

As soon as we arrive in the village, Si puts the van in 4-wheel drive. We then spend the
next hour careening about the village searching for Caroline, the local Volunteer. These
are not roads; they‟re sand dunes. At times we‟re pitched at a 15 degree angle as we
travel down lanes only 8-10 ft wide between ancient mud brick and stone houses. We
leave a note on her door. We stop at a women‟s artisanal cooperative. We see some
beautiful rugs woven from wool, reeds and/or leather. “ Have you seen Mlle. Caroline?”,
we ask. “Yes, about an hour ago”, four of them respond simultaneously.

I have noticed that, when you ask a question of a group of Mauritanian Arabs, they all
respond at once, talking over each other. It doesn‟t seem to bother them. No one takes
umbrage and demands that the others keep quiet while he/she speaks.

We stop at the Auberge Caravane for a drink. We climb steps to the rooftop lounge. We
lounge on the cushions and carpets until tea is brought.

Did I explain the tea ceremony? Wherever you go you are offered this strong green with
mint or red tea mixed with sugar. The server pours it into small glasses from a height of
about a foot above the glass. This makes it foam. The custom is to drink three glasses.
Each series is brewed separately using the same leaves. So, the first batch is the
strongest; the third is the weakest. The ritual takes some time, but everyone seems to
make the time.

After tea, we order lunch for 2:00 in the afternoon. The owner is very hospitable. This is
not high tourist season, which runs from October through April.

We then head out to the oasis. It looks just like an oasis should: a bunch of green palms
against a backdrop of café-au-lait sand dunes. Round thatched huts are intermixed with
the same design done in mud. We are welcomed profusely by several Arab gentlemen (
okay, they‟re really white Moors. But they look so different from their counterparts in
Nouakchott) dressed in their long, flowing boubous and turbans. They show us their new
well complete with gas driven pump. They usher us to a large lean-to tent, where we
proceed to lounge once again on carpets and cushions. Although they are busy preparing
to entertain the Health Minister and his entourage, they take time to serve us dates with
crème fraiche along with sweet milk. This is followed by another mint tea ritual. Two of
our hosts sit down with us and proceed to praise the work of the Peace Corps in their
community, both talking at the same time, of course. Nice to hear. They end up by
showing us their new two- room school building.

We head back to the Auberge Caravane and pick up a guide. He takes us over to the
ancient mosque. He unlocks the door to the Bibliotheque. Inside this 15‟X 12‟ room he
shows us these ancient books that he alleges are the oldest books in the Arab world –
around 1450 A.D. Written in ancient Arabic, they are sections of the Koran, or Qoran.
Chingetti is the seventh holiest city in the Arab World. Mecca is Number One. Chingetti
is where people went to study in preparation for making their “Haj”, or pilgrimage, to
Mecca. There are several of these libraries of ancient books in town, each cared for by a
family who has guarded them through 6 hundred years of generations.

We make one last sweep of the town looking for Caroline. We come upon the Health
Minister‟s convoy, wave hello, and head back to the Auberge Caravane for lunch. We‟re
just sitting down to Moroccan Cous-Cous when Caroline shows up. Our lunch takes
three hours, during which we hear Caroline‟s tale. She‟s been through a lot both
physically and emotionally. She is an environmental education volunteer, a new
program. It is very unstructured and she has had to discover ways of getting the local
primary schools and women‟s groups to plant gardens. She is a very dedicated young
woman and type A and it has been very frustrating for her to go at the local pace – hard
for her to see the accomplishments she is making each day. Fortunately she‟s broken on
through to the other side. Her local language is great, several gardens are in place and
she has many friends. Hopefully when schools reopen in September, she‟ll be able to
introduce environmental curriculum.

After lunch Anne decides she wants to buy a rug she saw at the women‟s craft co-op. We
find the lady with the key at a ceremony where the Minister of Health is celebrating the
construction of a new hospital. The whole village is there. We are introduced to the
Minister, the mayor and several others as if we are visiting dignitaries. The mayor asks
us to stay. We beg off saying we must get back to Atar. Caroline appears to be known
and loved by all. This experience has obviously been life-changing for her in a very
positive way.

