Shit Test Cheat Sheet
There are a lot of posts asking for advice on how to respond to a test from a woman. Like most guys, when I first started I wanted the perfect line for each test. It's not so much about the lines, but rather the way you respond. When faced with a Frame Test you have 5 different ways you can respond. Each type of response gets you + or - attraction points. For this example, we will look at when things are going great and all of a sudden a girl accuses you of being a player. However, this cheat sheet will work for most other tests. __________________________________________________ _________ 1. Getting upset by a test or losing control of your emotions (-2 PTS) Hb: Are you a player? I don't know. I mean, No. I am not a player! No, really. Do you believe me? (guy starts pouting) I can't believe you don't believe me. 2. Responding to the test with logic (-1 PT) Well lets see, my last GF was in March, 2001. We decided to take a break because she needed to focus on her school work. So... no, I'm not a player. 3. Ignore test and cut thread. (+1 PT) 4. Agree with her & exaggerate. Diffuse with humor. (+2 PTS) Yep, I'm a total pimp. I have 22, no wait counting you that's 23 GFs. It's kinda hard pleasing all of them in bed at the same time. This is what most people do (C&F). It works, no doubt. But there is an even better way. 5. Reframe the test as she is attracted to you. (+3 PTS) Hb: You are probably a player. I'm not fooled. 6yc: So, tell me something. When did you first realize... (pause) you were attracted to me? Pull her close and kiss her Here is a recent example of a test I got during an IM conversation. Hb: Hey, I saw pictures of you from the party last night. Looks like you were hitting on every girl. Are you a player? 6yc: So...you were checking me out huh? Hmmm... Notice how I ignore her thread (+1) and reframe her test (are you a player?) as she was sitting home and staring at my picture all day (+3). Take tests for what they are. She wants you.
Reframing (#5) also works well for AMOGs and other people in your life who try to lower your value. Just replace (attracted) with (person is trying to get you to like him b/c he is insecure) For example Amog (TD): Wicked shirt dude. My little sister has the same one... but with like the little stripes on it. 6yc: (Laughing) Bro, you don't have to keep trying so hard to get me to like you. I already told you, you are a cool guy. So next time anyone tests your frame, whether it be your girlfriend or that annoying guy at work, see how many + or -points you got based on your type of response. Review -2 pts) you get mad or upset -1 pt) you use logic +1 pt) you ignore the test +2 pts) you agree with the test & exaggerate it (C&F?) +3 pts) you reframe the test as she is attracted to you Knowing how to deal with tests correctly is probably the #1 skill you will need in having a successful LTR. If you think you get tested a lot out in the field...just wait until you are dealing with MLTRs (lol) 6YC No girl ever left a guy because he was too much of a challenge