“How To Write A Facebook Profile”
27 Quickie Techniques For Using The Full Potential Of Your Facebook Profile By “Pimpin” Every Damn Profile Area That’s Available To You…So You Can Meet And Date The Woman (Or Women) Of Your Dreams On FB
- Special Report By Dennis Miedema, Win With Women © 2009, All Rights Reserved.
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F*cking Up The Full Potential Of Your Profile…
You want to know something funny? There are several million, no TENS OF MILLIONS of men trying to meet and date women online, and it’s the same number for men who’re trying to do that on Facebook. In all the time I’ve been meeting and dating women on the internet via around 11 different, social networking sites, I’ve discovered an amazing secret that seems so obvious…but eludes so many of us. You see, 99% of the men online use only ONE THIRD of the full potential of their profiles…while the remaining two thirds only SERIOUSLY INJURE the chances of them ever achieving success. And that’s when they’re knowing what they’re doing with that one third of potential, or things are sure to get even WORSE for them (how does RUINING your chances online forever and ever sound?)
But…What’s The Cause Of This Massmurdering Of The Chance To Get A Date Via The Internet, By So Many Men?
It’s NOT using all the areas of your profile that are available to you, because you either: - DON’T know they EXIST, or… - DON’T know how to USE them On Facebook, there are EIGHT profile areas (and them I’m grouping some into one BIG area) you can use to MULTIPLY the amount of women who will message YOU first…and to MAXIMIZE the effect of the messages you reply so you’ll have more women eagerly awaiting your reply than you can handle. And the brutal truth is: the vast majority of males who’re looking to get a date on the Web are only using THREE of these profile areas and, if they DO know about other profile areas, they DON’T know how to use them to create attraction. Do you understand what this means? It means that the majority of their profile (2/3 or 66%) is WASTED SPACE and if the other three areas are done well (and they almost never are), the huge amounts of wasted space will SABOTAGE their attempts at meeting women. I highly recommend you check out the profiles of other MEN after reading this Special Report, just so you’ll see how much they SUCK (so you’ll know how much women you can meet when you do it right because other men don’t stand a chance against your profile). And it means that you, IF you know what these profile areas are and how to “pimp” them so not even a tenth of an inch of space on your profile is wasted because EVERYTHING is designed to create attraction…that you’ll have an unfair advantage over every single rival for as long as you keep your profile up there!
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Let alone the effects on the number of messages you’ll receive (think a TENFOLD increase in very interested responses from women here) Let’s dig in…
The Hidden 8 Facebook Profile Areas That Will Seriously BOOST The Number Of Conversations You’ll Have Online, If Used Correctly…
1. Photos She'll look at your photos FIRST, because a picture will tell her so much more then just some words..plus it tells her if you're cute or not. You can use them to let her know: she has competition (photos of you & other women), that you are a REAL guy and not some guy who's trying to be smooth (photos of you & family or friends), that you have a sense of class & style (your wardrobe and the people you hang out with on your photos, etc.), and more…see my other topic in this board for some more world-class tips. Things to do - Show her you’re a desirable man with options and who’s comfortable around women: include 2 photos of you hanging out with cute women - Don’t try to be mister smooth and show women you’re a real person, a people’s person: include a photo of you and family, and 1 of you and friends - Avoid drug abuse, mooning the camera (showing your naked *ss, I can’t understand why some guys think THAT will help) and constantly the same background and clothes (if you don’t want to bore them to DEATH) - Make her desire to join your exciting life: include some photos of you on vacation, traveling, or in beautiful settings (sunset, in front of a waterfall, etc.) - Smile, once upon a time there was this little research project where women were given photos of two guys, one smiling and the other with a straight face, and asked which one was more attractive…guess what? The smiling bald guy won from the straight faced guy that still had hair - Show your passion and talents (if you love icehockey for example, use a photo of YOU doing it) 2. Descriptions The area where you can talk freely about yourself, women watch HOW you talk about closely to find out who you are: it shows them if you're confident, if you're exciting or just some boring guy, if you're attractive or...a total wussy or a needy guy, etc. From your descriptions she can tell whether or not you have standards and an exciting life she would like to join.. Things to do - Don’t be boring…and use humor in your descriptions, use some emoticons (those :P and (A) and ☺ thingies, as they add EMOTIONAL impact, hence the name) and EMPHASIZE some words to again give everything you say more IMPACT
