Dating Advice & Tips:
Love is in the Air
By Andre Cross May 10th, 2000
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It's that wonderful time of the year once again. The grass is greener, the flowers smell divine and women are looking hotter than ever. Summertime is just around the corner and both men and women are preparing for it.
When the season of love comes around, women completely transform themselves. They take in every ray of sunshine as though it were foreplay; sunlight seems to penetrate their silky skin as if it's the only thing that matters. Members of both sexes behave as though every summer is going to be the last, which explains why women dress down so eloquently and why men love watching women who do just that. Men are on the lookout for women that enjoy being outdoors, parading their bodies in crowded places where they can see and be seen by many. One of men's delightful little pleasures during the summer is admiring these beautiful creatures that come out of their shell once the weather gets warm. We visually indulge in the scenery that was merely a figment of our imagination only a few months back. Every man partakes in this solemn summer ritual; he gets together with buddies, they sit around outdoors, drink some brewskies, and make questionable comments about female passers-by. Many people may find this offensive to women, although this is not men's intention. It may seem as though women are treated like sexual objects, only to be appreciated on the basis of their looks. In fact, men are actually reinforcing the female ego. If you are wondering what in the world I am getting at, read on.
Women know exactly what's going to happen when they wear tank tops and hot pants - and they love every minute of it. Your initial reaction may be absolute disagreement, but take a moment to analyze the situation and you may come to the realization that I am not far off base at all. Women certainly don't dress sexy to make themselves feel better. If that were the case, they would dust and vacuum draped in elegant backless DKNY dresses. But they don't. Instead, they dress suggestively while in public, and boost their confidence by getting their male counterparts to gawk at their desirable, attractive bodies. They like the ongoing affirmation from members of the opposite sex that they still have what it takes to make men's hearts stop. This explains why they wear torn jean shorts that barely cover their thong, and fitted tops that don't leave much to the imagination. Is this appropriate attire for a trip to the grocery store? No matter, men don't seem to be complaining either way. If you are still doubtful about this theory, ask yourself why women look so different in nightclubs. This is because the place is classified as a typical hotspot and women dress
accordingly. Despite the negative comments women make about men who ogle them, for the most part, they secretly enjoy it. The operative word is most, because the last thing we want to do is generalize the entire female population!
History repeats itself annually when the season of love comes around. Whether it's at the park, the grocery store or even church, women take advantage of every opportunity available to expose their assets. This eternal game of mental foreplay allows for an undying appreciation of beautiful women. Summer is the best time of the year to witness how individuals react to a change in temperature. Just as wild animals have a specified mating season - humans, another variety of wild animal - experience the same type of premise. Although humans tend to be on the lookout, they are not likely to be more sexually active. This can be best explained by the look but don't touch hypothesis. Women want to make themselves available to men, but merely on the surface. Some men may classify these women as teases, but all is fair in love and admiration. Cats may find the perfect mate, yet they call it quits once they have fulfilled their procreational duties. The scenario is, however, different for humans. Or is it?
Women have men clinging on to every skirt movement, emitting a sometimes false aura of approachability. They spread their seeds all over the place in their own special way, allowing themselves to have a grand selection of who they want and when they want them. Men pursue these women, while the women choose who they want. Not too shabby! Next time you strike up a conversation with someone and you talk about the weather, remember how good the weather treats us!