Please put away your hand ?Parents, friends, please put away put away your hand ?I thought at this age of civilization and barbarism, is not much domestic violence, and not resort to the parents, and students can watch many letters describing the conflict, parents, children&#39;s events are still easily beat uncommon. Parents frequently hit child: the child test scores are not high --- play, children do not care prostrate the apparatus --- play, the child care of younger brothers and sisters are not satisfied --- fight, even without any fault of the things that children, parents do not ask indiscriminately hit. child unable to Bianbai he says to me do not own parents are ignored, arbitrarily imposed on the children faults, also dubbed the charges of lying even further to play. Watching children&#39;s talk, themselves can not help but put themselves placed in his description of the environment, could not help himself attached to this child who earnestly felt by the parents to fight the pain, feel he suffered a heart attack to touch the His wounds glowing sad, enjoy the taste of his wronged, which is very sour. read between the lines of the real grievances with their cries of emotion, sometimes, their own was moved to tears, was shocked to be told not cope Qu . Grievances frustrated playing the elan of a child Child&#39;s mind is Jiejing&#39;s. Not his own mistakes, parents framed his fault, his soul will suffer a tremendous blow, he could only cry and say it is not their doing, they can not fine that details surrounding the matter, but parents should not be a slap on the child Annotated coming. the child cried and said he does not, he would not do, parents say he quibble, to criticize him so little to learn lie, the children cried out again, he did not lie, still do not believe parents or their children. at this time and beat the child&#39;s parents ask ourselves, they are so small, in this case, that&#39;s what lies? their lies is where to learn come from? you usually teach him sincere and trustworthy, how can he play at such a heart that? This is not on your own self-confidence and teaching ability is not suspected Why?, of course, also suspected of other people&#39;s parents and their children, thought it was someone else rendering him. you lead a positive impact on him, he would not lie. If you hard and forced him to recognize the lie, he will in your future under threat gradually started lying. Only in this way will let you stop beating, it seems that only this way that you want. So, you destroyed the child on the right to judge the true and false, you destroyed the admiration of your children, destroyed the child&#39;s lively and cheerful. what is left is the child of a stomach of grievances and eyeful of tears, as well as long-term grudges, so that children unhappy become withdrawn negative. ?Your playing diluted loss of friendship, family Child&#39;s heart is fragile, and their memory has very strong and easy to learn and follow. Parents wronged him, beat him, he will bear in mind in mind, the formation of long-term psychological shadow, afraid you will not mind would have to tell you frankly. so the child would not be friends with you, you also lose a wing, can not go deep into the child&#39;s inner world to close their souls. child afraid of you, adding the distance from the heart, As a result, children can easily quiet and inclined inward, not conducive to children&#39;s mental health. and the children make friends, this is a great asset, but also great power, very unfortunately, frequently do not hit the child&#39;s parents do not know feel the discarded this wealth should be natural to lose a lot of joy. so, some parents complained their children are often not as good as other people&#39;s children how to others how the education it? Yes, you do not have to pay attention to details, child is bit by bit from the usual details of the monasteries of your guidance, and gradually formed a shadow of him with all of you. parents that allow kids to play lesson memories, but you play there was a misunderstanding and grievances They fight, and you remember the error is. children will remember you as my brother and because her son preference, the child will remember you hit him because of misunderstanding is not considerate of her, the children will remember you as their own The private and because of his overbearing arrogant. Perhaps you simply do not understand how there friendship family does, this is what you are failures. You own as I, high above, the child insufferably arrogant, naturally alienates the child from your mind. Child mind he also reluctant to tell you that there do not want to share with you mind, you can only fear the distance,. a long time, you naturally think &quot;standing above the crowd,&quot; the. friendship instill Fusion family, the family will become intimate happy and harmonious. ? China Radio and TV publishers &lt;sister sister Peking University Tsinghua University&gt; Writers Association of Shanxi Province, author of Miss Zhao Suoxian member, tens of thousands of parents to China set a model for educating children, her eldest daughter, Yang Pingping exams and Nankai University in 1997, 2001, was admitted to Peking University Guanghua School of Management graduate, in 2003 admitted to Peking University Guanghua School of Management PhD; second daughter Ting-Ting Yang tally 1998 Tsinghua University, Tsinghua University, 2002 Master of direct reading. She said in the book: beats a failure is the practice of child and scolding the child&#39;s parents are extremely incompetent and can only be destroyed children&#39;s elan, destroyed family, playing discord. Dear friends, parents, Care, you would like other people said you about this not OK that&#39;s not right? If you would like your child to amount to anything, you say three times a day where a child row. where the child, said a special that no relations even if a little exaggerated, the more child rows, the child The more lines; not do each other the less, do not say, go beyond that. If you must for your child to say &quot;You are very stupid,&quot; &quot;No you can not,&quot; &quot;You good for nothing&quot;, I&#39;m sorry, your child can only No really, really good for nothing was.