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									                                                       yet, they have no knowledge of the case and issues
                                                       therein.

                                                       Typically to commence service, the Parenting
Parenting Coordinator:                                 Coordinator must become acquainted with the
An alternative to running back to Court                parents, the children, the history of their conflict,
                                                       and matters of current concern. While the actual
In high-conflict separations or divorces, parenting    process is at the discretion of the Parenting
issues may arise with greater frequencies that         Coordinator or service agency, the process is likely
continue to bring parents back to Court for            to include a review of prior reports and/or Court
resolution. This strategy is both untimely and         documents, individual meetings with parents,
expensive. An alternate strategy to manage such        meetings with the children and then joint meetings
disputes as they arise is through the use of a         with the parents unless this is contra-indicated as in
Parenting Coordinator.                                 cases of domestic violence.
A Parenting Coordinator is a neutral person to         Once the Parenting Coordinator is familiar with the
whom parents can turn when in dispute on matters       parents, children and issues, the Parenting
relating to the children. Parents may access the       Coordinator may then set out an agreement and any
service of a Parenting Coordinator in a more timely    stipulations for the provision of service. Assuming
fashion and costs are almost always less than going    agreement between the parents and the Parenting
to Court.                                              Coordinator to work together, then they may begin
                                                       to address actual issues at hand. In so doing, the
The role of the Parenting Coordinator is to help       Parenting Coordinator is usually empowered to
parents come to a successful resolution between        obtain any other information deemed necessary to
themselves.                                            help resolve matters. Generally speaking, children
                                                       are excused from further meetings, unless at the
However, the Parenting Coordinator may also be         discretion of the Parenting Coordinator their
empowered by the parents or by Court Order, to         participation is required.
make recommendations binding on the parents in
the event they are unable to agree on solutions. If    If you are running back to Court on issue after issue,
either parent feels there is sufficient reason to      consider the service of a Parenting Coordinator.
challenge the recommendations of the Parenting         You will likely experience more timely service, lower
Coordinator, they still have recourse to the Courts,   costs and generally greater control of the outcome
but may be subject to costs if the Courts support      as negotiated settlements are encouraged first.
the recommendations of the Parenting Coordinator.
                                                       Gary Direnfeld, MSW, RSW
The Parenting Coordinator cannot change the            (905) 628-4847
Order of a Court, but may assist the parents in        gary@yoursocialworker.com
implementing strategies, consistent with Court         www.yoursocialworker.com
Orders.
                                                       Gary Direnfeld is a social worker. Courts in
With regard to costs associated with the Parenting     Ontario, Canada, consider him an expert on child
Coordinator service, parents typically divide these    development, parent-child relations, marital and
equally unless there is a prior agreement to do        family therapy, custody and access
otherwise or unless there is an Order of the Court     recommendations, social work and an expert for the
specifying how costs are to be distributed between     purpose of giving a critique on a Section 112 (social
the parties. The parents, lawyers or Courts should     work) report. Call him for your next conference and
determine the matter of distribution of costs, prior   for expert opinion on family matters. Services
to referral. It is not appropriate for the intended    include counselling, mediation, assessment,
Parenting Coordinator to act as broker or negotiator   assessment critiques and workshops.
with respect to distribution of costs because as of

								
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