On our way back to Atar we take a short side trip to visit “Site Ruperte”, a rock overhang
containing prehistoric pictographs, or cave drawings. Surprisingly the animals depicted
don‟t exist in this area: giraffe, elephant, lion, rhinoceros -- animals of the Serengeti, the
savannah. These 6000 year old drawings give us a clue about what the environment of
this arid landscape used to be. Perhaps it gives a glimpse into the future if desertification
continues at its present rate.

We arrive back in Atar and search for a hotel. We end up at the Hotel WaHa. The rooms
are individual stone cottages – round with thatched roofs. Nice-sized bathrooms, air-
conditioned and cable TV! I visit the dining room to see about dinner. I am informed
that they are full this evening. They are preparing a dinner for the Minister of Health and
his party of 50. We can‟t seem to get away from this guy! He‟s following us all over
central Mauritania!

We are discussing where to eat with Si when the head chef runs out to tell us that he
would be happy to let us share in the “Meshoui” he is preparing for the Minister‟s party.
He invites Si to eat with us gratis. Si begs off. He‟s staying with friends.

We adjourn to our room to prepare for dinner. We shower and change. We make gin and
tonics, using the last of our gin. So much for rationing it over our stay. We take our
drinks up to the roof dining area, where we view the preparations. The floor is covered in
oriental rugs and large rectangular pillows. We are welcomed by the Director of
Exploitation (P.R.), Mr. Amat. He explains that they have brought in seven sheep from
Nouakchott, along with a team to prepare the Meshoui – barbecued mutton with grilled
potatoes, vegetables and sautéed onions. We explain that we had left the Minister‟s party
in Chingetti sometime ago, and that they looked like they were along way from leaving.

Mr. Amat appeared to relax. He directed a waiter to serve us the traditional mint tea. He
also offered me a cigarette, a Marlboro, which I accepted as simply good manners. Anne
informed me that I couldn‟t expect any lovin‟ with the smell of cigarettes on my breath. I
gave the matter deep thought … for a nanosecond. I surmised that one lousy Marlboro
was no match for the fragrance of oniony meshoui.

Good readers, please don‟t take this one little slip as a sign that our love is on the wane,
that I am too quick to forsake love for vice. It‟s just that I firmly believe that the sharing
of a smoke with another man is a kind of bonding ritual. Creeping rationalism? I think

It was my first cigarette in a long while and made me light-headed. I still enjoyed it.

After the prescribed hour, we descended the stairs to the dining room. Dinner began with
the traditional plate of crudités. Then the head chef arrived with two assistants to present
and serve the meshoui. The large platter contained an entire leg of mutton together with
the assorted onions, potatoes and assorted veggies. Chef carved the mutton and served
our plates. It was very good, even though this particular sheep might well have died a
natural death from old age and dodging a few too many cars on the streets of Nouakchott.

The Minister‟s party arrived just as we were finishing up at about 10:00. We went out to
join the welcoming party. He was as surprised at the coincidence as we were. We joked
a bit about following each other. He explained that he was heading back to Nouakchott
right after dinner. We bid him “Bon Appettit” and waddled to our cottage. We purposely
didn‟t mention our meal, knowing full well that the chef had double-dipped. He had
charged both the Minister and us for our meshoui. Still, the hotel and the dinner turned
out cheaper and of better quality than the previous night.

The next we picked up Rhonda and headed back to Nouakchott.

Hi everyone. At last a letter from me also. I have been so busy working that I've left
Chuck to be our scribe. It is Sunday morning. Chuck has a head cold so he is still
sleeping in Nyquil bliss.

