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					                                                       SUMMER 2009
                                                  5940 Lakeview Drive SW
                                                  T3E 5S8       403-249-6184
                                                  Email: rector@stlaurence.ca
                                                  Website: www.stlaurence.ca




LEADER
From Anna’s Desk………………………1
                                           PWRDF ………………………………….8
Warden’s Report………………………...3
                                           Faith Communities & Homelessness
Spiritual Development…………………..4            Editorial…………………………………9

WOMAJ Update…………………………5                    Opinions from the Pews ……………9-12
                                            Draw the Circle Wide
Children & Youth………………………..5                The Path, the Way and the Avenue
                                            Makes you Think, Eh?
Hymn Requests…………………………6                    A Thought-Provoking Rector’s Charge
                                            Theological Triflings of a Layma
Craft Group……………………………...6

Women’s Committee…………………...6

Leader Deadline………………………...6

Garage Sale Results……………………7

Building Superintendents’ Report…......7
FROM ANNA’S DESK



I have now been back from my maternity leave for two months and I must say how thankful I am
to the community of St. Laurence of being so accommodating of my new schedule as I endeavor
to balance the needs of the church with the needs of my family. Most days it works and this is
due to my wonderful husband and to the very real 'priesthood of all believers' that is St. Laurence.

Because of my 'compressed' schedule I am particularly grateful to Eileen, Elizabeth and Carol
and their work as lay pastoral visitors. Each of these faithful women give a good portion of their
week to visiting and taking communion to those in our parish who are ill or shut-in and this is
such a help to me and such a service to the community. Thank-you.

Thank-you also to Arnold and Mary, Phil and Janet as they coordinate numerous projects to
maintain and improve our facility. We all want to 'see' improvements to our facility but these are
the hard-working few who are making things happen and we are all in their debt.

Thank-you also to the countless other lay leaders who take responsibility for different parts of our
community life and make St. Laurence the busy and vital place that it is.

                                               ***
As I write this summer letter I feel that I must do some 'follow-up' on a couple of items.
In the 'Rector's Charge' that I gave at the March 15 parish meeting and which was then printed in
the last Leader I mentioned the possibility of us sharing ministry with Lakeview United this
coming summer. I was impressed with how open to this idea the people of St. Laurence were as
we waited to hear whether Lakeview United also felt ready for this type of a partnership.

As it turned out circumstances at Lakeview United were such that they did not feel ready to share
ministry in this way this coming summer. As such, St. Laurence will worship in our own
building every Sunday in both July and August. However, The Rev. Diane Strickland, minister of
Lakeview United, and I are both hopeful that in the summer of 2010 we may indeed be able to
share services first in one building for July and then in the other building for August. Good
things come to those who wait!

In the rector's charge I also mentioned the sanctuary design pictures that had been done by BCMP
and that are hanging on the wall downstairs. These are in no way 'final designs' but rather design
possibilities to get us talking and thinking and dreaming. Please be sure to attend Conversations
on Sunday, May 24 after the service so that some explanation of the designs can be shared and
so that we can begin the discussion about the potential advantages and disadvantages of the
different aspects of the designs.

I must also stress that these designs, along with the previous designs for a renovated, expanded
and accessible facility are, at this point, simply research into what this building could look and
feel like, and what the cost implications would be, were we to decide to commit to this location
for the long-term. Work of this scale will only be undertaken if and when the congregation goes
through a ministry evaluation process and commits to this location for the long-term. The vestry


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is currently looking at how and when we will undertake this process and will provide an up-date
in the Fall newsletter.

                                                   ***
Blessings to you and your families over the summer. If and when you are in town please join us
for worship. We have some wonderful services planned featuring some very special guest
preachers.

As you enjoy this beautiful part of the world we are blessed to live in I share with you an ancient
Celtic blessing.

May the King shield you in the valleys,
May Christ aid you on the mountains,
May Spirit bathe you on the slopes,
 In hollow, on hill, on plain,
 Mountain, valley and plain.


Yours faithfully,

Anna

________________________________________________________________________




                         Dear Anna,

                            I would like to express my deepest appreciation to the congregation of
                            St Laurence who has over the past months been including my son,
                            Corporal Owen Herold, in their prayers. Owen is now home from
                            Afghanistan and I cannot but reflect on Tennyson's line that more
                            things are wrought by prayer than this world dreams of. Please
                    express a father's profound gratitude to one and all.

