Parents and The Draft by sofiaie


									    What Is Our Responsibility,                                 When You Do The Math,
            As Parents,                                         War Money For College
  To Our Children and to Society?                                  Doesn’t Add Up.

If we see war as futile in solving world problems,
have we made that clear to our children? In what
ways? How can we, as parents, set an example of
                                                        Well-meaning activists sometimes demean poor
                                                        people by suggesting that joining the military is the
                                                        only way they can attain a college education.
what sort of world we want to see?

What if we brainstormed with our children,
                                                        Paying for college is hard, but there are
                                                        alternatives – the Fund for Education and Training
whatever their ages, about what they hope their         (FEAT), work/study programs, living with parents
future will hold, and what it will take to get there?

What if, at the same time, we spoke to them
                                                        instead of in a dorm, low-tuition community
                                                        colleges, need-based scholarships at private
                                                        colleges, scholarships for children of union
                                                                                                                 The Draft
realistically of our concerns about living under a      members – that don’t require registering for the
government devoted to war-making, both under            draft. And if the price of college is enlistment in
Democrats and Republicans?                              the military, or the risk of being drafted, should we
                                                        tell our children that college is worth that price?
How could we protect our family members and our                                                                 Nurturing Our Children
larger communities from a military draft?               What message do we send our children when we
                                                        tell them graduating from a prestigious college is          by Supporting
What might we have to do, as parents and family         more important than living out their values? What          Their Resistance
members, to help our youngsters as they decide to       message does this send to people worldwide about
resist our government’s war-making?                     Americans’ priorities? Is America really more                   to War
                                                        enlightened, or do we have a superior way of life,
As parents, we judge ourselves on how our               because a higher percentage of our population goes
children fare in the world. We are concerned for        to college? What is the message if we tell our
their well-being, and naturally we hope they will       children to compromise their beliefs to get college
                                                                                                                    Are you confident that
choose courses in life which reflect our values.        aid, but aren’t willing to make comparable
                                                                                                                  your children would tell you
                                                        sacrifices in our own way of life to save money for
                                                        our children’s education, such as postponing major
                                                                                                                     if they were talking to
How is it, then, that so many young people in the
U.S. have been recruited into the military, when        purchases, taking out loans of our own, or selling             military recruiters?
polls show that the war in Iraq is unpopular and        our car(s) and switching to public transportation?
widely regarded as illegal and inhumane?                                                                               Are you uncertain
                                                                                                                     about where you stand
                                                        for more information, or to arrange a house party              on getting involved
        Are We Allowing Others,                              or a presentation to your group, contact:            in your children's resistance
          Such as the Military,                                                                                    to wars and war-making?
                                                                    Radical Family Collective
        to Make Decisions about                           
             Our Children?                                             phone 510-895-2312
           As Caring Parents,                                        This Is Our Chance,                         ! Don’t make it easy for the military: Make
                                                                                                                   them track our children down individually to
          We Need to Watch Out                                       and Our Children’s.                           order them to register, and track them down
           for Our Children.                                          Let's Not Blow It!                           again individually to order them to report for
                                                                                                                   induction. No one can be prosecuted without
                                                         We need to sort out our own values and give our
           If We Fail to Do So,                                                                                    either signing for a letter telling them to
                                                         kids a list of things we are willing to do to support
                                                                                                                   register or report for induction, or being found
       the Military Will Be Happy                        their resistance. (For some of the things young
                                                                                                                   by the Feds in person and served with a notice.
              to Take Over.                              people themselves can do, and have been doing, to
                                                         resist the draft, see <>.)
                                                                                                                 ! Let our children know that they’re not alone in
So how do we do so when most of us have been             Here are some of the things we can do as parents:
                                                                                                                   resisting draft registration. Over the last 25
well-schooled to obey orders, whether from                                                                         years, millions of young people have not
teachers or bosses, the IRS or the military?             !   “Opt-out” of having our children’s contact
                                                                                                                   registered with Selective Service, or have
                                                             information turned over to military recruiters.
                                                                                                                   “unregistered” by moving without telling the
It comes down to communication. Lots of it.                  See <>.
                                                                                                                   government. Many who registered will resist,
As Cindy Sheehan, whose son died in Iraq after                                                                     or will simply ignore an induction notice.
enlisting in the U.S. military, has said, "We need to    ! If we wouldn’t accept or pass on solicitations
be getting to the soccer moms with babes in arms."         for our children to join a dangerous, violent,
                                                                                                                 ! Help our children understand that not all
                                                           cult, why accept mail for them about military
                                                                                                                   valuable learning has to occur in a college
It's never too late to go to our kids, explain why we      recruiting or Selective Service? Protect our
                                                                                                                   setting. Help them find apprenticeships or
might have felt uncomfortable having such a                children against military recruiters’ lies by
                                                                                                                   other non-college learning opportunities.
conversation with them before, and talk about what         throwing away their junk mail, hanging up on
they might do if they don’t agree with war as a            their phone calls, and shutting the door on
                                                                                                                 ! If our children are thinking of joining the
means to “solving” conflict. Let them know that            them if they come to our homes.
                                                                                                                   military, or registering for the draft, to get
they aren’t alone in not wanting to fight, kill, and                                                               money for college, find ways we can finance
die at someone else’s command, and that we’ll            ! Make it as hard as possible for the Selective
                                                                                                                   their education without leaving them
support them if they choose to resist the military         Service System to draft or recruit our children
                                                                                                                   indentured to the Pentagon. Consider offering
and the draft.                                             into the military. Don’t help them find our
                                                                                                                   to have our children live with us for a few
                                                           children, register them, or induct them.
                                                                                                                   extra years while they work to save up money
         What If My Kid Acts Aloof,                                                                                for tuition. Instead of making them sign up for
                                                         ! Throw away Selective Service junk mail and
            Or Sees No Problem                             threats. Don’t accept SS mail for our children,
                                                                                                                   the draft to qualify for student loans, consider
             With The Military                                                                                     taking out loans ourselves for their education,
                                                           or give the SS their forwarding address. Don’t
          Or The Concept Of War?                                                                                   that don’t have military strings attached.
                                                           sign for any registered letters from the SS, the
                                                           Department of Defense, or the Department of
Unlike some other species, human children emerge                                                                 ! Consider taking some of the same risks, in our
                                                           Justice. (No one ever has to accept mail for
from the womb immature, and need years of                                                                          anti-war actions, that our children take in
                                                           someone else, and no one has to talk to the
guidance and protection. Military recruiters are                                                                   resisting military recruiting and the draft.
                                                           Feds. Anything we say can, and will, be used
trained to take advantage of teen-aged immaturity.         against us, and against our children.) Tearing
Most teens don’t have the time or experience fully                                                               ! Speak out. Organize. Talk to our friends and
                                                           up an induction notice could be considered a
to appreciate all the forces that lead governments                                                                 neighbors about the threat to our children. Let
                                                           crime, but it shifts the risk of prosecution
into war. It’s up to us to help make sure they see the                                                             the politicians know that we won’t let the
                                                           (however small that risk may be) from our
implications of the choices the military offers them.                                                              military take our children without resistance.
                                                           children to ourselves.

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