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					               “If Only I Could Understand Men….”


Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so
complicated. Well, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give
anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to
know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts.



What’s a woman to do?

Rather than describe all the differences between the sexes, it is often more
helpful to focus on a few areas that any woman can understand.



    Men are more sensitive than women. While that might sound silly, the
     truth is that men don’t have the ability to recover from emotional trauma
     as effectively as a woman. Because of this, men keep themselves from
     getting too upset. When a man hears he should just “let his feelings out,”
     what he translates that into is this, “If I let my feelings out, I might not be
     able to control them.”



    Men hate fighting. For men, conflict is not simply resolving a problem.
     Fighting, to a man, means one has to win and the other needs to be totally
     defeated. Men often prefer conflict that is non-emotional because it is less
     threatening to them. Once a conflict becomes emotionally charged, it is
     very difficult for a man to contain those feelings and the most frequent
     coping skill is for them to become quiet. It may seem like they are punishing
     you, but they are most likely trying not to lose control.
 Men want to get married. In spite of what many progressive cultures
  preach, the truth is that a majority of men in the world do get married.
  While the freedom of being single has its appeal, it comes with one primary
  drawback – it is lonely. While this might not sound overly romantic, finding
  a woman that a man can trust is just as important as finding one who is
  beautiful.




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