                                      Sincerely,

                                      Bob Herold




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Warden’s Report                                 Of course, we'll be "open-for-business" and
                                                worshipping through July and August,
                                                complete with post-service lemonade in the
                                      Graeme    bright sunshine. A number of lay members
                                                have agreed to try their hand at preaching
We've just about arrived at that time of the    during the weeks when Rev. Anna will be
calendar when things slow down - school is      on holidays, so please give them your
wrapping up for the year and the prospect of    encouragement. And we wish Rev. Don
a well-deserved summer vacation is on the       McLeod a richly-deserved, restful and
horizon for many people.                        recharging sabbatical through the summer
                                                months.
Before we dive head first into Calgary's all-
too-short, long-awaited summer, it's time to    But while we're all enjoying our June, July
celebrate what has been a busy spring.          and August by reading a page-turning
                                                thriller on the back deck, happily puttering
There have been many positives at St.           away in our gardens or roasting
Laurence - the return of Rev. Anna from her     marshmallows around a campfire by the
maternity leave, a number of thoughtful         lake, let's all try to do a little "St. Laurence
services during Holy Week, culminating          homework" too.
with a full church on Easter Sunday, the
baptism of young Mr. Fin on May 3 and a         Let's remember Rev. Anna's charge to us
tremendously-successful garage sale, where      that we need to be more welcoming of new
the reputation of the people of St. Laurence    members and think about family, friends and
as purveyors of hospitality and                 acquaintances who we can invite to come
entrepreneurship was only enhanced.             and worship with us at St. Laurence. We
Sincere thanks go to Deb McArthur for once      have a wonderful community of brothers
again organizing the troops in such             and sisters in Christ at our church and we
tremendous fashion.                             shouldn't be shy in sharing our faith
                                                experience with people.
As well, important physical improvements
to our building were launched in recent         And let's also put a little thought into the
weeks, thanks to the hard work of Arnold,       future direction for our church when it
Phil, Janet and many others. The re-roofing     comes to more substantial building
of the upper section of our roof was            improvements to make us truly an inclusive
launched and we look forward to repair          faith community.
work on the concrete near the front door and
the installation of a safety rail on the        The wardens and vestry members wish you
wheelchair ramp in coming weeks.                all a relaxing and rejuvenating summer!

The Sunshine Room is in the midst of a
significant, visual spruce-up and the kitchen
will also be getting a fresh look over the
summer.

We also look forward to a major celebration
on Sunday, June 7th, with the visit by
Bishop Derek Hoskin, the confirmation of
three young members of the St. Laurence
family, Paige, Erin and Ben, and the annual
church picnic.


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Spiritual Development                          Adult Education
Committee
                               Norma , Chair

Members: Barb, Norma, Beckie, Anna, Don
McLeod, Graeme, Lillian , Margaret


We were very happy to have Anna back
with us for our May meeting.

Vision for Ministry Survey
We reviewed the results of the recent Vision   Several possible resources were discussed
for Ministry Survey, particularly that which   for Christian education over the next
measured spiritual growth. We were             months.
pleased that parishioners rate themselves           Anna led a book study on
growing spiritually and as more aware of               May 13 and 20 on How Christianity
spiritual practices. In the response to the            is Changing and Why by Phyllis
suggestions to change the time of the                  Tickle
Sunday Contemplation, a new time will be            Anna will lead a book study in the
set for the fall.                                      fall prior to Rabbi Shapiro‟s visit on
                                                       his book Sacred Art of Loving
Practicing Month to Month Newsletter                   Kindness
In order to measure the value of this               We will have a pre study leading up
newsletter to the congregation Don will                to the Ethical Marketplace
attach a short survey to the May newsletter.           conference from Trinity Institute in
There will be a wrap-up service of the                 January, 2010.
Spiritual Practices for this year at the May
24th Sunday service. Focus on Spiritual        Yoga
Practices will continue throughout the         We are planning a Yoga session on a
coming year with more emphasis throughout      Saturday at St. Laurence in the fall.
the month rather than one particular Sunday.
                                               Wisdom Centre
Labyrinth                                      We continue to work in collaboration with
We have had a request for a Labyrinth          the Wisdom Centre. Don and Anna keep us
experience so have contacted Marney            up to date.
Armitage, who along with Angela Wards
conducted some sessions years ago. Marney
is willing to come on a Sunday after church
and we will have her facilitate a session in
our Conversations time slot. It will be held
on the Sunday in which we focus on
Contemplation.




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WOMAJ Update                                                    Children and
        (Works of Mercy & Justice)                              Youth
                                                                                        ~Krista
                                        Janice
                                                                        This year at St.
Special envelope offerings from Christmas                      Laurence the children have
2008 totaling $2615.00 were designated to                     been a part of many exciting
the Rapid Exit/CUPS program. Since then a                    changes. The first change being
portion of your kind donations has impacted      the         new class divisions; the Sunday
the lives of two families…. including:           school class was split into three classes. The
                                                 new classes offered the children age
       $350 – for a washer & dryer (almost      appropriate lesson plans that fit the
        new) thanks to Atlas Appliances and      children‟s interests.
        Martha Stewart (who arranged for
                                                 Another exciting change was the pageant.
        the reduced price).
                                                 This year the youth both wrote and directed
       $350 – to assist in meeting half a       the pageant. This was a very large task to
        monthly rent payment. Parkdale           take on, but as always they rose to that
        United Church contributed the            challenge and created a wonderful play.
        remaining half.
                                                 The Sunday school has been on a journey
The balance of this account will be used to      through the Old Testament. The children
provide support as families learn to adapt       have been encouraged to expand their
into permanent housing situations of their       spiritual journey outside the church walls. A
own. As a result of these givings, St.           big idea is presented to them at the end of
Laurence is helping to make a difference –       the Sunday school and the children are
one that is greatly appreciated as indicated     encouraged to explore this idea throughout
by the words from a thank you card as            the week. The big idea gives the children
shown below.                                     the chance to think about the lesson and
                                                 discover what they think about it.
“Dearest Members,
                                                 The 30 hour famine was a big success. The
This note comes as a heartfelt thank you for     youth collected over $600 for World Vision!
helping to make a difference in the lives of     All of our youth are very talented
myself and my sons. Your generous gift in        individuals that believe very strongly in
the form of a rental shortage donation will      basic human rights. We should be very
now allow us to remain in a home which we        proud of our youth for committing
had been without due to a house fire at our      themselves to such an active role in this
previous one.                                    advocacy project.

