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Michelle is ok with they Going over relationship satisfaction scale Wife was already arguing about husb's answers Discussed court hearing. Celebrated their anniversary Nothing happened at court. Judge postponed it to another time. Amber daughter is in Alaska. Mo is losing custody. He is talking to ex boyfriends of wife to testify. Joshua Sanchez-33 Better understanding of each other Alicia Rupershet-34 Misundertood communication both dv on each other Explained process with them Day before they came in. She hit him. She touch him, joking, aroused him. ?Infidelity She wanted to leave, he wouldn't let her leave, pushed a dresser in front of door. She was doing more hitting then he does He is afraid she won't come back. Marwan Touma-29 Reconnected, they are both in therapy Reduce anxiety, still living with dad, mom passed. Dad noticed an improvement Older brother. Lives in Colorada 2 sisters, hx and comes here for depression Progressive chart, levels of anxiety Thought tracking Left early and left her husband, said the sessions together weren't working, Kristen-26 husband was lying. sponsor is out of town. Now communicating with sponsor 8/29/11 Marriage, lost 2 yrs of sobriety with 1 Did she call anyone else? No glass of wine. Low self esteem. Focusing on marriage. He controls her, she doesn’t' get to go anywhere. Has not hit. Threatening to change locks on door if she leaves. Will leave with her $$ from student loans Last week she moved in and stayed married. Very indecisive. Poor choices. Piotr Sidoruk-29 child molesting not reported Made attempt to contact his dad. He runs away when situations get tense to Sessions: 8. avoid being abandoned Presenting problem. Molested in Poland at 5 yrs. Wrote her a letter, sees her as a sister. Restablished a rel with mom. Issue of molested by boyfriend. Lied to his mom about why he got fired from job. Talked to mom about how critical she is of him. She is in denial, thinks rel. is just fine Used to have dad as a friend on facebook. Now dad isn't on there. One time at 14. Dad wanted to take him to Disneyland, he was too mad at the abandonment, and Re-established friendship with Javid had a whats the use attitude. and Derrik. Hasn't found a job. Has been reading the file. It is a lot. Talked to mom on phone. Have an The Johnson girls appt. tomorrow with the girls. Grandma will bring girls. Dad is Joshua Johnson supposed to pay. Rosa Aisa Murillo Janissa, Janzanna Craig, Martha, Pam Monday night Parenting Martha graduated 10 week Parenting Able to give extra information Craig still coming Self estem Steve- gave the toy, fireman Sean Bradley, Scott Praska Diep Ngyeun-34 dad chinese raised in vietnam from family of 5. 20 weeks. Hit son with a toy truck. Incarcerat Jason Ching philapino Keith and Tony 2 years ago, behavioral issues started. Keith 5 Father has renal failure. Crying a lot, playing video games- Tony 15 Sees dad on weekends No relationship He doesn't feel he deserve her. He works at USC. She doesn't work Stop hitting says the therapist hitting then he does Sent resumes to 2 places; no response Friends yet It's time to doing something for himself. Made a mood chart. He talks about where he is at. Done with the marriage. Still very angry. Obsessed about Tired of going back. She will relationship. Before relationship. go to police to go get her Indecisive. Something wrong with her clothes. thinking. Her parents split with sponsor 8/29/11 Now is with new stepdad=DV Filed for divorce. Was living with a friend. Found a place to live. Started school last wek. Only child- gets mad at her paren Sees Monika a college student he sees when she comes with her mother to see him. weeks. Hit son with a toy truck. Incarcerated 2 months. Jason also went to ch Mo and younger sister were murdered. Jason's parents are divorced. J doesn't talk to his mom because of the divorce. First Last Eva Gonzalez DV Cousin hitting kids Ismael Gutierez NCP Debriefing 1x month Monitoring Found wife, female cousin in bed 13, 11, 9 2 hours + 15 min Estrella Regalado 16,13,9,5 Drew picture doing activity with each other- Team building activity, then Planning indiv session bring in activity with Mom Family quilt Went to Chicago with ex and baby Meshelle Devries 40 Hx BF lives with, both sets of kids taken away He is fighting for custody Neglect. Live in apt. She was accused of child abuse 9 mon ago, kids in foster care, has unmonitored visits every sat. Kids left with her friend, 15 yr old attacked Meshelle. Gone to AM, parenting, now off of street drugs, sober 1 year, no urge, takes vicodin and soma for back. Bipolar, adhd. Trimadol for sleep. Valium, Zanax and Benedril. Vicodin, Soma Newlyweds, known for 8.5 years, She is working on MA degree, He is working but business isn't doing well. Amy says Tim goes out and drinks Amy 25 too much. Tim/Amy Plouffe 35 Couples See him today. Feedback on book. His ex wife is alienting from kids. He went to see kids in Ariz. Going Micky Griffith 42 to Ariz more oftne, every week. self employed=writer, 730 evaluation, technical writer alienation. Eva Eva Denter 43 Lost kids, dad has the Megan 10 step mother is PI, out to get mom Tristen 7 Trying to do monitored visits. Couldn't give a copy of the minute o Dtr (24) Lives with 24 yr old daughter Mother stop inspecting, Granddaughter 8 yr Daughter videotaping genitals. Cutting hair Supervise children Parenting decisions in compliance with law, ie. Car seats ? Developmentally delayed. Katie said she appeared to be on drugs Drugs may be underlying issues Court ordered to come in for counseling Was weird. Mini skirts, hispanic, illegal, jacket on. Went into bathroom, stayed in for a long time. Was on internet with kids around, skype. Kids unsupervised while she was online. BF Frank is 43 Chelsy-19 Ex best friend living with dad. Bullied through elementary, trauma at 14. Clepto, vindictive. Amy/Tim Plouffe 25/35 Together 10 yrs. Came in to get divorced, chnaged things up He parties, he likes a lot of people. Compromise their since April socialization No children Saw Amy individually. Tim today. When he goes to the party, he goes as a single man In her mind, they come together, leave together He can stay there. She doesn't drink smoke He drinks, smokes He likes that she has brought him down. Tim has 19 yr. Tim's stepfather's daughter is mother of Tim's daughter Were going on a camping trip. Spencer 34 Used to do meth, got into trouble with men and women. Was with Catching up with his hx. Assignment: not to worry about clients, money. Does web sites, designs, no contact with girl. Has been talking to her. Where is money going? Do a budget. Patricia Orozco 41 18 yr old has mood swings. Thinks he is doing drugs. Admitted he h Martin 18 but he can handle it. Dad of fist three same dad. With youngest boy Jonathan 16 Nobody talks about death. All boys started crying in session about d Christian 14 Youngest boy 10 Monitored visit, make sure they Three kids all seen. Dad Will see April 11 -1 x month are on for 5:45 to 7:45. brings food He was telling all story Played taboo He brought monopoly - In debriefing, stuck to good-coached not to put movie on during nice kids- 5 pages of notes He kept wanting to go into hx dinner. Played games. Involved in 730 eval. Lost temper -female cousin. Saw Dad with Jacob. Jacob is being pulled between the parents. Dad feeds Jacob scarey things that the 16 yr old could do. See them Wed. Activity. Going to keep Jacob and Antonio are fighting having the two boys do an activity. Was going to see 2 boys, A choked J, J doesn't remember it saw Jacob's dad, blaming the problem on older bro. Son is 9 year old visits dad being picked on Activity played 21, With all family members, What if? Hasn't been coming in. 4/5/11 Coming in for 2 o3 more sessions Upset about report. She said Amy said she has been sober for 1 yr. The county is drug testing her. Has has clean drug tests. When Amy called her back, Twice she mention it vicodan, zanaz, altrim, soma-trz has been 8 or 9 yrs since she had street drugs. Kids were taken away six months ago. Came back, got assignment to go over values and morals. Want to continue the session. Suggested that they take an hour. Went over that, each had five things. What they wanted in life from their relationship. Phone for 5 min. See them Thurs. Doing well-several assignments, spend time with each other. Back to back. They wait for each other Gave an assignment. Tim agrees to pay the to finish. Going to have kids- Paris, Jordan, Sydney Moving it slower, haven't seen See him every other and another city.. last week of April him, maybe had the kids last week. week. Write a letter to each daughters telling them about his life. Jordan likes and dislikes. Not talking to them on the phone. Writing Journal Hasn't seen them for months- Dad's cell phone Don't know who to believe, don't know how visits. Couldn't give a copy of the minute order. Gave Katie a copy Goals: paperwork. No goal. Get kids back. Has monitored visits with F.A.C.E.S.- 1x week, every sat. with Allison ompliance with law, ie. Car seats d to be on drugs hispanic, illegal, jacket on. tayed in for a long time. ds around, skype. e she was online. Been together 2 yrs, he has 12 and 19 yr old daughter, used to be her friend. in to get divorced, chnaged things up Making progress, then don't see them Issues: drinking partying.His arty, he goes as a single man doesn't drink smoke ought him down. nto trouble with men and women. Was with a toxic woman, went up North. ? Do a budget. ngs. Thinks he is doing drugs. Admitted he has tried drugs ad of fist three same dad. With youngest boy, dad died 2 yrs ago. ath. All boys started crying in session about dad. Going to court this week Activity hand cast M Sees the kids once a month Mom and kids in evening. Jacob told Amy he wants to live with Dad. Crying. Torn. Own room, own tv, no one he has to share with. What happens after school. Dinner together. Old brother doesn't eat with family. At least once play together 30 minutes. Walk, etc. Had Jacob and mom sit together and talk. Antonio is now doing things with family. Is Salvador coming in Monday night. growing up, looking into getting a job. Still Wants Amy to make a report about motivated to graduate with class next year. Now Jacob. Jacob is picking on other family members. o3 more sessions o to believe, don't know how to help Lives in 1 bedroom with her ex girlfriend Tim is coming in this week Next week on vacation. ? Verge of a divorce? Monthly visits with kids, 1,3 5th weekend. Working on boundaries. Name Salina 714.788.3229 Shalom Dad hasn't paid Nick Wood son talks back and calls Gm Andrea Woods 949.375.1557 Janie Du 714.437.2335 Trying to get boyfriend in, called Andre yesterday Stepdad sexually abused her a Oliver Pastrana 714.925.9096 Having a difficult time with managers at work.. Disneyland…being managed. McDonalds Haley Rooney 949.226.4741 Norma Martinez depressed She was with him 8 months. just two sessions, started missing. Follow up 54 Philipino second marriage, somewhat arranged to get legal. Husband is ill polio. His family takes care of him. She had been a caregiver. They wouldn't let him sign papers. Kicked her out last Novembr Has immigration attorney, unemployed, staying with friends. Has 3 adult children 20, and others with kids. Ray Poltak November saw Nicholas-13 Cancelled Julie saw in January Bethany Why is Nicholas not seeing his dad. Interpretation of minutes Child was hit by Ray. Nicholas' teacher made the report Matthew Goldstein 5 yr old. His behavior is all about their relationship. Veronica David Problems at work, probably going to go to jail Conjoint with both parents Simon Engarfall Michaela-13 Conjoint with the father/daughter Good planning until a year ago, Niece came to visit, told daugther that Simon's gf was having multiple affai "Not coming over to your house Mom was gettting $2600 a month child support and alimony. Simon told mom "can't do this anymore." Go Court ordered Mom talks about Simon so kids can hear. "Your dad isn't paying me enough money to do that. New gf takin Simon still w/ gf even after evidence that gf has been cheating. Cecilia and Ana went to concert. Ana met a Ana comes back to house, Ana tells the kids Cecilia met a guy. Stepdad sexually abused her at 17, Leaving her boyfriend. Friday preparing with contact with Fa d…being managed. McDonalds..happy to have a job. Suck it up for the team. ted missing. Follow up mily takes care of him. last Novembr n's gf was having multiple affairs om "can't do this anymore." Got an attorney money to do that. New gf taking all money away from us Ana went to concert. Ana met a guy, C says, "lets go" Ashley's Clients Name Octavia Jackson child abuse, has monitored visit O'S father wasn't in the picture much. Luis Lopez Marcos Zaragoza Jimmy Houllis good sports, downer this week Ashley and Jeremy Schiro George Dunda Family Angel 7 child, Anabel 27, Raul 27, Anabel, Angel & Raul HS sweethearts, got married, pg Ramirez with Angel, rel didn’t go well. Raul Wants Angel to tell the Therapist left 6 mo, divorce took 2 yrs where he wants to live obsessed with her, told her my aunts raped me. Wanted her Raul cancelled 2nd session attention. Raul comes in next session. Anabel wanted Raul to tell her the R. called ssa 2x on Anabelle, re: story of what happened at 18. "My uncle got mad at me. Scared Wanted him to get it out in open him and called second time. Parenting 10 week doesn't remember mom's funeral. Flat