Good title, that "I'm Not There," he says with a smile in his voice. But since that was taken, he chuckles, that explains why this film is called "The Messenger," opening Nov. 13."Impacted? Yes, I understood the idea of being the 'other' - of trying to dissociate oneself from what is before you," he says of having seen war waged. "And also the problems of reintegrating into society.""It's like what happens with jury duty," he says of friendship forged, then forgotten. "Everybody goes in a different direction."