It left us homeless for several months last      Next year I would like to keep up with the
Christmas and your thoughtfulness and open       changes made this year. My goal would be
hearts will now allow us to start to get on      to strengthen Sunday school so that every
our feet once again. On behalf of myself,        week all the children have an age
and my three sons, Richard, Randy &              appropriate fun lesson to go to. We have
Danny, I respectfully and gratefully thank       created a wonderful community downstairs
you and will remember each of you in our         that is the future of St. Laurence. My
thoughts and prayers. God Bless,                 intention is to nature that community so that
                                                 it will grow prosperous and continue to
With much sincerity, Tammy & Boys”               make a difference in the community for
                                                 years to come.



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                                                 Women’s Committee
           Hymn Requests –                                                              Beckie
            Summer 2009
                                                 The Women‟s Committee hosted the annual
Summertime services find us all in a more        breakfast again this year on April 26 at
relaxed mode, without the definite festivals     8:30 am. The turn out was excellent as was
and themes of our Advent to Pentecost year.      the food and fellowship. Proceeds from the
This also brings a great opportunity to sing     event will be going to the Rapid Exit
favourite hymns. I invite you all this           program.
summer to contact me with hymn requests.
Have a flip through Common Praise and            I (Beckie Grant) am stepping down from my
More Voices and get in touch with me at          role as “leader” of the Women‟s Group and
deb.koning@shaw.ca or in person on               we are pleased that Cathi Elsey will be
Sunday.                                          stepping into the role. However, the
                                                 committee still needs support and new ideas
                                          Deb    to keep the Women‟s Group vibrant and
                                                 interesting. Anyone with any ideas or
                                                 willingness to join the committee, please
CRAFT GROUP                                      contact Cathi or any of the other committee
                                                 members. Thanks for all the support from
                                                 the women of the parish over the last several
                                        Eileen
                                                 years. Please continue as Cathi takes on her
                                                 new role.
Our Craft Group ladies have, as always,
been busy since the New Year.

Our projects have consisted of:

           18 Bereavement Folders for the
            Children's Hospital
           30 worry dolls for the Sherriff        FALL LEADER
            King Home for their Therapy
            programs.                              DEADLINE IS
           5 afghans for the Sherriff King         AUGUST 11TH
            Home
           10 Baby Quilts not designated        Please submit entries to Marilyn at
           2 single bed quilts not designated   adminassist@stlaurence.ca and Lynn
                                                 Odland at odlandrl@shaw.ca
As well, we have a new runner for the coffee
table and mats for the end tables in the         Font Style: Times New Romans
Sunshine Room.                                   Font Size: 11
We are now winding down our activities.
Our end-of-the-season luncheon will be on
May 27, location to be announced.

See you on September 9th. Have a nice
summer.



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                                                 BUILDING
                                                 SUPERINTENDENTS’
                                                 REPORT

                                                                                 Mary & Arnold
                                                                        Building Superintendents
      2009 Garage Sale
          Results
                                                 Projects to maintain and upgrade the church
                                      Melanie    premises have gained some momentum.

A total of $4330.17 before expenses was          Following improvements to the Nursery,
taken in at the garage sale. After advertising   under Janet Pedersen‟s supervision, some
and garbage bin expenses which came to           work was done on the washrooms. Then a
$270, the net profit works out to $4160.17.      start was made on updating the Sunshine
Deb McArthur has taken a few items home          Room. Old brown paneling was removed
with her, which she intends to sell on eBay.     and new wainscoting will be installed along
She expects that they will bring in an           with fresh paint. The Craft Group has agreed
additional $400-500; if we include an            to produce new curtains for the windows.
estimate of $400, our total profit comes to
$4460.17.                                        Plans are being made to upgrade the kitchen,
                                                 with new flooring, counter tops, lights,
A spreadsheet showing a comparison with          paint, etc. The idea is not to build your
previous years‟ numbers, as well as a            “dream kitchen”; the idea is simply to make
breakdown of income by departments, will         the kitchen more up-to-date and attractive. A
remain posted in the Narthex for a few           budget is being drawn up for approval, and
weeks.                                           the costs could be covered by funds already
                                                 available. A dishwasher machine may be
On behalf of the kitchen staff, Dave would       added, primarily to improve germ-killing
like to acknowledge and thank Glamorgan          success as compared with hand washing.
Bakery for donating all of the baked goods
and Glamorgan Safeway for their donation         Outside, the new roofing is nearly complete
of a gift card, which was used to purchase       and a contract has been let for repairs to the
additional kitchen supplies.                     concrete.