affect. Birthday. Awkward moment. Visualized mom riding David on horse hair blowing. All family Galindo/Agustin members coming over. Juan was Quintana downstairs Jasmine Miller not sure if she if she is pg, hasn't had a period in 3 months, feels something moving around Last week she went to clinic and they ttold her she wasn't pg. Her mother told her she was pg, and the clinic told her no baby Her school teacher sent her to tx. In an abusive rel for 2 yrs. Works at K mart, met co-worker, treated h DK why I treated him badly, taking my anger out on him from my former relationship. Got BF moved in Now he is out of the picture. Her friends keep telling her she is preg Going to school. Laughing about not being pg. Clinic told her she wasn't pg Never been pg before. Didn't know if she wanted the kid, decided to go ahead with pg Bio dad is abusive, hit her mother She also was abused, dad left, mom has a bf. Also sees mom and bf fighting. Dejhene George 7 is her brother Dad was support in the pg thing Mom drinks and smokes weed Parenting Class Go in and check in about the pluses and minuses of the week. Have 3-4 people in the classes Jeff Burns Only has daughter one night a week on the weekend. Every session he is Struggles with : Other centered rather than Interests: Garden Daughter got in trouble. Father gave her no consequences. Letter that she wasn't kind to a girl. "She lied, I blew up." Her mother lied to me. I won't take that. Joey Martinez-30 Says he was refrred by PO, not sure, may call back. Stressful in and out of jail since 12, In jail 90 days ro Says he used to be a meth addict. Very paranoid. No directe answers. Doesn't understand why he gets Came late, didn't do client hx. End of session, laughed inapropriate. Had paid $10 extra. Got a weird feeling. Youngest of 5, only son. Closer to mom. Dad did the best he could Karma Truck, tank, big Apples for smoking, THC - mj strip under tongue Hashi hish- smoke LSD - Exstacy MDMA Came with mom, Do you smoke? Mom asked her Mom talks to her Michaela -13 like a friend? Had Michaela in prison. "I am a criminal". Sister -everything - not liking school. Took ibuprophen. Threw up in middle of night. Genogram from Michaela. Switches moods frequently. Sister Husband Jerry, fa of (by a different dad) in jail for Melissa Found out whole bottle aspirin. Cried robbery. Daughters mood all over the place. Stealing. Goes with friend. Works off commission Michaela shut down when mom is talking. Found dad on top of her at 3 yrs, got taken away, went ot live with Fa's sister. Difficult to talk to mom about things. Alexis Surgeon -29 Schizophrenic Dad. Takes care of Monique…left for college, went the farthest away. Lo Dad always took care of the $$$. He was an attentive father. Sat in a chair watching them go to sleep. Alexis tried to get her dad to listen to her. Wanted to do onsite movie designs. Tried to talk to her dad Doing good, having issues Good to be updated on Dad's health. Mom dumps on Alexis. boy friend, no sexual chemistry. He lost He got defensive with her. He took it as rejection. Didn't call for a week. She has said her son has separation anxiety. Shwoing aggression with grandma. Mom and dad split 9/2010. dad was threatening to hurt her. Dealing with mental and emothinanl Julian Thronburg eabuese Candace Lehman Her son comes home with a dirty diaper. She has moved into her mother's house. GM says "I'm ignoring her. Get out of here, leave me alone. Candace's father is always at work (nice guy)- disengaged? Receiving bloody valentines from ex. He calls her and emails her.. Who are you seeing? I hear you are d Lasttime Julian saw dad was May 1st. Threaten CPS with him. Carol Drowl-35 New client, seen once by Debbie. In group home 12- taken away from parents in Vegas. I am fat they o Threw In and out of psychiatiric, zoloft, respirito a plate at her 4 yr old nephew Self abusive behaviros, bits, scratches, hits herself ? Psychiatrist/ Western Medical for her meds Briget Trustee-14 I am smart, why can't people see Great coping skills. "I want to be me as smart. Daughter is trying to invisible: Was kicked out; lives talk to her and open up. Mom with her aunt and uncle starts crying. Doesn't give her room to cry. Very smart, cute, on the dance team. Wants to talk to boys. Tried pot Older bro is smart, dad is a coke addict, lives in a trailer in Brea. Successful businessman Family tells her she is a slut. Don't see her. I don't trust anyone. Tries to get negative attention from her mom. She got in trouble in jr high. Mom took her out of schoo Chris Using new girls to get over his obsession with his Lauren. She writes him back. 4 yr old developmentally Did have rel 1994. Gave up Jewl for adoption Thnks about Jewel everyday- boy has God in his life Everyone told her it was a good idea to give up her child Overweight, clothes ripped, disheveled Stories cut short 18 yrs Anger Issues. Lived with parents in Vegas. Dad grumpy. Mom? Overfed me Would like to stick with work Developmentally delayed? Want to overcome emotions to find stable work Where does self forgiveness or grace play a role? Olga Medina Daughter is wanting to cut herself Desire-13 Dad's name- roomate Jr is in session Been a roomate for 4-5 yrs. Samantha - Treats Jamantha as his daughter. 2004 - 7 years old. Thinks of Jr as a father I usually calms person in the family. Desire comes to me for everything. Mom doesn't follow through with punishment, found text messages of her wanting to cut herself. Texting that guys were calling her names Didn't stick up for herself and didn't stick up for herself Chris Dahl Met nice girl at the Kern river Lauren came, he got mad at her. "She to know your Thinking about leaving her husband."Wantis so perfect" feedback" Wanted Outside kissing, and thinking about Lauren Ashley to tell him she was coming back. "you listen to Broken up with Lauren, she won't speak to him. me" DV, Europe together, "hit me" Grabbed her, I hate you. Talking to girl all week, Using new girl as a rebound. Shantell Tores-24 5,2,newborn Crying about how unhappy in marriage. Sees herself as wanting to be more than a mom. Works at night. Married Wants to feel desired, attractive, He comes home, wants to hang out with kids. Not interested in awhile. Birth control. Luis Tores Wants more kids. no He rarely wants to go out, doesn't give her compliments Comparing how she was before the marriage. Now doesn't feel confident. The only person she talks to is her sister. BF is a guy. He is in love with me, want to respect my husband. He is her age. Shanon Scott-26 Tension with mo in law Married at 22 to hs sweetheart. Condo Bought E Aaron Scott Dad left w/substance abuse problem GM deceased, Shannon moved in with everyone. Mo in law like a teenager Borrows her creamer in refrigerator Aaron travels, needed to move back in to help mom out. Shy, timid, doesn't like to start confrontation. Works at night as a waitress Eftihia- goes by Koula Married a long time, 3x, husband broke up and told the girls He Using meth during rocky x's. " I want to be with you. Borrows her creamer in refrigerator Before kids were taken away, high all the time, playing cell phone in shower He smacked her for taking away his She claimed it was an accident Cops were called, he left. He felt bad and left Has a pipe in one hand. Cops took pictures. Husb stayed away Husb comes back. Andrew was in the car, burned his thumb. It was healing. Called cps. Found drugs in Anaheim foster care. Both went to a sober living in Riverside He had sex with 19 yr old. She is at Collettes house. SW is terminating with mom and thinking about gi Cried half the session. Loves her husband. When he left her the first time, he husband is very good looking. She likes to fight for her hsuband. She Grew up in a home where dad left and had other gf. Clients Living with Husb 6 yrs, hs sweethearts, moved out at 18, call from police, bf had hit 4 yr old kissed 5 yr Bruises all over her old's neck, fa went body, according to beserk. Mo dk why fa mom. "my dad gets mad every time Took a knife to his wrist, when Angel was No threats, emotional a baby. blackmail. and you are scard because dad may You are scared of uncle shake Angel els something moving around Works at K mart, met co-worker, treated him badly my former relationship. Got BF moved into her mom's house she wasn't pg ided to go ahead with pg and bf fighting. ession he is mother lied to me. I won't take that. n and out of jail since 12, In jail 90 days robbery wine, pushed security guard. answers. Doesn't understand why he gets so angry in his outbursts. Has had arrest from Sal Army a weird feeling. Memories -Bio dad Had forgotten, left Mom says fa was a was in her life. Dad message, she's one night stand. Mom was taking care of disrespectful. Anger = grand theft auto. Michaela. is coming out. Strengths: masking, keeping GM -2 kids by the same dad, a happy face. e with Fa's sister. Getting better with school work eft for college, went the farthest away. Lots of triangulation te movie designs. Tried to talk to her dad about her dreams. Dad didn't listen, was stuck in his head. s boy friend, no sexual chemistry. He lost his erection. Trying to say its okay Deep down there was something missing. Felt she was morphine. He is a DJ. Goes to Vegas together. Felt need to be a "DJ girlfriend" Mom says-okay May 1st. Threaten CPS with 6/13/2011 Lasttime Julian saw dad wasto feel mad, and sad, you are 9 God in and out of Open and curious about your beliefs and values her.. Who are you seeing? I hear you are dating someone. Orangewood Kitten 2 older sisters, GM and GP took care of them way from parents in Vegas. I am fat they over fed me old nephew uble in jr high. Mom took her out of school. writes him back. m she was coming back. o theart. Condo Bought E hone in shower It was healing. Called cps. Found drugs in house. minating with mom and thinking about giving custody to Dad. ng. She likes to fight for her hsuband. She takes him back. okay to feel mad, and sad, you are mad at daddy right now ut your beliefs and values d GP took care of them James Aungst 47 Laura (Amy's sister) 26 Elizabeth Grosso No upper teeth, never been into drugs, not big fan of alcohol So lost, no identity without him. Has other kids. Always in . Adopted like me, liked everything. No one to play with. Chat and send emails every day Don't remember anything of childhood. Two older 25, 17 young one still living with her Taking care of aunt, living in aunts home. Very spirtual. Believes in eternity, being reborn. Wants to learn how to Mastered detachment in previous rx's Crying every day. Desantos Arrived 5:30 and didn't see them. Rescheduled for next week. OK for my mommy to see Jaime Divorced father, with 2 children, 9, and 7, trying to strengthen bonds with kids GF- Maria (talk about her) Has 50/50 custody. Stpends 3-4 hours a week with the kids. "Don't touch my stuff." Calls them after 7 pm at night. Prior to this, girls didn't want to come to dad's house. Girls were with daddy, happy to be with him because of dad's girlfriends Maria's daughter "burps". court -suggested One of the parents should seek therapy. Debbie Neighbors Suffering from insecurities 48 Family relationships. Teen years. Permiscuous. Mom was okay about her having so many relationships Lost virginity at 20, got pregnant He is 29, Phillip, living with her. Wants to know why she i Last rx, caring too much for the guy, can I bring you soup, bring Has hpv, tx for that. No job, money or insurance Write about her serious relationships, characteristics, liked, didn't liked She has a group of friends, everyone is coupled. Doesn't want to complain Went to the beach Grandma to her son's kids-doesn't like the her grandchildren. Mo of children, dislikes Didn't talk about son. Good kid 29 yrs old Wants to build self confidence..no good relationships. Write down positive and negative\ Came up with 5 pages. She is a placater, trying to meet needs. Start saying I don't want to go out. Tried to go into background. Can't remember any put downs. Blaming tx, not going after a job afraid of rejection Tried a couple of times, didn't get an interview. Willing to take any job. Seeing a new guy. Wants to be with someone. Not sexually attracted to him In rel for two years, then guy started withdrawing. Broke up for 2-3 weeks, both Jaqueline Lucio 27 working on personal problems Goal to get married. J has been in strict Christian family, Fa left was 19, two keeping rel away from younger sisters. Brian is not as religious. His parents also mother divorced. His parents love J. Brian has a daughter, 6 yrs old. Caught cheating with kids' mom, J is not trusting him ag Pramod Multani Indian Wife is lawyer 9 years ago caught in an affair.. Wife Recently after Arnold thing came out, she is triggered by this. Triangulation. Mom and c 25, 18 yr old, against mom. arranged marriage Emotional problem.. Both are coming after their trip Terry Nickson Mother Tx Monitored Mother is scared of dad. Mo mentioned that when she spoke to Katie, Live close, Michael wants to make sure dad doesn't know Edwards- Fa where mom lives Chase McDonald- 14 Mom and son don't know him. Mo in 50's killed bf and chopped up and sent to boys mother. Chanelle Says it was her mother. Has appt on Monday. Not even asked anything. Happened a month ago. Diagnosed depression, anxiety, medication. Was told she has a chemical Amanda Daniels-16 imbalance. Went to Gary center, stopped Seeing Amanda today. Mom " I want my child to be normal again" Smoking pot, mom got her to