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					7 Surefire Techniques to Get
Your Ex Boyfriend Back Fast


The Proven No Nonsense Simple Guide
     To Winning Back His Heart.




            Jodi Robbins
                2010
      7 Surefire Techniques to Get Your Ex
               Boyfriend Back Fast

How do I get my ex boyfriend back?

That question has stumped and confused millions of women
since prehistory. In order to answer, you need to know why
the breakup happened in the first place. A breakup can
happen to anyone. It can happen slowly over time or suddenly
out of the blue leaving you to wonder “What the #!&%
happened?”

Reason(s) For The Break-Up

To repair a broken relationship, you must understand how it
went wrong. You need to ask yourself why your ex boyfriend
left. It's important to be honest. Did you do something wrong?
Did you take him for granted? Did you ignore his needs and
opinions? The bottom line is, in every relationship both parties
want to feel loved, wanted and cared for. Most people can
probably answer these questions, but only those who are
willing to take responsibility for their mistakes and take action
to repair the damage can hope to win their ex boyfriend back.

The Aftermath
When your relationship breaks up, it's easy to feel sorry for
yourself. Your girlfriends and family are feeling badly for you
and you're getting advice and condolence from every
direction. It's easy to become trapped in self-pity. Don't let it
happen. You need to take a step back so you can think clearly
and assess the situation. You can't make rational decisions
when your head is spinning with confusion, upset and
emotional pain. If you want to repair the damage, you need to
regain your composure and get into a calmer, more rational
state of mind.

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Take Charge Of Your Own Destiny

Once you build the courage and confidence to meet your ex
boyfriend face to face, it's time to prepare your strategy. By
now you probably know what went wrong. It's time to begin
the repairs and make him realize that things will be better from
now on. Actions speak louder than words, but begging and
stalking will never get your him. Instead, you need to do
something creative - something that will grab his attention and
make a lasting impression. Some women just mope around
and do nothing to improve their situation while others are
persistent enough to find an answer. The majority of
relationships can be saved with the right combination of
persistence and knowhow. That being said, here are 7 surefire
techniques to get your ex boyfriend back.

Surefire Technique #1: Minimize Contact

One possible cause of the break-up is that your ex has had
enough. Therefore, begging and clinging would only annoy
him. This is extremely important because if you pester your
ex, it will encourage him to avoid you even more. Let the dust
settle for a while. Spending time away from each other can
actually help mend a broken relationship. Taking some time
for reflection is the best way to evaluate the situation. A break
will also give him time to think it over. Time away will remind
him of how important your relationship was in his life.
Closing the door to communication might seem like the
opposite of rejuvenating a failed relationship, but it's a crucial
step if you want to get your ex back. Giving space does not
mean giving up. Make time for yourself and find ways to
pamper yourself. Go to a spa, stop putting off that fishing trip,
get back to an old hobby you enjoyed, go to the theater or a
concert.

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Surefire Technique #2: Improve yourself

As we all know, physical attraction is one of the first things to
happen at the beginning of a relationship. Make sure that
when you see your ex, he thinks you look good and not like a
complete wreck. In the morning before you begin your day, try
standing in front of a mirror and say, "I'm good looking!"
Repeat it a few times, and say it like you mean it. It will help
your subconscious to produce the inner confidence you need.
Another way to achieve this is going to the gym. After a
breakup, many women eat too much and men resort to
drinking. They both end up wallowing in self-pity which
eventually takes it's toll on your body and makes you less
desirable. So hit the gym or work out at home. Just make sure
to keep your body fit. Looking and feeling good will help build
your confidence. When you bump into your ex they will see
how good you look and how great you feel about yourself.
They might realize their mistake fall in love with you all over
again.

Surefire Technique #3: Socialize

Breaking up is a painfully hard thing to go through, but what
better way to forget the pain for a while than to go out and
have some fun. This is no time to be alone. Call your
girlfriends and get out of the house. You need some fun and
entertainment in your life. This does not mean you have to
date or even look at any other guys. It simply means you need
to divert your attention and learn to get back in touch with who
you really are and what you really want. Here are some
socializing tips in case you've been so focused on your
relationship you've forgotten how:



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Make a plan. Be clear in your mind what you hope to gain
during the course of a social event. Are you going to try and
keep everyone enthralled with a witty story that requires you
to mimic other voices and make faces to do it justice? Are you
going to take it upon yourself to lead the way to the dance
floor when everyone is standing around waiting for someone
else to make the first brazen move? If you're a bit timid, you
can leave the grand gestures to the live wires, but think of
something that suits your personality.


