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This is an essay (1500words) I did on domestic violence. It has statistics and explains why such events occur in our society today as we see it.

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									I would like to start by introducing a few interesting UK government statistics. Every year in the

UK alone domestic violence costs society £6 billion. (Medical-News) Domestic violence comes in

many shapes and forms, this ranges from; domestic violence, rape and sexual violence, sexual

harassment, and can go on as far as trafficking and sexual exploitation. 3 million women across the

UK will experience domestic violence each year. On average 1 in 4 women will encounter domestic

violence in their lifetime and two women are killed every week as a result to their current or former

partners. Statistics shows us that domestic violence accounts for 14% of all violent incidents with

women and children being at high risk of repeat victimisation, regardless of age, gender, religion,

sexuality, or wealth everyone is susceptible to domestic violence. (Women's Aid). The police

receive a phone call every minute because of reports of domestic violence, that's 1,300 calls a day

and 570,000 a year with 99% of all reports against women with men being the perpetrator.(Home

office research study 191-the assailants) Even though it is impossible to know the full figures and

statistics, these statistics alone is enough proof that domestic violence is a big concern in the UK. It

will continue to be until there is adequate punishment and education for assailants that commit the

offence and the persons that re-offend. Although domestic violence is represented as a 'taboo'

subject to most women that experience it, we don't know how many people will go without

reporting such crime. It is also known in the UK that repeat victimisation is very high, with 44% of

women will be involved again in domestic violence. (Dodd et al, July 2004) And it’s important that
support continues for victims and help remains at hand to stomp such a terrible crime out of the

society and out of the lives of the people in the UK.

Many people think domestic violence is just that -a domestic with punching, kicking, slapping etc-

but it’s much deeper than that. When I first started this essay I thought the same as many people but

after further research I now know it can be “physical, sexual, emotional, psychological or financial

violence that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship, ” (Women's Aid).

A person that commits this sort of atrocity does this because they adopt and maintain behavioural

patterns in which these patterns will then allow them to gain and maintain control over another

person. From my research I've found many articles that state such things as an abuser does not play

fair, this is true, they break down the women's self esteem, self confidence. Then what follows is

women then start to believe what the man has told them to be true and where violence occurs the

batterer will always insist the victim was to blame for the violence. ( (women's web,)

Why does domestic violence occur? A man that commits domestic violence may well say they

committed this offence because “I suffer from stress, I have financial difficulties, family

dysfunction, or have poor communication skills” but this is not the cause it’s just casting blame on

outside circumstances. Some abusers say they commit abuse because they have anger problems but

this is just a front. This is because usually the only victim is the partner; you hardly would see the
abuser assaulting another individual and this is most likely because he does not want to blow his

cover that he is an abuser. Abusers have a cycle of behaviour; this is abuse, guilt, excuses, normal

behaviour, fantasy and set up. (The Cycle of Violence in Domestic Abuse).

Another Theory for domestic violence is the “Brain Damage Theory” Frank Elliot is a psychiatrist

from the Pennsylvania hospital and believed that wife assaulters committed there violence because

of an aberration in the limbic system of the brain which in turn causes explosive rage or episodic

disscontrol. Frank also stated that the most common condition in domestic violence is lobe epilepsy

which is where the brain uncontrollably commits electric discharges in the brain. Frank believes

that the cause of this could be past trauma to the brain, such as interruption to the oxygen supply at

birth or a past accident.

Human development is the process of becoming biologically mature and the expansion of human

capabilities, it could be said that a person’s well being can depend on how well their human growth

and development has developed through them growing up. Over the decades women have had to

adjust in lots of ways. There was a time when women had to stay at home cook, clean, look after the

children etc. While men believed they were the bread winners and the masculine icon whilst around

the house they were getting waited on hand and foot by the wife. This has changed considerably to

this present day and women lead pretty much the same lives as men, they go to work and enjoy
nights out and most of all they have a bigger say in the home and society in general.

Though it is a good point to note that they often get overlooked in occupations and in certain work

places and this will stop a women's chance of reaching their self actualization. This could be a

possible reason why men use violence in a relationship as they may feel threatened that their role

has been taken as the bread winner of the family and feel undermined. This would almost certainly

be the case if the male has old fashioned anti-feminist views such as women should stay at home

and look after the children and house chores.