stop hanging out with kids Mom and dad are divorced. Staying with mom and stepfather He was not willing to keep in contact with her. Father is out of picture for 2 years. DV Angelina-11 Saw today between mom and father. Had to move Married to a new guy. Father is mom/dad fighting to get visitation. Court order doesn't say reunification. Just says Angelina needs Has negative attitude toward dad. "I don't want to see him" He hit my mom Always pinched her in arm, hit older brother in end. Tried Mom moved in with a guy. Stepfather has wants to call Dad, Greg Seeing Angelina alone next week. Watch chef master? twins, over phone Suggested her bring games she likes Jim Grief group Feeling guilty he's not doing anything. So sorry I am being resistent, I went for a walk today Doing better. Robert & PamelaMidst of getting divorced Nonstop bickering Top 3 things they are mad about 1 kid Argue over everything. Two new clients last week. Was a son of KKK Grew up in Texas Probably bi, has rx women Talked a lot about Chris, neutral co Anger with neighbor, but didn't rem Goal: to camp when he was younge Used get rid of negative thoughts, Thought Amy was favorite, mother verbally abusive Mom still close to Mo is coming out of prison Has 4 yr old daughter, Fa has custody Will find out why. Went to tx once before with mother Lady from church is bringing Laura and paying for it and is God mother Custody is issue, hearing Baby's daddy was deported, She did drugs, she admitted. drugs, not big fan of alcohol Came up with 6 items -goals Has other kids. Always in . car accident- afraid to go to far by car g. No one to play with. Chat and send emails every day. Parents are sick and disabled Are out of the home, not in touch with dad's of boys. Aunt rnity, being reborn. Wants to learn how to us rx's Crying every day. m. Rescheduled for next week. OK for my mommy to see you? 9, and 7, trying to strengthen bonds with kids hours a week with the kids. come to dad's house. be with him because of dad's girlfriends . Permiscuous. g so many relationships guy, can I bring you soup, bring ney or insurance ships, characteristics, liked, didn't liked yone is coupled. Doesn't want to complain n't like the her grandchildren. Mo of children, dislikes Caught cheating with kids' mom, J is not trusting him again. Married 33 yrs. Wants to self improve…wife says never happy with you e out, she is triggered by this. Triangulation. Mom and children against him. Remarried. up and sent to boys mother. t on Monday. Got a haircut like her mom's hair at that age. Very close to her mom. Mixed things: Mom is sort of overweight. Going to have the bypass surgery. Always sad, not happy with her body. Was on tv, when she came home, got upset about how she looks. Always complains and cries about it. ntact with her. Mentioned friends i, has rx women t about Chris, neutral compared to last week neighbor, but didn't remember much of it d of negative thoughts, diabetic, doesn't care about himself mp when he was younger. Homework: He faxed it over. ith 6 items -goals go to far by car e sick and disabled Betzy Robles- Nicki, Dad is Mr. Robles Didn't show up or call. Evelyn Rivera Dad has custody Birhihilda mo Wants dad to try not ot have custody Wants another school, preschool teacher and a model Wants to be with her brother She has a boyfriend She cried, and said I What do you want? just want them to stop I am happy with Dad, he cooks for me, she bought me clothes "They can arrest me for what whatever they want. Mr Rivera is a upset, mom was supposed to pay 1/2 of the cost of session Evelyn Still building relationship and Haven't come in. During summer, Evelyn went to m During the week, I want her to put the phone away at 8:30. Only coming once a month Maria/Jose Leon Can I talk to the attorney. Want recommendations. Specifics Mom comes in yesterday. Paper work. Meeting again the 3rd week in May Wants summary of sessions, recommendations Attorney for Mom Fax Maria came in, was tired, 8 yr, just Fa's want to sleep, Mr. got her water. Robles Caught using someone else's information. Child by herself for 4 months while dad was in jail. Mom kicked ou tat 14. 19 year, going to CS Fullerton, Dad found out they were having sex. Nicki, said she knew he Caseras Mom/Son Seen improvement, communicating, asking how to do more family things, Maribel Allegria doesn't need to drink. Got in a fight. Maribel tried to slap - went to school, told what had Sergio Gonzales happened. SW couple counseling Maribel, upset- Sergio is alcoholic, he denies. I can stop here and there. Friday, Sat, Sun Gave them info to go to AA, that's for people that don't work. Caught tagging with friends. Has to do Jesus Meta community services and 13 pre-probations 60 hrs community service Met mom, dad signed permission Cried his second session. Ampelio 4 kids Reunification Cannot afford the sessions. Court ordered doesn't say Mom left 13, 5 year old. Gerardi has who is responsible for 40's Illiterate gained a lot of weight since Mar payment. Mom took to other boy 6-7 year old Sent for reunification with mom (no showed on Sat. - phone is disconnected) Angelica Gerardi -13 girl 13, boy 5 Daughter "you were the worst mother" B would stop him an Gerardi-13, 10 mo old Angry that she cut off relationship Mr. Leon My mom doesn't want games back at my house. Hamster, doesn't want Maria to bring clothes, hamster back Maria and forth. Has a SW summer, Evelyn went to mom's. are coming in Bruises on her left arm, Maria- finger inprints Playing tag, I fell Right arm, child changed the subject. Maria shares with 3 yr old bro, Chiva, 2 babies. ? Mom's boyfriend 60 hrs community service, curfew. Pre-probation. 7/9/2011 7/16/2011 8/6/211 Mom called and Had great conversation; cancelled her plans for the summer. Gave each other a hug, reunification Wants to call once a started crying. Started meeting. Didn't week in the last 5 minues. explain. Will see sconnected) other" B would stop him and then he would do it again. Mom 9-Jul 55, Persian divorced, second youngest of 22 yr old son with cerebral palsy who Nick Saberian 6, was married to Rose since Jan 2010, wants to be seen as a woman. Also Amy Brown 714.366.0703 Vanessa Citron/Robert- in Challenging: two baby daddies, two custody battle with George and 626.435.5788 kids, third rel. One twin died, had to Aaron Brandvig 949.533.6115 Went to court given visitation of Mika, Alicia Brandvig 949.528.7587 Having a session with Alicia on Friday. Cara Dolim 562.805.548 Comes every week John Cox 714.915.1614 co-parenting sessions Maria Jonasson has a new bf in Maria had been au paire.. John likes Sweden. 714.261.3986 to be in control. Has a 24 yr old dtr, Recommendation: Marie continue with indiv. Counseling. John comes to indiv. Family tx with him iand eldest daughter. Splitting up. She wants to talk about Nguyen; Diane Victor 714.306.7356 it being over. She wanted to Tony Saberian 949.616.8665 56/ Individual Doing well-comes every week, also Amy Strawn 949.813.0986 sister, 23 single mom, mom is in Granddaughter-adopted as baby- Susan Medart ref by court-indiv Son's child- he was in prison- many parents are meth addicts. Granddaughter in Orangewood. Middle of divorce, depressed, upset Her Rebecca Arevelo husband and her have 2 different styles, Saw her 4 x . Stopped coming in. Erick Ishii-27 referred by PO, history, Japanese and Finnish. Parents first generation. Stealing lottery scratches Gamblers anonymous, has a sponsor. Reduced anxiety, anger management thousands of scratchers. Holds on to them Orangewood at age ten beating by fa. Mother travels the world, took him with her when he was small Sometimes slept in streets. Wanderlust Stays in missions, tents, Mom and dad are together in LA Only child No girlfriend, no partners Bookkeeping at Groc store Graham Krutch- 27 single, liv es at home using drugs and alcohol since 13 Able to stop from 14 to 30 days, when he gets angry it starts up again Believes he is bipolar, toxic rel with mother. Arrested for dv against step father Bio father lefta t 2 years old, man of house, conflict when 13 step fath arrived on scene Step fatehr brought in 3 kids, had bad relationships Did well in school until 13, thinks a lot. Zanax, smoked meth, wants to go to rehab. Wants to escape his mom. Has been to Aa Monday morning AM 2 in the group Process what was presenting Eric Morgan-24 Anxiety - super nerd, staying at home, no job, smokes pot video interested modifies programs, trades virtual modifications Dad sees him staying home and Has friends, doesn't like people Behavorial Worked in printing field. Went to multiple schools. Dad is on his case; sweep streets, get work Friends from elementary school Blizzard. One of his target places. Needs BS. Suggested student loans. ITT, Devry Customer service help desk. ? About living at home Week 2 Is doing well, applying for jobs Wanted to go on Zanax Monique Brown Work violence.. Lawsuit, being seen by doc and psychiatrist. She gets retriggered everytime she has to talk about the incident Cable company, co-worker, hx of outbursts, racial slurs, african american, He handled the keys at different Did her job, and two days later, she was feeling emotional about everything. Has been on disability. She is isolating, not Had worked for 8 yrs. Changed her eating. What was her life like. Has victim phone number. He rel still good. M asked for her key, he pulled a box cutter on her. She moved a piece of paper on his desk, Amy Strong-24 Daughter is 3, Bethany Had scolios, in bed for 1 yr. Devon is fa not in pic Korean, adopted by White family. Sibling. Sister- Laura 26 They were abandoned in Korea, adopted at 6 mo, sister was 2, Parents were in 40s when Dad has 1 daughter from No substance abuse problems. previous rel. (30's) Fa, Devon, 30's not in picture Pastor and Involved in chruch, Mom embezzled from a trust. CPA wife are in couples counseling. Small Bought a fancy doll with money Creepy pastor. Pastor gets in the middle of problems. Hired Amy as au paire for his 3 children, wife doe Amy has love feelings. Amy is getting irrated. Talking negatively about the wife. Wife is complaining abo So many boundaries and triangles Devon sees Bethany intermitently. "I don't think couples counseling is going to work" Liam In conjoint- beacon of light or….. Yvette Russell Reunification Liam- broke down Trevor 16 using the separation in his best interest. Delgadillo/Reyes Dad incarcerated 6 years since son was 5 Couldn't come to OC for several yer. Son is 11 yr. Dad was remorseful, realistic. Mom is very Carlos- gracious, humble organized. Doesn't want her son with Mom realizes that son is seeing dad, demystifying the dad. Mom cried too. Was okay about the Tears, talked about why have we reunification. been separated for 7 years. In a Have seen 9 tx, Hadn't seen dad in 7 years, have come every week. Mom has been in session. Mom is not happy about visitation Dad has been in jail. He is not paying any Mom doesn't want visitation child support. She doesn't want any. Dad wants unmonitored visits. Recommendation. Empty, accountant, hopeless, not being able to help them. Sees Showed video Finished Been in counseling since teen. Daugther Haley 10- now has 5/9/11 Came in with Counselor moved to another Robert , had tubal ligation at 23, Robert baby daddy Cloe? Did Feels like running away. Doesn't Wants to divide up ia on Friday. want Mica to go. the kids..Now wants called this weekend, emma told Have been in 7 x, 56 years - him she didn't want to come they are in court Gone for 5 days without kids, Kids are tight with mom, wanting Youngest told dad telling details of a story but not to have a 730 eval to see if girls she didn't want to You are still parents. accountant, tax Last session 7 sessions season Drives, has her own apt. works as Getting ready to leave. Mom a youth minister and aupaire, getting out of prison, wants to Eddie was unfaithful. Plays on Larry gave gift cards. Larry Larry's wife finds out softball league, not sleeping, brought her gifts, cell phone. that $15,000 is Talking about kids interested in. What he is doing with his time. One of the kids texted him. Stole scratchers from work. Kids are going to grow up. arrived on scene . Has been to Aa "It is helping" Got a job, car, apartment Gets overwhelmed, sweep streets, get work retriggered everytime she of paper on his desk, uples counseling. Small u paire for his 3 children, wife doesn't work. Give her a ring. the wife. Wife is complaining about Amy. Takes wife to talk Mom isn't paying. She says he should pay. everal yer. Son is 11 yr. Met with Gabriel 11, smiled seeing dad, demystifying the dad. Told about jail. Gabriel was okay. Brought mom and son calling him sporadic She is on him all the time. Both Both care about the brought in Robert, "you don't listen to afraid is going away. He says F it same things. He works deceased twins' baby me" (Drill Sargeant) Back in session. Split, started as he had mom committed Marie was 21 when She is suggesting co-parenting. Gets afraid that as a child. Second married him, divorced kids come back for 2 Flight attendant Sweden, So Africia Took him to court about is Focus on children, Re-engaged Marry the right woman monitored visits Iranian family Now is sleeping with another man. mom and son He's all out there with his V has a godfather Mo invalid, Bro Mike living with Andrew 8 Futurizes, emotions. named Mike, since a them, only has to do chores, world and Haley rememmbers His mom is wealthy and helping pay for the divorce. 