"Your way to family happiness"
Your way to family happiness Amer bin Isa laho Teacher in the Teachers College in Dammam Elements of the lecture : - Introduction to happiness and that they desired goal. - Religion came to human happiness, and life, including their systems to ensure their happiness, and that His Excellency the family. - Why talk about the family? - Manifestations of Islam attention to the family. 1) that make the strength of marriage on religion and ethics. 2) it is cohabitation Virtue. 3) that he forbade injustice (injustice husband to his wife, his children or wife to her husband injustice or oppression of the children for their parents) 4) that the higher the parents and make the honoring of the most important rights. 5) it is good education. - The most important causes of family breakdown: 1) failure to observe the commands of God in married life. 2) lack of parenting education are valid. 3) Adoption of the evils in the home. 4) cruel and excessive rigor in education. 5) soft excess in education. 6) Build the relationship on the basis of the accusation, suspicion and mistrust. - The road to happiness family: 1) ensure that education by example and exhortation. 2) find alternatives to the violations of legality. 3) create an atmosphere dominated by a family of love and affection and even fun sometimes. 4) Open channels of dialogue, openness and quiet away from the taunting and the charge. - Introduction to happiness and that they desired goal. Happiness is the dream that was sought by all human beings; But the question that puzzled people is: Where is happiness?? I request the majority is inappropriately as they retreated back student pearl in the desert empty-handed down- hearted disappointed please.Yes; people have been tried in various colors Ages physical pleasures, and what kinds of sensual desires and Joduha achieve happiness. The search for people in big money and live well, what of its existence, and others discussed them in high positions, what Hsaloha, and others discussed it in broad fame and wealth, what they won it ...Why? Happiness is something that comes from within a human feel the moral aspects of it is not measured by quantity, not buy dinars, the real, it is the same serenity and tranquility and peace of heart and conscience of an open heart. It is noteworthy that a husband said to his wife angrily: to Ohqink.The wife said quietly: you can not Thqini also can not make me happy. The husband said in anger: How can I not? The wife said in confidence: if the happiness in salary made by me or the pet of Ahramtni ornaments to them, but in something not owned by you and people all together! The husband said in astonishment: What is it?The wife said in the sure: I find my happiness in my faith, my faith in my heart and my heart is no authority for it is one Lord. Similar to this is echoed by the sea, ocean and mountain proud flag, flags and lofty Sham al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah God rest his soul and the light of his grave to prison unjustly imprisoned in the Castle said God's mercy: what do my enemies, my man-Committees, a gardener in my chest where I went it with me. According to a predecessor, describing the situation which is in the midst of true happiness: It is with the hours in which I say: If the people of Paradise in what I like when they live for in the well-off. Ibn al-Qayyim may God have mercy on him (as in the runways): At the heart Shaath not Ilmh only demand on God, and the Sense does not remove it but intimacy with God, and the grief will not be dispelled only pleasure to know him, and honestly treated, and the concern was not inhabited by only meeting him and flee to , and the fire sorrows not extinguished only accept command and prohibitions and spending and embrace patience to do so to the time of the meeting, and the destitution is not plugged but his love and turn to the time mentioned and sincerity devotion to him, even if I give the world what they did not fill that poverty never). If ye loved ones happiness can not get except by faith and certainty in the first place. And our religion has come to ensure the happiness of the Muslim and even forbade the grief he says (Faint not nor grieve, for ye must gain mastery if ye are believers) and he said (do not grieve for them) and the Almighty said (he says to his companion does not grieve that God is with us) It was calling upon him blessings and peace (I seek refuge in You from worry and sadness). Religion came to human happiness and the absence of evil from them and the damage, and in all walks of life, and those aspects of His Excellency the family was built on the elements of happiness which is love, compassion and housing there is no happiness without affection and tranquility and compassion he says (and that He created for you wives from among yourselves ....) Verse. Then he had come that will be of the tributaries of this happiness is a righteous woman narrated that Sa'd ibn Abi Waqas may Allah be pleased with him that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said: Four of happiness: a righteous woman, and a spacious home, and a good neighbor, and a comfortable mount) Narrated by Ibn Haban in Saheeh, and horses. He said peace be upon him (lower pleasures and the good pious and virtuous woman) Narrated by Muslim. He says (Valsalhat obedient guard the intimacy which God). Brothers ..But was talking about the happiness of families because they