Human empowerment has a few interesting meanings, one being is ones individual strength to make

decisions. Empowerment is all about taking and being in control and being in a position to influence

others. Abusers use empowerment strategies to gain control of the victim, whilst this is happening it

is also having the opposite effect on the victim by lowering their empowerment and self-esteem.

This can lead to the victim being isolated and submerged under the power of the abuser and being

left feeling there is no way out.

Many people ask the question 'why do women stay in violent relationships?' And that if they wanted

to leave why don't they? This in its self is casting blame on the victim by asking a question, when

instead the real question should be, why do men commit battery? Women stay for many reasons as

during a violent relationship they are often experiencing many emotions, one of which is being
scared of their partner. The following main reasons for women to stay in a violent relationship are

due to lack of resources available to the victim. Most victims have at least one dependent this can

affect the way the victims mental state thinks because they normally think what's best for their

child. Another reason is they may not have employment which then means they don't have access to

money which they could then use to help them escape from the violence. If they are not in

employment the chances are that they also do not socialise as much as those people in employment

if not at all. This can leave them feeling worthless, isolated, trapped and insecure. The most

common reason I would say from my research is that they stay because they fear their lives would

go dramatically downhill or decline for themselves and their children and no parent wants this to

happen. It is also a good point to note that many women from many ethnic backgrounds and

religions have beliefs, beliefs that they should always be with the child's father or that it is unethical

to not live with the person they are married to. I think it’s important to show victims there is a way

out if they just stand up and find the courage and make that first move to be having a violent free

life and see there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

We know very little on the experiences and lasting effects of domestic violence where children are

concerned. In most cases where domestic violence is noticed, children go overlooked and do not

receive the support they need and so deserve. (Gorin, Sarah, 2004) After all it is not the children's
fault and nor is it the victims. What we do know is children are more aware of what’s going on than

the parents think, but they don't understand why it is happening and can lead to the child often

refusing to open up their emotions which in turn will affect their development and the way they see

family life and development of future relationships. Children can and are used as a weapon in

relationships. This can be done in a variety of ways, by keeping the children close to the abuser he

knows the mother won’t be going anywhere in return she will not leave him and will watch what

she says when other people are around. The children always being with him or in his grasp also

gives him chance to emotionally groom the child or children by doing so the children will start to

become more attached to the father than the mother. Another reason the children can be used like a

weapon is by the abuser always putting down the mother to them and degrading her confidence, if

this happens it could be impossible for the mother to regain and keep control over her children

when needed. Over a third of victims who had children said their child was aware of the last assault

they experienced. Children are emotionally and mentally and on occasions physically used in

domestic violence and can also be the subject of abuse, of both physical and mental behaviour or

both by the abuser. Children are used against the victim in situations by under-mining the

victim/parent, a good example of this is the mother saying one thing to their child and the abuser

saying the total opposite. Also this can be done by verbally abusing the victim in sight of the

children and putting her down which lowers her self esteem. If this happens it is in most cases
creates a bases for children to think this is acceptable behaviour and there for adopt and accept the

mental and physical aspects of the abuser.

Things are being done to help domestic violence victims, domestic violence injunctions are widely

used across the UK. There are two types of injunction orders: a non molestation order which is

“aimed at preventing your partner or ex-partner from using or threatening violence against you or

your child, or intimidating, harassing or pestering you”, which if broken carries a maximum of 5

years in jail, the other is an occupation order which “regulates who can live in the family home, and

can also restrict your abuser from entering the surrounding area” (women's aid-getting an

injunction). Although a law change would be appropriate because I believe there are inadequate

ways of enforcing this law. I say this because many victims report still being contacted by the

abuser after an injunction has been enforced. And after all, if an abuser broke their injunction it

could already be too late for the police to intervene. I'm a big believer that prevention is better than

cure, if a cure is needed then it has already happened and is already too late and all that is left to do

is pick up the pieces, but if prevention happens then it can be the first step to preventing domestic

violence happening in the first place, surely this is the way forward. Things that can be done to help

prevent domestic violence are educating people while they are young and to show them that

violence is unacceptable. There is also therapy for abusers which may help them change their ways

this is called Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) which can help change how the person thinks
about their self, the world and think about other people. Although this is not a quick solution it is

very effective. (The Royal Collage of Psychiatrists) It is a shame that prevention only occurs after

the incident has already happened but as long as support and help for abusers and victims remains

readily available hopefully statistics in the future will show a sharp fall in domestic violence.

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