Saving Your Marriage Through Relationship Counseling photo by:S@M G Have you ever thought about getting a divorce because you think it’s the only option left for you? The effort you put in Saving Your marriage is important because in the long run even if you leave you current partner, a divorce is a big lose, that you will carry with you for a long time. It becomes a common thing when couple gets tired and choose to leave each other.If a relationship is dying, divorce should not be the only option. People think of divorce in a different way. Nowadays, divorce becomes an option for simple fights and arguments. But also divorce is a solution to unhealthy relatonships wherein there is an abuse involved. It is wise for you and your husband to have relationship counseling before resulting to divorce. If you are still into saving your marriage, relationship counseling is a great option. Some couples do this for the sake of their children. As a married woman, your decision should not only be based on your personal opinion but your children’s opinions. Relationship counseling is very important especially if you have a child. Children at a young age are greatly affected with divorce. They need parents to guide and teach them, and have a difficult time to understand that the divorce is not about them, but about them. The statistics show that children from divorced parents are more likely to incur into violence and drug abuse issues. Divorce is not always granted just like that. There are judges that really suggest that a couple should go through relationship counseling to patch things up.I f the couples decide not cooperate with the relationship counseling, it only implies that the relationship cannot be saved. Relationship Counseling should be worth your time and effort. Everything will be challenged in your life. Ask your family or friends about your decisions and their opinion about relationship counseling so you will have other points of views. If you are not ready to take things in a professional manner or if you are not at all comfortable with this kind of set up, you can always talk to a stranger about your marriage dilemmas or go online and look for sites or e- books in the virtual world. Neil Warner is the Co Author of the The Art of Positive Conflicts. If you are having more conflicts that you can manage,it is important to find ways on how to deal with it. Do not allow your children to be affected by divorce. Act now by saving your marriage through counseling!