are the nucleus of society Vslahaa be a building block of society and in Salah that corruption is a destructive element in the edifice of society. And Islam may take care of family care and very publicly summarize some aspects of this care in the following matters: 1) that make the strength of the marriage of religion and morality, and this is the most important aspects to take care of the family and is considered a preventive measure - so to speak - to avoid the kinds of immoral and corrupt family.He said peace be upon him (to marry four women and calculated their wealth and beauty and her religion Choose the one who raised your hands) agreed. Not the girl money, and beauty # # # both parents and Bmfajr But Bafaffha and Btehrha # # # and the validity of the husband and children And its affairs and that her # # # She looks in good times and bad times Ialit my hair Where are these the # # # girls under the Blue Dome Mustafa Mukhtar says peace be upon him (if you come to one whose religion and character, then marry only tumult in the land and great corruption) is the hadeeth narrated by Tirmidhi correctly. 2) A manifestation of attention to Islam the family it is cohabitation Virtue, he says (interpretation of the meaning) and the Almighty says (and their like who have religious police) and this includes cohabitation anecdotal and actual speech of the good and the company in a good way, refraining from harm and to do charity, and good treatment, and the forgiveness of slips.What is most in need our homes to the application of the union, and what is incumbent upon us to get back our tongues to speak the good in our family, and bringing the word the way dumping may exceed such a way that was sweet fresh from the impact of what is incumbent upon us to go back muscles and faces smile that simplify the most complex issues, and give us strength in overcoming many difficulties. And to you, brethren, stand from the house of prophecy Osotkm peace be upon him and it was from intercourse good for his family, it was narrated in Saheeh Muslim and the ruling pleased with narrated from Aisha, may Allah be pleased with her: entered the Prophet peace be upon him one day and said: Do you have something ?I said: no.He said: If I am fasting, came to us and then another day we said, O Messenger of Allah we have been given Hisa said: "Bin Laden-ism has become a fasting and he ate. Inflectional and described her husband died, she said: God has been penetrated if Dhoka acquiescence if found out what is eating and what it means. 3) One of the features that also forbade injustice of various kinds but most parents forbid injustice to the parents of the positive relationship of charity and to make known is also provided. And the injustice of kin more bitter # # # on the self- signed Hussam Almhend He said peace be upon him (the darkness of injustice, the Day of Resurrection) agreed. And injustices to children preferring each other came in the correct for-Nu'man ibn Bashir, may Allah be pleased with him that patience came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said: "I Nhalt this son of a boy I had said to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him (eat your child his ilk, such as this?), He said: No. He said: Then take it back. In a word: Oflt Baldk all this?He said: No. He said: "So fear Allaah and treat your children. In a word: bear witness to the others.Then he said: "Would you be in the land, whether you said: Yes, he said:" No, then. 4) It is apparent attention to Islam the family that the higher the parents and make the honoring of the most important rights, talk about honoring one's parents is difficult to be reduced in such urgency as in the Quran and the Sunnah of the many texts Almtzafarp concerning the righteousness of the parents add to what in fact breach of this to be great, and the right of God against him paired with the word "w only the right of parents, but came in second place after the command to worship (Worship Allah and join none with Him ...) Verse. 5) One of the features as well as it is good education, and parent education in the good of the Holy words of God ("O you who believe yourselves and your families against a Fire ....) Ali may Allah be pleased with him: they know yourselves and your families good and discipline them. Qatada said: tell them that obedience to God and forbid them to disobey Him and to undertake them by order of God tell them to him and helps him if I saw God, sin deterred them. The origin of good upbringing of the year saying peace be upon him (you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock, Imam shepherd and is responsible for his flock, and the man is the shepherd of his family and is responsible for his flock, and the woman is the shepherd in her husband's house and responsible for her flock.)Hadeeth is agreed upon. - The most important causes of family breakdown: The mean disintegration dissolution of family ties and the erosion of the love and affection between members of one house does not have a house of his role of President in directing and controlling the behavior of boys, but is a shelter for sleeping, eating, etc. but, no doubt that this serious matter, we must find an appropriate solution for him to return home to and dispositional status, but before that we must know some of the reasons that may lead to family disintegration, it is this: 1) failure to observe the commands of God in family life. A Muslim should