1-10 scale Narcissitic Feeling, . He wants Vanessa learning how to not use time. Name Maribel Diaz Guilt over abortion Adrian Christian Perez Couples counseling She had one alone session, 3 abortions, two affairs Decided to stay in marriage, broke up with bf Adrian met alone with husband Confessed to him, he's really upset Call me and tell me who is coming Good dad, provider, hairstylist. Who likes to party, rebellious girl. Dad was cop. 13 yrs ago hit a guy on a bike, 6 mo in jail resents sex with her Father has no emotion, but has an attachment to the kids Three abortions, has 7 & 8 yr old What does she want? Going to break up with bf, doesn't She does tell her husband, and wanted to have session with husband He showed up and devastated. He would tell Adrian told him about one of the affairs Children are the problem, Marrisa 9 and Lizette Melissa 8, separated 8 years Saturnino he has children with new partners 9 year old wants to kills herself Wanted him to call mom, Did 1/2 session with girls. Brought his two girls Parents sat next to each other. Met with mom and dad separately symptoms: sad, angry, fight with each other Problem: this happens, no it doesn't matched symptom to problem opposite of problem is the solution insght oriented isn't as great pinpointed symptom, problem and solution, commitment. Their parents are telling them how to parnet the kids Grandma said mom is a fat whale. Grandma says you are fired from your work Monique Has new BF Got into a fight with bf Nereida Guitterierz Juliette Vasquez Haven't seen and Fannie is wife 4th attempt. Had one dv, He Came because of problems with chases her, checks her cell phone. Mean to 14 year old daughter. Gets loud, each other. He seems abused. Ex: everyone has slams doors. Kids hit him. Ignacio Tapia had dinner. We don't serve dog. Mother Phillipe Sanchez Patty Hernandez Aleisa Wheelchair saw video, husband alchoholic, died when her daughter was 3 yr. Twin died Dtr 33, lives at home, fears for when they were 3. Two older sisters died. welfare and safety of baby. Vicki Samoa-63 Mother depressed. More solutions Regional center, seizures, 15 brain surgery to Complaint: All family members remove tumors. Working with job support are abusive. Works at Vons. social worker. Family bipolar, overweight, tight Makes $531 a month. Gives to clothes, heavy makeup. Innatentive her mother. No freedoms. Maria Corona insght oriented isn't as great Alma Olivaria Terry S Maricella Gonzales Luisa Morelli Jorge Diaz teen Elia Sotella post partem Mendez/Dominquez Jose Duran Natalia Alvarez dad had an affair. Mom kicked him out for 2 Processing grief of both mom & Paola months. New school dad Parents agreed that they Oscar needed to focus on child Busy fighting for a year. They 12 Parents brought her in and wanted to "fix focus on the child's problems Dania-12 her. Wearing makeup instead of their problems Wants facebook access. Behavioral contract. Experiment: They wanted: No makeup, no boys, negotiated, rewards, consequences Dad had had physical custody. Mo alleged Dad's wife was going through re-arranging custody. Co- abusing the girls. Sexual abuse Lesette-Saturnino parenting maybe by dad's cousin? stressing, one wants to kill herself. Dad's family Melissa-10 talks about mom/mom about dad. Marissa 9 parents separated. Ongoing parents fighting Mom has had 6 oscs. Hx mom in prison for theft, deported 2x. Mom did dv to dad. Girls witnessed the abuse when they were infants. Mom has bf 2 babies in regional center. 3-4 Girls are conditioned to tattletale, snitches get stitches Girls did a video presentation Instead of beating up Mom is impulsive Dad is a baker. Minors counsel appted in 2009 physical custody shared Co-parenting family counseling Mom owes dad 41,000 in child support Mom has filed for welfare and foodstamps Dad is being investigated for not giving mom support Horrible rx between mom and girls Sent to prison for fraud. He found the different checkbooks in diapers Met in Mexico He has 5 rules, No crying step out of the room talk it out respect each other love each other- hug, kiss, sorry Liked her wild streak Mom has always had interaction with mom. She has bf with her two kids (in regional center) Erica Lupita/Raul Kiara Augustine (David's dad) High functioning Rehab. Not getting money Erika Ventura from state 27 yrs Works at Ralphs 8.30 an hour Family only let her come twice a week, as they need her money Dad holds down 4 grandkids, 2 kids special needs Developmentally, 10 yrs Completely unaware. Talks to boys Wears a lot of makeup and fake jewelry Gave my phone number, he called me No boyfriend Had seizures, tumor, CHOC removed at 14 Conchita-38 Made file cannot find it Ufamio Divorced 6 years Andrea Mother works at bar- very beautiful 16 yr old no showed. Ulyses Fa is surfer looking..surfer Together 17 yrs. Had passionate, sexual rx He-jealous, possessive She-spoiled brat, loved men's attention, took gifts from them PG with Andrea on honeymoon Physical fight on their honeymoon Took her shoe and pounded her belly Next day, at the beach, having sex Tumultous rx. He used drugs She was a flirt. Still fighting with each other He is with Robin in rx She has both kids, he has one weekend a month, recently went to court to get son. U. has cavities. Dad takes pictures of boy's Example of problems mouth, Andrea gets rid of the picture. Dad yells at her,and wants to kick daughter out. "Your gf called me a bitch in front of my son" Stephanie Ken Fa died when he wa s2, remarried at 12, I felt invisible Arguing, about exes. Dad is in co-parenting, marri "When my son was born, I ceased to exist for Stephanie. in her first session, he doesn't defend us Daughte is at a rehab camp She had abortion before the marriage. Not progressing, when they are ready to fight for your love and Eric Ventrella-11 Bedwetting, mom and dad come in. marriage. Still sad about the abortion. He Before they got married, still in pain from had a pillow, went over to her Chris abortion and squeezed her tight. Joanne Went into disability, has melanoma Ear surgery. Paralegal, taking time off Anxiety is high. Plays a lot with her hair, skirts around questions No insight, no intro spection Obsessed with husband's problems with ex Can go on about Heide Physically falling apart. Chaos. Workaholic Sochi Souza Mom is in PEP, batterers Married 8 years, victim for 8 years, husband, alcohoolic, last incident, he came home drunk, beat her, she wailed on him videotaped her has 4 yr old wailing on him Has visitation rights withher 4 year old. Has visitation with her child 2 weekends a month. Herardo- Carillo 13, to newborn. Best friend and husband in bed Met man at church, now pg with kid My kids don't know baby's story. Have told 13 yr old boy. Went and got artifical insemination Eventually baby's daddy will want custody Mom = super Christian. Is ashamed with herself. Hoping to see how the MV Has gone to court getting child support. All kids are on assistance. After Kids dad has disappeared. Dad took off a year ago. Shame is around breaking the beliefs of church. Didn't trust her instinct. Called and said, "we are going out dancing". Cassie, ex gf wet hair and in t shirt If she files for divorce, I will Call each other names. Crying, begging for never see the Brothers are her He came in after 3rd help. Cycle of violence. kids safety plan no show. Depressed. Vicki hasn't been honest. Mother takes baby on bus, doesn't come back until 9 pm at night. RYA Networker Failure to launch 6 days. Thinks she is a burden. My mom is Dad ignores her, sisters ignore her or call happier after Fears of missing her names. they hit me. parents love. Girls doing a lot better. Parents still talking about the court case in front of the k Says Dad, mom, dad's wife are mean Dad is in co-parenting, married in Aug, paralegal for family law. Chris is done with her. Before they married doesn't defend us ore the marriage. Plays with the 4 weeks a year baby. When we are dad. He and his in the room sister go, but together there is Bed wetting is deminished. When dad is he doesn't nothing going on. brought up, session is over. want to Shut down. Talked to mom about his problem e, ex gf wet hair and in t shirt Doesn't allow her to work. Collects meth pipes as a hobby. Sleeps 2- 3 hrs a night. Goes to LA the court case in front of the kids. Mom - mom about his problem Started 1st grade, acting out, not getting spec attention, throws himself Anthony Farragan on floor. 5 At school he is sitting in a chair at a table After recess, he has to stand by the teacher. If he is good and behaves he can go back to the group Played Candyland Asked him when he landed on When people point at me and make fun in me. My brother broke my DS Leilani -27 Background: Born in Tawain, Prt German, English, Scottish Late, lost Medical asst Very pretty. Black leather studded bracelet. Gross next to hard drugs Coming in because of guy who cheats on her all the time Been with guy for a year. Hx. Dad choked her out to almost killed Arrested her, not dad. For assault against her dad. Mom and sister asked her to take back her story. Talks about what a hard chick she is Goes to church every Sunday 7 yr old son Rx with baby's dad: Left her baby's daddy for this guy. Used to work out and love herself. BF's father is a drug addict. Had his dad's drugs in the car. She is on top of him, Benjamin No showed this week. 38 PO suggested it Meth 22 yrs Stays clean when he has support When he can get a ride White 5 brothers and sisters Drug induced suicide. Mom Dad is an old pothead Just got out of jail. Ann Marie Leigh & Jimmy Khuc Still waiting on the baby. Due on 24th. Kasey Martinez Joah 3 yrs appreciates comments and explanations Leslie-29 Showed up when didn't have an appt. Each have indiv therapist and referred for low cost couples Astrid campso counseling Jose Teposte Couple Started an emotional affair with classmate Christina Rodriguez 9 Hector Rodriguez 7 Fa Hector Rodriguez 3 guys. All is same boat, Saturday - AM struggling with exes. Couples Mo is complaining 2 groups couples Did drawing thing, back to back, Ryan Group- Workshop Jennie Kim -19 Fullerton college student Spacy -Etheral "and um, searching for self Dancer, ballet, Defined herself as "Spoiled, bitch, got attitude in HS Had money, now none. Elite, arrogant Goals: Compassionate Smokes pot drinks oxycotin Colleen -24 Can't hold down a job. Fa was homicide victim when she was 13, one of people in hospital. G 11 years ago- Dad had been Focus -fiance, now her fiance's parents are mad at her. very involved in her life. Had been daddy's girl. Not that close to mom Fall wedding. Hit by brothers. All close in age. Mom seems okay. Mom is not important. James Lee Therapeutic monitored visit Twin boys Didn't need a lot of interaction from tx Reunification with father after 7 months- Dad says mom had girl this happen. Neutral exchange Leslie Bennet Recovering, ESL student Couple - dad was murder victim Moving into new apt. Got to invite dad to see new place AM Sat 2 participants Invite him, then out for lunch. Planned it all out. audio tape Couple-Kristen walked out sobbing. Had been sober 2 yrs, Kristen Irish drank. So many issues. Just got married 2 mo ago, have finally Chris Cannis moved in together. She has no good things to say about relationship. Very paranoid partner ? Bipolar. He comes across as calm. Kristen has a psychiatrist. Thinking straight. Stormed out the back door. Asked her what can we do for you? No one is able to help her. Husband is paranoid about what she is doing who she is talking to. He sees himself as voice of reason. Questions her 1/2 hr lead time to a meeting that is only 5 minutes away. When did things go bad? "IT has always been this way." He left and followed her. Neither work. Michelle Curiali $40 left in bank acct Raped long time ago. Has a job, works a lot, no real support system. Needed a hug. Mom is a drifter. Gets petiions signed. One sister somewhat close to. Siblings in and out of jail. Got the job through a friend. Clean Rochelle Kandaner-22 for 2 weeks. MJ. No baby yet. See them tonight> 5:30-7:30- He was always complaining about $$$ Have 7 oclock couple ts and explanations High anxiety. Anticipates, over thinks Tutoring After work, she is wanting a decompression time He is not in practicum yet. He has rekindled his After work, he wants her to be more connection with a gal at school. involved. Had been in the same elementary school and it closed. Now in new school. House went into foreclosure. Parents have trouble communication. School janitor 3-12 pm, She works 7 to 5:30. C drew inside of the room they are in. She sleeps on the floor. Drew their house on outside Mom won't won't sign waiver Lives with his mom. ack to back, self depreciating. Sits very upright, ocd, doesn't reach out -shy ne. Elite, arrogant b. Fa was homicide victim when she was 13, one of people in hospital. Guy killed 3 people. er fiance's parents are mad at her. l. Not that close to mom om is not important. Dad came in last Thurs. Custodial parent heroine addict. Trying to get fa in a stable place. Has gotten another job. Engineering- consulting Not as happy. moving into a place, renting a room. Every other week. Doing well. letting go of fortune telling and catastrophizing Not sure if I need to come here. ee new place Working her steps He is cutting down on his drinking. His pool business is busy now. Liquor stored on the way home Brings bag of things to son MV. Fa had court date Monday Dating from Sober 1 yr 3 months Talks to her sponsor match.com