Making Sense Of The Love Game: Why Relationships Are So
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Why Relat ionships Are So Tricky
Have you ever had one of those relat ionships where you have been infatuated with someone your dating, but
when they admitted to really liking you, you no longer wanted to be with them? Perhaps it has been the other way
around, maybe you have had someone chasing after you but when you finally decided that you trusted them enough
to fully commit, they ran away in the opposite direction.
This kind of thing can be so confusing and painful. In fact it can seem really tragic especially if your the one
emotionally wanting the connection. Perhaps you remember this person from another time. Perhaps you know they
are your Soul Mate. Having that kind of understanding can make you feel even worse. You may wonder if your going
mad. Surly if they were they wouldn’t treat you like this right? Did you imagine the energy between the two of you?
Most likely you didn’t and yes they probably are your Soul Mate, or at least one of them. We actually have many. A
Soul Mate is someone we have loved for lifetimes and have had romantic relationships with in more than a few lifes,
probably more than one married to as well. Sometimes when you meet a Soul Mate you can have unresolved
issues to work through. But underneath all that, on a soul level there is a deep love and a knowing of who that
person is. So why do you run away from each other??
It all comes down to belief systems and the Law of Attraction. We attract people into our lives with
similar belief systems to ourselves. We then mirror each other to help one another sort through what is buried in our
subconscious that needs to be resolved.
So, say your afraid of commitment or love. You then attract someone who is also afraid of the same thing. What
happens is that despite the attraction or connection you have, those belief systems get played out. The results are
usually a scenario similar to what I have described above.
Another example is if you are holding onto belief systems about being rejected or abandoned. Lots of people have
these beliefs usually due to some childhood experience. With these kinds of belief systems, it can be hard for
relationships to last long term. Usually people are obligated to treat you by the belief systems you have. If you are
afraid of rejection, it means you think your not good enough. If you think that, your actually rejecting yourself and so
the people around you will act that out for you.
When this happens it means it’s time to do some work on yourself. Find ways to remind yourself how much you love
you. Look for ways to increase your self esteem so that you really believe your worth more than the way you have
been treated. As your self love increases, you will actually then attract a Soul Mate that also love themselves. Which
will enable you both to be free to show your love to one another and create a happy life together.
Try not to hold resentment towards people that have treated you badly. If each time this happens you take the time
to ask yourself ’ what does this say about the way I feel about myself’ you will end up with only gratitude for the
things these people have shown you.
I teach a Theta Healing workshop designed to help you let go of your love issues and help you to manifest a
compatible soul mate. Check out the next course dates here.
For more information about Soul Mates buy Vianna’s book.
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