go in his life, according to approach the Lord, who ordered his followers God said (Say that you love Allah, Follow me: Allah) and the greatest of God's commands that care must be proven by prayer, and therefore the text of God to follow up on parents in the Quran said (interpretation of and ordered the family to pray and have patience to) Allah ordered Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him to order his family to pray and Imitthelha with them, and Istabr them and accompany them.The Omar Bin Al Khattab may Allah be pleased with him to pray by night, God willing, to pray, even if last night, wake his family for prayers, and say to them: prayer, prayer, and recite this verse (and ordered the family to pray.)Narrated by Maalik in al-Muwatta. He praised God for His Prophet Ishmael peace be upon him as praised him by saying (and he ordered his family prayer and almsgiving, and was with his Lord satisfactory), and al-Qasim ibn Rashid Al Shaibani said: Zama coming down our Bamahsb, and it has the people and girls, and was up and pray for a long night if the magic Club top of his voice: "O behind Almarson Trkdon eat the night!Fterhlon not then you? , Vetoathbon will hear from Buck here, and here is a farewell, and here the reader, and here wudoo If dawn club top of his voice: When people praise the secret morning. This is the case with people, what is our situation??!!Many of us miserable conditions and no power except with Allah understand many of us with his family ate it you drank Do you wore studied!!!As you arrived you performed what Allah has enjoined on them?? There is a sergeant and Hasib and even God, was impressed by that!!His son wants to pray in the mosque Fimnah!!And his son wants to fast in Ramadan Uwenhah There is no power but of God. And the Almighty says in the verse as developed (O ye who believe! Ward off yourselves and your families against a Fire ....) And the protection of parents from the fire can only be taken into account if the commands of his Lord in a Muslim himself and from under his hand.Imam al-Ghazali, may God have mercy on him when ethics husband: it is to protect it (the wife) fired, he should teach them believe the Sunnis, and removes all her heart, every fad that heard it, and Ykhovha God that took a lenient view in the matter of religion and teach from the provisions of menstruation whilst the what you need.* MrE I say: So the man towards his children he has to take into account the orders of God in them and inspect their condition and inspecting the conditions of religious and mundane this is what leads us to the second component of the disintegration of the family is: 2) lack of parenting education are valid. Some people think that is education is desirable and good and there is nothing wrong with a man if excessive, that of a God, a mistaken ordered education, duty and rights to account for negligence and is responsible for lenient said peace be upon him (There is no slave Istraeih God congregation dies a gash to his flock but Allaah has forbidden Paradise) agreed. It's dangerous and difficult account. Also, some people think that good education only to incite a child to pray only and ask for their performance - even though they are the most important things a head of good works - but to be tolerated in the aspects of education other, it may prayer itself at risk so they gave the boy if there was no integration in the various aspects of education. The scientists from the good education that education has many aspects - to recall here briefly and concisely: - 1) Spiritual training: It is linked to the boy since Taklh assets faith and accustom him since aware pillars of Islam and teach from time to distinguish the principles of Sharia glue and enter the prayer, he said peace be upon him ("Teach your children to pray when they are seven years old and hit them when they are ten and separate them in their beds) Narrated by Ahmad and Abu David is a true 2) Education defects are virtues and behavior that taught to the child and become accustomed to consciousness since differentiate to become expensive Between faith and morals closely linked to, Al-Tirmidhi narrated from Ayyub ibn Musa from his father from his grandfather that the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said (the bees and the father of a son of bees better than literature Hassan) and the bees is a gift.Need to be raising children on the morals of honesty, truthfulness, integrity and respect for the large and generous and loving to others and the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice; also prevents them from vice, morality, such as lying and swearing and the like 3) Physical education and this known her.The Prophet peace be upon him (strong believer is better and dearer to God than the weak believer) Narrated by Muslim.He says peace be upon him (enough sin for a man to miss out of his care) Narrated by Abu Dawood. 4) Education substances: They are intended to configure the thought of children with everything that is useful to forensic science, cultural and awareness of intellectual, we are in time may become a war a war of ideas and values become so many enemies trying to undermine the fundamentals of Muslims under the pretext of dialogue and debate, and this is rejected categorically He says (therefore Pray to be upright and also ordered not follow the whims and say you believe in what Allah has revealed from the book and ordered to do justice between you and your Lord, Lord God to us our deeds and you are not an argument between us and you, God ...) Unfortunately, many Muslims undermine these principles to his family and he does not feel that broadcasting in their own home through the channels as corrupt evil will come to talk about it, God willing. 