is it here, there, compare Did drawing. When they started drawing its from the front of the the others. Drawing something buidling. Her vision Specific He wants more closeness Manipulative n the way home Just had a fight. Assignment: Write down 3 things they appreciate about the other Content: Is she able to forgive him for the emotional affair with classmate. Keep beating it until it is dead. Jose feels neglected. Had a separate session. Disect how they are fighting. Present the When you pick, I feel ….and I would like you to….And if you do that I will feel safer. Elba Emotion dice Carlos Becerra 11- IEP Raphael 11 Stepdad is presumed dad Mom is late every time. Had the session just with Clara used to live with dad. Got a lot about Bertolo's sister relationship before. Reunification Sees that her son is getting along with dad. "missed you yesterday." I forgot. Brought three gatorade Mother Bertolo-has his stepdad's last name collects welfare, and DA's office tracked Dad down Has two kids with husband Good session, mom cancelled next session Dad has 2 daughters and one on the way, excited to meet his son Called dad, cell phone wasn't working Mom badmouthing biological father, Why do I have to meet him now? Duran Jose Durran-17 tried to not get arrested again. Feels- she goes to college, I am nothing to her 22 yr old sister Contacted wraparound. Gang member ? Is in the system. Mom died when he was 11, two older sisters Doesn't talk to older sister, f that b Compassion skills training Work program, has missed 8 appointments. Has been violating terms of probation. Why doesn’t' go to work program. Do you need to pop at house? Noemi Vidal put emotions on dice Clara got married. She called him to see the Clara refused to Raphael when R was 1.5 Mom was take paternity years. He wanted to get getting Reunificati test. back together. welfare. on u yesterday." I forgot. Brought three gatorade. He demanded a paternity test after she got preg. ood session, mom cancelled next session alled dad, cell phone wasn't working eels- she goes to college, I am nothing to her Messes everything up. Doesn't talk. Could care less about her. She's family. Won't let her die. Isaac is 19, trying Mom died when he was 11, two older sisters Always harrass me, want to ask me question. oesn't talk to older sister, f that b ompassion skills training ed to pop at house? 29 Fa dealt drugs Were looking at rings, before they split up. continue tx, work on rel with Racing thoughts, gf broke up with him, mother, hasn't talked to mom Richard needed clsure. in 10 yrs in recovry Write an angry letter Mom argued, hit him w/ golf club, Kim-29 My friend who is daing ex gf Stop talking to her, went to dad's Went to pick up his stuff last weekend, everything is fine Talking to ex gf I wished her the mom in ten years hit Hasn't talked to best flat affect. Got upbeat when talking about ex. him with a golf club, ended up moving out into his dad's house. Jealous is being afraid that someone will get mine His nephew. Does he want to repair rel with mom parents divorced when he was 6. Dad underparented Moved in with grandparents Doesn't talk to richard "Always the last to know when things anymore. On his BD sent Phillip happened in family. Richard a text. 30 Told by people to go to therapy Found another Hostage. Josh used to date Amber Broke up, Josh and Phillip hanging out. Josh says "I love Women who had excess estrogen "wash" you" Got a job, started last Friday, working for recovery a lawyer in Newport Dresses more flamboyant. 31 Telling more people he is gay Still in AA, going to different meetings. Found a new guy, Josh, hanging out. Going to meetings 20 together. Coming out to friends that are girls, non judgmental Gay AA meetings ? Working on rel with mom/ Philllip had been "hanging out together" Wrote good and bad about Angel-24 watches gay porn-curious mom. Wrote it out. Took Phillip out on dates, had a gf, now recovery borken up Bringing mom into session? Thought he should also go into therapy. Not ready to bring mom into Sophia GF wanted him to go. session Not a good relationship with mom, who is a recovering alcoholic Family conflict inventory Burned himself making dinner, mom was passed out. Cancelled last week- Angel -24- wants genogram-mom doesn't talk to her mom mom in session either Same conflictual rel with mom Going to do reunification counseling Ready to bring mom in. He is Tracy-Mom with ex-bf going to do role plays client in co-parenting class. Court ordered to do reunifcation session with Diane Bravard ex boyfriend. Daughter is Judge said to be done with co-parenting. Mom's having a baby. Going to big Rel with bf- listens more to Brandon brother. Very excited. Peter, bf. Peter is holding back. Peter says "That hurts your mom when you talk like that." Mom's boyfriend. Missed session. No showed. Been talking to Brandon about disrepectful. Has a friend at school who is not kind "I haven't been rude to her". Daniel &-31 Working on relationship Fighting - she has 17 and 14 year old Daniel says 14 yr old is rude and dispectful. Doesn't say hi when Living together, mom lives with them. D he walks in the room..doing bad Annalise-30 owns the house in Irvine. in school South County Fernando & Relationship counseling No show. Calling tomorrow to confirm Elvia Michelle -Breen 36May be family tx First husband cheated on her. Played with Kadin. I just want to l Tommy soon to be ex husband Threatened to kill her, drag her out by her hair. Called police, Pastor was involved. Incident: Tommy = explained everything. Tommy silent treatment- she grabbed his face, had no remorse. Betrayed that he hit her. He said he wanted a divorce. she called the cops, moved in Kadin-8 He refused to have her sleep in bedroom with her mom. (from previous marriage) remarried to Tommy Newborn Cameron Niece helping out. Kenny Kelsler Noah-4 Dad announced that he was dad Mom is trying to get it terminated. Jody is there. Ari has tx visitation Monday night she will terminate if he gets too loud. Huge arguement at 1 yr Still not interested in forgiveness. anniversary. Kim says "Ryan is my Now seeing each other again. friend, I can do whatever Hanging outwith ex gf Goal of tx I want" w/ golf club, Honesty in relationship ent to dad's Intimacy Hang out, talk all the time Before breaking up, shopping for t when talking about ex. wedding rings "Jealous asshole" d that someone will get mine Mom has cancer, had Work-going on job interviews Take this Josh thing day by day breast, lungs, now brain. Relationships-Never had a serious one.during the prayer held hands Showed a pic of Josh Josh leaning on Phillip "I love you" fferent meetings. Only person I can be my true self around Gets mad when people are in debt She used to abuse pills & alcohol. Sober 10 years. Works at groc store Sees her own therapist. Ready to Went over up to the move rel forward. A told his hour. Example: Hang out, Sophia says I don't give her enough mom she left to go to rehab. talk have a good time, no attention. Mom didn't say anything at first. arguing. Reunification case. Original Sam got a lawyer. Tracy was When he was 13, left to crying, making allegations that go to rehab, and didn't Finally Sam showed up and kids Tracy is abusive. Never abused say goodbye. Left him wouldn't come into the session. kids. Clean for 3 years. with his dad. Didn't go to court; called Sam, Now Tracy has We and EOW, only said he would call after the court Sophia on Thurs date. Brianna. My ex didn't treat me Everything is ok with the baby. very nicely. Chicken soup. Delicous Escape route for getting into trouble. Burnt waffles. Could have asked for Ride his bike for 2 minutes. I help, can you watch me? road it for 4 minutes. ssed session. No showed. 3 weeks ago came back from Florida after visitng family. Sales Mom says Hannah has had a bad life expeirence. Owns our own company orrow to confirm d on her. Played with Kadin. I just want to live with my mom. My dad keeps telling me I have to live with him. 1 week/1 week. Ex husband is asking for custody because Kadin. Moved three xs. Is in Ex lives in Morena Valley. Has a Corona now part time time with her attorney. l terminate if he gets too loud. Is okay with her Sexual dying. Drama Josh came to hospital Still not telling comments queen. with Phillip. his sponsor with Josh 9th step amends Havent had sex yet No unfinished business with mom. Josh has his house to himself Phil is starting Goes after to sabatoge stratight guys relationship. with girl friends self confident, charming Only 21, Triggers-Plenty of Fish, Recovering How are you going to alcoholic- sober handle it, if one girl over a year. doesn't like me. Second date started talking about her ex. If she doesn't like him. Star Works at groc store Criticizing in my head. Didn't compliment him on his house. Critical comment, He and Sophia I lied to my mom have an on Emailed Sophia in session, just Not really back with gf. again, off again about the sick trying to be nice She broke up with him. relationship. dog. Pete, feels guilty Problems with lying. Lies playing with him, to protect his instead of da. grandparents. e doesn't like him. Star First Name Andy Lost weight couple didn't show this week Portia Bradley 28, 4 year old boy, left house. Woke up, missing her son. Picks up kids at 4 pm. When she gets home, she Door was open, called the rests with kids. police. 3 kids, 6, 4, 2 years old. Good job, brings to daycare. Son was 4 blocks away. He was on way to grandma's house. Social services. Has taken parenting classes. Thought everyone was asleep. Has to put higher locks on the door. One dad, no marriage. Separated. Ordered PEP. Two years single Daughter was on the verge of continuation school. Always on the phone. No Luis Castillo-46 Child abuse chores. 16 yr old was beaten black and blue, she ran to Separated from wife when F the neighbor. She is now in a group home was 8 months Mom has 4 other children in other families. Mo Faviola in halfway house, just got out of jail. 1/2 sibliings 4 others. F is close to aunt and younger siblings Dad lives in home with two cousins, aunt/uncle, cousins. He shares room with daughter, queen bed. Works, good job, and has a no life except daughter. Two years ago, noticed her behavior changing, only 10 sessions, charged $50 He had been ordered to Anger Management, Parenting at Straight talk Now at the end, he has a better understanding of what he needs to do. Luis Molina-28 6 yr old taken away because husb and wife Wife pepper sprayed himPolice called ssa, Fabiola was taken away, child is with mom's stepmom Other kids Joseline, Eric, Natalie, all four with 50 yr old stepmom Luis has 2/ week for 2 hour was a minor mo to daughter. Oldest daughter refuses to see dad. Since Mariella was 16 when Pg. Stepmom took them in. Wanted to have child as her child. Living on their own, struggling. Luis He pulled Mariella out of the Marila has worked a lot. door. Joselyn, 5, has been telling him, they tell her not to come. For almost 2 months, he hasn't seen her. Mother/son. Romero's friends are coming to the Romero Ramirez-14 house, not being respectful. Older sisters are reacting. Mom said tomorrow, going to have a family meeting. All adopted Has a cleaning job, comes Barbara children, nieces and nephews home to cook, clean Setting rules, time, who does what. 14 doesn't have a chore. Dad is on dialysis. 9 Destiny 7 Trevor 3 Christian 2 older sisters who work Janet Garcia-10 Stitches on her finger, neglect Family has 13 kids, six out of the house Teen friend, 15 helping to carry the youngest one 7 yr old hit her with something All children were taken away for 2.5 months Mom is 36 Mom has 13 kids. Oldest is 16 Now she is acting out. Mom brought 10,7,6, 5, 3, 2 and baby with her Janet says 3 yr old can't talk 16,15, twins 13,12, 11 in Orangewood Dad can't work anymore, went back to Mexico Garcia for first 10 kids. Hasn't been around 3 2 dads years Martinez for last 3 She was into it. Picked up the juice and was Homework: wakes up really early and does homework No show this week. Called her 3x. DK whats going on. Is it at the end of her More effimate that 2nd incident, when Mariella pepper sprayed him. six out of the house aken away for 2.5 months ymore, went back to Mexico Name Tommy Nguyen Sudent Cancelled last week Going between houses, said she had Sophia 7 a good time with her dad Norma Jean 37 Says she is bipolar, ptsd Married 4 times, tells lots of stories, used to drink sober Her husband truck driver Has 3 yr old autistic son, just broke Heather 26 up with guy. Past dv. Issues with ex. Lives at home, 1 yr old son anger Cham- aka Susie 25 issues. Vietnamese What triggers her, when she gets mad How she should have reacted. She can talk . Have to interupt her. She goes on and on. Came back. Thinking about getting a divorce. Than brought him in, told him she wanted a divorce. Husband got mad at Julie. Called Julie a Karen 35 divorce therapist. 6 yr old and 3 yrs old, finished parenting class, worked out relationship issues. Good schedule Amanda 22 going. Communicate logistics Raul 24 Can't do family functions He is talkative, He's back. It wasn't so bad, she barely talked to him. He had family in town. Looked up four jobs he might be interested in. Cousin's bf works with computers. Suggested you ask him Wrote his assignment -call cousins questions bf computer programming. 