What to wear

If you want to attract attention, wear outfits that are colorful but
not overwhelmingly so. Wear only those pieces you're sure of.
The last thing you need is to look tacky rather than attractive.
If you're in doubt, ask a friend or family member who will give
you an honest opinion. Who is more noticeable at a party?
The person wearing dull colors or the one wearing bright
fabrics? Of course if you’re not used to wearing that kind of
thing, you can start with a few garments like a bright red tie, a
funky hat, or a colorful silk blouse or shirt.

What to say

How do extroverts speak? Study the social behavior of
gregarious people. Notice how they maintain eye contact
during a conversation. They smile and laugh and aren't afraid
to discuss their point of view. You can learn by observing their
behavior. Try to increase eye contact and add some good-
natured joviality to your social repartee. People will respond in
kind and see you as cheerful, open and friendly. It helps to
have some lines prepared to use at a social event.


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Just make sure the lines are open-ended questions so the
conversation will flow smoothly without abrupt endings. Above
all, listen to and at least pretend to be interested in the other
person. If you want to look deeper into social skills, try doing a
Google search for social tips and variations on that theme.

How to behave

Outgoing people are dynamic. They don't wait to be told the
latest hearsay, they ask. They don't linger politely to be
introduced, they introduce themselves.
The result is they generate a confident impression and are
usually rewarded by positive feedback. Behaving confidently
is not as difficult as it looks. The secret is to take that first
small step and keep moving forward. With regular practice,
you might find that in a couple of weeks or so you're feeling
more in control of your life and presenting a more self assured
face to the world.

Surefire Technique #4: Be yourself

The reason that you and your ex boyfriend were attracted to
each other was because of your distinctive characteristics.
Think about what made your bond so special and try to figure
out what changed. Relationships can become routine and you
forget about the things that drew the two of you together in the
first place. Do you remember what you both liked to do in the
beginning of your relationship? And no I don't mean that!
Have you changed during the course of the relationship?
Have you become so used to your ex that you have forgotten
the things you used to do to make him feel special?

Do you remember when you used to regularly cook a nice
meal for him?

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Now you just grab something from a nearby take-out or buy
prepared food at the supermarket. Not all changes are for the
better. Even worse, most of us don’t realize we've changed.
We get so caught up in things outside the relationship, we
aren't even aware that our outlook has changed. Try doing
some of the things that made your ex boyfriend feel special.
It will make him realize how special you are and help rekindle
the old flame.

Surefire Technique #5: Make a good Impression

After a break up, you might have only a few chances to get
back together. When an opportunity comes along, make the
most of it.

Even if you don’t get your ex back at that moment, make sure
the interaction was a positive one for him.
It will go a long way toward creating another chance to make
up.

#1. Dress to impress.

Dressing to impress is more about what not to do. Here are
some essential rules for what not to do and one simple
suggestion to keep in mind: Don't over do it. This is absolutely
essential. Whether your goal is to make him realize what he's
lost or simply to rub their face in it, showing up in your sexiest
outfit will only make you look desperate. He knows you and
will see right through your act. It doesn’t matter how attractive
you look, it will have a negative impact because they will know
what you're up to. Don't under do it. This is just common
sense, but you might be tempted to make sure they know
what they did to you by dressing in way that reflects that. Don't
show up looking like you’ve been run over by a truck.

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You might be having a difficult time concealing your sadness
and depression, but you must.

That includes looking your best when you see your ex. Don't
redo it. So what if all his celebrity crushes have blond hair and
blue-eyes.

Running for the hair bleach and colored contacts is not only
costly; it could negatively affect your self-esteem. And don't
forget what I said before – your ex will know what you're up to.
Remember, he fell in love with you for yourself. If that isn't the
case, you need to reconsider seeing him in the first place. The
rule is dress your Best. The operative word is "your" - not what
you think he would like to see, not what you feel would have
kept him in the relationship, and certainly not what you see on
their latest squeeze. Even if your ex doesn't have the good
sense to see how unique you are, everyone can benefit from a
little self-polishing. Choose an outfit that makes you feel good
about yourself. Even if you feel incomplete without your ex,
you need to present yourself in a way that is comfortable to
you and reinforces your self-respect.


#2. Be seen in public. You don’t want your ex to hear that
you've locked yourself in your room for the past two weeks.
They might pity you, but more likely would see you as
pathetic. No one wants to be around a pathetic, needy loser.
Instead, get up and go out. Call your girlfriends and meet new
people. It doesn’t necessarily mean you should date; just hang
around with friends and acquaintances in public. When your
ex sees you, they will see that you’re having fun without them
and will remember how enjoyable your company used to be.
That will help them realize what they’re missing and may well
inspire a renewed interest in spending time with you.