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Tell about crazy experiences, wild adventures or your greatest passions and talk about it VIVIDLY: no I went to A, B and C but sensory details (how the setting smelled, sounded, felt, the colors and shapes) and emotional drama (how did you feel: anxious, happy, sad, enthusiastic, delighted, in love, etc.). Why? Because it lets her imagine it like she’s there herself, which makes it compelling to talk to you more..because you tell such great stories Show some standards: make fun of outrageous types of women you don’t like (for example pervy chicks surfing the internet looking for dudes to take advantage off or murderous stalkers faking as church women so they can get away with their homicidal tendencies, both are outrageous and will make a women LAUGH – which is a good thing)
3. Wallposts This is the area where a woman can see how OTHER people talk about you, which tells her if you're a social guy who's comfortable around women (and not some nervous introvert), whether she has competition (making her jealous and want to fight for you), if you have fun and an exciting life and so forth. Things to do - Women receive 30-50 messages from men PER DAY, but only a handful of wallposts per week…so don’t hesitate to drop a wallpost and see what happens, because you’ll stand out MUCH faster and standing out online among millions of competitors is half the victory Mr. Reader - Let other women happily chat away on your wall and do the same on theirs: it lets other women know they have competition and that you’re a desirable man..(and I don’t have to tell you how jealousy can rush things ahead because she just HAS to have you all to herself, do I?) 4. Interests What you like and dislike, it's the standard yes/no kinda questions on your profile...which she'll have a look at to see if you have things in common. But there are cool things you can do with interests to create massive amounts of curiosity and attraction.. Things to do - Don’t be a good boy and fill in everything with boring crap, use humor like this…Hobbies: baseball, going out, crocodile wrestling, movies. I call this one the “odd one out” (remember that childhood game?), and you can use it to make her laugh, to be outrageous or even slight naughty (Hobbies: working out, mountainbiking, posing for the Playgirl) - Include an interest women like too here and there, such as: icecream (Ben & Jerry’s or Haagen Dasz), soaps (The OC, Prison Break, etc.), movies (Pirates Of The Caribbean for example) 5. Groups Social networks have all kinds of groups (like the "Asian corner" and the "latino pride" or whatever), and being a member not only allows you to talk to a woman easier (by talking
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about a common interest - the group you two are in) and there are many other ways too: forums, blogs of someone else (or yourself), etc. Things to do - List every single place you've ever gone to school or worked. This will make it a lot easier for people who have known you in the past to find you on Facebook. Also, when class reunions come up, you'll be invited! It’s also easy to look for women who went there and easily start a conversation about it because you have something in common (it’s meeting women in college, AFTER college now you’re don’t have to deal with puberty anymore) - Join groups of your hobbies, likes, passions and activities…because having fun conversations with women who SHARE your passions is so easy, a baby could do it - When you’re a member of lots of groups, blogs and forums and post messages there, you’ll become a familiar face (or better: one of the popular dudes) and make lots of friends..those friends have female friends too, which you can meet 6. Friends Friends can tell a lot about a guy...how open minded he is (does the NYC guy only know New Yorkers or other people too? do you have black, latino or whatever nationality friends too?) and being open minded equals spontaneity, which women love. If you have female friends you can use that to let a woman know you have options, to create jealousy, competition...and there's lots more! Things to do - Let them know you’re a confident, open minded and desirable man…and have some female friends to create jealousy, have friends from all walks of life to show that you’ve been to places and are a REALLY social guy (this is social proof: that