5) Social Education is raising the children since a very young age on the commitment to social ethics virtuous because we do not live in isolation from the people must be mixing with them salute them a sense of the Association of Islamic brotherhood He says (The Believers are but brothers) says peace be upon him (Muslim brother is not oppress him nor betray him do not forsake him as evil for a man to hold his brother Muslim "Every Muslim is haram for a Muslim blood, property and honor) Narrated by Muslim.Yahya, as well as educator in children a sense of altruism is to create a wonderful Advanced Alkml not only characterized by a preference of the people on the other the same rights in some worldly interests he says (and who took the house and the faith before them ...To say (and influence on themselves if their merit, is a strong lack of same, they are successful), as well as develop them to create an amnesty for others and respect their rights and so of social ethics. If I lost these types of types of education there is no doubt that this will lead to the disintegration of family and aversion to the boys and their parents, and depending on the complement of these species have close family link. Emerging and established us boys # # # what was the return of his father Dan and the boy, but Bhjy # # # is visited religious Oqrboh Let us conclude this element to this story: the man came to Umar ibn al-Khattab may Allah be pleased with him complain about his son gave him disobeying age of the child and point out Akogah to his father, the boy said: "O Commander of the Faithful is not the rights of the child to his father?He said: Yes.He said: What is it?Umar said: to select his mother, and improves his name, and teach him the Qur'an. The boy said: "O Commander of the Faithful" My father did not do anything of that; My mother she was a Negro magician, has made Samani (ie, beetle) and did not teach me of the Koran and the characters one!!Amrily turned the man and said: I came complaining about disobeying your son has Akgueth before Iakk. 3) of the manifestations of family break-Adoption of evil in the home. Perhaps this element has closely linked to the first element which is taking into account the orders of God in the family life, if taken into account the parents are the commands of God faded away evil If you do not observe the commands of God and shortened the Vschia evil in the house and hit the cords in, and should, brethren, to know that the sins and the sins sinister men and his family say a predecessor (I disobey God I see the impact in the creation of my wife and my mount) and should know that the sins of a student of what God does not repent slave them and pray for forgiveness and as a reason for the scourge and evil, he says (Corruption has appeared on land and sea because of what the hands of the people) says the bulk of gaze (And whatever of misfortune befalls your hands have earned, and forgiving much) says the Prophet peace be upon him (God is envious and jealous God to violate see) How many homes have demolition of God because of Mbarzathm his sins day and night, but how much of family life have undermined the tents From the first days of marriage because of Igdhabhm to Jabbar in weddings, and it is established concerning our religion that can not be silent about evil, whatever he said peace be upon him (that you saw speaking out of his hand, then with his heart and that is the weakest of faith) Narrated by Muslim. There is no doubt that the parents are at home to hand power to change can not be tolerated because the evils Calfaal Radi al-Qaeda has fought for the Almighty said nothing in favor of peace be upon him (the midst of hamstrung her) with that which mauled by one person but the rest were recognizing him They were both. Should know that the types of anger Mahmoud anger if it violated the sanctity of God Bukhari narrated from Aisha, may Allah be pleased that they bought Nmrqp which there were images when he saw the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him by the door and did not enter said: "I knew in the face of hatred, she said:" O Messenger of God I repent to God to R. Sule, what have I done wrong?He said: "What is this pillow?Buy wish she said to sit on and Ttosdha He said: "The owners of these images punished on the Day of Resurrection, and is said to have revived which you have created.He said: The house in which images angels do not enter.In our time this has slapped evils of houses and swept in planning thoughtful of the enemies of religion and religion, coupled with negligence in place of the people of Islam spread across trials, the houses in the satellite channels that do not know the fatigue and boredom in the broadcast all poison to the children of Muslims from the temptations of desires and doubts and drain their energy and even money through the screens or the information network (Internet), and evil is also an indulgence many of the girls hijab and simulation of the fashion of Western and Eastern became adopting new all-new in the fashion world as they are called to become the girl who wears the Islamic hijab uncontrolled controls