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You got to go a bit in the past, way back to your teenage years, when you had crush on somebody, were head over heels in love with a guy/girl you found really cute!
Tips on Safely Handling your Child’s First Crush You got to go a bit in the past, way back to your teenage years, when you had crush on somebody, were head over heels in love with a guy/girl you found really cute! If your child is in adolescence, it is the time for the same experience to take place in his life. It sounds exciting and interesting but it may not work out well in some cases and prove to be problematic creating storms inside of your child’s heart. You need to peep inside your child’s life and know what’s happening and make things come out well. Below is a list of to dos to handle your child’s first crush. Playfully Ask Questions to your Child Finding your child somewhat lost or kind of daydreaming can be the signs of being in love or having crush on somebody. Now whether the crush is working out smooth or uneventful or it is just full of events troubling your child from within, is the question of utmost importance. You got to probe inside to know what’s happening. The only way to make your child speak is to question in most frank and light hearted manner. You may start up like, “in your age many guys/girls had crush on me, what about you my smart little gal/lad!” Talk to your Child Talking is one of the greatest remedies in every kind of issue or problematic situation faced by anybody. Talk to your child about all the possible things about relationship and falling in love, consequences of sexually active relationship (both protected and unprotected). With life moving at fastest possible speed and advancement making its place in every field, it shouldn’t shock you if your kid knows about everything before you even thought of talking. But make sure that the knowledge reaches them in the right form and not in a distorted condition. Explain with Examples - State Personal Experiences Examples work like wonder, especially when they are true and have happened in the real. You can even share your own personal experiences to explain certain things. Don’t miss out discussing things like getting rejected or betrayed. Child may even have to face over possessiveness while turning their crush into a relationship. Let your child know that you’ve been through all that s/he is going through. This will bring strength in your kids and help them open up their heart and share what they feel. Closely Check your Child Having crush on somebody is a sweet experience but when it ends up into something bad or difficult, it can be really catastrophic for the young people. Best is to monitor every move of your child, even the silliest of the text chats, as sometimes, what you and your child may think as a harmless affair of love and heart is actually a more complex issue when some stranger from the social networking site pretends to love your child. This may sometimes be really dangerous and needs to be checked on time. Using child cellphone security is a great way to know about all the friends of your child, and stay aware of your child’s crush and all that’s happening between them. Connect With US: Our Blog: http://www.mobshield.com/blog/ Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/MobShield Twitter: https://twitter.com/MobShield Download MobShield: http://www.mobshield.com/register.php
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