you have a life of your own and that you’re comfortable around other people, and women) - The girl you sent a message has female friends you probably wouldn’t find on your own because they set their profiles to “visible to friends only” or live in the smallest towns that you didn’t even know existed…so why not message them too? Her male friends (and yours too) also know women you won’t find that easily, why not message them too? 7. Media Sure you can put music or videos of Mortal Kombat, Star Wars, bloody violence and death metal bands on your profile...but the fact of the matter is: that's not what compells most women to find out more about you. Outrageous videos do attract women however, funny videos do too, r&b music does that as well…and so forth. Read on for other kick ass tips & tricks on the next page…
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Things to do - Show a hottie that you’re a trendy guy who stays current, that you know what women like and that you have good taste…and include some r&b, soul or nice & slow pop on your profile playlist - Don’t be afraid to show your sense of humor: include a funny video, a piece of a comedian’s show (Jeff Dunham for example is very popular these days) - A little mystery here and there works as well, so include a video of a magic trick, an illusionist..you get the idea 8. Design Women like a man with a sense of style, with good taste..and a profile that looks better than just plain black & white simply compells women LESS than a profile with a cool background, a nice design, etc. Things to do - Use contrasting colors to make sure women can read EVERYTHING you have to say (plus, don’t overdo the happy happy factor with bright yellow OR the I’m as despressed as people can get look with grey and black) - Before signing up, choose a name that SAYS something compelling about you: not Brad10456, but if you love surfing waveswarriorbrad, not Timabcd but if you’re a lumberjack champchoppertim…it sparks curiosity and shows your talents (which is attractive)
Some Simple Facebook Profile Strategies
Strategy #1: Update your profile as much as possible Redecorate the place once in a while will ya? Change the theme, maybe do something special for the holidays or other special events. Move things around. Add new photos or move old ones to the front. Try to improve all the profile areas even more, possibly even rewrite your profile once in a while and DON’T bore your women. Create new and interesting things for them to come back to. Strategy #2: No fillers Don’t write things like “I like snowboarding” in your descriptions, because that may seem like a big deal too you because you’re a snow junkie…but to women? It’s meaningless. So tell them WHY you love it: how does it make you feel when you’re boarding down the snowy hills at insane speeds? Use the “Reason Why” for all your passions, hobbies, interests and activities and you’ll DOUBLE the number of women who’ll reply to your messages or send you one first.. Strategy #3: Being able to see each other’s profile On Facebook, you can’t view other people's profiles if you aren’t friends with each other, unless you are both in the same network. Seems like a disadvantage, right? It isn’t when you network your but off! But don’t choose a geographical network (based on where you live), always choose your school or college as your primary network. Geographical networks tend
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to be looser, because it’s harder to start a conversation based on “so hey you live in Australia too huh? Niiice!” That’s being stupid, so smarten up. Strategy #4: Your status Be careful when filling out the "interested in", "relationship status" and "looking for" criteria. Saying that you are "looking for" a relationship or interested in one makes you look pretty damn desperate, needy even. And unless you want to turn women off before they’ve even started talking to you, don’t. When you’re trying to meet and date women online, it isn’t a smart thing to say “relationship” either..it doesn’t make you seem like a trustworthy guy if you’re already cheating on your current girlfriend now, would it? So listing yourself as "single" is more then enough, sometimes it's even best not to fill out this part AT ALL. You can get your hands on a step-by-step way for “pimping” your profile so you’ll receive INSANE amounts of messages from women and never have to worry about being dateless again. And if you want to learn not only that, but also how you can pocket an easy 10 phone numbers or email addresses a week from attractive, intelligent and beautiful women in a short afternoon? Then you should check out my Online Mentorship Program now on: www.win-with-women.com And I hope to see you on the Win With Women blog soon, Your friend Dennis
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