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"How to create an atmosphere of expectation in your youth group"

By Garrett Rea

I remember the Wednesday night that Amber brought James B. to our youth group for the first time. After the
activities, snacks, worship, and teaching a small group of us sat outside the building, talking about the
challenges of being a teenager, having parents who never seemed to understand, and not knowing how to
find God for help. Although it wasn't cold, James was shivering as he poured out the details of a recent fight
he had with his parents. The wind was blowing as he started to cry and said, "I just don't know what to do. I
prayed for God to help and I don't know what to do now."

Amber meets with the leadership team of our youth group on Monday nights and she is really growing in her
love for God, love for others and leadership skills. She had invited her friend James B. to the youth group
that night because she was possessed by an overwhelming expectation that if he came that night he would
encounter God. James is now an integral part of our games team and helps every week to create an
atmosphere of expectation in our youth group.

I was asked recently by a friend who is in youth ministry the same question I am trying to answer in this
article, "How do I create an atmosphere of expectation in my youth group?" I need to begin by telling you
about the necessity of answering this question for yourself.

Everyone knows that there are many ingredients in successful youth ministry. Having an atmosphere of
expectation is not the only one. But it is important. When I think back to the youth groups I was involved in as
a student this principle always seems to jump out. I went to a small church of about 60 in high school that
had a youth group of 30 students. Our format was not exactly the best. Our activities were not always the
best. But I knew that if I brought one of my friends to that group that they would meet God and the people
there would accept them. I got involved in that group because I knew that I wasn't wasting my time. I could
see the results. I felt like I was giving my life to something that was bigger than myself and that I would have
a lasting impact. I want the same for my students. I want them to look back and see successful ministry
opportunities, changed lives, excitement, seriousness and contagious fun. My wish is that they are part of
something that they know makes a difference in their lives as well as their friends. They need to have an
atmosphere of expectation.

I imagine a young man coming into our group for the first time. He his here as a result of an invitation by a
friend whose life is changing before his eyes. The buzz around the school is that this group is the place to
be. There is also a buzz around that it may be a little risky because everyone he knows that goes there is
talking about Jesus with boldness. But he has to come because he is seeking for something, too. The room
is energetic with excitement. Good friends and new friends are hugging and joking. He gets greeted by the
guy at his school who is on the football team. He gets invited to be a part of one of our teams. The music
starts up and it is loud and he encounters God for the first time in his life and feels real peace. He has to see
more. The pastor stands up and makes jokes for a bit then the girl who invited him is standing up telling
about what her team is going to be doing in the trip that is coming up. He wants to be a part of that. He
knows that something is going to happen to him that night.

If you want to build an atmosphere of expectation, here is a good place to start.

You must have focus. If you have a youth group of 27 kids and you are typical, you have two adults
working with you. You have seen 4.24 conversions in the last year. You have very little time to do much of
anything except for the important stuff. You do not have time to waste on anything that is not making
disciples. Get rid of any programs that you inherited when you took the position over or any programs that
are a drain to you. In our youth group everyone knows that we exist to make real and radical disciples of
Jesus Christ. I say it over and over again. If you are doing things that don't help you accomplish your goals,
be ruthless and axe them.

Let me give you scenario: you took over a youth pastor job at your church and the guy who was there before
you always took a trip to the old folks home to visit on Christmas. You have inherited this tradition and you
hate it. You want to stop doing it but you feel guilty because, hey, we are supposed to visit the elderly right? I
say get rid of those things that drain you from what God has called you to do. God will give you your own
traditions and programs. But if you focus on things for which you don't have enthusiasm, everyone will be
able to tell and your youth group's mission will suffer by doing something that is arguably good, but not the
Go with the movers. You have to start with one person who will do anything for God and pour your life into
him. Meet him after school for coffee to study the bible. Before school for fellowship. I even make some of
my kids go grocery shopping with me. When I see willingness for the kingdom, I jump on it. That kind of
activity is contagious. Here are some of the results from doing this. This person's best friend will see a big
difference in him. He will come to your youth group and give his life to Christ. He will do the same things you
taught him to do and have a bigger impact than you. This process goes on and on. If you spend your time
with people who are a drain on you, the youth group will suffer.