We’d like to thank everyone who made             Some repair work has been completed at the
the garage sale such a success this year:        “rectory house”, but more jobs remain to be
everyone who donated items for the sale,         done.
those who helped with setting up, ferrying
stuff to the church, pricing items, selling      The Building Team is working smoothly
them, working in the kitchen, counting the       together. The team currently consists of
money, cleaning up afterward, and,               Anna, Janet, Phil , Linda , Mary and Arnold.
especially, Deb McArthur and her whole           Their goal is to make the premises look well
family for all their time and effort.            cared for and attractive to current and future
Congratulations on an excellent sale,            parishioners.
everyone!!




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PRIMATE’S WORLD                                  FAITH COMMUNITIES AND
RELIEF AND                                       HOMELESSNESS: HOW WE
DEVELOPMENT FUND                                   MIGHT HELP THOSE
                                       Carol
                                                     NEEDING HOMES
                                                                                     Wayne

                                               Date: Thursday, May 21st
                                               Time: 9:00 a.m. – noon (lunch provided)
                   Fairtrade coffee/tea        Place: Centre Street Church,
                   sale on June 7                      3900- 2nd St. NE, Calgary
                  following the service.       Registration: RSVP – let us know
                  This is the last sale        Will you attend? Will you stay for lunch?
                  until the fall. Stock up     What is your faith community?
                  for your summer              By e-mail: beth@calgaryhomeless.com
                needs.                         By phone: 403-718-7740 (please leave a
                                                            Voice message)
                                               No cost
June 21 is First Nations Sunday and            Questions? Email or phone your questions
National Aboriginal Day of Prayer. The                    to Beth Brown as above.
service will incorporate elements that
celebrate these two events. You are invited    The plight of homeless individuals and
to drop a Loonie (or more) on the offering     families who did not choose their situation
plate to support the Ministry of the Council   continues to be a huge concern in Calgary.
of the North. This is a PWRDF initiative to    In 2008, a Plan to End Homelessness in our
celebrate the 50th Anniversary. Thank you      city was launched and significant progress
for your support.                              has already been made, although many
                                               families and individuals still lack a safe,
                                               secure place to call home.
Did you know memorial and
special occasion cards are                     As an opportunity for faith communities to
available from PWRDF?                          understand the plan, recognize what our
                                               faith communities have accomplished and
These cards offer a caring way to honour       address the issue together, you are
those special to you by making a gift to       encouraged to attend a meeting on May 21.
PWRDF. Cards include an envelope and
tear off portion for the contribution to       This will be a half day meeting and lunch
PWRDF, and an envelope to send the card        hosted by The Calgary Homeless
to the honouree.                               Foundation and two of its directors, Bishop
                                               Frederick Henry of the Roman Catholic
Cards are available from Carol or on line at   Diocese of Calgary and Tim Hearn, Board
www.pwrdf.org link to general resources.       Chair.
These cards are on display in the lower
level.
                                               We will hear from staff working on
                                               programs under the Plan and from a family
                                               that has suffered from homelessness. By
                                               sharing and working together, we believe we

                                                                               Continued…..



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can further strengthen our capabilities and       We wish you all a pleasant summer. Keep
effectiveness.                                    safe on your vacation journeys and enjoy
                                                  your time with family and friends.
Homelessness is a serious issue with
profound effects on those in its grasp,           Lynn Editor
especially the children, and, as religious
leaders and faith communities, we are in a
position to help in ways that no one else can.
Please make an effort to attend this meeting
and/or arrange for a representative to attend     OPINIONS FROM THE PEWS
from your congregation/faith community.
                                                         Draw the Circle Wide
EDITORAL                                                                               Elizabeth

Spring has finally come after all these chilly    The problem with the world is that we draw
months. The sun always makes everyone             the circle of our family too small.
feel better and puts a smile on our faces.                                      Mother Theresa