legitimacy like a stranger and that was only loosely parents about the evils daughters so I've heard a parent say about his daughter Almtbzlp wearing what does not please God: What can I do anything to her!!!!Hallelujah if this house is sick simplest diseases Do you think it says them!!!What if the mind is seeking in the treatment of physical illness does not seek to treat heart disease, the most dangerous and more. The creation of the atmosphere of sin in the house has one of the greatest causes of family disintegration, which does not please him Salah for boys because the father did not follow the path of reform and denouncing As you sow today Thsdh tomorrow. Requests the escape did not behave tracks # # # The ship does not walk on dry ground 4) Among the reasons for disintegration of families also cruelty and excessive rigor in education or a soft excess. Muslim narrated in his Saheeh from Aisha, may Allah be pleased that the Prophet peace be upon him (what is kindness in everything but it adorns and disarmament of thing but it makes) the basic principle in the treatment of human kindness and gentleness only if what it's worth intensity there is nothing wrong then and are commendable. Vksy to Yazdgroa and Iike firm # # # # Vliqs sometimes of mercy Valksop Standing alienate the people around you if you're closest relative said to His Prophet peace be upon him (the great mercy of God Lent ..). Dear loved ones, and the cruelty that is already beating and so they also are saying and that reprimand Qarea and contempt and ridicule and scorn, how and where God from destroying the children and killed the morale in their hearts and their perception that they were not fit for something and this is the most dangerous things in education because the boys in such a situation would be vulnerable to any Itlagafhm from the demons of mankind and the toy for each of the Egerhm of the fools and this is not pleased by the parents, even though they may be the reason for this. It should be mentioned in the books of the biographies that Sid may Allah be pleased with him sent to Ahnaf bin Qais asking him about the boys, said: "They are the fruits of our hearts and Emad our backs and we have land and humiliated and sky shady the requested Voatthm The angry Vordahm they Emenhonk and raid and love their best, and do not burden them Vimloa your life and wish for and missed. On the contrary, the soft excess and complacency more harm than good and spoil more than they fit the boys Setjrwon their parents and they will come to what is known by demonstrating everything that he says the boy is true and everything is doing good and all requests answered it and the error it right and live Served thing Nahia 5) building the relationship on the basis of the accusation, suspicion and mistrust. Doubt if infiltration into married life marred And the demolition of their structure And crack The pillars of love and intimacy and affection And Mercy The guidance of Islam came to build a bulwark against this storm, tornado, it is that prohibition peace be upon him for (in order to suspicion) and track suspicious people, as stated in the The hadeeth of Abu front of him may Allah be pleased with him that the Prophet peace be upon him said: «If Prince seeks mistrust in people corrupted by». In the modern forbade the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him if the prolonged absence the man that his family comes Trouka.Agreed.In the other report: (forbade his wife to knock the night Itkhounhm missteps or request). Thus, boys should not feel that their father Itkhounhm doubt them always, this cause for aversion and escape from this bitter reality in the eyes of children, but he should feel more that they place their confidence and this does not come from a vacuum but should be done after the effort in the foregoing types of education. - The road to happiness family: Brothers Family Happiness aspiration of all couples, but can only be the reasons for which they can be a happy family and the avoidance of the causes of family disintegration, which have been mentioned, and that, too. 1) ensure that education by example and exhortation. Vakaddop is one of the most effective means of influencing the education and Salah boys and therefore Salah family if the breeder is an honest decent chaste grew up the child of honesty, generosity, and chastity, and vice versa has come to me a father and said: "I have advised my children to stop smoking did not respond!!I said to him: "You Do you smoke?He said: Yes.I said: How you want to accept your advice with your tongue, and you urge to smoke by doing!!! The one who describes the drug invalidism Thi deep sorrow # # # so that it is true and you are sick Do not end for creating and comes like # # # Shame on you if you did a great Start your own Fanahha for Geha # # # If you are finished with him wise There is accept what he preached and the model # # # you and benefit science education If the breeder if he mends his ways and become a good example for his son and then saw the boy and behavior disorders is true, then he Bmoazp, advice and guidance, one of the most important means for farmers, therefore, made the exhortation in the Quran, it is often, for example: Preaching Luqman to his son (and if Luqman said to his son while he was advising him ..)And meaning (God admonishes you to go back to like him .. never) And the verse (That is preached of you believes in Allah and the Last Day ..)And he says (He admonishes you, that ye may remember) and says (Allah admonishes you with what graces) And he says I'm beautiful perspective: advice and reminders of the consequences. 