Jealousy A lonely place to be by snoopdoggywuf

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									Title:
Jealousy : A lonely place to be!

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961

Summary:
You really have to experience this emotion to understand its strong hold
on a persons mind. Not only their mind, but their entire being.


Keywords:
Women,woman,esteem,self,confidence,jealous,issues,help,group,free,abuse,s
exuality,beauty,ugly


Article Body:
You really have to experience this emotion to understand its strong hold
on a persons mind. Not only their mind, but their entire being.

  I have been asking and asking questions regarding jealousy from people
that experience it and people that have to deal with it through someone
close to them.

  I have written an article and I will let you read part of it before I
continue with my thoughts.

 "Jealousy as many women knows is a very hard emotion to control , it
takes your stomach and twists it into knots until you scream for release.
Problem is when we scream it is usually misunderstood and frowned upon.

Jealousy has a mind of its own and it is strong enough to make us believe
and see things that are not even there or that have not happened yet.

Jealousy can cloud our what is most of the time clear thinking.

Jealousy can make us worry and put our minds into a prison that we cannot
escape, it locks the doors and does not let us out till it wants to.

Jealousy can keep our minds from sleep because it knows that sleep makes
us strong and will help us to fight it.

Jealousy knows no rational thinking , feels as though it has no reason or
rhyme, which makes it very hard to get support from people around us, and
even harder to try to explain why we react as we do when we are
captivated by this horrible emotion.

Jealousy does have a weakness though and that is LOVE and TRUST and women
helping women to figure ways to combat this nasty thing that grows inside
of us.

Jealousy can be redirected and from our site and all the help of women
out there joining together we will defeat this , one step at a time.
I will not stop till I unlock and set myself free from Jealousy."

  Jealousy is very much connected or may be even caused by ones low self-
esteem. It depends on the elements that each person experiences. People
of every size and gender can be afflicted by this emotional nightmare. It
truly is a mind set.

  There are several types of jealousy: mistrust caused by a breach of
trust. mistrust caused by ones own infidelities, and the real beast that
is born inside us without any reason we can explain.

  Each one is a hardship and pulls us down into the loneliest place.

  Imagine having a fear, and your mouth is glued shut so you are unable
to voice your pain and terror. This is a small example of how a person
feels when their jealousy takes a hold of their mind. If they talk about
it, they appear accusing and confrontational. Others feel they are being
attacked for something they have no control of. It truly is a no win
situation for anyone involved. But to keep it glued inside only gives
birth to an ugly seed of pain ,agony and real loneliness.

  It feeds on our strength making us weak in our judgement of what is
real and whats not. We are in a prison that separates us from a world of
happiness.

  Why I ask? Why are we in this prison when we did not ask to be? We
broke no rules to be punished for. When we look at another person, we see
only what we wish to be.

  It blinds us of who we are and what we have to offer to the world. It
captivates our minds to the point of no return in many cases has caused
terrible results.

   People think that one can just say "Go Away". We wish it was that
easy. If jealousy could be defeated with a mere thought, we would be in a
truly perfect world. Do you really think we enjoy this lonely place? I
know that I would much rather be in a happy place anytime.

  Jealousy does have one fear, that is "Love". Love conquers all and that
is as real as the pain we feel inside when we are imprisoned by the fears
of jealousy.

 Also as funny as it sounds, to trust a person imprisoned by jealousy is
as important as wanting that person to trust you. We need to know that
you trust us and that you know that we are not in control of this thing
that causes us to fear life.

  To know you are on our side and want to help us defeat this loneliness
will truly give us that extra bit of strength that we need and the will
to combat our own fears.

  We also need to focus on our minds and through help from our friends
and others that feel our loneliness, use that strength to work against
the negative thoughts that jealousy controls. We must tell ourselves that
we are safe, we are loved, and we are needed. We must focus on the good
around us and use our thought energy to force positive thoughts in place
of negative ones. When we do defeat our negative mind, we should pat
ourselves on our backs, because this is truly a conquest. Identify with
the fact that you have won and the win will be greater the next time. It
will happen, we just need to continue to search for ways to a higher
self-esteem.

  Together ladies we will conquer this loneliness. Strength is in numbers
and that we have. To close my thoughts, I leave you with a quote sent to
me by one of my sweetest friends and members of my website.

  Stacy , you are beautiful and thank you again.

 "We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes
it has gone through to achieve that beauty."

								
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