What if I tell you something that can help you kill this fear without much willpower, just some advanced knowledge and strategies? The key to killing the fear is making it engrammatical for the right reason (adding emotion), this is already true by the nature of fears. I suggest before getting into NLP, that you try using toward and away motivation. Personally I have no fears what so ever because I decide if there is a good logical to the emotions involved with this fear. I am interested to hear your psychologist friend's opinion on this. The following is an idea of mine as featured by a famous business acquaintence of mine on his monthly award-winning audio-programme "The Achievers Edge". I want you to spend some time (over several days if you wish) thinking up 20 reasons (and no less) to live life WITHOUT this fear. Next, think for no more than five minutes about the positive reasons for HAVING your fear of heights. After you have done this, tell me you how feel.