I haven‟t written an editorial for quite some     I came across this quote the other day and it
time. I find my job as editor much easier if I    got me thinking about a wonderful story I
simply do all the proof reading and help          was told last summer when I was in my
organize the formatting. We do not change         hometown of Saint John, NB. A friend of
the wording, except for grammar and               mine quietly told me of something she‟d
spelling. I also do not like to write about       been doing for the last several months and,
something that already appears in the pages       despite Mother‟s Theresa‟s observation of
of the Leader. We are finding that many of        our world, this story is one of widening our
the parishioners are writing opinion or story     circle of family.
articles and that my editorial is really
unnecessary most of the time. We have             My friend and her husband have a favourite
never turned away anyone if they want to          restaurant in Saint John where they go for
write something for our newsletter.               breakfast on the weekend. Usually they are
However, with each issue lately we are            served by the same personable young
getting more and more opinion articles. We        woman, Melissa (not her real name).
would ask that, if you wish to send in such       Melissa looks straight into your eyes when
an item for publishing, that you try to keep it   she speaks to you, I was told, and she holds
to one page (some exceptions may apply)           your gaze. While this is an engaging habit,
with Font style: Times New Roman and              it became apparent to my friend that Melissa
Font size: 12. These articles seem to be          also held her gaze to ensure that her
quite popular and we do get feedback              customers looked at her eyes, too, and not at
regarding them. If this process continues as      her mouth. Melissa was missing two front
it is now, we may have to limit the number        teeth, had other teeth that were misaligned
of opinion articles per issue. Please keep in     and cavities that need to be filled. In short,
mind that this is a parish newsletter. We         her mouth was in a bad state.
welcome all submissions that contribute to        By now my friend knew that Melissa was a
our communal life of faith. However, there        single Mom with two teenage daughters.
may be some ideas or opinions that would          And my friend also knew Melissa would
more appropriately be directed to the vestry      always be relegated to waitressing if her
or corporation for consideration. And             teeth were not fixed. So she told her
finally, the opinions expressed in these          husband that she would like to pay for
articles are strictly those of the author.


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Melissa‟s dental work. Her husband was             I went to my friend‟s home several days
supportive so the next time they saw Melissa       later and there was a small statue of an angel
my friend asked Melissa if she would meet          on her table and a wonderful letter from
her for coffee the next day as she has             Melissa telling her how her life has been
something to discuss with her. Melissa‟s           changed by this act of kindness.
first reaction was to ask, “Have I done
something wrong?”                                  My friend‟s circle of family just got wider.
                                                   I‟m wondering how wide I can make my
When they met the next day and my friend           circle of family. How wide can you make
told Melissa that she would like to pay for        yours?
her to go to the dentist. Melissa burst into
tears and fled to the bathroom to compose
herself. They talked for a couple of hours
over coffee and tears in Tim Horton‟s.                  The Path, the Way and
                                                             the Avenue
“There are no strings attached,” my friend
told her. “I was once a single mother, too,
                                                                                              Rod
and I‟d just like to do something to help
you.”
                                                   When people pursue their own best interest,
Melissa countered that she‟d never be able         this is frequently a spiritual interest of some
to pay her back and my friend told her that        sort and this can involve one or more
she didn‟t expect to be paid back. She told        different approaches, depending on the
Melissa that she had confidence in her and         person. Examples are prayer, Christian
that she believed that someday Melissa             contemplation, Mindfulness meditation,
would be in a position to help someone else.       retreats, etc. Interest in material things
“Just pass it on if you can, that‟s all I want,”   lessens at that time because a person‟s best
my friend assured her. My friend told her to       interest and the person‟s possessions are not
go home and think about it and make sure           the same.
she was comfortable with the proposal.
                                                   As Life presents various events, some of
                                                   them dramatic, a person sometimes responds
My friend went with Melissa to her first
                                                   by wanting to know more. Critical events
appointment and introduced her to the
                                                   are the ones that typically expose much
dentist. She continued to go with Melissa
                                                   about ourselves. We can feel provoked to
when she could. Melissa had had another
                                                   examine what we inwardly know is the right
couple of teeth pulled, all the gaps - and
                                                   thing for us but which we haven‟t had the
several cavities - filled. When I heard this
                                                   time or need to look into deeply. An event
story, she had one more dental appointment
                                                   can suddenly move us to investigate and
left.
                                                   question and we do this sometimes by
The dental work tally had now hit about            thinking and sometimes by not thinking.
$2,500 and my friend told me with a                How often have we said “Oh, something just
conspiratorial grin that her impulse to help       occurred to me” when we didn‟t know our
must have been right because “I haven‟t            minds were working quietly away.
even missed the money; it just seems like it
                                                   The Path is sometimes undertaken by a
was a little bit here and a little bit there.”
                                                   person who has “made it”, and having made
My friend also told me that “You should see        it, finds that once food, shelter, family,
Melissa now. She not only has a beautiful          friends and lots of material options are in
smile, she has self confidence. She walks          place, there remains a hole none of those
with a spring in her step. It is wonderful to      things have filled. Maybe they have made it
see.”                                              but been hit by a very large event,



