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					How to make a girl smile

If you know how to make a girl smile, then you will automatically be more
successful with women in general. People like to smile, it makes you feel warm
and fuzzy inside and these feelings will be associated with the person who has
made you smile. Wouldn’t you like a girl to feel warm and fuzzy when she thinks
about you ?

Here are the kinds of smiles you are trying to get:

   •   Genuine smile
   •   Compliment smile
   •   Impressed smile
   •   Happy smile

And here are the kind of smiles you want to avoid:

   •   Polite smile
   •   Weird / “You are insane” smile.
   •   I own you smile

Situational smiles
The easiest way to make a girl smile is to make use of the environment that you’re
both in at the moment and to highlight something funny that is occurring. There is
always something interesting, or funny happening if you pay attention to it.

For example, if you’re both waiting in line… make eye contact so that she notices
you, and then immediately go into a huge fake yawn hinting that you’re bored of
waiting line. This works great if there’s a huge line and no one is talking. The key
is to be funny while retaining your dignity. If you make a fool of yourself, you’ll
get the “you are weird” smile.

A more verbal approach in situational smiles would be to point something funny
out to her. Usually talking about other people or items is an easy way to score a
laugh. If you were grocery shopping and you happened to be in the cheese isle, you
could say in a serious tone: “This cheese reminds me of the moon”, and then break
out a small grin. Its dumb, but it works. ( Here’s a little more information on lines
to make a girl smile )

Avoid pre-canned material
Of course, the WORSE way to make a girl smile is to use someone else’s joke or
canned material. If it doesn’t come out as spontaneous and natural, then it will
trigger the polite smile. What ever you do, do not ever tell a joke with a beginning,
a middle and an end. These will NOT trigger any attraction what-so-ever. In fact,
what this says is that you are trying to impress her and this will consequently lead
to less attraction.

Body language smiles & smiles attract smiles
Sometimes giving a genuine smile will result in receiving one as well. “Give and
you shall receive!” The best place to try this is in a setting where you are busy and
CANNOT immediately talk to the woman in question. The smile says: “Hello, I’m
interested and I WOULD talk to you, but unfortunately I’m busy right now and I
can’t, so I might later if you return the smile”. Imagine you were hard at work,
waiting tables, lifting boxes, actually doing something… and you saw an attractive
woman you wished to talk to but at the moment, just couldn’t. A nice genuine
smile would be infinitely appropriate and would peak her curiosity assuming she
found you remotely attractive.

If you don’t end up talking to her, then she’ll leave thinking: “Oh I should go back
to that place where that guy smiled at me… maybe he’ll still be there and won’t be
busy this time”

Conversely, if you DO talk to her, she’s likely to be much more receptive and
excited to get to know you.

The worse place to give a big smile as an opener is at a club, bar, party or any
social setting. This immediately says: “Hello, I don’t have the guts to talk to you”.
In those situations, talk first, THEN smile.

Comedy: Exaggeration and misleading
Assuming you’re hanging out with the girl, exaggeration and misdirection are the
best ways to make someone smile. Its the essence of all comedy and it works for
professional comedians as well as for you.

If you can get a girl smile, she’ll usually be more attracted to you. All those good
feelings get associated to you and consequently, you end up being the guy who
makes her feel good. The last and most powerful way to make a girl smile is called
using the “cocky and funny” technique. Not only does this technique work every
time, but it also triggers powerful feelings of attraction at the same time. The
“Cocky and Funny” technique is covered in detail in Double Your Dating by David
DeAngelo. Not only will you learn how to make a girl smile, but you’ll learn how
to create powerful attraction as well.

				
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