What not to say to a guy

1.WHENWILLISEEYOUAGAIN?You’llseehimwhenyouseehim.Ifhewantstoseeyouagain,he’llcall.Ifnot,next.Youdon’thavetimeforanyonethatdoesn’thavetimeforyou.2.WHYDIDN’TYOUCALL?There’s only one answer to this question: Because he didn’t want to!!! What you’re really asking is, “Why didn’t you want to call me?”Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don’t be so quick to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it’s a big mess!3.WHEREWEREYOU?Ifhewantedyoutoknowwherehewas,he’dtellyou.Whatyou’rereallyaskingis,“Wereyouwithanotherfemalethatyoulikebetterthanme?”Yourinsecurityisshowing.Ifanythingheshouldbewonderingwhereyouwere4.ILOVEYOU!(FIRST)You’resayingitinthehopesthathe’llsayitback,butwhatifhedoesn’t?You’llbedevastatedandprobablyfeelfoolish.Saying“Iloveyou”isnotgoingtospeedthingsupifhe’snotreadytosayitback.Sojustcoolit,andlethimbethefirsttosayitwhenhe’sready.5.DIDYOUSLEEPWITHHER?Aslongashe’snotsleepingwithhernow,whocares?Thepastisgone.Don’ttortureyourself(andhim)withthesethoughts.Inthiscase,ignorancereallyisbliss.6.I’MPREGNANTInthe21stcentury,withallthebirthcontrolchoicesavailable,thereisnoexcuseforbecomingpregnant,unlessyouwanttobe.Youshouldbeusingsomethingandheshoulduseacondom,everytime7.WHEREISTHISGOING?Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s constantly worrying about thefuture. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it’s going. If it’s going somewhere, you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know it too.8.WENEEDTOTALKThis is the equivalent of, “Go to the principal’s office". Guys know it’s not going to be a fun conversation, so they’re already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him when he’s tired, stressed, eating or watching TV! 9.IHATEYOU!Evenifyoudo,it’stotallyuncalledforandun-ladylike.Ifthere’sanissue,bematureenoughtodiscussitwhenyou’recalm.Ifhe’sbreakingupwithyou,reactingwithangermaymakeyoufeelbettertemporarily,butit’sbesttoremaincalmandactunfazed.He’llwonderwhyyou’resocoolaboutitandthatmaymakehimre-thinkhisdecision.10.IDON’TTRUSTYOUWhatyou’reactuallysayingis,“Youneedtostepupyourgame,becauseIcanseeyou’reuptosomething.”Ifheisuptosomething,he’lljustbecomeevensneakier.Bettertothinksmartandactdumbit’llbeeasiertogettheevidenceyouneedtoconfirmyoursuspicions.