Your Wedding Vows Are a Blueprint For a Successful Marriage Or Partnership You
wedding vows are more than you would expect. They are words that are encoded with
directions to your subconscious mind and the Universe to bring you want you want.
There is scientific research to support what I am talking about. Here's how this works . . .
It's a bit technical but you'll understand it pretty easily. The Reticular Activating System
(RAS) is a set of interconnected nuclei that are located throughout the brain stem. The
purpose of these cells is to filter input from the senses. We receive millions of bits of
external stimuli from the environment each minute. The purpose of our RAS is to filter
this input, based on what our value system and our experiences are. As you get clearer
and clearer about what your desires, wants, and dreams are and get to the feelings of
them, you begin to overlay that onto your existing beliefs and experiences so that you
begin to exprience people, places, things, opportunities, and ideas that reflect what your
dream is. It's a little like this: when you buy a new car you see that same car everywhere
you go. They were all there before but you didn't see them. They were invisible. Your
highest and best dream for your marriage is exactly like that. What you want already
exists in the form of people, opportunities, experiences, and ideas. You have to program
your mind so you are capable of seeing them. The goal or goals, then, must be as specific
and clear as possible otherwise your system will not be tuned accurately enough to pick
up the information. Your reception will be off. You need to know 'what you want' before
you can become aware of 'how to get it." You will not have to figure it all out. You will
'become aware of how to get it.' It's the Universe, Higher Power, God's job to bring to
you everything you need to satisfy, support and love you in your marriage. (More about
that in the next post.) It's your job to be aware of what shows up and use what you learn
wisely and joyfully The most important work you will ever do to guarantee the success of
your marriage is to take the time needed to craft that dream with passion and power.
When you do that you infuse the vows with magnetic energy. Simply said, your wedding
vows are nothing more than a blueprint for a successful life, partnership and marriage.
Your dream is in every letter, word, sentence and phrase. Love, light and laughter, Rev.
Linda, The Wedding Vow Coach Helping couples write down the dream and then live it!
Linda Bardes is a non-traditional minister who refers to herself as The Wedding Vow
Coach. Her main Ebook, THE SECRET LIFE OF WEDDING VOWS-How to Write
Vows That Create Powerful Marriages, gives guidelines on how to write vows that she
refers to as 'one page miracles.' She has an unusual and innovative perspective around the
importance of writing personal wedding or commitment vows and how to use them to
create powerful marriages. http://www.WeddingVowsandCeremonies.com