5/3/2011 Mom wanted J to write bad things back surgery Takes pain pills He made her feel bad about herself. "I feel great after I have been here Is doing better. Broke up again Taking time for me. Aggressive, Sick of people who walk Healing the trauma of domestic violence all over me Abused by housekeeper; parents knew about it. Never felt safe. Last week didn't want to be in session. Only permiscuious for a year. Unprotected Going to start doing custody stuff. Does her homework Parents are doctors. Educational goal. Living at home with her parents. Took away her car. Brought a guy into the house. File for custody soon. Dad has kid Continue to process the divorce with two daughters. Strengths- Here and now. Met in HS, weren't good together 3 yr old is fine with it. Six ye old doesn't Solo Parenting book Children Rights Left tx because the therapist wanted him in. Name Wed AM Ysina 25- 3 kids, doing better. Kevvin needs a lot of attention. Thur 10 week parenting Sharon Johnstone Moved Brother was out on the streets in his underwear. 27 living at home, in jail, released in Dec. Stays with dad and grandfather. Brother does medication. Self medicating with pot. Think he is back with his dad now. Mom was hospitalized, 15 zanax. Woe is me. Susan is always referring her to counseling. Susan Hays Doesn't want to deal with her mother Amy Butler Fa is in service. Didn't have a rel. Demanded paternity test. Didn't Jessica Mills have contact with twins until 10. Exercising or Wi Just got a new phone. GRE program. Anthony Leyva 10yr Laurence Milowski Alexis Lawrence Milosky "in denial about his drinking, hiding behind his religion, hanging out with people Adjustment to the family life after being in Iraq. Erica-Mother Leasa-5 Lea-5 ter. Kevvin needs a lot of attention. Feelings about how she felt in the past. Told her to write a letter to herself. She felt bad to write to She wants to address herself. She was putting herself down. Wrote a the issue. Wants to forgiveness letter. work on that. g behind his religion, hanging out with people In tx because Leasa is having nightmares, originally called in by gm, Leasa had bruises on body. Erica wanted counseling for the kids because of feuding Coloring, painting Dad is military guy in Navy; recently deployed. Kids can visit paternal gp's 3 x a month In past, girls were going over and he wasn't even there. She is getting harrassed by sexual spam. Client 8/4/2011 8/11/2011 Issaac Castro No showed. Phone rings Sunshine Johnson, Tyler and rings. Nobody Johnson answers. No showed. Out of town. Only need tx when in a Marc & Elizabeth Corbello fight. Group- Parenting Worked for Intuit. Let her go, husband filed for Iulia-35 divorce. He had been having an wants to do skype affair. Living with mom Looking for 3 prospects. Lead at Oakly Go getter, take charge. Can't take birth control pills More calm without birth control pills. Dad is in prison. Killed someone. Saw that dad had a dark side. Had seen dad as Last night told about how she gets in a battle and she is "right" Ways to work on this to have it be a win/win Responsibilities of Threw baby up, hit the What did he learn Asked for the boys; jobs in Brian Hubbard+A3 ceiling. Talked to ceiling in parenting class an update house Baby threw up in the Bought the x box, morning. Both decided Hasn't seen his He was have it at mom's during the night child in Fl 1 x seen Sat house Trying to get custody as a financial struggle. Doing 2 Parents Anonymous. Court date delayed to August H He is with Feelings about own mom,no dad not being there restraining order He is African for him. American Called 911, didn't come Did a cat scan found old blood Very serious charges What he did, Lives in Long Beach. Had been a previous injury Mom has baby. Filed a restraining order against dad African american. Soft heart. His own dad wasn't there for him Mom remarried Has 8 yr in No Carolina Construction as work. Can't even talk to his wife Dad had done drug deals with him in car Mother told him he was a bum. Brian Hubbard Threw child up in the air. Did a genogram of his own childhood. Child from Florida coming next week. Lacked bonding with his own dad. Coming in evey two weeks. Bailey Told dad you don't Christian xbox- lost phone for 3 weeks. Privileges taken away going on vacation. Michaela wants C not to go on vacation Alex name calling Anger management- He was name calling She asked him to hold the baby; he called her lazy Baby still getting up 3x at night Dental assistant; needs to take the boards Her mother is intruding on their relationship He works at Oakley- good company David Rangel C doesn't want to take things home. Cloe-6 Mat grandma sometimes picks Courtney Cloe calls the shots, cheating now. Up until now, she was losing games, if she is going to lose, she wants Dr. Galindo-Tx for MV to cheat. Has a gf, quit taking birth control. Very excited about having a boy. can't live with Alex, she is Stephanie Sanchez sponsoring her parents Alex Belman He mumbles "she's lying GM is taking care of the child. Stephanie Texts her friends things about Alex He told some friends at work (mom too) Parenting Class-Amithy Chelsy Booker arguing about her MV Came back because they are threatening divorce. Stories. Lost their Elizabeth's father connection: He' job, she; is saying this is Elizabeth & Mark Carbello family problems. you: and kicks him. Have a 3 yr old. Child hits her head on the wall. He was evicted because of Joe Lennart & Angelica Gomez jail DV Smoking MJ, DV he went toHaven't seen them. Involved in DV She was going to Mexico for 2 weeks He didn't fill out the form, asked him to Suggest that that each have indiv counseling Has a support Now in Tracy, moved group. back into the house Living with where she had been her married. Cried for a alcholic Joe is sleeping on a couple of days. Grieved husband. floor on 16th St. the end of marriage, and Dog ate his Landlady won't let some old feelings Fired corn on them be in the Iulia moved from No. CA from job, uterine tumor to cob. house. Likes it there, wants thestay there. Diana Carillo Making label removing trauma based Job at olivecrest husband wants her to be on meds Jennifer Trustee She adores her son; daughter is bad 9/6//11 9/13/2011 Having issues with his wife. Living back with wife and child. Avoidant attachment. He is trying to get Winston Marsalis. away. He is complaining. He plays In the moment. Escape for him. Gets up at 6, feeds, changes baby, then does his music. Age appropriate needs of a 9 mo.) Ana Testa atty struggle. Doing 2 Parents Anonymous. at each have indiv counseling First Last Alifamoni Ianu Esther Children Boys came with mom and are having overnight visits. Have grown 10 inches. Girls still have resentment. Willing to go against the grain. Doing overnights, having a great time. Don't like Alice. Mom is sticking to her guns. Trevor 9 Destiny 12 Couple Clarissa-30 previously married Luis-33 He has 2 kids Have two kids, 2 and 7 months Reason taken away, meth in Luis the baby. Luis -first went to jail for heroine sales Clean 7 months since baby was taken away. Clarisa keeps finding gangsters. He is upset she was using when the baby was taken away She is paranoia that he cheats on her. She has a lot of jealousy He is out of gang. SW likes them, have weekends with kids. Working on communication Think about what they are willing to give each other. Talk about feelings. Dad is machisimo Works at Angel Stadium. Gets nails done, Marriot Automatic thoughts. talk about their kids. Love them so much. Want to make. How he acts towards Clarissa. He has stopped using drugs. Both going to NA, sponsor, step 2. He has a sponsor too. He is more Guilty? Yes, mom says Kathleen YL Blond girl. Darnell He doesn't hear himself. SW is also fed up. He tells the sW everything is great. His mom -told her to come beat up the roommate. Sarmiento Tyler got placed Trying to get Tyler New SW on medical leave House smells like bleach Resistence I figured in your position you would think that Argumentative Stephanie cried in front of Tyler that it was his fault that Daniel was taken. He hasn't been visiting. I will talk to you when you don't feel this way…. Tyler helped Daniel on the computer Harry-40s Had 155 days sober. Great looking guy. Guy says to him ..155 days - you know who I am. God is going Guy walks on bus, told the sandwich size baggie of dope. "I will give a $1000 if you will use. Shake your hand, nice meeting you. All bad things I have ever done flashed in front of me. Psychosis Has see spirits and things flying across the room. Summer-5 Daughter sees dead people. Medium. Bus ride with the devil Both people she saw in the backyard committed. Has aunts that are mediums - moms Kathleen Martinez Reached capacity to grow as a couple…Dad and mom have both a house and cars for the kids. Darne Darnell Orangewood, Roxanna's house, Orangewood, CRF, now in Foster home. four and one on way, Richardo's second child- having a boy Kathleen Jordan grew up in Arizona,mom took off, dropped out of hs, pregnant, pregnant again, second dad died, thir 21 when her third daughter He said, "look she is bleeding" Took all the kids away, took 4th child away in hospital. Got them all back, was in Collettes house, Richardo threw a computer. Three oldest kids up for adoption. Two older and one younger brother. Oldest bro molested him and his younger brother. Got taken Richardo away. Older brother came home. 23 Richardo never got to go home. Cried when he started talking. He has same mentality as mom. Why do I have to stop using? done 2 months clean of pot. Therapist at UCI was answering her phone, mentioned it to her therapist. Stephanie-9 Brian-6 Mom has Huntingtons disease. Kim+ A22 Brown Black eye to daughter Amanda-15 getting kicked out of school. I am not going to school. GM undermines mom Doesn't have to leave the school. Kate is single mom, gm undermines Can't choose mom over grandma Grandma is so annoying Warming up a little more Super pissed off, went on vacation, Mom took plan over, Amanda threw phone against the wall. Tantrum about no phone. GM and Mom went together Did a lot of stuff to make things happen. This is f'n assassine. Daughter says mom causes drama whenever GM has step kids- Only biological kids, Kate was a buyer for Office Depot, out of work since 2004, mom is CAR, emergency case, closed, now Kathleen and Richardo are doing good. May let 23 yrs PG again, doesn't know what is going to happen. Jason & Deep Class on Monday night and two cliets 2 kids 8 mo pg, told mem to pull over, had Victoria Vega-20 emergency c section for Bad relationship with mom Endangered her child in the car Five rescheduled session. Tests posisitve for meth She was comforted in jail In the family, they were nicer to her Dad-34 may get the child Likes way older guys Using meth now. Worried is she going to get violated? Is wanting to give up. Baby is 9 months. She is close to foster mom She is in a crile Latasha Jordan-29 Kids, 9, 4, 2 taken away for the second time Middle one bit older sister Dad bit the kids Doing visits, Dad, Hit girl with brush Mom had unmonitored visits, two guys had braids Kids went home and said they saw their dad Keep threatening to adopt. She is at Collettes. Had Been a foster kid herself Taking life skills class. 2 kids, Clarrisa has 2 kids, plus 2 kids, meth, he had been in prison. OG in gang in SA. His parents are old. Younger than his siblings. He has a job, Louie &Clarrisa she has a job. Have to get a place, 3 boys and a girl. He mouths off when she complains about wanting more affection. He has finished his peri natal, but they are asking him to do more Called her grandma. Doing better, hopeful. He got his hair buzzed. Patch, heroine. Drug test if they have used. Running around and has 2 jobs. Got a car, she wants him to sell the car so she can have a van. He walked out. She was crying. DDC dependency drug court. The probation didn't want them together. Doing good. Called after 1st session. Staying at his mom's house. Then separated again. Had baby Friday night, took baby Monday night, Ricardo Guevera Jayden Victor first boy Were in court today. Because he was so early in Kathleen his am, should move out. SSA thinks Kathleen is a crutch. Baby was born 6th, had TDM on the 9th. There is a lean on her bank account for child support Had her last baby at home, called 911, paramedics Didn't want Ricardo to deliver the baby They brought two cops to get the baby. Emergency foster mom let Kathleen breast feed All four are in same foster home. Should get all five soon. 34 Samoan. Had first kid at 15, sister had two kids from same man, mom had sex with th PG by force at 14 brings mom and sister her. David Aljehia, peter james john, Becka, Jane married guy who had sex with her mom and two kids with sister Dad is in jail Called sw to tell her tha SW has them both coming. Live with mom's aunt. Mom is in and out. Aunt thinks mom is on drugs Trevor killed a dog. Aunt's older daughter saw him. Tried to strangle little brother. Sta Strict boundaries. Play, earn time on computer. Second week, spinning in the chair, p Couple Ex is in for 32 yr. two sons, 9, 7 pset she was using when the baby was taken away he has a lot of jealousy weekends with kids. Working on communication h. Want to make. How he acts towards Clarissa. to NA, sponsor, step 2. He has a sponsor too. Kathleen & mom -gang on her. Kathleen will defend Darnell D admitted he smoked mj up. He tells the sW everything is great. roommate. Tyler doesn't want to be with the family again. "Door may be closed." Kids at college, Stephanie will have unconditional love. Doesn't think Daniel cares. was his fault that