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something so big they suddenly know that         required mass consumption, and their
while they have everything by modern             message is,You will be happy.
standards, they don‟t have control.
                                                 In places like Calgary most people have
Others regard themselves as not having           fairly easy access to the financial means to
made it and realize they aren‟t going to, and    acquire those things we are told from birth
they sense the same unfilled hole, often         we need to be happy – the home, the
known as “Who am I?”                             vehicle, the sense of identity a responsible
                                                 career brings, the standing in the
Erma Bombeck once said, “We‟re all in this       community. And it is true that these things
alone.” A religious person hearing this          are important. But our egos are further
might say, “Well, not quite. Jesus is here       manipulated and we find ourselves spending
and He loves you.” Maybe Erma would              whatever it takes to demonstrate our
respond with “Maybe so, and that‟s nice, but     achievements for all to see: the clothes, the
I can‟t see him.” This kind of exchange can      mannerisms, the vacation spots, and on. Do
inspire us (maybe even Erma) to listen with      we truly notice as the Avenue hammers out
that inner ear we all hear through from time     every moment, You are happy.
to time.
                                                 But, quietly, underneath it all, each of us has
And suddenly the curious questioner is on        a task, and we all have the same task, and
the Path. On her Way. On his Way.                it‟s about finding and knowing that hole.
What is really being asked is, “What is the      Our task is to proceed down the Path no
meaning of life, of death?”, and “Now            matter what. Somehow we have always
what?” and a person might rightly know           known it is the Path and not the Avenue that
deep fear here.                                  leads to true happiness. We are intended to
                                                 live in that open space at the end of the Path
These are the most intriguing questions that
                                                 that no Avenue arrow can pierce.
can ever be asked. By daring to ask them,
and merely by asking them, the serious           The Path leads us to knowledge (which is
questioner is launched into totally new          not at all the same as belief, or faith or hope)
territory, something dark and unknown            as a result of our own observations, not as a
called the Path or the Way where nothing is      result of us taking for granted what others
familiar. Up to that point the questioner was    want us to believe. A small pebble, dropped
smoothing along the Avenue, ignoring the         into a tumbling stream, swirls this way and
bumps and doing the right things.                that into just the right pocket at the bottom
                                                 where it rests, unaffected by the rush and
The Avenue is our 20th Century economy
                                                 tumble all around. That there are bigger
that requires mass consumption to support
                                                 rocks or that there is the force of water does
our ability to produce goods using mass
                                                 not concern the pebble. We too can settle
production. The problem is not producing
                                                 into who we are – that spot where we truly
goods, it is producing buyers, and this is the
                                                 just are. We grow to know “We are” and
sole task of the Avenue.
                                                 that this is not determined by our
And the denizens of our “Avenue”, Madison        accumulations or our non-accumulations.
Avenue, toil mightily. These folks are           We can set those aside for the time being
brilliant and they are subtle. One might be      knowing them as crumbling addresses along
forgiven for thinking a McDonald‟s ad isn‟t      the Avenue. Perhaps there is no hole other
so subtle, but this is a huge mistake. The       than the one that the Avenue‟s message is
Avenue‟s psychologists and neuro-                busily pasting over, denying us who we are
anatomists know full well how to feed our        the way face cream covers wrinkles.
egos so we participate eagerly in the



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Jesus said, “Not my will, but Thine be done”     Made me wonder if I can locate the
and he sweated blood contesting with his         boundaries of my „oneness circle.‟ Secretan
ego to be able to say that and truly mean it.    would have us include all humanity. He
And when he was on the cross he didn‟t           quotes Einstein as saying “separateness is
complain because he knew this was the Way        like a prison for us” and “our job is to widen
for him. He had travelled his Path so deeply     the circle of compassion so we feel
that He could say “I am the Way”. If we are      connected to all people.”
brave enough to join Jesus on the Way by          While this is a broad circle indeed, it would
asking ourselves the most difficult questions    not satisfy Matthew Fox, author of Creation
– being mindful not to demand answers –          Spirituality and many other books on
then we will start by taking a few minutes       spirituality. Fox would widen the circle to
daily to travel this new Way.                    include all of creation. He holds that God‟s
                                                 spirit resides in all parts of Creation, human
If we just sit with our question as if waiting   and non human alike.
for a chickadee to land on our finger, not
forcing, just being there, we know that our      Made me ponder the lesson of Genesis: God
true Self will come to us once we are            created all there is and it was all good. Fox
following the Path, not the Avenue. If we        might be right, I thought. Seems to me that
want, we will meet Jesus and just sit with       if we wish to understand the mystery that is
Him, having learned to pay no heed to our        our God, we have to consider all of His
monkey-minded ego. Were he to ask us a           Creation, even as we hold that humankind is
most odd question “What did your face look       a special case, made in God‟s image.
like before your parents were born?”
(another version of “Who am I?”) we might        Made me think that it is God the Holy Spirit
answer, “I know”.                                that connects us. And if Fox is right, we are
                                                 one with all of God‟s creation. This is a
Jesus took time to know who he truly was
                                                 most comforting thought, for we can never
and this allowed him to see the real person
                                                 be alone.
in others, which is true compassion, and
which is why everyone he encountered
                                                 As my mind processed these lofty thoughts,
responded one way or another upon meeting
                                                 I remembered times when I felt a lack of
him and he still meets us today from beyond
                                                 connection, when I was away from those I
the cross. Just ask and take time and listen.
                                                 love. In particular, I recalled a time in 1995
Every day sit quietly for a bit with (or
                                                 while on a private retreat far away in
without!) your question, not thinking, and
                                                 Durham, England. While in a wonderful
listening for the sounds along your Path,
                                                 spiritual community, I knew no one and felt
your Way.
                                                 alone. I thought of the following poem I
                                                 wrote there:

Makes You Think, Eh?                                              Alone
                                                          I often find myself alone
                                        Wayne             Bereft of human touch
                                                         Because God‟s there to set the tone
Reading once again Lance Secretan‟s little                It doesn‟t matter much.
book, One, has me thinking of the
importance of relationships. Secretan argues             “Alone you’ll never be,” He said
that we must break the habit of separateness               “For I am always there
which limits our ability to be all that we are           Right by your side and in your heart
meant to be. Secretan identifies love as one              For you are in my care.”
of the keys to bringing us together.
                                                                                     Continued…



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        So trust I must and trust I will        Annual Parish Surveys
            Content for all to see              The Rector‟s Charge starts with a short
                 My heart and mind must         discussion of the results of this year‟s parish
        needs be still                          survey. I agree with the conclusion that the
            Alone I‟ll never be.                annual surveys have indicated that “the
                                                general consensus seems to be that the
Made me recall that this was when I first       vision is a good fit.”
experienced the power of the Holy Spirit
and it began to made sense to me. God is the    More importantly, though, there are two key
great connecter. And God‟s justice, the love    trends that are at least strongly suggested by
of God, extends beyond humans to all of         the annual surveys. First, the parish seems to
Creation. God created all; God loves all.       be attracting new members. This is indicated
                                                by the statistics for “length of membership”.
Made me think that as God‟s people, we          In the 2006 benchmark survey, 8% of survey
have a responsibility to love as He loves.      respondents indicated that they had been
And we are sustained by the Holy Spirit in      members for less than five years. In the
this important role.                            latest (2009) survey, the percentage of
                                                respondents indicating that they had been
Phyllis Tickle, speaking of the emergent        members of St. Laurence for less than five
church in The Great Emergence, suggests         years had increased to 20%. Second, the
that our duty and the joy in doing lies “in     respondents to the 2009 survey are more
discovering what it means to believe that the   geographically scattered than the
kingdom of God is within one and in             respondents to the 2006 survey. This is
understanding that one is thereby a             shown in the percentages for those living
pulsating, vibrating bit in a much grander      more than a five minute drive from the
network.” Might this be her way of helping      church, which has increased from 65% in
us understand the connection that Secretan      2006 to 70% in 2009.
and Fox point to? Made me want to join the
book study on May 13 and 20.                    I see these encouraging trends as indications
                                                that the Vision for Ministry has the potential
Things to think. (Do you experience the         to attract new members of the congregation
connection? Can you feel the vibration?)        from outside the geographic enclave of
                                                Lakeview. For me, this points to a positive
                                                long-term future for St. Laurence.
A THOUGHT-PROVOKING                             Evaluating the Vision for Ministry
RECTOR’S CHARGE                                 In several places, the Rector‟s Charge refers
                                                to the timeline and process for evaluating
                                      Stephen   the Vision for Ministry over the next year or
                                                more. Many will remember that the original
At the Special Meeting of Parishioners that     Vision for Ministry document that was
was held on March 15, 2009 the Rector
                                                endorsed by the congregation in June 2005
delivered a charge to the parish that was
                                                included a provision for a five-year
subsequently reprinted in the Spring 2009
                                                evaluation of the Vision. To quote from that
issue of the Leader. Hearing the charge
                                                document: “We want to highlight ... that we
delivered and pondering it in print can take
                                                should set a reasonable five-year action plan
one‟s thoughts in many different directions.
                                                for ministry with clear benchmarks for
This article contains a few of the thoughts
                                                success. If, after a five year period, St.
that were stimulated in me.
                                                Laurence is not realizing the growth and
                                                development of ministry as proposed then an
                                                alternative plan for moving out of Lakeview