2) It may be a way to find alternatives to domestic happiness of the violations of legality. The sense that the breeder's forbids his children when the violations to them there is a variant of what is permitted and permitted, and I'm rich for no man's land and that God has permitted us His grace and bounty many times is the sanctity of us.And creating a legitimate alternative may the texts, it is that the Prophet peace be upon him Astmal Suddenly a man on the Khyber pass on shrubs Messenger peace be upon him: eat the Khyber pass like this?He said: By Allah, O Messenger of Allah, surely, take retribution from this Balsain Alsain for good and said to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: do not do, sell for cash and then combine Apta Jniba dirhams.Agreed. Thus, for the family may be some boys had taken the company of no good with them directs the father the boy to take a buddy good righteous who Ydlewnh good and Ieinoh it, and so the girl, was packed with home machines to musical instruments and singing Vistbdl the Holy Quran and useful lectures and speeches, both beneficial and some of the songs kind that do not contain the violations of legality, as well as there are in the home satellite bearish calls for vice and encourage her, but do not need to prove that exclude a father that evil and replaces it with the good and benefit, and the best channels known for their good and advocating for and preserve the Islamic etiquette to a large extent - and only God is perfect - channel Glory satellite is the world leader in the Islamic media targeted.Also replaces the magazines falling that do not benefit and are not only useful to raise instincts magazines useful useful magazine of the family and the Journal of the statement, the community and Sisters and other Islamic, and so draw what was double- edged sword to what is beneficial and useful as a Computer Information Network and the Internet, the good thing a lot It is no secret, but needed to follow up and question the experts on how to exclude sites of evil and pornography as well as the possible development of a library, however small, in the house would be a reference to the family containing the types of science in the interpretation and modern literature and religion and other sciences useful other in each of these sciences and thankfully wrote a brief get the simplification of science. 3) One way to find a happy family atmosphere dominated by a family of love and affection and even fun sometimes. Here and ask the question: Why, if the income of many of the boys to their homes, their illness a wave of depression and stress and they became brothers screaming on the coarse and blunt and outside the home if they go out and Hishoa Peshwa as if they were in prison?!! There is no doubt that such has lost the atmosphere of family fun, which dominated the love, humor and sometimes this approach prophetic cream was narrated that the Prophet peace be upon him he flirts with Hassan and Hussein, may Allah be pleased with Vimshee on his hands and knees and relate to both sides by Vimshee them and say: Yes sentences Jmlkma Yes, both you and Aladlan. But sometimes peace be upon him preaching Tribal Hassan and Hussein in walking and Itosran cut off further talk and Ihamlhma, and so for boys adult it Idaabhm what suits them from stories and discussion, questions and puzzles and useful to dedicate some days of the meeting of family in which to raise issues of concern to everyone, etc., or read books useful and helpful, Vinaakecon among themselves and that of the best methods, which leads us to the fourth element is: 4) Open channels of dialogue, openness and quiet away from the taunting and the charge. The issue of openness between the boys and their parents do not occur only after a series of mutual trust and mutual respect, building bridges of friendship love and if you arrived parents to the stage of openness has opened to them a manifest victory Fbalmassarahp know the parents are of interest to children and share with them in developing appropriate solutions, and this can be achieved father had been taken from the method of humiliation and ridicule his slogan boys. The peaceful dialogue is the most effective way to resolve the problems of the children screaming and voices are raised Could replaced it with a quiet dialogue and this has a moral and health benefits as well: 1) Understanding of the subject on the face is correct. 2) Develop the appropriate solution to the problem. 3) Promote the spirit of self-confidence and opinion at children. 4) Security commendable actions of others such as beating of children and driving them out of the house and perhaps it will be easier than that. 5) Away from health problems such as high blood pressure and inflammation of the colon and other diseases. Finally, brethren, this effort eyeballs do not pretend that I am surrounded by the topic in all its aspects, but are references you want from the alarm on this important issue which we ask God Almighty to guide us to it, although we are pleased with you in this world and the Hereafter and live live happy and die the death of the martyrs, and Allah bless our Prophet Muhammad and his family and companions. Written / Amer bin Isa fun Teacher in the Teachers College in Dammam