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4 Steps To Stop Your Divorce And Save Your Marriage

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					4 Steps To Stop Your Divorce And Save Your Marriage


The thing you need to know is that it is not too late to stop your divorce. The break up of marriage is one
of the worst things that can happen to a person, and it is all too common. More than half of all marriages
today will end in divorce. When you consider that divorce is commonly regarded as one of the most
stressful events that can happen in a person's life, even beyond the death of a dead one, this is a lot of
heartache out there in the world.

The tragedy is that most of these breakups could have been prevented. You do not have to be a statistic.
You can do something about it; you can stop your divorce. I won't say that it is going to be easy, but it is
possible. You just have to follow the steps to rebuild what has been broken.

You can't expect to stop your divorce without a plan anymore than you can expect to build a house
without blueprints. Fortunately, the help is available and it behooves you to take advantage of it. Your
marriage does not have to fail. You can do something.

Step One: Find the Problem

You can't stop your divorce if you don't know why your marriage is falling apart. You need to work with
your spouse to diagnose what is wrong with the marriage. This is a little harder than it sounds, because
what you think might be the reason for the divorce is just a symptom.

Step Two: Fix the Problem

In many ways, this is the most important step. If you can't fix the problem, then you can't stop your
divorce. Some problems can't be fixed, but most can. The reason most marriage ending problems don't
get solved is that they are never identified. But you've already done that in step one. What you need to
do know is work with your spouse to make the compromises that will save your marriage.

Step Three: Remember the Good Times

You're going to need to remind both your spouse and yourself why you were together to begin with. No
matter how bad your marriage has gotten, there was a point when things were good. You should try to
get back to that place, but you should always keep in mind that it existed.

Step Four: Start Over

The last step in your quest to stop your divorce is to begin again. You need to look at your marriage as a
brand new marriage. While you should keep in mind the good times, you need to forget the bad times
and learn about your spouse all over again. Things have changed, and you need to make your marriage
work with the person you are married to, not the person you used to be married to or the person you
wish they were. Accept them as they are, and work together to build a better, stronger marriage.

If you follow these four steps, you will be able to stop your divorce. If you need more help, then don't be
afraid to look for it. There are systems out there to help fix what is broken in your relationship, and you
need to be willing to use them.


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