Cast vision all the time. Everywhere I go I am talking about Jesus and the kingdom. I am always looking for
people in whom God is working. Then I call out of them the gifts that God has put in them along with the
potential that is there for the Kingdom. Recently I saw a kid at the mall. Surprised to see me there, he asked
me, "what are you doing here?" I said, "I love to come to the mall, man. There are so many people that don't
know Jesus here. You remember that time when the youth group came to the mall to tell people about
Jesus? Remember how we were all nervous and loving it. I love that stuff. I loved seeing you step out and
get crazy for God. You are going to make a big difference."

Now, if I didn't really believe that when I said it to that student, I would sound like a game show host. But he
knows that I want to make disciples for Jesus, and he expects it. So I will turn a harmless question about the
mall into an opportunity to tell this student about the big impact that he is going to have in the kingdom. That
kind of attitude is infectious. I believe in these students and I know that they have great potential. Casting
vision is my way of calling it out of them all the time. I say something which may not be the case as of the
present, but will be if the student knows that God is on his side, he can't fail, and he makes a big difference.

Stick to the basics of discipleship and evangelism. To really have the students in your group wanting to
come, to love being there, to buy in to the kingdom, and to expect God to change their friends lives you must
stick to the basics. You must give them what their souls truly want: to give their heart, mind, soul, and
strength to a God who is worth dying for. Social action is nice, but it isn't the water of life. Games are great
but they are not an encounter with Jesus Christ. Focus on the great commission.

Celebrate victories. Every time something great happens, make a big deal out of it. When I see people
greeting first time guests to our youth group, I make a big deal out of it. I talk about it from the pulpit and brag
about it. That is the kind of behavior that I want in our group. It is a good idea to have regular parties to
celebrate what God has done. Recently, at our end-of-the-year party, I made everyone stand up who had
come to Christ in the last year. It was awesome! There was real electricity in the room and everyone
cheered. That showed me that these students expect God to work in our group.

Talk like there is no option but success. I had a chat with one of the leaders in our group recently who
had just joined our leadership team. We had set a goal in the last meeting for seeing 40 students commit
their lives to Christ at the next concert outreach that we have coming up. She thought that it would be
impossible. I reminded her that our God is the God of the impossible. He always wants more and more
people to follow him. What would it have sounded like if I said, "In our upcoming outreach, lets pray for three
converts." Where is the challenge in that? I want to give my life to the impossible. The gates of hell will not
overcome us, so I talk like I actually believe that we are going to win in the end. (An aside: it would be
unrealistic for me to say that one million people would come to Christ at our concert. There is a difference
between building castles in the sky and being powered by the God who raised Jesus from the dead. But we
always have to be raising the bar of our expectations).

Raise the bar. When our leadership team got comfortable with meeting every other week, I raised the bar
and said that I felt we should meet every week. Some people were upset, but most responded with
agreement. What we decided was that, to do our job with excellence, we needed to meet more frequently.
When you raise the bar for your kids, they respond by valuing what they are doing. They buy into the group.

Think back to anything that meant anything to you growing up. The value of that activity in your mind is
directly related to how much you had to sacrifice for it. Incidentally, this principle works for evil, too.
Remember those cults with head shaving and drinking poison. People respond to a challenge!

Always relate success by telling stories and bragging on your kids. Do not hide accomplishment.
Anytime anyone does anything that helps us make disciples of Jesus, I brag on them. One of the girls in our
group is a recent convert who loves to invite her friends. Everyone in ministry wants people like this. Here is
the success I want to brag on: everyone of the people she invited in the last 6 months committed their lives
to Christ! I track these things. Not only that, they are all involved in our teams and help make the youth group
successful at making disciples of Jesus. I brag about that all the time. The kids in our group know what I
value by the stories I tell.
Make a big deal out of salvation over and over again. Every salvation brings us closer to fulfilling our
mission as the body of Christ. Also, every time someone turns from their sin to follow Jesus, our group gains
momentum as a life changing force. I make every student who gives their life to Christ stand up in front of the
group and I present them with a Bible. Everyone cheers when this happens. These kids love to see people
get saved partly because I talk about it all the time.

The list goes on. I always ask myself questions: "Would I want to go to this group? Would I die for this
cause?" There are people out there who will perch up in a tree for a year to make a statement about saving
the rainforests. Our cause is the best cause in the universe, reconciling men to God. I believe that to
accomplish this, we must create an atmosphere of expectation in our groups.

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