Eat. Sleep. Sex. Ego. Work. Warfare (either video games, fantasy sports leagues, verbal sparring, paintball, MC rap battles, the debate team, actual Physical sports)
Don’t sugarcoat things or think that they’ll understand what you “REALLY” mean. They’re not your best friend who will know that when you say “I’m Fine,” what you really mean is that you need a chick flick, Tivoed Oprah, junk food, a crying session or retail therapy. Just like 1 + 1=2, if you want a guy to do something, ask directly.
Dudes are competitive. Everything is based on performance and a game-like mentality. Understand this and pick your battles wisely.
If you want to be taken seriously in a dudefilled office, keep the skin-showing to a minimum. You can rock the low-cut dressed and revealing outfits for Friday nights at the club. Or your local emo concert.
There is no need to be bitchy, but firmly state your thoughts and point of view in a clear and concise manner. There’s no guarantee that they’ll listen to you, but you will be heard.