Aries As A Boyfriend Learn Your Man If you have an Aries as a boyfriend, then you’re probably used to him taking the lead in almost every situation, or at least trying to take the lead. Aries have that natural lead-the-pack instinct, and are most content when they’re in charge. An Aries as a boyfriend means you’re in for an interesting and exciting time! Aries is the Ram, and just by looking at the Ram you can get a sense of an Aries personality. The big horns and the big head bring to mind toughness, stubbornness and strength. And your Aries as a boyfriend will probably have all of those qualities. Something you should understand about Aries is that they’re very clever and very quick to say something witty or funny. Aries are often the people who can say something fast and off-the cuff that other people wish they could have come up with in that situation. But that means that they can say other things fast, too. When you argue with an Aries, sometimes they say things fast before they’ve thought them through. Just as they can be quickly clever, they can be quickly hurtful, too. Being an Aries is no excuse to be cruel and it shouldn’t be used as such, but Aries are simply more prone to saying things fast, good or bad, and worrying about the consequences later. Also, an Aries as a boyfriend won’t beat around the bush on issues. If he has something to say to you, or anyone else, he’ll most likely say it. Aries are direct, and don’t play around with words. This also tends to make them someone people will stop and listen to, which makes them good leaders. Aries are also more impulsive than some other star signs. A spontaneous weekend trip or night out with no prior plans can be one of the most fun things about an Aries boyfriend. You might never know what to expect. If you’ve got an Aries as a boyfriend, you must have attracted him through the qualities he loves and shares like passion, excitement and a sense of adventure. Don’t be afraid to be spontaneous too—your Aries will love surprises! Outdoor activities like hiking, rock climbing and boating are great times for this sign of the Zodiac. Though Aries will tend to not back down in a debate, don’t automatically give in to his side. If you believe you’re right, say so and you’ll only impress him with your confidence. Aries treasure independence and independent thinking, both in you and himself. Aries is a fire sign, and is most compatible with the other fire signs Sagittarius and Leo, and the air signs, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn can be with an Aries, but it’ll take more work. If you’re a water sign (Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces) with an Aries as a boyfriend, things can be a struggle because you’ll be much more emotional than him which can sometimes make him uncomfortable.