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#3. Do something out of the ordinary. There are any number
of things you can do to impress your ex. You can hire a plane
to do some skywriting in the sky, you can give him a custom
made cake of their favorite flavor, saying “I’m sorry”, you can
even plan something elaborate like taking him to his favorite
restaurant and have a band play "your" song when they walk
in. Of course you would need to have one of your ex’s
boyfriends friend as an accomplice. No matter what you do;
regardless of how extravagant or simple, the most important
thing is the message. The message you want to communicate
is the key. It could be something as straightforward as “I’m
sorry, will you take me back” or something more involved like
“I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make this work.”

Surefire Technique #6: Compromise

You probably know that your ex broke up with you for a
reason. Something you did, didn't do or aren't doing anymore.
The good news is, there is something you can do now. That
something is compromise. Compromising may sound simple,
but if you're both stubborn and set in your ways, coming to an
agreement may be easier said than done. However, if done
properly it can be one of the most significant things you can
do to get him back. For this to work out, you need to let things
cool down. You can’t offer a concession while you’re ex
boyfriend still has steam coming out of his or her ears. Wait
until the dust settles in order to engage him in a civilized
conversation. That will be the time to propose a compromise,
and here are some steps to take in that direction:


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#1 - Analyze the source of disagreement. Talk calmly with
your ex boyfriend to and come to an agreement about exactly
what issue is creating the conflict. Begin a conversation about
an agreeable solution to the problem.

#2 - Listen to his point of view. Criticizing and disregarding
their point of view will only rekindle the anger and pile up
resentment. Pay attention to what he has to say and keep an
open mind.

#3 - Know your partner's value. In a relationship, neither of
you is more valuable than the other. Let them know you
respect his opinion even if you disagree.

#4 - Own up to it if you were wrong and give in courteously.
There's no disgrace in admitting you were off course over an
issue. Consider giving in to your ex out of love for them.

#5 - Negotiate a compromise. Each side should offer
suggestions and come up with a resolution. The focus should
be on finding the middle ground that both parties can
comfortably live with rather than who won or who's right, and
who's wrong.

Surefire Technique #7: Jealousy

Break-ups almost always lead to jealousy from both sides.
Some women deal with these feelings on their own, but other
women try to create even more jealousy as a scheme to get
their ex back. They think they can make their ex come
crawling back by dating others. Does this method actually
work? It can, but it depends on the circumstances and the
person you're dealing with. There are some guidelines to be
aware of if you plan to use this strategy.

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Choose Wisely

It's important to consider who you're going to date. The most
crucial factor is perception, and dating the first willing guy
could be a bad move. It's highly doubtful that your ex
boyfriend will be impressed if they see you with the village
bicycle. That would be more likely to make him even happier
your relationship ended. Try to find someone that will impress
him in a positive way and won't ruin your reputation.

Leave the Door Open

If you decide to date other guys, be careful because this tactic
could backfire. You might be successful in making your ex
jealous, but he might just think you have moved on to
someone else. That's why it's crucial to keep the door open to
your ex. You want them to see you with someone new, but
you don’t want them to be too intimidated. Make sure you
continue to communicate and flirt. They won’t attempt to win
you back if they don’t think there's hope.

Stay Focused

The dating strategy will require some of the free time and
energy you might otherwise use to get your ex back. Initially
it's OK because you need to shake things up a bit. Just don’t
become too preoccupied with your new fling. You'll have to
work hard to balance keeping the new person happy while
continuing to flirt with your ex. It won't be easy but you'll have
to do it if this is your game plan.




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Be honest
It's only reasonable to be straightforward with your newfound
flame. There's no need to tell him what your objective is, but
you should let him know you have just come out of a serious
relationship. Tell him you want to take things slowly and this
will buy some time without leading them in the wrong
direction.



When you go back with your ex, make sure you tell the other
guy as soon as possible. Keeping things honest will keep you
from having to clean up a mess later on. Besides, you don't
need your former ex to hear that you treated someone you
dated unfairly. It will reflect badly on you and that's the last
thing you need. Going out with other guys to make your ex
jealous is a risky proposition. You need to plan your strategy
and think carefully about the downside before you begin. Keep
the above tips in mind and don’t and jump into this game plan
unless you know the risks.

Conclusion:

Very few things are more painful than being dumped by a guy
you love and thought that he was "the one". At some point we
all lose something or someone we wish
we could have held onto. In this case, you lost your love and
you want to get him back. Getting back together with your ex
isn't about “getting them back" or even relationship repair. It's
about winning them back. Getting your ex back into your life
isn't easy in the sense that it requires work and discipline.
However, if you apply some well planned strategies, you can
get your ex back more quickly and easily than you think.


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Even if your situation seems hopeless, you can still stop your
break up or divorce. If you are in that situation, you owe it to
yourself to at least take a look at
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secret technique that is guaranteed to get your ex back fast -
no matter how you broke up.

Wishing you all the best in life and in love.

Jodi x




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