Daniel was taken. Until you guys don't feel like I betrayed you, Guy says to him ..155 days - you know who I am. God is going to win e baggie of dope. "I will give a $1000 if you will use. in front of me. us ride with the devil Dad and mom have both a house and cars for the kids. Darnell ewood, CRF, now in Foster home. d child- having a boy ped out of hs, pregnant, pregnant again, second dad died, third one molested Ysette 3- his own daughter Kathleen's parents are the problem. Dad won't come in. He has thrown $$ at probl way in hospital. Condo , go back to it? Goals in short term? Her mom is okay that Explained Erickson's trust/mistrust one, mentioned it to her therapist. Amanda has had no movement- deflected with her cell phone Kim's stepbrother has a baby and Amanda is jealous of the baby Kim is on disability, nerve damage since 2005, Amanda says mom needs to buy me a new phone. Had a pee in a cup, cussing mom out. Out of control, way talking to mom, "I hate everything about you" Almost got kicked out of school. Goes to school in Ana Hills. Oppositional defiant Runs to Gm when she doesn't like what GM says This week hates her mother. Calls pissed and hurt that GM had had a party Case is closed. Had been in jail for 6months. Family Staying clean, going to meetings Re-connected with friends Baby's daddy was married, may get baby Emma's Dad is 35 is stable: Married, job Kids are in foster care, kids were given to fster care Using again. Trying 60 day with son. Almost a year. Taken away Don't f Housing. Just found a place. Two older kids' dad in prison. Louie is working a lot. Can't move in together. Found 2 bedroom house. Bilingual Works at Angels Stadium, works at Sprouts in CM> Snarky comments. Embarrassed he left. Ed had congestive heart failure and pneumonia on Halloween. Sara Hx: sexually abused by his older brother. Encouraging him to get in touch with his family, i.e. mother. an, mom had sex with the guy too. "You knew it was going to happened and you left me" She is a cert nurse Called sw to tell her that the aunt doesn't like the kids. Wants them gone. Done with parenting. trangle little brother. Stabs kids, throwing rocks. Violent at home. Tries to choke himself. , spinning in the chair, played nicely and ddoing better in school. Weekend visits. Having them plan their childcare. Sober activities Clarrisa Bowling, Knotts, is done with Luis Stress management Jealousy issue Groupon, Have honda accord. Need housing wants him to be Live with his parents in SA, oldtimer in gangs. Fear of not having him do what she wants means he will leave her Both are working. Luis looked "off" last. He is in perinatal. 4 Nas a week Drug tests 4x week. PO and SW. Now 2 NA classes a week. Looks healthier. Comes from a great family. Good family. Parents 70, 75, two older brothers. Good jobs conditional love. el like I betrayed you, Treated her well. GM and Kathleen. Lizzie is perfect. the problem. has thrown $$ at problems. Her mom is okay that ust/mistrust ew it was going to happened and you left me" Strict into the church. Mom and sister turned Al. in. ne with parenting. een. Lizzie is perfect. Anxiety-what she tells herself. Not Cancelled a lot, called panicking, accepting that she got dumped; at Walk during Norma couldn't find her keys her parents. session. Making appts, not showing, or coming. Skills: Good worker, responsible. BF broke up. It was falling apart, Afraid that she will not be able to go but they were still living together. to work. Took out loan, worked two jobs to set up business in Mexico. John Davies Neighbor has a little boy who calls her Tia Norma. Guy invited her to block barbecue. Had fun, Tried suicide played guitar. 6 mos. Ago. Noticed she is capable of socializing. Guy is married, a brother type. He was complimentary. Introduced her to friends. Co-Parenting Group Georgiea Gallaher Was told she wasn't a good mother, because she had Mediator told her I had to pray about this one Willing to make a decision to let him to put in hospice 22 year old daughter cried about the divorce. Now have parents in the same room Fa treated her as no body. Soche 28 female Accused of dv. He hit her a couple of times, PD said she was the perpetrator. Grabbed a knife, she had a cut Daughter wasn't in the room when they had the argument. Daughter said don't hit mom She left withhout her daughter. Father has asked her to come back over. Then he slappe Still married. July 2nd went back, then she scratched him in the face. He started videota They put her in jail. When he was hitting her, daughter was hitting her too. Beat you, affairs on the side, finally was told to Martha leave 3 years ago. Moved to SB county, ex Cortez wanted kids, she brought kids to visit him. Parenting, Mom's issues Geroge What changes would you like to see. Daughter, what are the solutions Ariana George was being mean to Ariana He was supposed to be nice to Ariana, didn't curse and got Jugio cards from CVS She was supposed to do well in school. She got a certificate ecause she had o put in hospice Has 5 yr old, Dad has custody. Lives with aunt. Left husb on Mar 30, left and went to court he was the perpetrator. ey had the argument. Daughter said don't hit mommy r has asked her to come back over. Then he slapped her, he kept her from leaving, called her a slut. n she scratched him in the face. He started videotaping her. George wants mom to not curse, less yelling. , didn't curse and got Jugio cards from CVS l. She got a certificate 7/9/2011 Gonzalo Dominquez He came in and signed permission Valeria Rodriguez -7 He wants to see his daughter. Amenable to coming in. 7 witnessed dad having sex with gf Mom has bf Paraquin No, in Chicago Rosa Orosco 53, divorced 13 years. Can't sleep, thinks about her two adult daughters. She feels like she is a burden to her daughter. Daughter goes to school. Rosa wants to be strong. GM -Mennert-60-Susan Granddaughter-Cassidy Adam-36 Parents deceased, meth addicts Livingin a group home. Family therapy. Karen Vargas-31 Married 10 years Jaime Vargas-35 J has had a few affairs. He admitted after getting caught If you were never told that, that's the way we were. First session. Love seat. He was sitting on the edge I'm here, let's get it over with. "Is all this necessary?" Baby 2 months old Our priest sent us here. Week was fine -says he doesn't have money for this. He has money for flowers to other women Works construction. If they "She is checking the phone. This is the second time you caught him? I stay because I love him. She doesn't understand. I am there in the house. Frustrating to you that she doesn't trust you. Assignment: Talk to each other more. Susan Medart family Mentioned something. I am planning on goingto a foster home. GM Cassidy started crying. Diana told her that Susan went to restroom, spelled Had a schedule for cleaning. Cassidy said she had been researchilng it. Edith Poss Husb confessed infidelity- 3 weeks How are you? "Really really bad" Can't get over him being with other women. over 25 years of marriage. Her birthday on the weekend. 1 yr ago her daughter moved out. Still hurt by it, it was her birthday. Took all her pictures off my walls. Went to her job to talk to her, daughter won't talk to her. Her daughter is with her bf who is 10 yrs older. Husb wants to join her in counseling. Involved with a woman for many years. Has a 12 yr old girl. Has taken her for weekends, spend time with family. All of a sudden, after a David Orosco break, mom said no. He probably wasn't paying $$. Years ago, stays with my sister and husb and daugther, usually sleeps with her. 1 with family together, six sessions. Mom and daughter never showed up. Likes to go to the Grove. Daughter went to summer camp. Daughter got to pick. Had a good conversation. Was talking about female friend, wanted title of gf. ? What about introducing friend to daughter. Who is say when it is too soon? Work on Randy Hall says TRO Intake today, 200 Schedule date with mom Came at 12 oclock, called and said she was going to be seeing them at Sterling/Aguilara 1 pm on Sat. Last week no show, no answer 7/16/2011 5 pm Thurs next Daddy has Ana-gf, going to have a baby. "Tomorrow go with my dad, mom doesn't want to go" Mom doesn't Each time she was V, how did want me to go 'cause I have fun. session with dad go? Mom had agreed to 50/50 custody Was there, gf is pg. Anna Started talking about wanting mom and dad to have a baby too. "I am going to take care of them" Headbands game. Hyper. Choosing a lot of different things. Didn't come this week. I am not working right now, can't afford to go Very positive environment Granddaughter, less makeup, wasn't going to be asking to hang out with former friends. When she comes home she will have responsibilities. Wants to come home They had talked to each other. "I want him to change" Children called Jaime and told her to stay away from Jaime, he is a married man. Cusses and gets angry, lashes out. am there in the house. Felt like someone died. Nobody Her husband. to talk to. He has had very many women. She can see if they were flings, okay. But he had relationships with women. She is still with him because she is Christian. He let her know about his infidelities. Maggie's Clients Maggies clients Was in group homes since 16, has aides, independent. Ignore voices, hear positive things. 2 weeks ago, Pam angry, thought Neighbors Doing well, everyone wanted her Exploded, yelling, walked out of session, mostly mad at the aide. Wants earthquake readiness. Came back in, yelling. Raul Maldonado/ Cynthia Marriage counseling Traditional ideas. Met in HS, broke up 4 months, got back together. 2 28-28 kids. Fight all the time about everything 14 yr daughter- Mary Torres Riana Not in a relationship now Visits with both children. Has had 2 Baby daddies 2 yr old boy visits with kids Now having reunification with both kids Meeting with Brings in paperwork every week. Gets herself caught up in the drama of court. Garrett Hill-dad of Met when Mary was 16. Jail on When he got out of jail, 14 yr old murder charge for 12 yrs. he got custody Today, meeting with Neglect. both parents. Child's bill of rights. Saw together again. Daughter took in neice and nephew. Started off quiet. Listed Jessica-32/Diane Mom on drugs, dad killed self. Since all positves over the Hoffman -59 mom moved back from East. last week. Negative style of J is planning on moving relating. Adult daughter is out. Timeline 9 mo Broke up, seeing individually, working with Jessice (32) teaching Fearful about the coping skills. deadline. They do good, then a good blow up. Mom faxes pages of what she is doing wrong this week. "Mom isn't supportive" Talk to Diane about threatening not to come in. This isn't working, you Learning to be a are not helping. stenographer. Saw them together, to do the Parents Bill Just saw her individually, made an of Rights appt for all three, fa, child, Riana and prepare. Pick one thing they are doing Communication. Teach process well and one thing they need to do better. and content. Grandma has been taking care of Riana for a long time, GM says Mary wasn't putting child as a priority. He is still trying to get sober. Doesn't have a job. Used to live Met with dad, third visit. Now willing to talk about with Christine. He was touched Derrick being reunited with kids. about wanted to see the kids. C is telling stories about Derrick. When he was living in the mess, people were saying, Tx with Choice 'you poor thing" Dad thought they were married. She didn't turn in the paperwork. Christine wasn't feeding kids, no food took kids to Orangewood Jack-4 Are not seeing mom. Don't talk to her on the phone. Doing great, big improvements Lily-8 JoAnne-choctaw GM is very strict. Kids are blossoming in environm Derrik's mom I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. Mom isn't making appts with Michael. Grace-14 living with great aunt. She wants to come in and great aunt has been re Oppositional Great aunt has attitude about having niece. "I tho Now she has turned into the wicked witch of the west, per dad Betty having a hard time getting Grace until after July 11. Christina's aunt. Christina's aunt. Mom of kids. Hasn't contacted kids or come to appts. Great uncle SAID "SHE CAN'T TALK NOW" Derrik has had a couple of Sat monitored visits with kids Great Aunt is tired of bringing kids around Wants to be a Took kids to school, when he 5 years of drug/alcohol went to tx. ? Unemployment. drinking. counselor. Goals to talk about Parenting. He talked about work at Choices. Working Brain injured, and there as a house manager. blind housemates. Didn't show. Terminated s are blossoming in environment No one ever listens to me. Pushing for n and great aunt has been resistant. reunifications with dad de about having niece. "I thought this was a one time thing." Febe Hanna Febe isn't educated. Going to Eastern rite. Coptic Christian. Eat at home. Arabic food Yousef-5 Live in Fullerton on Malvern Yosef doesn't speak Eng Miriam-9 middle finger-learned from school Fady (dad) Shnoda got upset told her go sit in her room slaps the boy across his face. Boy fell on counter and hit eye Tx downloaded child abuse laws Handprints left on face Getting something out of therapy Kids went downstairs and neigbhor called PD Parents got scared. Youself said fell on rocks 17 months in country. Social Worker puts handprint on face Religious asylum. Christians fell on counter admits to slapping on face put ice on his face. English is better than moms Dad is studying nursing coming