I hope he'll feel better in a while since we bought a car yesterday - YEAH - and were
planning on doing some exploring today. Sunday is the best day to explore downtown,
since the streets are almost empty - not their usual craziness. We are also still exploring
ways to go from our house to my office and town. Every time I take a taxi, they go a
different way - so we want to explore some ourselves. The car we are buying is a 1990
Nissan Sentra, but it only has 45,000 miles on it. It belongs to a woman from USAID
who is working regionally in Food Relief. She is moving to Nairobi - she hopes! The
situation is very unstable there and the US government is offering evacuation to
employee families. Nancy is going back to the states on leave until August, and
hopefully things will have quieted down by then. Though we feel in no danger here,
because of the random bombings happening around the world, security has been
heightened at US facilities like the Embassy, USAID and Peace Corps.

Yesterday, we had a great time driving around exploring. What a sense of freedom!!
There is a lovely couple from Ghana - he is the auditor for Plan, International and travels
all over Africa and she is a big, warm African mama. They lived for ten years in
Oklahoma and the kids are more American than African. Though a nurse, Clara has
started her own little business in her back yard - raising chickens! She makes her own
organic feed and slaughters and preps them herself. So yesterday, with the freedom of
the car, we went and found her house and bought 3 big fat frozen chickens. We have a
lovely new meat store across the street run by a French person, but their chickens are
4500 francs a kilo ($7.50) versus Clara for only 1800 ($3) a kilo. A major problem she
faces is the very high cost of constructing her pens. Wood is very expensive here - even
really junky wood. So we are going to do a barter - if our sea freight comes in a wooden
case, we'll trade to wood slats for chickens!

Work continues to be very interesting for me. While in Mauritania I led the first 5 of
Covey's 7 Habits and the staff really enjoyed them. The ones about having the ability to
make choices and then prioritizing based on your own personal values raised a long
dissuasion about the tension in an Islamic culture between individual freedom and the
obligations of family and others. The staff who have lived and studied overseas, face
serious personal issues when they return home and find themselves, like Aw, caught
between what their needs and the needs of extended families with their expectations.

We also had a long discussion during the listening habit (Seek first to understand, before
you are understood) about differences in American and Mauritanian communication
patterns. While Americans tend to be more open and frank, verbally showing anger,
frustration or sadness, Mauritanians don't. When upset, they are told by others to calm
down and let it go since all that happens is Allah's will. Or even make jokes. You are
upset because you have lost a lot of money somehow, and instead of others (from our
view) being understanding and supportive, they will laugh and say, "Well, I guess Allah
thought you were too rich!" The cross-cultural issues come up when Volunteers come to
talk with the Mauritanian staff about problems or issues; they often feel put down or not
listened too. So we did some role plays about listening more empathetically to the
American staff and volunteers.

I also helped to design and then facilitated a 2-day review of an Agro-foresty Project that
had just completed after 5 years. In addition to a field evaluation, we had 24 very diverse
people (American PCVs, village counterparts, regional supervisors, and national ministry
officials) come together, and using a very participatory process complete the evaluation,
and then outline a plan for a new eight year project. It was very interesting and people
really worked hard and shared openly their thoughts and ideas, thought the process was
new to most of them. My French still isn't great, but people can understand me, and often
my mistakes or mis-statements lighten up the workshop and make people laugh.

We are back now in Dakar for a couple of weeks, then off to Niger for a week in mid
June. It was good to come home - the house is slowly turning into a home ass we have
more and more personal things around. While in Nouakchott, we bought to wonderful
pieces of art. One is a gorgeous wall hanging that is quilted from all sorts of beautiful
pieces of fabric to create a picture of a mosque and city skyline at night. It is done by a
Danish woman married to a Mauritanian, and although Danish, the piece captures so well
the rainbow of colors seen in the tents and houses here. The other is a wonderful painting
by a 15-year-old who I think is going to be really well known some day.

Well, I'm going to wake up Chuck now and see how he feels and maybe drive downtown,
exploring. We are delighted that our friend John Hutchison is arriving Tuesday on his
way home from a contract - it will be good to share what we have here. And then so you
don't worry about us working too hard, on Wednesday we are driving up to Saint Louis
for a jazz festival. We're staying at a resort on the ocean and it should be great!!
Thursday is a holiday as is Monday. We'll spend my birthday listening to Jazz and
having grilled shrimp at the beach.

Love & hugs to all.

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