Child Custody Reference Letter

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					Child Custody Character Reference Letters
In order to win a child custody trial, every parent should provide adequate proof regarding his/her character, which includes behavioral aspects and mental attitude. One means to validate this point is to obtain character reference letters from persons who know the parent outside his/her office. This may include friends, relatives, teammates, fellow volunteers, or neighbors who can certify a person’s personal attributes. Character reference letters are usually referred to as personal reference or personal recommendation letters. These child custody character reference letters have some subtle differences from the employment reference letter. These character reference letters are usually written by persons who are acquainted with the parent including, friends, relatives and members of the family. They are written in a more informal language. These letters are more straightforward and often describe the personality of the parent. It typically has a standard format and is not concentrated on the economic relationship. In character letters, usually the traits that are good are exaggerated and those that are bad and unacceptable are avoided. A child custody character reference letter usually consists of an opening that explains the relationship with the parent. It is followed by the body of the letter, where the entire description of the parent is penned down. And this is followed by closure of the letter where the referee recommends the parent. However, there are certain tips while writing these letters. One must take care to construct the letter based on the specific personal characters of the parents such as his parenting, commitment and attitude towards children. Many of these traits can also be emphasized by writing a short story about the parent that can aptly describe these traits. Character reference letters will omit negative statements about the parent since it can prove detrimental to his/her child custody trail.