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Tips on Safely Handling your Child’s First Crush

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					      Tips on Safely Handling your Child’s First Crush

You got to go a bit in the past, way back to your teenage years, when you had
crush on somebody, were head over heels in love with a guy/girl you found really
cute! If your child is in adolescence, it is the time for the same experience to take
place in his life. It sounds exciting and interesting but it may not work out well in
some cases and prove to be problematic creating storms inside of your child’s
heart.




You need to peep inside your child’s life and know what’s happening and make
things come out well. Below is a list of to dos to handle your child’s first crush.

Playfully Ask Questions to your Child
Finding your child somewhat lost or kind of
daydreaming can be the signs of being in love or
having crush on somebody. Now whether the crush
is working out smooth or uneventful or it is just full
of events troubling your child from within, is the
question of utmost importance. You got to probe
inside to know what’s happening. The only way to
make your child speak is to question in most frank
and light hearted manner. You may start up like, “in
your age many guys/girls had crush on me, what about you my smart little
gal/lad!”
Talk to your Child
                                     Talking is one of the greatest remedies in
                                     every kind of issue or problematic situation
                                     faced by anybody. Talk to your child about all
                                     the possible things about relationship and
                                     falling in love, consequences of sexually active
                                     relationship (both protected and unprotected).
                                     With life moving at fastest possible speed and
                                     advancement making its place in every field, it
                                     shouldn’t shock you if your kid knows about
                                     everything before you even thought of talking.
                                     But make sure that the knowledge reaches
them in the right form and not in a distorted condition.

Explain with Examples - State Personal Experiences

Examples work like wonder, especially when
they are true and have happened in the real. You
can even share your own personal experiences to
explain certain things. Don’t miss out discussing
things like getting rejected or betrayed. Child
may even have to face over possessiveness
while turning their crush into a relationship. Let
your child know that you’ve been through all
that s/he is going through. This will bring
strength in your kids and help them open up
their heart and share what they feel.


Closely Check your Child

                                      Having crush on somebody is a sweet
                                      experience but when it ends up into
                                      something bad or difficult, it can be really
                                      catastrophic for the young people. Best is to
                                      monitor every move of your child, even the
silliest of the text chats, as sometimes, what you and your child may think as a
harmless affair of love and heart is actually a more complex issue when some
stranger from the social networking site pretends to love your child. This may
sometimes be really dangerous and needs to be checked on time. Using child
cellphone security is a great way to know about all the friends of your child, and
stay aware of your child’s crush and all that’s happening between them.

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