to AM, learning Kids are attached to him Took to Orangewood Dad went to jail Judge tells fa he needs to move out of house Norwalk -staying with church Mom is freaking out. He gets 4 hours a week Was going to school working on nursing degree. DK anyone Parenting classes Michelle is seeing all four Dad is very religious Downloaded child abuse laws Learned time out by minutes Also anger management Responsibility for slapping the child hard Spoke to SW, respectful and polite. See them for a few sessions Saw mom last week. Apologetic. Never do anything Met with kids, tease each other in Arabic. Sent her to PEP classes Michael Watts -9 SW sent him because Tyra, mom got in fight with Tyreese 17 yr Jelani-16 Mo and Bro get physical. Michael is scared to be in bed by himself dad in jail Scared to sleep alone. Afraid of the movies he sees. Anyone can dress Sleeps with grandmother. Plays aggressive video SW Mary Weinberg Not to use too many words Played candyland. Cheats 3 bedroom house. Schoolwork Favorite subject is math Neighbors called Desire Ombawa-4 Parents separated Missed/ surgery on her e Patricia-mom Whenever she visited fa's place, little boy of gf pushed her down. Camela Desire doesn’t' want to poop in toilet, only in pull ups Mom lives in Lake Elsinore. Recently filed for child support Mo-in-law helping with Dad lives in Corona with new gf. She has kids Dad is Philipino. Patricia doesn't have papers Child care in Costa Mesa Angela Pierce -35 Educ effects of drug abuse Proper supervision of child Daniel Thorn-4kids She has 7 kids - cauc. Unemployed recently got out of jail Dillon-10 while in jail, had Steve find a place to Trying to get Chance. stay. Went ot brea park, someone Need to work on getting Trying to heard a baby crying, called the police, Chance. Sober going to get into searched car and found a meth pipe. Fullerton Alano club. New Leaf Arrested her, took Chance. Lana-7 Want to help people. program. Violated probation, meth 150 days. Chance-1 yr Home birth. Working on that. Daniel-5 born in jail 2009- transferred shackled her, broke he Steve Erin-17 1st William Ist husb Jenna-13 Hx of meth She has been recovering 3 yrs. Used to work as a medical biller- cal optima Used to live in BP at airport inn Parenting at Olive Crest Recently got out of jail for forging checks- gave birth to Chase in jail. Baby is with one of their friends they know. Daniel Thorn-35 all over the place Likes to go to his job at t abusive step father teeth Stand offish wall up Showed the reports, meth pipe on drivers side, or passengers side Mario Aguilar-45 12 yr old Mother is prostitute. GM at jewelry at seal world. Drives to Daughter involved in sports in karate SD every day Goes to school, lives with 2 sisters. Back in Victoria was playing at the end of the street. Freaked out that she was pole dancing. Slapped her, and told her she was inappropriate. Go to his house. Ask her about situation. Sent him to counseling. Mother out of her life since 7 Eat at home. Arabic food. Support unit is close friends through church. Yosef doesn't speak English. Is in daycare. Mother has custody. Waiting Miriam speaks English, very attached to Mom, get nervous if they don't see mom. coming to AM, learning from Olive Crests parenting. Play monopoly. Plays that way at home. Try to get him not to cheat. Started believing Micheal Myers isn't real. Very inciteful. Curious, chess. Taught her how to play chess Sleeping with grandma. Grandpa is in the other room. Missed/ surgery on her ear. Potty training issue. Out of jail 3 yrs. ed shackled her, broke her pelvis, couldn't walk, wheelchair a couple of months. Took Danial away. Aunt in Lancaster. iller- cal optima Likes to go to his job at the El dorado Inn. "Nothing I can do about kids that have gone." ess. Taught her how to play chess t in Lancaster. John McGaughey In recovery, on probation, outpatient drug Upset with daughter for turning him in. By second session, made up by paying her car. Send verification First two sessions, lots of insight, wanting to get closer to Amy. Respecting her Margo Strawn daughter's distancing. Stopped the collecting of dolls. Boundaries with Laura, and her child. Margo and husband had had custody of Laura's daughter. Still providing childcare for the young child. Last Friday, asked if she had talkd to Laura, weren’t ready for that. OK, Laura is going to get childcare help, needed to send in her paystubs. Granddaughter-adopted as baby- Son's child- he was in prison- many years. GM is div. to GP who has visit. Middle son shares room with 16 yr old daughter. Got diagnosed as bipolar. She a Susan Medart Wants family therapy strong woman. Jewish- NY, Tough…has David Galumbick-49 mother issues Widower 4 sons 10 youngest wife died 8 yrs ago Met woman on website, rel. awhile now. She is not interested in marriage Only wants Live in two separate homes Just got out of a divorce Parents disapprove of rel Wedding this weekend in LV. Her parents have lakehouse in Lake Mead BF is coming for wedding. Susan-60 Wants to come in every other week now How are things going with her granddaughter? Lot of unresolved anger-deep Adam is living with her. He is unemployed Girl is in group home because of drug problems, mj, alcohol Testing clean. Daughter called the police 6 x in 8 days Cass started asking why uncle hasn't come to visit her now. Son's ex gf- Doesn't live with her Claims she doesn't drink a lot. Keeps it in her room She struggles to keep people together. x husband is only paying her 300 a month She does work. Has been working for many years Sexually abused by her father. Ryan 10 bites nails Deoesn't like kids to hang out. Afraid kids will say no Mom wasn't prepared for 1st visit. Hot air balloon ride, went to pool, beach, mom wants a german shephard wasn't really around much. drew himself as cobra small, lethal, long, black drew dad as police dog Star wars, darth vadar Himself disappointed, saness, yellow happiness, music, loud Brought dad in last 10 minutes of last session Tim Guthrie one time no money, one time check Need to schedule a make up session. Goes to restroom at least 2x Mornings, Ashley because of time Justin Berry Starting a new job on Monday. Working during day next week Registered Kelly services Registration for classes at school Relationships: ex girlfriend can't attend, ex is going to be there with her bf. Girl at church. Friendship, Meetup Ok cupid, reach out to three girls through website. cup of coffee. Recovering Meth, in sober living, on probation, ends mid to late Oct, from Sees her again. Quitting meth Fe Walker-30 Wash state handbook. Parents divorced when parents were young. Stepfather and mother got div Agitated last week, PO told when Fe was 17, moved down to CA her she owed $1200 in with her ex boyfriend restitution. Looking forward to end of probation. Keeps her on Mother died a few years, had been a track. Going to a new church. meth addict. Everyone is in recovery. BF she moved down with was unfaithful. Addiction got out of Homework: Actual 12 step control. Drug of choice: meth meeting. Went to jail 20 months, out now for Continue with her journaling. several months, relaspsed in May, Mother had been a meth then came to counseling addict too. Church 12 step program, has PO Girl atve her a packet Concernedabout weight. Gained 60 lbs since she 250 on month on food eating out. Ready made deli, rostiserry chicken, etc. Went to Trader Joes, going ot get a different salad every day. Homework: go out and exercies. Has friends at sober living, lady moved out 2 weeks ago. Haven't had time to socialize Takes work home. Works a lot Susa refused to come in. Father sexually abused her, and told sister in law and they didn’t believe her. Told her mom, older He apologized but Don't think it has anything to do sister, said I also was abused by didn't understand with our relationship, it is that dad. Told family doctor, who why he was so Brook is a bad influence. talked to dad, another doctor S upset. Just called about Seeing him tomorrow at 6 pm reduction In a new relationship She is on serequil, seeing a psychiatrist. o hang out. Afraid kids will say no Older brother has a family of his own. Nice to see friends again. Was supposed to go on a date, needs to bounce ideas off. Had to No longer coming in because pay back his mom. of finances. sses at school ere with her bf. Getting close to end of probation. Worried about family, moving back to Washington. Prioritzing, Went to an AA, didn't want to worry about futrue in the future. get up and talk about Clearing up wreckage of her past. Wants to get record expunged. Yes, but is her fear talking. rry chicken, etc. y. Homework: go out and exercies. ven't had time to socialize When Susan was 18, dad was cheating, mother shot at father, grazed him. Mother ordered to get tx. Susan saw herself as poor Richard- SW wanted to me. have family counseling Lo her, attached to her, but tired of the roller He broke up with Kate, other girl is platonic caster rides with her Match or eharmony He explained each sentence with mother. Resentments for so emotional affair many years. Main gf was wanting him to give up online gf Doesn't want to marry him. Other woman is single raising kids alone Pa Family of orignin Rosio Castro-33 15yr stephanie Trying to let go of controlling Loves her, takes care of her, treats Armando Marisa her well, opens door, cooks dinner Armando's fa cheated on his mom all the time, parents still together. Also seeing a Christian Therapist. Rosio just got laid off. Dad beat mom/ cheated Older 20s Responsible dad - Funny , charming Laurie Contract- 20 mintues Laurie's mom has dementia. Took mom to get tested. Jack Pollock smile 7 x a week Advanced. Didn't know day, date, time. date night Took her car away. Tried to talk to parents first. Can't 7 positive statements about each other/week get a sitter. 2 supportive actions Caroline 11 yr old has fondled younger Scott Social problems, no eye contact. Touching pillow whole time. Can't Bryce-12 Autistic keep his hands still. Sweet, has a lisp, very articulate. Worries: about his brother. Boy Scout Camp, only likes certain food. He is worried that he is going to have to take care of his brother the Brent-8 rest of his life. Goesback into 90's children taken away. She says she reported her husband Danielle Ramirez-41 Five children three of their own and tw stepchildren Kids are doing well-bragged about what they Later on, sent to live with his Have new apt. are doing father. She swears she has never taken a drug. She came in under the Had kids taken away influence. Has every medical condition on SSI earth Daughter has seen you with a Leaving in the morning. powdery white substance. Said she had a Mercedes, but is taking the Had all this money, grew up with bus here housekeepers. Incongruent talk. Elaborate storay about police finding meth on her. Borrowed Husband on liver medication, it clothes from her neighbors assistant. made. Father was a great man, gf never Police find 1/4 gram of meth yelled at her. Landlord accused them of sqauting on the property. Previously lost another child You were my social worker when I Landlord only took cash. No utlity bill was a foster parent. Started her story about living in another place. Destroyed 565, ooo Goal: address the issues of why social services had to come into their home and any other mental health issues Lied that she is a meth addict, now in a drug rehab program at Mariposa Something She said she went online and said she smokes it. Fribromyalia. Pain killer. Had chemotherapy. Been with husband 17 years. Admitted most recent pain med= oxycotin. Not taking on a regular basis. Seeing a pain specialist. Jessica Turner-24 Has a son, Michael Called sw, hasn't finally got her to come in. single parenting and age appropriate discipline. Neglectful Had baby crying in background. Needs to come in today. Derval Steele Client moving to HB, no showed Kayla -4 Sometimes he feels he can't open up to Patricia. Stephanie is home. Don't know how things are going. See them separately. Long time ntia. Took mom to get tested. day, date, time. Says his brother is Went away to a Boy Scout camp Hygeine a pest. over the weekend. This week Brent was not happy. Tears. His dad had ignored him; he didn't get attention Brice has friends over, they don't include him. No ever listens to me. Mom didn't support him. Fa's family is Mom was horrified that Brent -8 from was so upset. Hawaii. Problem solving over Brent's problem of not being included. See them separately. Long time. Dawn BerrySeen 4x her 2 daughters taken away. Fa in jail until J or F Kaytlin Living with her parents. Takes bus from Diamond Bar Emily 8 Came early, had a book with her. Reading a telephone book. Job search? Fast food? Worked at manufacturing place Start with agencies for temp work Don't where there are around my house. Brought in list last Thurs In a stuck situation, doesn't know what to do. Goes to the tester place. Brings in $$ for house. Trevor Christianson 4 yrs Living with Gus and Caroline foster parents. Caroline and Gus have 2 other children. Christoper 7, Faith (Gus daughter with Trevor's mom) Trevor's mom on drugs Misbehaving in school. Assist with transition to new home. Don't have plans to adopt him. Called SW to Spider man faces painting. Vry talkative. They came early. When he goes to 99 cent store, they make me take it back. Scissors for Roxanna Gus Foster dad 49 Caroline - strict "Go to bed at 7 revor's mom)
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