Section 1Is there such a thing as a Soul Mate?We understand that for a lot of people, even hearing the term Soul
Mate makes them at the very least sceptical, at worst nauseous. Stacey
herself used to feel that way.Stacey heartily disliked the idea that there was this one person for
her and that she was incomplete without them. She also didn’t much
like the idea that somehow she was fated to meet this person and if she
messed it up, well that would be that and she would never be happy.
And then of course there was the awful consequence if she didn’t meet
them – she would be alone forever or have to settle for someone that
wasn’t her Soul Mate.Wow. Seemed like the odds were pretty well stacked against her!But Stacey has always had faith that things were designed a little
better than that.So, she thought, perhaps she may have had the wrong idea about Soul Mates and years ago she decided to do some substantial research about where the idea came from and what the alternatives were. This way, she could … and you can … make your mind up about the whole concept.We think it’s important that we share this information with you so that
you know it isn’t just the ‘spiritual’ that gets us all fi red up. In fact much
of the physical feelings of attraction are indeed out of our conscious
control and therefore we don’t think much about them. However if we understand the tricks our own body and brain play upon us, we can
deduct what is left, if anything, for the idea of a spiritual concept such
as Soul Mates.Biology or Spirituality?So, your eyes meet across that crowded room.You see nothing in the room besides those eyes. That mouth.You are aware your heart is beating hard.You sweat a little.They smile at you. You lower your eyes and smile back.You blush.You feel like they are the only one in the room.You feel desired, watched.You feel so very, very, very good.Euphoric. Excited.Maybe you will go over for a chat. In fact, your legs are doing
that all by themselves.That face, those eyes, that mouth.That mouth is saying ‘Hello’ and nothing else matters.Ah! This scene has been playing in a party near you for a long time;
perhaps it was even playing in a cave somewhere a really long time ago.
That incredible feeling of ‘love at fi rst sight’ or at least ‘love by end of the night’.Could it be that this intense connection is actually a sure sign you’ve
found The One?
Stacey Demarco (Author)
Stacey Demarco is a metaphysicist, spiritual practitioner, and the author of Witch in the Bedroom and Witch in the Boardroom.
Jade-Sky is a psychic, a medium, and the author of What Happens Next?