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and into ministry partnership with other         family in the annual survey), invitation is
Anglican parishes will be developed.”            not the focus of the vision statement.
The “five year action plan” (subsequently        Instead, the focus in the vision statement is
called the “Implementation Plan”) referred       on sharing the path. The Rector‟s Charge
to in the June 2005 document was developed       echoes the emphasis on sharing when it
in the fall of 2005 and approved by the          notes that “we still need to think about how
AGM at the beginning of 2006. In addition        to be church in a way that is accessible and
to the “action steps” for the first year, that   truly hospitable so that when people do
Implementation Plan contains the criteria by     come they feel welcome and at home and
which the Vision for Ministry will be            able to join us on this path.” Thus, the key to
evaluated. If the evaluation of the Vision for   understanding the second part of the vision
Ministry determines that it has not been a       statement is to note the focus on sharing
success, then there will be more than enough     rather than invitation.
time to research and develop alternative
plans for the future of St. Laurence after the   The Building – Means or End
evaluation has been completed.                   There is a significant portion of the Rector‟s
                                                 Charge devoted to the St. Laurence building.
Evangelism and the Vision                        That is probably to be expected given the
For the past couple of years, the Rector‟s       various discussions in the congregation over
Charge to the Parish has rightly drawn atten-    the past year or two. However, for me, the
tion to the second part of the Vision            key part of the discussion of the building in
statement. The Parish Vision Statement           the Rector‟s Charge is the paragraph that
reads as follows:                                talks about the tension between the vision
St. Laurence is an Anglican congregation         for ministry and the desire to keep the
that feels called to create an intentional       existing building (and location). Which one
community seeking to practice a renewed          is the end that we are working towards and
Christian spirituality in order to deepen        which one is the means to accomplish that
members’ experience of God and share this        end? Is the Vision for Ministry simply a
path with others as a response to the            means by which we can continue to worship
growing hunger for meaning and hope in the       in our existing building? Or, is the building
surrounding community and society.               a vehicle through which we accomplish our
(emphasis added)                                 Vision for Ministry? Again, the Rector‟s
                                                 Charge correctly notes that “the vision has
There has been the implication that members
                                                 always been the end and everything else,
of the congregation have not been doing
                                                 including the facility, needs to serve that
enough work on the second part of the
                                                 end.”
vision because they have not been inviting
others to join St. Laurence. To quote this
                                                 This point needs to be emphasized as
year‟s Rector‟s Charge, “we‟re all hoping
                                                 strongly as possible. If the facility is the end
that someone else takes care of that part of
                                                 then the vision (and, indeed, the community)
the vision statement for us.”
                                                 is in trouble. The purpose of the community
However, the second part of the vision is        of St. Laurence is not to maintain a building
deliberately focused on sharing rather than      – it is to carry out a vision for ministry.
invitation. It was not the intention of the      Keeping this in mind will help us in our
committee drafting the Vision for Ministry       deliberations as we consider changes to the
to try to turn a community of Anglicans into     building. Changes that enhance our ability to
a community of evangelicals. While its           accomplish our Vision for Ministry must
importance as a strategy for community           take precedence over any other changes.
growth was recognized (which is why there
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                                                                           Theological Triflings of a Layman

                                               Of Albert Einstein, Sean Connery and St. Laurence

                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Dave Lovatt

I‟m particularly fond of pithy quotations. Trouble is, most of the time I can‟t remember them.
Early senility aside, there are two that seem to stick with me.

The first is attributed to Albert Einstein. He is quoted as saying that the definition of insanity is
doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results.

The second was uttered by Sir Sean Connery‟s unforgettable, Oscar winning character Jim
Malone in 1987‟s The Untouchables. Early in that movie, federal agent Elliot Ness tries to recruit
Malone for his effort to rid Prohibition era Chicago of mobster Al Capone. Malone asks Ness
“What are you prepared to do?” In spite of Ness‟s weak and naïve response, Malone signs on.
Later, riddled with the fatal bullet wounds administered by a Capone henchman, he gasps out the
words again with his last few breaths. Only this time it is a truly worldly and resolute Ness who
hears the words and really is prepared to do what is necessary.

Now you may be wondering what on earth this has to do with St. Laurence. Consider the
following graph of our attendance and givings over the last 12 years.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Attendance
                                                                      Average Sunday Attendance (over past 52 weeks)
                                                                            & Annual Givings (inflation adjusted)                                                                                                                     Givings (x 1000)
              150                                                                                                                                                                                                                            240
              140                                                                                                                                                                                                                            230
              130                                                                                                                                                                                                                            220




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              120                                                                                                                                                                                                                            210
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               80                                                                                                                                                                                                                            170
               70                                                                                                                                                                                                                            160
               60                                                                                                                                                                                                                            150
               50                                                                                                                                                                                                                            140
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(For the mathematically inclined: the attendance is a 52 week rolling average plotted each Sunday
over the last 12 years. The givings are plotted in the middle of each year and are adjusted for
inflation).

The obvious observation is that our attendance and inflation adjusted givings have been on a
downward trend over the whole period. Over the last 10 years our average Sunday attendance is
down to around 90 from the high 120s, or about 4% per year. Adjusted for inflation, our givings
have followed the same path. These trends have occurred through various circumstances, priests
and economic times and as you‟ll notice, we continue to trend in a similar direction today.




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Returning to Einstein‟s definition of insanity, two questions come to my mind. We‟ve operated
under various visions, styles of worship and priestly oversight over these years and one result, a
steady decline, continues. So the first question is this: Are our changes, which we see as
significant, really so small as to amount to doing the same thing over and over in the eyes of the
rest of the world? It could be that we‟ve been trying to prove the old adage that clothes make the
man while the rest of the world sees the same guy underneath it all.

The second question is this: Are attendance and givings as measures of success (or lack thereof)
the wrong measures? Maybe a Christian community should have primary goals other than
attendance and givings.

I have lots of questions and pathetically few answers. But one thing I do know is that finding
answers, in large part, depends on us. Perhaps in the past we‟ve naively thought that real change
could come without “US” really changing. But that time is over – just look at the graph. It‟s
time to put aside the old wishful naïveté and answer the question Sir Sean‟s Jim Malone might
ask of St. Laurence: “what are you prepared to do?”



Great Space
                                                                                            Arnold

A couple from Edmonton‟s Good Shepherd attended St. Laurence in February. They made an
entry in the Comments column of our Guest Book. And their comment was… “Great Space &
Organ”!

Perhaps?




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